Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
A Libra who can actually make decisions instead of waiting for the world to start spinning.
Posted by RyokoPosted by MissLibra
I had an 11 month relationship, planning on moving in together, love you's, etc. We got into a little disagreement and he disappeared, nothing, no further communication....until three weeks later. He sent an envelope through the mail with a little note and $ $ in it that he'd borrowed. The note said that owing the money back had slipped his mind. It was $ 20, not like it was a huge amount. I had blown it off and forgot about it. Wondered if this was his guilty conscience or way of trying to remain connected. I did not respond.
Took it as a sign to move on, that he's too immature for a relationship if he can't talk things out like an adult. Would have preferred a solid ending but sometimes silence speaks louder than words.
Wow that's low but at least you didn't end up stuck with an immature personclick to expand
Posted by RoseLenses
In retrospect, I have actually been a walking disaster this month..beyond any other month actually. I would like an answer too...ugh
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Don't sell your house!
Rent it
Posted by SensitiveBlues
200 miles thats nothing
But I'd be pissed
That's another thing...missing out on little stuff with my kids and grandson.
Posted by hydorah
Have you considered just filling your house with cats OP?
Posted by FrostedEllyPosted by MissLibra
The move is about 200 miles away.
So between a three to four hour drive? That's not terrible. If their adjacent major cities it could be less with a flight.
It's natural for it to be daunting. But if you also have a lot of excitement over it and you have faith in the stability of the relationships future why not. If you doubt him or his steadiness there's probably a reason for that.
You just have to sort out whether it's normal jitters or legitimate doubts.click to expand