Posted by LethalFantasia
If you're that serious about her, then I would just be honest, tell her you're interested in something more serious and growing the relationship with her but you're apprehensive about her family and actions
Well, I have been honest about my intentions and she knows how I feel about her. I do agree that I need to talk to her about my concerns with her family, I just feel I need to wait for the right time, since things are a little turbulent right now. Knowing her, because she is upset with me at the moment, she will be too defensive to have a rational conversation. But once enough time has passed and if her stress from outside the relationship calms down, then she will be open to hearing me better.
I don't know if just disappearing and hoping for her to change will work out much, but who knows, I do think it would be hard though considering she doesn't know your feelings about her or her family! lolz x
Well I don't plan on disappearing in hopes of her changing... I want to be there all along the way, even through the tough times. I am just giving her space/time while she is still upset about our recent disagreement... I feel she is overreacting because she is so stressed and knowing her, giving her time to think, she always come back around when she is ready to resolve whatever the issue is. She is a very logical and rational person... As long as you give her time to come to her own conclusions. (I think because she is a Virgo lol).click to expand
Posted by CapNCrunch
Look into the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems.
Posted by MacDaddyInfinite
There is no such thing as a gut feeling. It's like saying love comes from "the heart". When really, it's all in your brain.
The so called feeling comes because you are deliberately offloading the burden of your intuition for negative consequences, unto your subconscious. Intuition is a rational facet constructed from experience and knowledge.
Like I knew my previous ex was a compulsive liar. I knew she was broken, etc. I have an open discourse with my intuition because I don't run from the truth.
Whenever I go into a situation, I am usually psychically ahead in terms of awareness. So you know I am taking whatever head on deliberately.
Posted by LethalFantasia
You don't approach lahv like you would a business my fran x
Posted by MyStarsShine
**My logic says there are some serious red flags that may or may not ever be fixed and may just lead to a broken heart for me**.
Why would you want to move forward with someone with those feelings about her?
Posted by bkbella86
She better gets some self respect. I’d hate for someone else to disrespect her putting you in another awkward position. Who wouldn’t want to defend the one they love?! Listen if you aren’t defending me I can’t date ya! I wouldn’t let ny brother talk to me or about me that way and he’d never! It’s just not normal. I say give her space. You want to maintain your dignity and you aren’t wrong, maintain that. Let her come to you. Space space space.
Posted by bkbella86
She sounds crazy I’m sorry and I believe she was lying about her brother joking. Nothing about that is funny. It’s not a joke at all and even if it were jokes are rooted in half truths.
I don’t think you first meeting him has any validity in this story. It didn’t matter to the brother that he was shit talking his sis to a stranger so why should it matter when you respond? I think you handled it right and I think your future girl is used to abuse.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by brianafay
Since my girl black-mamba already paved the way for me I’m just going to go ahead and say what I really really think
you seem like a nice guy, quite gentlemanly, and you are not ugly. But’cha girl...😬 she’s a bit homely if I’m honest and I wouldn’t even give her the satisfaction or confident boost in pursuing this any further. She’s no longer interested in you ??? Just LOL
Have you ever watched the movie "Gods must be crazy"? It's an excellent film. A lone African nomad gets hit on the head by an empty coke bottle, and he can't figure out what the use of the bottle is.
This is how i feel about this whole thread
GOD must be Fuking CRAZY!!!click to expand
Posted by Alexina
Let things unfold naturally... If circumstances don't yield your desired outcome, just go with the flow of life... Who knows, you'll meet someone who's more worthy of your time and love along your journey should this current relationship not work out for you...
Posted by brianafay
Since my girl black-mamba already paved the way for me I’m just going to go ahead and say what I really really think
you seem like a nice guy, quite gentlemanly, and you are not ugly. But’cha girl...😬 she’s a bit homely if I’m honest and I wouldn’t even give her the satisfaction or confident boost in pursuing this any further. She’s no longer interested in you ??? Just LOL
Posted by Timon
I can't help wonder how they were raised if he said that infront of his mother to his sister and neither said anything. So disrespectful and not funny at all. I understand the wanting to stick up for her but if she allows him to talk to her like that she might not have much respect for herself.
You could have said something without threatening with violence though.
Posted by brianafayPosted by Black-MambaPosted by justledouxit86Posted by Black-Mamba
Is she a Virgo?
Yup lol
smh
Killin me!!!!!
I thought she looked like it too🤭
Like one of those Virgo chicks who takes themselves wayyy too seriously but pretends they are down to earth and joke around a lot...but only they are allowed to be sarcastic apparently ...because if you try to joke back they take it all personal and make it superrrr awkward 😳
I have an aunt like this and she’s a daywalker tooclick to expand
Yeaa overly sexed for real... 3 kids, I never met a virgo like this lol...
But everything else is correct, we are great people, poor taste in love...
Doesnt mean she doesn't deserve love
My scorpio best friend just had a kid with a cap that already have 3 kids and I hate her guts... lol...
But my bro love her so I deal... but with that being said my bestie thrive in crisis. Is that you?? You notice she have alot going and you still go forward