This made me laugh because I am the exact same way. I want to appear a mystery as well, even to my boyfriend of almost three years. He is a Leo and he definitely has me figured out (unfortunately). He knows when I am being serious, when I am joking, when I am lying. EVERYTHING. He is way smarter than what I give him credit for. I don't want to say I get too comfortable with that person to where the "newness" of the relationship wares off... but it is almost like that in a way! I want to do things that are un-expected but I am so practical and realistic that I am almost the same person every day so it is hard. We have been with each other long for him to see all sides of me... What is your advice? I feel as if my friends still see me as a mystery because they don't see me every single day like my boyfriend does (I live with him).
Here is my opinion, I am a Taurus female and sometimes it may seem like we are interested and then one little thing could go wrong like maybe you said something she did not like or even did something she did not like. I mean the shoes someone is wearing could turn us off lol Sometimes I thought I liked a guy and I would give him all those signs showing so, and then he would do something and some people would think I am crazy but it would just completely turn me off and I would just ignore them and pretend they did not exist... So either you did something that she may of not liked, and made her think twice about considering you. Or there is another guy in the picture that she is pursuing or maybe she thought about it and realized she was not ready to pursue something with you. Regardless of what it is she has a reason, and you need to come to the acceptance that you are not going to know what that reason is. Best advice I can give you LEAVE HER ALONE. Do not talk to her, do not look at her, pretend she is transparent. Taurus women do not like being ignored... so if she sees you are not paying attention to her she will come talk to you. Give her the space she needs, because we can tell when you're still into us and we can tell when you're not over it. Good luck!
Virgos and Taurus are such a good match! You are probably over thinking the situation like most Virgos do lol just relax and take it a day at a time. As a Taurus we live in the moment, and as a Virgo you think about the past, present, future ETC haha A Taurus man will make it clear to you he likes you just have to give it some time. If he is willing to give up his free time to text you back and be your date then I would like to assume he has some feelings for you. Just be patient give it a few more months then maybe ask him how he feels? Good luck xx
If a Taurus wants to be with you, they will show you. If all these signs are occurring then he probably is not interested. I would not initiate conversation with him, let him come to you. You don't want to appear desperate or clingy. That is one of the biggest turn offs with a Taurus. They don't like when people seem too available. Leave them alone, and play it cool. If he wants to be with you, trust me you'll know!
I think you've got him all figured out. A lot of women are so easily manipulated by a Taurus male's charm they often don't question his motives. I think you should steer clear away from this guy... Taurus men always run back to past relationships when ever they currently have nothing going for them. Trust is everything and if you cannot trust him then there is no point. Your instinct seemed to be right the first time, what does it say this time? Go with your gut! xx
I have dated two Leo men one in high school and he was so overly sensitive it was so annoying. Like he would whine and pout about every little thing! He would even cry sometimes when he was mad. I am with a Leo now and we've been together for almost 3 years and I have only seen him cry maybe twice if that! He can get a little whiny sometimes if he does not get his way but that's normal in my opinion. If he is crying a lot maybe he is just overly emotional and sensitive and if I were you I would tell him to suck it up. I am a Taurus I would not be able to deal with that every day. Women we cry over things all the time for men that should not be an every day thing... just my opinion though!
I am a Taurus woman, and we HATE clingy. Even if you don't think you're being clingy you could do something like send us a text when we don't feel like talking to anyone and it will set us off. Just because you think it's going good doesn't mean she felt the same way. Taurus woman are hard to read, and can often stray away for no reason and ignore people. I have done it countless times. There's something you did that she did not like or made her pull away, and you probably will never know what it is. The best thing to do is DO NOT call her do not text her NOTHING. Taurus always love feeling in control and if you keep trying to talk to her she knows she has you where she wants you. So just pretend she does not exist and move on with your life, and if she sees that you are not bothered by her absence she may re-appear who knows. She may have found someone else, and normally when that happens we will astray and ignore the one we were with. But like I said you probably will never know the reason. Good luck stay strong xx
I am a Taurus and my first love (my first everything was a Taurus) we met in middle school and dated on and off for almost 6 years. Every girlfriend he had after that he cheated on with me, (bad I know) but I was that one girl that he could never stop talking to and same goes for me with him. For some reasons us Taurus' have a hard time letting go and we dwell in the past. I pissed off so many of his girlfriends because him and I would always text, send pictures, talk on social media... and I ruined a lot of his relationships. We met when we were 12 and I am now 22 and him and I still communicate I have a boyfriend he has a girlfriend and we talk as friends we finally grew up and stopped that immature crap. If I were you, I would tell him he needs to stop talking with her or you are going to leave. Which is more important you or this girl from his school day? This is so typical behavior for a Taurus and I am sorry you are going through this, I would try and sit him down and tell him how you feel and say if this does not change you might consider leaving him. He knows he has you and that he can talk to this girl all he wants without you doing anything, you need to show him that this is not acceptable. Good luck girl be strong!! xx
Taurus men hate being rushed, maybe just back off a little bit. Tell him you understand he is not ready and you guys need to slow down a bit. Taurus men are all known for this little disappearing act they do. What I do know about Taurus men is that they hate when women are clingy or constantly texting or calling, and maybe you initiating moving in together pushed him away a little bit? If I were you I would just back off a little bit and let him come to you, and if he mentions in moving in together just tell him right now is not a good time and you want to enjoy one another's company and maybe in the near future you can do that. Maybe take him to a nice dinner and ask him if everything's okay don't get all emotional like I know some Cancer women can be just be practical and check up with him to make sure everything is going good with him family and job... Taurus men don't play games, but there is a reason he has drawn away from you, you just need to find out why. I am a Taurus and my best friend is a Cancer sometimes she gets on my nerves and I wont talk to her for two weeks then we will go out like nothing never happened she is used to me always going away then re-appearing it could just be him wanting time to himself! Good luck xx
Sometimes Taurus' need that reassurance that the person we are with is a good choice for us, take him out on a date show him a good time. Help him forget about his stress and problems he is currently facing. We don't want TALK we want ACTION show us you will change don't just say it. Eventually when a Taurus is fed up we will leave (it takes a long time to do so thought), but we get so lonely we always end up coming back. A lot of Taurus' need affection from others and it is hard for us to be alone. If you really want to be with him then change, and that will motivate him to change and appreciate you more. It sounds to me like you guys just need to take a break for awhile, if you love someone sometimes you have to let them go. He seems like he has some deep rooted issues he needs to sort out for himself and his life, and he's never going to able to do that if you are distracting him. Just take a break for awhile 15 months is not a very long time being with one another, and then after he gets a job and gets back on his feet try something again. Because right now things are not working. And with a Taurus it's hard for us to truly break things off so maybe you need to be the person to do it, for his sake. He needs to get his life together before you two have a serious relationship. Good luck to you xx
Taurus men are very sexual and he probably did disappear whenever you told him you are waiting till marriage to have sex. Taurus men can get any woman they want and once you told him that he probably went onto his next available option. Taurus men need to be physically satisfied and they are womanizers. They kind of remind me of Virgo men a little bit, both are known for the disappearing act. If I were you I would not initiate contact with him and just let it go. When a Taurus wants someone we are very persistent and will always stay in contact with them. And we rarely will play "mind games", we are pretty direct with our emotions and feelings for the most part.
I am a Taurus and I dated a Virgo once, we were never an actual couple we just dated for like maybe 5 months. But we made a great match, we always had fun together and just connected really well in every aspect. One thing that might be bad about this match is both Taurus and Virgo like to be in charge so one person is going to have to take the lead and the other will have to just be submissive. I think that Virgos and Taurus' are both one of a kind so if you find a Taurus woman don't let her go! Our relationship did not work out because we were both not mentally ready for commitment and had a lot going on in our personal lives, and honestly he didn't seem like he would be a loyal companion. He was constantly talking to other woman, and was very sneaky. A lot of Virgo men I've met are like this they are womanizers and can get ANY woman they want.
Most Taurus men are very sexual and love to have sex. I actually work at a testosterone replacement therapy clinic, and it sounds to me like he might have low testosterone. Tell him to go to the doctor and get his testosterone checked. I have been doing this for two years and it can effect men as early as 25 years old! And definitely around your late 40's early 50's men start feeling symptoms of Low T. Which could be lack of energy, fatigued, low libido as well as irritability. It definitely sounds to me like he has low testosterone. All men love sex, so if he doesn't want to have sex with you then it probably is a medical issue there. Hope this helped! xx