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    Joined dxpnet on November 14, 2017.
    Leo I can tell you only that I relate to her situation in many levels but also can't understand some things because I don't know all the facts, neither do you, only she knows it. Why is she staying with that guy also only she knows. I won't suggest you to either wait for too long or to give up on her. Take some decent time and see how she acts and what she resolves regarding her marriage. There must be something that keeps her in it still and if that reason are feelings then I'm afraid she won't be available so soon. Also the fact she said she still loves him but isn't in love with him isn't promising. It's basically a game of words. I analyze how people talk and can use it in my own advantage so easy if I just want to but also trick others into telling me things they normally wouldn't by that game simply. You don't have to be in love with someone and as proven can't be for so long but if you still love them then you're emotionally tied to them still. I can't possibly say that I love any of my exes. I would never be with them again and I was madly in love with some and loved them too. But when I'm done I'm done for good. But it does take quite some time to get over it. You've been seeing each other for quite some time from what I understood so it's not like she has to decide to end marriage out of nowhere. If I understood well her husband had another woman before her that he has kids with? If that's so i see even more red flags since she's still with him. Maybe due to his surgery she doesn't want to bring up additional stress right now and that might be reasonable explanation. But it doesn't explain why she didn't do it any time before that happened.
    All in all I can just suggest you to not listen much to people who say just forget about her and find someone else because that's what shallow people would say and what's easiest say. Judge someone without even looking at evidences. I won't either tell you to take anything she serves you with but just be observant when it comes to her, stay around for some time more and see how she acts toward you. It should get easier to her to end things if she gets more relaxed and comfortable with you. Those are the main reasons I hesitated for some time. I was too used to being with someone, I was basically scared to be lonely when I end it. I was afraid this second guy would just leave me so soon, that it won't work out well at all and so many other things so consider she might be thinking same things. Maybe she isn't and maybe she has nothing to do with my situation at all but no one can know it for sure. You can just observe and see how things go. Don't push her too much and be there for her but also be clear about that you want her and that you're serious about it. And ofc that she has to make up her mind about the whole situation