Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Winters12Posted by sweethearts
I feel sorry for you, this woman has you so twisted. You’ve thrown away your marriage and your children and you’ll never be enough for her. You can’t fix her and the sooner you see that you might be able to fix yourself and your own family.
Go see a councillor yourself, you do seem like a half decent guy.
I think I have come to the conclusion that me and my current partner will not work out she is all about her children not interested in mine and I put my all into her children . Because we are supposed to be taking time out she has separated mine and her children where as before they use to see each other every weekend . She has told me since they haven’t been seeing each other and staying over night etc they have been different children I.e better behaved now don’t get me wrong when all the kids are together they are a night mare but you make do because if you want to be with someone bad enough that’s what you do.
I said how will our future work out tho because if our children need to be away from each other now how on Earth are we ever going to live together.
She said they will be a lot older by then and when she said my kids start seeing hers again it will be when we go out on day trips and not at her house because she doesn’t want things getting dirty in her house and all this I don’t see a future here someone correct me if I’m wrong?
She had this massive problem like two weeks ago if any of you have seen my previous posts that My oldest daughter who’s with me full time who is from a relationship when I was 17 before my other two daughters and said she likes girls well my partner said I don’t want her around my child That is 8 years old and encouraging her to also be gay I understand to some point that she is just being a parent trying to protect her child however my daughter has the right to be what the fuck she wants .
My ex partner however (Sag like me) is still in the back ground seeing my oldest daughter as she was in her life for 8 years and I also have another two daughters with my ex so she stay around every now and then too see her siblings.
My current partner hates that she is still seeing her .
My ex partner said she broke off with this guy she was seeing because he didn’t like the fact she was still seeing my daughter but she said if you don’t like it I’m sorry we can’t be together so now there not also my ex partner excepts the fact my daughter wants to be what ever she wants to be.
Here’s the problem I cannot see a future now with my current partner (Gem) because of a lot of these things going on .
However I hurt my ex who I literally now know I had everything with the family life everything I just messed up thinking the grass was greener on the other side when in fact I should of respected the mother of my children. Since being with my partner she has opened my eyes to a lot of my wrong doings towards my ex partner and what I should and shouldn’t of done now I know.
Didn’t you also say that your ex and your relationship was really bad?
Get away from your current partner, seriously, everything you’ve said about her, she’s selfish and manipulative and doesn’t sound at all like a decent person. I can’t see how you can’t see it. Surely as you are writing everything down it’s smacking you in the face the type of person you are dealing with.
Are you thinking about trying to reconcile with your ex? You cheated on her with this other lady didn’t you?click to expand
Posted by sweethearts
I feel sorry for you, this woman has you so twisted. You’ve thrown away your marriage and your children and you’ll never be enough for her. You can’t fix her and the sooner you see that you might be able to fix yourself and your own family.
Go see a councillor yourself, you do seem like a half decent guy.
Posted by tctapp007Posted by Winters12
Think I have come to the realisation that there isn’t a future there with my current partner I broke with my ex who is a female Sag and if you have been following my recent posts you’ll know all about my current relationship anyway my ex who is the mother of my two children even broke it off with a guy two weeks ago because he didn’t like the fact that my oldest daughter who was from a relationship before my ex is still in contact with my ex and stays at hers as its her sisters house And my ex was in her life for 8years my current partner doesn’t like that she still stays there sometimes however you’ll all know what my partner is like I am stuck in my head what to do as I don’t see me and my partner ever living together because I don’t think she wants my kids there on the weekends and she is saying now that we don’t meet up when I have my kids and she has hers because it could set her kids off so I have my girls on my own now anyway I think I have finally had enough now.
I'm sorry, my head is spinning - I just couldn't follow this and so don't want to try again good luck with thatclick to expand
Posted by Winters12Posted by OnigenZ
Dont fall for it. Whole time she could be sob storying you while having the real dad in the background doing all kinds of stuff for her? How we know he doesn't send her money or come around when you're not there? And she chose to have them now all of a sudden she's tired? Was she tired when she was making them? Once you have kids, sorry, you dont get to get tired and dont expect breaks. The home decorating....she's AT HOME! Why is she bitching instead of doing it? Sounds like she's fishing for an eager sucker. Tread carefully. These ppl can be cold calculating users. Dont throw money in the mix. People always talk about their problems but never solve them. They want others to. Then they get rid of them. Thanks for the help, now bye. Be careful. She's just trying to get needs met. She's not here for love. BEWARE OF THE SOB STORIES! I dont deal with anyone who has sob stories. We all got problems but some of us get shit done while others sucker hunt.
I know he’s not in the back ground for a fact as she has an injunction against him He’s not aloud to have any contact with her at all as he use to kick her door in when his kids was in bed and also use to get drunk and walk out on her every weekend he also use to text and ring her non stop with threats everyday he’s definitely not on the seen I know that . But I get what you mean people will just use people .click to expand
Posted by OnigenZ
Dont fall for it. Whole time she could be sob storying you while having the real dad in the background doing all kinds of stuff for her? How we know he doesn't send her money or come around when you're not there? And she chose to have them now all of a sudden she's tired? Was she tired when she was making them? Once you have kids, sorry, you dont get to get tired and dont expect breaks. The home decorating....she's AT HOME! Why is she bitching instead of doing it? Sounds like she's fishing for an eager sucker. Tread carefully. These ppl can be cold calculating users. Dont throw money in the mix. People always talk about their problems but never solve them. They want others to. Then they get rid of them. Thanks for the help, now bye. Be careful. She's just trying to get needs met. She's not here for love. BEWARE OF THE SOB STORIES! I dont deal with anyone who has sob stories. We all got problems but some of us get shit done while others sucker hunt.
Posted by GemCurioThe1
Dude... Stop talking. You're like one of those people who always want to talk and feel instead of doing anything!!! Do something. Stop asking to help and be a man and help. Volunteer to pick up and drop off the kids 3 times a week. And cook breakfast for the family those mornings. All in your feelings and your head. Do something!!!! Right now you're just a talker.. Be a doer!!! If her kids are running rampant in the back of the car, buy some car seats. Send some takeout in the evening or cook dinner. There are a hundred ways to help other than running your mouth or feeling for someone. If you want to be the man in her life than be the fucking man... Sack Dropping #101. .
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Winters12Posted by sweethearts
I feel sorry for you, this woman has you so twisted. You’ve thrown away your marriage and your children and you’ll never be enough for her. You can’t fix her and the sooner you see that you might be able to fix yourself and your own family.
Go see a councillor yourself, you do seem like a half decent guy.
We have both spoken to each other and had it out we are living separately and dealing with our own children until they get a bit older and then we will decide to live together later on. I am dealing with my children when I have them on the weekend and she is dealing with hers from now on.
I would just like a little advice on how to cheer my partner up as I think she has taken on more than she could chew she wants the house decorated and then she hasn’t slept very well as she’s been up itching all night with this allergy she has so she’s tired and she had to get up to do the school run and then rush straight to work she said her live just feel like a routine and she needs time away from the kids as she seems really stressed and fed up and no motivation what can I do really as a partner to help her I said I will have the kids if you want a night out etc or if you want our alone time I can also arrange that I can help her with her house etc I duno what else I can do as a partner to help any advice also thank you for your concern but my last relationship was a little rocky I was with another Sagittarius.
Again. You can’t fix her.
You’ve been together, what 6 months? You should still be in honeymoon phase but the amount of obstacles and problems and differences you’ve already had aren’t going to miraculously go away, they will grow and escalate. You’re looking for the impossible, I’m being nice. Soon you’ll be bombarded with some cutting truths and you really need to start taking some of that on board!click to expand
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Winters12Posted by sweethearts
I feel sorry for you, this woman has you so twisted. You’ve thrown away your marriage and your children and you’ll never be enough for her. You can’t fix her and the sooner you see that you might be able to fix yourself and your own family.
Go see a councillor yourself, you do seem like a half decent guy.
We have both spoken to each other and had it out we are living separately and dealing with our own children until they get a bit older and then we will decide to live together later on. I am dealing with my children when I have them on the weekend and she is dealing with hers from now on.
I would just like a little advice on how to cheer my partner up as I think she has taken on more than she could chew she wants the house decorated and then she hasn’t slept very well as she’s been up itching all night with this allergy she has so she’s tired and she had to get up to do the school run and then rush straight to work she said her live just feel like a routine and she needs time away from the kids as she seems really stressed and fed up and no motivation what can I do really as a partner to help her I said I will have the kids if you want a night out etc or if you want our alone time I can also arrange that I can help her with her house etc I duno what else I can do as a partner to help any advice also thank you for your concern but my last relationship was a little rocky I was with another Sagittarius.
Again. You can’t fix her.
You’ve been together, what 6 months? You should still be in honeymoon phase but the amount of obstacles and problems and differences you’ve already had aren’t going to miraculously go away, they will grow and escalate. You’re looking for the impossible, I’m being nice. Soon you’ll be bombarded with some cutting truths and you really need to start taking some of that on board!click to expand
Posted by sweethearts
I feel sorry for you, this woman has you so twisted. You’ve thrown away your marriage and your children and you’ll never be enough for her. You can’t fix her and the sooner you see that you might be able to fix yourself and your own family.
Go see a councillor yourself, you do seem like a half decent guy.
Posted by Hamsthetics
Virgos is the best for Sag men, they would love you and be very faithful. Also would find you very interesting and excited to reply your texts.