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    Joined dxpnet on March 21, 2016.
    Posted by alexa566
    So first she broke up with you because you were arguing too much, and then wanted to get back together (obviously because she loves you), but you rejected (???). And now you want her back.

    It honestly seems a bit like you don't know what you want, OR you're playing some kind of mind games on her, playing hard to get or whatever.

    If you truly love her and want to have a future with her, stop with these "mind chess" games and simply be honest to her and to yourself. If you want her, go get her back.

    Real long-lasting relationship/marriage requires effort on both sides and compromise.

    She's loyal and faithful and that already makes her totally worth the extra effort in my opinion, because you don't find a lot of fiercely loyal and faithful people nowadays. All she asked for is less fights and arguments.
    It's impossible to NEVER have fights and it's not healthy, same as with fighting too much.

    Try to argue in a productive and understanding way, instead of bursting with anger and emotions or being passive-aggressive, etc. Every argument should have the goal of solving a problem and making things more enjoyable for both of you.
    You should give to each other, not take away. That's a part of loving someone, when you put the other person's needs before your own. When their needs are always a priority to you.

    If you truly love her, don't play hard to get and don't play mind games, chasing games, cat-and-mouse, etc. Just be honest.

    If you really want her, go and get her back. It's that simple.


    Wait, why do you believe OP wants her back?