Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by SassyKiwi
5 pages later still no examples of what context he used it in. For instance, share parts of the text conversations you guys have.. ex:
Me: It took me a whole 30 mins to get over my fear of insects to clean up a dead bee by my window
Him: Oh you silly woman
Give us something to work with here
you just want juice details. the men have said why they would call a woman silly. That is all i needed. I was more curious then anything. Here the thing if he is not willing to tell me why he calls me silly i will never know. I can guess all i want to but still not know the truth. The only way to know for sure is for him to say it in front of me and i read is body language. this is just a question like i ask you "Why would you call a guy 'Cute"?
Cute guy for me means - I won’t date you but you ARE cute...like a hampster...I won’t date that would I? Lolclick to expand
Posted by GODZ
wow he called u silly he probably wants to kill you
Posted by SassyKiwi
5 pages later still no examples of what context he used it in. For instance, share parts of the text conversations you guys have.. ex:
Me: It took me a whole 30 mins to get over my fear of insects to clean up a dead bee by my window
Him: Oh you silly woman
Give us something to work with here
Posted by Marai
What is a lot? Sounds a bit degrading depending on the context. Like you want to sweep something under the carpet.
If it's in a funny and playful matter and it's his to go lovable petname for you. Then it's ok I guess🧐
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by WhorpioPosted by WitchmitchAries
So if a man calls you silly a lot what does that mean? Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Speaking from experience, it starts out with “silly”. Then a year or two into the relationship you get upgraded to “turkey”. A year after that it becomes “little shit”. Not sure what it’s going to be next.
Wut?
Well he is not gey. he is a very 👉👉👉 old 👈👈👈school Mans Man.
Old.
How old?
Does he use words like "Galavanting", "Hullabaloo", "Negroid" or "Humdrum"?
...."dotis nomine"?click to expand
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by neves
Usually, that's called sugar-coating. Maybe you said something stupid or you're being really naive about something. So hey, i take it - he's just trying to be nice/kind/respectable. That's a sign he's treating you with respect - despite of finding the stuff you said or did - kinda stupid or naive. Tho, as others mentioned above - it's also a way of teasing a loved one (:who's kinda silly - most of the time). 😏
Yes very true. lol there was one guy on here asking me why women call men 'Cute'. We mostly text and so it is hard to tell what is his meaning of the word. I have more of a curiosity about what men say about it or when they use that word what does it mean to them. The only thing i know about this guy that is true. He gives me mix signals which again there are a few different reason why a person does that. He did tell me once that he is the type that keeps his feeling to himself. that Mans Man type. lol
Totally! Aries are Cave Men like no other sign - this is why using ‘silly’ in this case is strange!
I know few Ram and I’ve never heard no woman not man being mushy or cutesy. Not even ‘baby’...click to expand
Posted by nevesPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by neves
Usually, that's called sugar-coating. Maybe you said something stupid or you're being really naive about something. So hey, i take it - he's just trying to be nice/kind/respectable. That's a sign he's treating you with respect - despite of finding the stuff you said or did - kinda stupid or naive. Tho, as others mentioned above - it's also a way of teasing a loved one (:who's kinda silly - most of the time). 😏
Yes very true. lol there was one guy on here asking me why women call men 'Cute'. We mostly text and so it is hard to tell what is his meaning of the word. I have more of a curiosity about what men say about it or when they use that word what does it mean to them. The only thing i know about this guy that is true. He gives me mix signals which again there are a few different reason why a person does that. He did tell me once that he is the type that keeps his feeling to himself. that Mans Man type. lol
When women talk among themselves about a man - and one them says he's cute - that means she likes him (appearance wise). Tho, if the conversation takes place between a man and a woman (a date for example - or texting) - and the subject of attractiveness is approached by one of the parties - most women have a tendency to tell the guy that he's cute (You're cute... ^^) - without actually meaning it (in their head - they might think something like "He's meeeh!"). She's just trying to be nice (: so to speak). That being said - depends on the given context.
I did tease some girls friends by saying stuff like... " You silly goose!" Tho, that's mainly cause they were acting kinda silly - while texting and stuff. 😏 And i don't mean stupid, more like "acting silly was their way of teasing me" - or maybe "childish" is the right word (: which was actually a mutual thing - something we both did while texting). 🤭click to expand
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by WhorpioPosted by WitchmitchAries
So if a man calls you silly a lot what does that mean? Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Speaking from experience, it starts out with “silly”. Then a year or two into the relationship you get upgraded to “turkey”. A year after that it becomes “little shit”. Not sure what it’s going to be next.
Wut?click to expand
Posted by WhorpioPosted by WitchmitchAries
So if a man calls you silly a lot what does that mean? Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Speaking from experience, it starts out with “silly”. Then a year or two into the relationship you get upgraded to “turkey”. A year after that it becomes “little shit”. Not sure what it’s going to be next.click to expand
Posted by neves
Usually, that's called sugar-coating. Maybe you said something stupid or you're being really naive about something. So hey, i take it - he's just trying to be nice/kind/respectable. That's a sign he's treating you with respect - despite of finding the stuff you said or did - kinda stupid or naive. Tho, as others mentioned above - it's also a way of teasing a loved one (:who's kinda silly - most of the time). 😏
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MyStarsShine
Calling himself “Daddy” and you “silly”? He sounds like an idiot lol
Aren’t you turned off? 🥴
No because he has helped me through some hard times. People have their little things they like to be called or seen as. Daddy runs along the line as 'i am a pimp' or 'i am a boss'. they can be used in bad ways and they can be used as in endearments. i am just want some in put to what might be going on in is mind because he is the type of man that doesnt talk about his feelings. he is that Mans man type. "I need to be strong". either silly is being uses because he doesnt think much of me or it is an endearment because he finds me funny. It can even be he just doesnt know what to say to something i said so just says silly. lol one thing i do know he is not a stupid man. i also know a lot of people respect him.
Ok. All I’ve learned about an Aries here is that Aries are straight forward, honest, don’t wait and don’t hear...All True...lop
Wouldn’t you KNOW by now what’s going on if he was seeing you as an item?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
Calling himself “Daddy” and you “silly”? He sounds like an idiot lol
Aren’t you turned off? 🥴
Posted by alexscariesPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by alexscaries
He wants a piece of the action.
so you think he is interested then?
I think if he was expressing disappointment it wouldn't be confusing.click to expand
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by ParkourlerPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Parkourler
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
You would call her silly instead of being straight with about something that bothered you? lol you do Aries like it when people are straight with them and not calling Silly? lol
She lashed out and mentioned my insecurities when I criticized her, my point is, ask him if he is annoyed, or if he has his period, nobody likes people who are unfriendly all the time.
my ex was a virgo who criticized me all the time and about stupid stuff because he didnt like the real me and wanted me to be something i am not. When i ask him if i have done something wrong he says it is all good. That man thingy "i can handle it". The guy i am talking about is an Aries. I am just going to chalk it up that he not really interested in me. I think the other guy is right, he want to put me into "I am Daddy" thingy because he has said "thats because i am your Daddy" thingy to me.
uugh, sounds familiar, men carry this unconscious expectation that we have to be able to handle everything, but what about
our boundaries/preferences? I never looked at it like that. That virgo was clearly threatened by your lack of passivityor a sexist. yeah I like it, I would have lengthy discussions with the aries, you aries are good at removing negativity quicklyclick to expand
Posted by Pesto101
I forgot to mention, calling someone silly, in my eyes, is belittling.
Depends on his style with ppl in general but i don't like the term at all.
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Parkourler
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
You would call her silly instead of being straight with about something that bothered you? lol you do Aries like it when people are straight with them and not calling Silly? lol
She lashed out and mentioned my insecurities when I criticized her, my point is, ask him if he is annoyed, or if he has his period, nobody likes people who are unfriendly all the time.click to expand
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by GemiAwesomeAss
By any chance does he say
You are silly! At YOUR age I would hope you know WHAT
THAT
IS...🙄
He just says Silly or silly woman.
mostly text and had lunch together. there has been no sex. some sex talk. And what does that mean "Well now your turn". my guess your in a mood tonight.
Ok. It’s time for an example...my friend who was divorced and dated man who called her silly after she attempted giving him bj!
Well...now your turn...click to expand