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    Posted by doublesidedGem
    I don’t want to read too much in to this but recently in the past year my ex has reached out to me (Aries female), as friends she has said. Not that it matters I’m 34 and a guy lol she’s 27,I’m a Gem.

    There is some history between us. We dated back in summer 2015, 6 months later my brother suddenly passed in a tragic accident. 5 months later we broke up, various reasons. I was going through some real grief and I guess in turn expressed that to her, quite rightly she stood her ground and walked away. I insisted it’d be hard to be friends. We went separate ways in August 2016, after trying to be friends.

    She contacted me in Nov that year after an accident happened on a train I normally take. Wasn’t on it. After that, sporadic messaging, just asking after each other. In May 2017 she asks to meet as friends. I did thinking I was over her as I dated someone else in between. We met and a rush of feelings came back, anyway a month later it didn’t end well haha.

    I said I won’t contact her but I know she will I’m 2 months we’ll it was 4 actually. Thing is she insists it’s friends, I’m curious as to why she would want to be friends after the history we have had. And as you Aries woman are so strong minded she knows what she wants. She’s asked to meet again In the last month, I put it off for 3 weeks and she jumped when I mentioned meeting this week. I saw her in a dating app and she and she saw me, since I can’t find her on it!!! But she has been Very keen and responsive of late?!!!

    I’m just very curious how to play this!! Does she gehinely want a friendship even after me sexpressing the way I feel about it. I’m kind of not bothered with her at the moment. But if something were to arise I’d be happy for it as I feel we finished under such sad circumstances...


    You rightly shouldn't read too much into this situation and just go with the flow. I'm not your ex so I cannot say for certain exactly what her reasons are, but in general I can say she just wants to be friends.

    most of the recent threads have been about Aries MEN, and as was mentioned before on numerous occasions, the men are VERY different from the women, especially in terms of how they handle relationships.

    I would suggest, again, just go with the flow, clear your mind of expectations ( which can often lead to disappointment). She probably grew concerned when that train accident happened, and also knowing about your brother's passing and how you handled your grief gave her cause for concern.

    I recently met up with an old flame ( if you could call him that) - we used to date 20+ years ago and eventually things didn't work out and we went separate ways. But have still remained friends for the last 20 years.

    So yes, go with the flow. But if it still bothers you, talk to her about it. Just try not to have any expectations.