Posted by Uncknown2u
Someone asked how can I move on from this twin flame back and forth. Well start from a logical perspective by acknowledging that the tf dynamics are synonymous with codependency. This is the hardest thing to accept. Me codependent? No way! That’s what we all say, but if you put the same effort in studying codependency as you do twin flames it will sink in eventually.
Now attraction is the product of the subconscious mind. The strong connection to the tf comes from our subconscious mind. I’ll explain this as briefly as I can. The subconscious mind which is the inner brain has stored every second of life from the time you are born till you die (is like a hard drive). Everything you’ve ever seen, heard, touch, smell, felt…..all the good and bad experiences are store there. When the tf comes along this person resonates and actives all the good and bad from your subconscious mind like no one else, creating that phenomenal connection. You think about the tf nonstop, you dream about the tf, you feel a euphoric mental-psychic connection that is hard to explain (is like a drug).
The best way to move on is to think of this as an unhealthy addiction. Set a quit date and stick with it.
For some people this can take a couple of years, many years, or a lifetime.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Is ok to acknowledge the pain of abandonment but don’t well in the suffering by looking for excuses to continue this. Take it from someone who finally broke free after more than 10 years of this back and forth. I will always care for tf person as a friend but refuse to do this ever again.
Only you can decide when enough is enough. It may take many years, but is doable. To me this was the main lesson I learn from the twin flame connection, don’t be codependent. Hope this helps.
Now astrology wise we had the following synastry. Me Neptune in Scorpio conjunct my tf moon, Venus, and ascendant (all in scorpio). Me South Node in Scoprio conjuct tf moon in scoprio at 1 degree, and many north node, south node square to inner planets (total of five).
Would anyone like to share your tf synastry?