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    Posted by pinkbird03
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    Do you obsess over him a lot? Because I do.....


    I do think about him always but just more wondering what he's thinking and because it's sort of a limbo relationship I guess I think about what will be in the future instead of just taking it a day at a time...anxious is my middle name😄

    lol aww. Try to be positive. I think he will come around!


    I will. As for you, sounds like who will give in first and text but love your attitude for standing your ground.

    I feel confident about it, oddly. I think it’s because he hasn’t disappeared and he still shows interest even though it’s indirectly.

    I think it’s a good sign your guy still talks to you. Somehow you gotta take it to the next level. Would you ever ask him to be exclusive??


    I had many a convo in my head recently about how I would bring up the situation and exclusiveness was in there possibly saying to him that I didn't mind the unofficial side but would want exclusiveness...I feel in a way that the fact that I know he may/May not be with other people makes me lose respect for myself. That I'm an option and not a choice.


    Say it to him. After 18 months, you deserve exclusivity at the least.


    I know. Something has to be said....


    It’s his loss if he doesn’t want you. No more wasting your time on him if that’s the case. You could find someone else. Plenty of fish in the sea


    Trying to embrace that attitude...:-)

    lol I’m really for this no contact strategy. Before I started this, I felt desperate, depressed, hopeless, frustrated, low, not in control, etc. I was in the same boat. We talked, but a lot less than before and definitely not very lovey dovey. He had been aloof since November, but still here.

    Now I feel confident, powerful, valued, etc.

    It just shows the guy, hey I know I’m amazing and I don’t need you. (Even though I secretly want you)
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    November/start of December when mine started going aloof too!!
    You know, I really like your strategy. Makes perfect sense. I need to show him that I can live my life (don't need someone) but that I secretly want him.
    I'm usually the one to initiate texts/calls so this would be unusual in his eyes for me to not initiate. And if he wants me in my life, he will make the effort otherwise it will prove I'm not what he wants. They do have to make that decision. Can't mess with free will and distance sometimes makes people reassess what is important in their life and what isn't.