Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Try calling her, and leave a message..
Then walk away and give her space..
You could ask how's she's been and bring up a possibility for another date in the future, and that you've been thinking of her and for her to text or give a call when she has a moment
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by pinkbird03
I get quiet and distant when I'm confused, scared, not interested, or feel guilty for leading a guy on and not feeling the same way he does. Cancer btw.
Hey pinkbird ? I have a clue on what it might be so you can give me your opinion... My ex confessed me that I rush to hard our prevoius relationship and I scared her off a little bit when I first kissed her (aries sun and moon under the soft cancer rising, so people are often scared of my true nature).
Maybe she have the same feeling right now an feels like the whole thing is going on too fast. I mean is the 2nd time I see her and I know her for only a month. It is also a long distance relationship... In a similar situation I think you would've stepped back a little bit, am I right?
I don't want to commit to anything too. Is just my way of dealing with relatioships. You think that if I wait for the situation to cool off a little bitbfor a week or two and then text her like nothing happened everything will be ok? She really showed me that she likes me before all that and kissed me back... I don't really think she don't feel something.
Yes, I might step back if you're making me uncomfortable. Too fast is never too good. But I'm not sure I think you're moving too fast. I just had a second date in one week with a cancer man and we kissed for the first time. What I think might be the problem is the distance. That's a deal breaker for me. But don't give up yet. I think you need to prove to her that you're a great guy by getting off dating sites, Initiate conversations, flirt a little, don't bring up the fact that she's acting funny, eventually set up another date, and buy her a special gift like jewelry.click to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeo
You texted her two days after seeing one another? Why not the next day?
And not reaching out to me def will not make me interested
And talking to other girls on tinder will def turn me off
And why not exchange phone numbers.
You're not needy or clingy by showing positive interest. You don't need to spam her, but just be like hey, how are you let's talk.
Ask her out again this time do something fun during the day
Posted by DivaCanLeo
You texted her two days after seeing one another? Why not the next day?
And not reaching out to me def will not make me interested
And talking to other girls on tinder will def turn me off
And why not exchange phone numbers.
You're not needy or clingy by showing positive interest. You don't need to spam her, but just be like hey, how are you let's talk.
Ask her out again this time do something fun during the day
Posted by pinkbird03
I get quiet and distant when I'm confused, scared, not interested, or feel guilty for leading a guy on and not feeling the same way he does. Cancer btw.
Posted by tiziani
You don't have the phone number or anything outside of the app?
Good luck with the videoconference!
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Areyoumytwinflame
As an Aries I think to create passion we need someone who will play tennis with us. Who will reciprocate and transfer the energy back to us. Not soccer where they are the goal and they let us do all the work until we get a goal.
Silly analogy but I think it gets the point across? It's just a preference.
I briefly dated a libra dude who was expecting me to play soccer and I wanted to play tennis. I'd hit the ball in his court and he'd look at me with dead eyes. I'd hit another ball...dead eyes. So, I got bored and moved on but he would try to hang out all the time and I'm like why? I want someone to play tennis with...not someone who considers themselves the goal post.
That makes total sense. The Aries energy needs to be excited and stimulated by the partner...if not they get bored or lazy or like you......move onclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by AriesFireKnightPosted by Ram416Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by DivaCanLeo
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Well, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??
I think she doesn't tease you cos she's not sure where your boundaries are.
If you want her to tease and taunt you, then you initiate it.
@aliensusedourbogroll
Ok, it might be the same for me, I don't really know how to tease her because I fave the feeling that she will take the things seriously and think I'm rude (happened before with an aries sun cancer rising girl). Also took literally some of my teasing jokes and I had to explain them in a sarcastic way then we both laughed. This rise the question:
How do you tease a cancer girl? ??
Can someone with a cancer partner give me some advice?
What is it exactly you trying to accomplish?click to expand
Posted by Ram416Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by DivaCanLeo
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Well, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??
I think she doesn't tease you cos she's not sure where your boundaries are.
If you want her to tease and taunt you, then you initiate it.
@aliensusedourbogrollclick to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeo
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Posted by GemitatiPosted by AriesFireKnightPosted by GemitatiPosted by AriesFireKnightPosted by Gemitati
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
Eastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xD
If you don't want sex right now - you need to see sexologist or something!
Please do all us a favor because wending need you here in a few years acting like DonJohn! Not even mentioning P-Angel!
Get help!
For god sake, tbh I want sex right now but if I push it, it will be bad (or in the best case worst than if it comes naturally). Been there, done that.
Today we had the first kisses and honestly I didn't practiced a lot in 2 years and I was stoned too, so not the most passionate moment. 5/10 in my opinion, she seemed happy tough.
I'm a rational guy so the next time I see her (in a few weeks) I will make sure that we make out properly and I can leave a few marks on her neck and then she will start to think seriouly too about sex. In that moment I will really want to have sex, until then, not really.
Isn't it too early in age to not to wantbsex?
Maybe you need some supplements or another woman?click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by AriesFireKnightPosted by Gemitati
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
Eastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xD
If you don't want sex right now - you need to see sexologist or something!
Please do all us a favor because wending need you here in a few years acting like DonJohn! Not even mentioning P-Angel!
Get help!click to expand
Posted by Hp199x
@AriesFireKnight broski you have Cancer Rising too ?! Do tell me how does it feel to be "Iron fists inside velvet gloves"??? Do you handle anger well? Because I literally become different aggressive person when someone crosses the boundaries, mistakes kindness from weakness.
Back to your chill relationship, as long as she can keep you fed with excitements then it should be fine.
Posted by Gemitati
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
Posted by kissmygrits
Memories. So what made you change your approach to this one?
Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by BuffaloBills28
She's 3 hours away from you? Do you drive. Where are you? This was such a nice read, I'd drive you myself to her. lol. I don't know, If I was you, and missed her that bad, I'd go see her. Last thing a playa like yourself needs is for someone else to make her happy.. Waiting months and months to see her, someone might come in and swoop her off her feet.
I don't have a driver licence or a car, and not even time because I have school and in the free weekend I have some classes for my future architecture exam. I have to travel 4 hours with a damn to get in a city in the opposite direction to take this classes.
I'm aware there is always the possibility for someone else to get in the picture, and that's why I was afraid to catch heavy feelings for her and I didn't go for smth like a kiss.
After all the feedback I've got I think I should call twice a week and create some interesting and funny stories in my free time so we can have a subject to talk about...click to expand