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    Joined dxpnet on November 09, 2017.
    Posted by Chuckcem
    It depends on what you mean. Gay and straight women are still women. There are certain things that men and women do differently due to our psychology. You will often hear lesbians say to not regard them as men because they arent men, even if they are attracted to women.

    However there is such a thing as masculine and feminine energy, or sexual polarity. Masculine energy is often found in men, while feminine energy is often found in women. However this isn't always a fixed idea. Men can be feminine and women can be masculine.

    That concept also goes beyond what we stereotypically few as masculine and feminine energy as well. A very masculine man can be in his feminine for short periods of time, while a woman can be in her masculine for short periods of time. That doesn't mean that the man is feminine or that the woman is masculine overall.

    For example, a high powered executive who happens to be a woman may often be in her masculine while at work because she is in a male dominated environment. Therefore she has to be more masculine than a feminine woman would be around her male colleagues. However when she returns home she may switch into her feminine with her husband who is a masculine man. Likewise it's also possible that she would return home in her masculine to a husband who is in more feminine.

    So masculine and feminine energy isn't always a fixed energy, but they do attract one another. This is true in gay/lesbian relationships. Even when you have two women, there still exists sexual polarity where a partner is in their masculine and another is in their feminine. However depending on the partners, this could fluctuate between them too.

    From what my lesbian friends have told me, there is a gradient in lesbian relationships. Imagine a scale numbered 1 through 9, where 1 is very masculine and 9 is very feminine. The relationships with perfect chemistry/sexual polarity generally exists between the partners who offset each other best, who if placed on the scale total to 10. So a woman who is a 3 on the scale may be more attracted to a woman who is a 7. This of course isn't a hard set rule and there are plenty of exceptions/caveats.

    So it really depends on the person.



    she's more masculine and I'm more feminine