Posted by La_MariposaPosted by FeelsyCancerW
Is it usual for an aquarius man to require space(several days of no contact) only with the woman they are(used to be?) interested in? It's clear he wants "space" from only me but he is talking to and hanging out with everyone else. Didn't use to be like this. We used to talk every day. He's no longer interested? When I asked him about it he says I'm over thinking. But this is how it feels.
I’m sorry cancer but this is normal, I even had an aqua man do the same to me only to come back months later apologizing. 😕
As being an aqua on the cusp and with Pisces Venus, I require too much love/affection to go without. The distance made me feel like he wasn’t interested.click to expand
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by FeelsyCancerW
Thanks everyone! It makes me feel so much better.
It's confusing for me, cause space for me means alone time. Space from everyone. Apparently it's different for him.
Oh yes ♥️! The difference between us cancers and other air signs! Hahaha! Aquarius energy is expansive. They like to talk to people and learn new things (i.e. the Humanitarians of the zodiac). We cancers feel deeply and we like our space small. At times, we need to retreat away from the world and by ourselves to recharge.click to expand
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Usually never.
Is that why you never tell me?
That certainly could be.
Or it's just that I'm not crazy about you.
Lol. You never disappoint with your answers
Always flirting, huh ?
Yes, with him especially, since he's my favorite He's the only one I flirt with annoyingly heavily though.
I keep it pretty tame for others on the site
Unless you're a gemini that guy won't even care.
Lmao you are so funny, I can't 🤣🤣
I think you underestimate him. He seems to be fond of a few people whether he admits it or not lol
But that's neither here nor there. I do what I want and I like flirting with him. I enjoy the interaction. I'm nowhere close to him so there's no harm in it for him or I. He plays along nicely with me most times, he's a sweetheart.
Yeah I think he can actually care, he's just passive-agressive.
But still you're funny.
Why am I funny?
It's just flirting. It's all in fun. I do actually like him as a person. I don't flirt with everyone like I flirt with him lol I just like his personality. Or what he shows of it.
His passive aggressiveness is what I'm used to with Aquas. I don't think people get much out of them unless in person, well from my interactions with Cap Venus Aquas, at least. But then again who knows, I don't have much luck in that department
I mean the way you write is funny. You seem to take everything lightly that I find that funny.
You're free to do what you want, I still can't understand why would people flirt online (yeah I know it's not serious).
Aquas are passive-agressive, but this one is quite something. 🤣
Oh, I don't know how I write. lol I can't tell.
He let's me be me though and isn't worried about my shenanigans, when I go too far he puts me back in line
I enjoy it lol
If you can tell he's "quite something" then you're well aware of why I flirt with him
You talk as if you personally know him lmao.
Actually I don't get it. All I know is that you're shameless and that's funny
Yes I am shameless I don't care, I'm pretty open. If he was bothered by me and told me to leave him alone, I would.
No I don't know him, only what I see online. But I treat everyone the same, from whatever feeling I get online. I just go with it, and try and treat people accordingly.
Why the sudden interest in my flirting with him? I've done it for so long now. I'm sure everyone is pretty tired of it, if they read it, cause I'm so over the top with him
"I treat everyone the same" lol I could tell.
I have no interest, I was kinda surprised, it's not like I actually follow everything you write here.
Oh, then it must be extremely new to you then, cause I'm practically humping his leg every chance that I get, and he just politely pats the top of my head
He speaks up when needed though and if it was a problem, he would tell me, I do know that much about him
He actually flirts pretty well, when he wants to, his retrograde parts don't seem to be too broken
I thought you were missing out on some of my action and you wanted a piece of me
Oh my God hahahahahahaha I'm rolling on the floor, you're crazy girl ! 🤣🤣
Nah, I'm not gay, nor interested. Sorry
LOL. I'm not gay either. I just like flirting but he is the only male that I actually annoy the hell out of. You think I take things lightly? I think that's a trait of a Sag, you never know when they are playing or serious
If I was near him, I would be serious, but I'm not his type anyways and live on a different continent. If that's what you're wondering.
Isn't he married?
I think that's a question for you to ask him. Maybe you are getting your Aquas confused.
Aerialview? Wasn't he married to a Scorpio?
Like I said. You have your Aquas confused. I wasn’t chatting with aerial view when I was quoted by peachy.
But I can’t speak on anyone’s life. You would need to confirm details with the person you are wondering about. 😊click to expand
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Usually never.
Is that why you never tell me?
That certainly could be.
Or it's just that I'm not crazy about you.
Lol. You never disappoint with your answers
Always flirting, huh ?
Yes, with him especially, since he's my favorite He's the only one I flirt with annoyingly heavily though.
I keep it pretty tame for others on the site
Unless you're a gemini that guy won't even care.
Lmao you are so funny, I can't 🤣🤣
I think you underestimate him. He seems to be fond of a few people whether he admits it or not lol
But that's neither here nor there. I do what I want and I like flirting with him. I enjoy the interaction. I'm nowhere close to him so there's no harm in it for him or I. He plays along nicely with me most times, he's a sweetheart.
Yeah I think he can actually care, he's just passive-agressive.
But still you're funny.
Why am I funny?
It's just flirting. It's all in fun. I do actually like him as a person. I don't flirt with everyone like I flirt with him lol I just like his personality. Or what he shows of it.
His passive aggressiveness is what I'm used to with Aquas. I don't think people get much out of them unless in person, well from my interactions with Cap Venus Aquas, at least. But then again who knows, I don't have much luck in that department
I mean the way you write is funny. You seem to take everything lightly that I find that funny.
You're free to do what you want, I still can't understand why would people flirt online (yeah I know it's not serious).
Aquas are passive-agressive, but this one is quite something. 🤣
Oh, I don't know how I write. lol I can't tell.
He let's me be me though and isn't worried about my shenanigans, when I go too far he puts me back in line
I enjoy it lol
If you can tell he's "quite something" then you're well aware of why I flirt with him
You talk as if you personally know him lmao.
Actually I don't get it. All I know is that you're shameless and that's funny
Yes I am shameless I don't care, I'm pretty open. If he was bothered by me and told me to leave him alone, I would.
No I don't know him, only what I see online. But I treat everyone the same, from whatever feeling I get online. I just go with it, and try and treat people accordingly.
Why the sudden interest in my flirting with him? I've done it for so long now. I'm sure everyone is pretty tired of it, if they read it, cause I'm so over the top with him
"I treat everyone the same" lol I could tell.
I have no interest, I was kinda surprised, it's not like I actually follow everything you write here.
Oh, then it must be extremely new to you then, cause I'm practically humping his leg every chance that I get, and he just politely pats the top of my head
He speaks up when needed though and if it was a problem, he would tell me, I do know that much about him
He actually flirts pretty well, when he wants to, his retrograde parts don't seem to be too broken
I thought you were missing out on some of my action and you wanted a piece of me
Oh my God hahahahahahaha I'm rolling on the floor, you're crazy girl ! 🤣🤣
Nah, I'm not gay, nor interested. Sorry
LOL. I'm not gay either. I just like flirting but he is the only male that I actually annoy the hell out of. You think I take things lightly? I think that's a trait of a Sag, you never know when they are playing or serious
If I was near him, I would be serious, but I'm not his type anyways and live on a different continent. If that's what you're wondering.
Isn't he married?
I think that's a question for you to ask him. Maybe you are getting your Aquas confused.click to expand
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Usually never.
Is that why you never tell me?
That certainly could be.
Or it's just that I'm not crazy about you.
Lol. You never disappoint with your answers
Always flirting, huh ?
Yes, with him especially, since he's my favorite He's the only one I flirt with annoyingly heavily though.
I keep it pretty tame for others on the site
Unless you're a gemini that guy won't even care.
Lmao you are so funny, I can't 🤣🤣
I think you underestimate him. He seems to be fond of a few people whether he admits it or not lol
But that's neither here nor there. I do what I want and I like flirting with him. I enjoy the interaction. I'm nowhere close to him so there's no harm in it for him or I. He plays along nicely with me most times, he's a sweetheart.
Yeah I think he can actually care, he's just passive-agressive.
But still you're funny.
Why am I funny?
It's just flirting. It's all in fun. I do actually like him as a person. I don't flirt with everyone like I flirt with him lol I just like his personality. Or what he shows of it.
His passive aggressiveness is what I'm used to with Aquas. I don't think people get much out of them unless in person, well from my interactions with Cap Venus Aquas, at least. But then again who knows, I don't have much luck in that department
I mean the way you write is funny. You seem to take everything lightly that I find that funny.
You're free to do what you want, I still can't understand why would people flirt online (yeah I know it's not serious).
Aquas are passive-agressive, but this one is quite something. 🤣
Oh, I don't know how I write. lol I can't tell.
He let's me be me though and isn't worried about my shenanigans, when I go too far he puts me back in line
I enjoy it lol
If you can tell he's "quite something" then you're well aware of why I flirt with him
You talk as if you personally know him lmao.
Actually I don't get it. All I know is that you're shameless and that's funny
Yes I am shameless I don't care, I'm pretty open. If he was bothered by me and told me to leave him alone, I would.
No I don't know him, only what I see online. But I treat everyone the same, from whatever feeling I get online. I just go with it, and try and treat people accordingly.
Why the sudden interest in my flirting with him? I've done it for so long now. I'm sure everyone is pretty tired of it, if they read it, cause I'm so over the top with him
"I treat everyone the same" lol I could tell.
I have no interest, I was kinda surprised, it's not like I actually follow everything you write here.
Oh, then it must be extremely new to you then, cause I'm practically humping his leg every chance that I get, and he just politely pats the top of my head
He speaks up when needed though and if it was a problem, he would tell me, I do know that much about him
He actually flirts pretty well, when he wants to, his retrograde parts don't seem to be too broken
I thought you were missing out on some of my action and you wanted a piece of me
Oh my God hahahahahahaha I'm rolling on the floor, you're crazy girl ! 🤣🤣
Nah, I'm not gay, nor interested. Sorry
LOL. I'm not gay either. I just like flirting but he is the only male that I actually annoy the hell out of. You think I take things lightly? I think that's a trait of a Sag, you never know when they are playing or serious
If I was near him, I would be serious, but I'm not his type anyways and live on a different continent. If that's what you're wondering.click to expand
Posted by Ellygant
Aqua have a very accepting demeanor. Cancer can rarely feel accepted in the world. I think that’s why the two attract each other very often.
However the a sometimes negative tendency of cancer, is to lock onto one object of affection and think you’ll never find another person ever again like that. Which is true. But as much as you’ll never find that exact person, you could find someone way better matched for you. Or someone more fun. Or someone more quirky. Someone different in all the best ways.
Cancer has a hard time letting go sometimes, because they feel like anyone they let into their shell has to stay there forever. And if they don’t, they’ll leave a huge void when they’re gone.
They won’t. You will be fine with that space empty. And you will find someone, maybe a few someone’s, who not only take that space, but expand it and make your life all the richer for it.
Posted by Leo138Posted by FeelsyCancerWPosted by Leo138
In order for him to figure out his feelings and commit, he needs to know you’re exclusive and you’re not just gonna run off with some other guy. He’s scared that he will end up being attached to you, but you will just leave.
He needs to know that he’s in a safe space to explore the feelings and decide to commit himself to you.
No, it's not that. He couldn't care less about me. He tells me to do whatever I need to do. I'm like a social experiement for him apparently. He's gotten used to being alone and would like to continue to be alone or something.
Well if you know that and feel this way, why are you even asking?? Seems like you know that to doclick to expand
Posted by Leo138
In order for him to figure out his feelings and commit, he needs to know you’re exclusive and you’re not just gonna run off with some other guy. He’s scared that he will end up being attached to you, but you will just leave.
He needs to know that he’s in a safe space to explore the feelings and decide to commit himself to you.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by jeane
i genuinely don't understand exclusive but no relationship.
what does that mean? like exclusive fuck/cuddle buddies?
what parts of a relationship does he rule out?
seriously, genuinely curious about this set up.
Their genitals are exclusive.
Her impatience probably has him red flag scared.click to expand
Posted by jeane
i genuinely don't understand exclusive but no relationship.
what does that mean? like exclusive fuck/cuddle buddies?
what parts of a relationship does he rule out?
seriously, genuinely curious about this set up.
Posted by Ellygant
They’re not excuses, it’s how he really feels.
Not all feelings are love related, keep in mind yes?
It sounds like he sincerely enjoys your company, however if it wasn’t you it’d be someone else just as easily. If you’re already sulking, I’d exit. He’s been honest with what you should expect from him, and you admit that you’re already impatient and dissatisfied.
Never engage with situation which you are dissatisfied. It’s not personal or judgmental. Just intelligent.