Posted by Escorpiosiempre
Ok.. I am a scorpio woman! Everything you said about your Scorpio is true...I am the same way. Does that make me a narcissist?
I was dating a Leo man recently and his ex girlfriend (a libra) reached out to me telling me that my Leo was a narcissist and to be careful.. I do know that sometimes libras try to compromise too much in a relationship that they stop being themselves to be liked by the other person or to fit in... Libra is the sign of the scales...so when something is out of balance they to compromise to even the scale... I know this because my libra is in Venus and I like to meet my partner half way! But when the relationship is out sync/ balance I tend to compromise too much and go more than half way for my partner (only if my scorpio sun is crazy for the person) ...but it’s not too long till my scorpio sun realizes that I am taken for granted and It doesn’t take me long to cut you off without looking back
maybe is the libra in you that thinks he is a narcissist?
I agree with Ellygant
Fixed signs like: Leo, Taurus, Aquarius and scorpios like to have our ego stroked maybe that’s why we can come of as narcissists... each of these 4 signs in a different way.
Contrary to what you may have already heard ,Leo isn’t the only fat-headed fixed sign. Yes, the Lion can be a walking, talking billboard of bragging and self-congratulatory praise. But they aren’t alone. All 4 of the fixed zodiac signs carry with them some type of superiority complex...
From a loud ego to a silent one, we reach watery Scorpio, the 8th sign of the zodiac. Now, Scorpions take Taurus’ control, Leo’s ego, and tosses it into the boggy abyss of secretive strategy to rise as a new type of power. And Scorpio is all about power. But how they get their supremacy can be unsettling. Scorps use their emotional intelligence to their advantage, stockpiling secrets and retaining a vice-like grip on sensations. They want to know they have you (or whatever their goal is) in their possession. Mind games, blackmail, and other forms of mysterious manipulation are all tactics the sly Scorpio employs to trap you and back you into a corner. And the Scorpions’ ego and fixed self-importance keeps them from admitting that the real reason they are so emotionally and psychologically tactical is because they fear getting hurt. Scorpio says: I don’t trust anyone but myself with my intensity...
That’s why maybe you (libra moon) think that this scorpio was a narcissist and my Leo’s ex ( a libra sun) think that my Leo was also a narcissist when we are just fixed signs... all of my exes at some point told me I am arrogant, selfish, self centered and the last one told me I am vain person over diner. I took it as a compliment ...No one has ever called me a narcissist yet ...But see what I am trying to explain?
Also like Lisa said you can’t make a Scorpio do anything. You can’t tame a Scorpio... why did you make those demands about deleting those pictures of his ex from fb? To prove what? You think you got what you wanted but you just pushed him away...because Scorpios see right through people ( like lisabethur8 said) and he prob realized you were trying to manipulate him with like you said “the silliest demands” That’s a big “no no “ specially when you have only been dating for a few months... we scorpios love deeply.. we don’t post pictures of every single person we date on social media for the world to see..only the ones of people we once loved.. and that person is going to be forever in our hearts because is part of who we are...deleting those pictures won’t make him change whatever feelings he has for the ex ..and like black mamba said “every Scorpio has secrets just let them have them”
Like I said we see right through people and I met a few Capricorns before who wanted to be in a serious relationship...but I could see their intentions and mind games. The problem I had with Capricorn males is that they will want to control every aspect of my life and I mean every single aspect...And Scorpios like to keep some secrets for themselves..this is what made me want to run away... Also I agree with Sierra and Lunt Caps can be a downer and authoritarian...I love my cap women friends but I wonder if they are the same as cap guys when they are dating someone..I am right like your scorp guy and I am a woman
Also you talk about Virgos being narcissists
I have a moon in Virgo ( does that make me a double narcissist?) so I attract a lot of earth signs. I never met a Taurus but I seem to attract Virgos and Capricorns all the time...I love all my Virgos. They will be too busy controlling finances, making sure the house is clean, laundry done, fridge is full, dinner cooked, trash out, my taxes done, my car is working, my finances are good, my future is secure, just making my life a little better or perfect in their eyes ... that’s how they show how much they love you with little things they do for you and “they do a lot”..They criticize you, no because they are narcissist but because they care about you and want to make you a better person and make your life better ... I have a Virgo moon so I am the same way..I’m a perfectionist and I have high standards if you don’t fit in my fairy tale picture perfect book then I will find someone who will...Virgos are too busy taking care of their love ones that they don’t have time to see who I follow or unfollow on instagram/ Facebook, if I have pictures of my exes, who I am texting with, who I hang out with ..They are taking care of more important stuff so they let me be, give me space and they don’t double question everything I say/do, they don’t make silly requests...(except for my one Virgo- Capricorn moon, I wonder if it was his cap moon who made him this way) Because the true is it doesn’t matter if you make someone delete their exes pictures. That wont make them feel any different about that ex. It will make them feel different about you. It doesn’t matter if you make someone unfollow all the hot girls on Instagram. He can still cheat without having any social media.. Scorpio or not scorpio! You can make silliest request to make you feel better about the relationship but deep down you know they only did it because you asked no because they really wanted to do it and no matter how many requests you keep making, he can always turn around and do whatever he wants.. The several Capricorn men I was about to date...we were not even in a relationship and they were already stalking me on social media..why do you still have pictures of your ex on fb? Why did you say you broke up on this date and you posted pictures on this date? Why? Why? Why? It was such a turn off that they never got to date me ...it was too much controlling too soon... I wonder if your Scorpio felt the same way.. because 4 months is nothing...
Virgo have really high standards and are perfectionists, everything has to be just so and Scorpio don’t like to be told what to do, and we love sex but not with the 1000 people we follow on Instagram but with that special person who makes us crazy...
Demands, controlling our lives are a big turn off and trying to dig into our past or uncover our secrets will make us resent you...I find that caps wants to know every little thing about you so they can control you.. but We are very secretive and we will only tell you our secrets when we are ready and if your are worth it and even then we will still keep our things and some secrets to ourselves... The harder you try to uncover those secrets the more secretive we will become...That doesn’t make us narcissists it just make us the typical Virgo and Scorpio