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    Joined dxpnet on January 24, 2017.
    Posted by AgentP911
    Posted by Meg123
    Posted by misha77
    Hi Meg..i am a scorpio girl and i was married to a scorpio for like 10 years, we divorced 5 years ago and remain friends from far..for the sake of our kid and respect we gain for us.
    Please always keep in mind to be direct and straight with your needs/believes. He will appreciate it as we dont like weak people.
    You feel to go meet him? just do it! and be yourself! He will tell you what he wants.not by text but in person..believe me. Just keep strong and be you..always be you. If you have questions, just ask him direct ..in person..look in his eyes, they never lie.


    Thanks Misha, I really appreciate your advice.

    Although i had told him at the very start i was looking for a relationship. He too said that he wasn't looking for anything casual and would see where it leads to. Later on he said he isnt looking at anything serious for sure. I told him that i had made myself very clear from the start. I see no point in meeting him anymore. Plus like you said what kind of a relation would it be if there wasn't any respect for each other.


    Meg,

    I’m joining this thread late but I read it all and I agree with your view point. I think you have your attitude spot on with this.

    1. You have never met this man.

    2. You stated your intentions up front which were that you were on looking for someone with a view to a serious relationship. That means you’re not looking for anything casual.

    3. He stated the same as you do at that time it was a match. You both continued to communicate with each other with a view to meeting on a date.

    4. He asked you out but bailed with short notice. Ok, shit happens, so a second date was arranged.

    5. He bailed on the second date and you quite rightly told him you’re not going to accept his crap behaviour. Your only alternative would have been to forget him, block him, move on etc. Either way, it no longer matters.

    6. At some point, he stated he wasn’t looking for anything too serious. I don’t know when this was in the time line but frankly, his behaviour of arranging then flaming on both dates SHOWS you what he’s looking for. At this point, it was HIS intentions which had changed. Not yours. Therefore it was no longer a match. He probably wasn’t looking for anything serious in the first place. Most people when dating aren’t clear or honest with what they’re looking for.

    7. This guy is at luke warm stage. He’s not likely to be taking dating seriously or his life is a bit messed up that he is unable to keep to arrangements. Both points do not suit what you are looking for. You are not a match regardless of how much time you both spent texting each other or how amazing he is on paper. It hasn’t been able to reach the date stage which is the next logical step. Why? Because he’s not serious.

    8. You CLEARLY stated your terms and intentions to him. You stood your ground and showed him you’re not interested in him or his behaviour. There is nothing wrong with this.

    9. He is ‘chasing’ you now because he either wants to get you to change your mind (because you gave him some rules/boundaries), he likes to chase, doesn’t actually want you kind of scenario (nothing personal about you, some people are just like that) or because he is genuinely interested and has decided he’d like to date you with a view to having a serious, committed relationship either with you or someone out there. I don’t know what would have changed in his world for him to change his intentions. Possibly nothing because they haven’t changed at all.

    10. As you have stated, you are no longer interested in this guy. I’d forget him, delete him, block him etc, and multi date others so you always have options. There are PLENTY of other people available who WILL date you and who WANT to date you. My advice, if you manage to build a rapport with a guy over a few days via text/email/calls AND they seem to match what you want AND they have asked you out then I’d go out sooner than later. This weeds out the shit and means you won’t invest one month of your time on a luke warm prospect. The result means you’ll have one month of your time to invest in red hot prospects instead. Red hot ones will more likely bring you a suitable match.

    As for why he’s acting this way, hopefully the above will offer some insight.

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    Thank you so much dear for taking the time to write it down for me. I truly appreciate it.

    You have read a few of the msgs above and to be honest i find yours very helpful and straightforward.

    I have def moved on and not looking to meet up this guy, he msg quite a lot, but i have told him i am no longer interested. I think your right he just likes the chase. Although its quite annoying as to how ppl are willing to waste both their time and mine.

    thanks you once again.

    take care and have a good day