Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Dread_Pirate_PhantaPosted by MyStarsShine
Sun quincunx Moon
*Tripping over the ego*
Doesn't a quincunx need to be within like 3 or 5 degrees to count?
Some use 3° others up to 4°
I didn’t see his chart ..... what’s the orb?
Just saw Robert Plant 🔥😀click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Cg2016Posted by MyStarsShine
Sun quincunx Moon
*Tripping over the ego*
What’s that mean?
Egotisticalclick to expand
Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Cg2016Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Cg2016Posted by PuzzlePieces
Aggressive.. like difficult to slow him down. a little whiny when they don’t get their way.. smart ass, funny, heart on the sleeve, trouble letting go, live a bit in a fantasy world, great dad, takes care of others, always there for you when you need them. Great emotional support. Loves passion.
This is a Leo sun
Pisces moon
Virgo mercury
Libra venus
Leo Mars
Sounds like him lol. But like he was all in from the very beginning from before we met. So I’m like hmmm is there a catch? 🤔😅
Not necessarily. This is one I passed up on 30 years ago. He still hasn’t given up on me but we are technically friends lol, but it’s all impossible. We reconnected after 18 years of no contact even. I’d say if they are upset pay attention though. Cuz if they are hurt, they might not be faithful even when they are loyal to the family unit. Oh & he spends way too much money, but he works really hard too.
Hmm okay. Well this is very new so I’ll see what happens. If it was up to him we’d be in an official relationship by now lol. He says I’m his I just don’t know it yet lol. Idk how he’s so sure so soon. I need time to observe, I’m a Scorpio though so *shrugs*
Haha! Yeah they are like that. I’m a Sagittarius so I do understand the fire a bit 😉 The funny part is if you tell them you want to be friends, they will do it all the while waiting for you to change your mind. Its good to stand your ground, and they will respect you for it.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Cg2016Posted by PuzzlePieces
Aggressive.. like difficult to slow him down. a little whiny when they don’t get their way.. smart ass, funny, heart on the sleeve, trouble letting go, live a bit in a fantasy world, great dad, takes care of others, always there for you when you need them. Great emotional support. Loves passion.
This is a Leo sun
Pisces moon
Virgo mercury
Libra venus
Leo Mars
Sounds like him lol. But like he was all in from the very beginning from before we met. So I’m like hmmm is there a catch? 🤔😅
Not necessarily. This is one I passed up on 30 years ago. He still hasn’t given up on me but we are technically friends lol, but it’s all impossible. We reconnected after 18 years of no contact even. I’d say if they are upset pay attention though. Cuz if they are hurt, they might not be faithful even when they are loyal to the family unit. Oh & he spends way too much money, but he works really hard too.click to expand
Posted by PuzzlePieces
Aggressive.. like difficult to slow him down. a little whiny when they don’t get their way.. smart ass, funny, heart on the sleeve, trouble letting go, live a bit in a fantasy world, great dad, takes care of others, always there for you when you need them. Great emotional support. Loves passion.
This is a Leo sun
Pisces moon
Virgo mercury
Libra venus
Leo Mars
Posted by Dread_Pirate_PhantaPosted by Cg2016Posted by Dread_Pirate_PhantaPosted by Cg2016Posted by Dread_Pirate_Phanta
Idk what any of this means lmao
That's Robert Plant of Led Zeppelin and Layne Staley of Alice in Chains, both Leo sun, Pisces moon. The only one I know in real life is only 12, so you'd know better than me. lol
Ooooh. Well this one is like a sour patch lol. That’s what I got thus far
Sounds more like the Layne Staley flavor. Keep him away from heroin. jk
What I can say seriously is the little one I know has a giant imagination and is scary smart but quite lazy. He was telling me something about quantum physics yesterday. He's also very sensitive.click to expand
Posted by Dread_Pirate_PhantaPosted by Cg2016Posted by Dread_Pirate_Phanta
Idk what any of this means lmao
That's Robert Plant of Led Zeppelin and Layne Staley of Alice in Chains, both Leo sun, Pisces moon. The only one I know in real life is only 12, so you'd know better than me. lolclick to expand
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Cg2016Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Cg2016Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I'm not too familiar with Leo sun's at all but I would only assume being a Pisces moon there has to be some humor in him somewhere. Everybody keep saying Pisces moons are delusional but honestly I disagree. I only wish that was my natal moon instead of progressed moon. And yeah that libra rising sound like it would be very accurate. All libra risings are attractive no if, ands, or buts about that.
I'm looking at someone who's possibly an introvert or maybe even ambivert.
When I tell you he is funny af! Lmao. And someone did tell me they’re are delusional but idk what to make of it in regards to him. I feel like it’s possible he’s put me on a pedestal however if his rising is libra as I suspect, our suns are in the 1 & 7th houses in the synastry so our obvious attraction to each other would make sense lol. Idk.
I'll tell you one thing. He uses his cancer Venus much better than me. I act shy with mines. And really prefer the lady say sweet sexual things to me. I don't know, maybe I'm just slow or weird like that.
I'm surprise nobody else come forward. Maybe someone else that's more experienced with this than me can give you better and more indebt to this.
Oh see if sexual advances depended on me it would’ve been months lol. He has a leo Mercury so maybe that’s why. He said he owns all parts of himself lol.
Lol yeah that make sense. Plenty sense. I can see Leo mercury not being shy to give advances. It seem like it doesn't take much and long for a woman to be seduced by me. All I have to do is just be my natural self. Mind my own business and most likely she'll sure turn out to be either a cancer or Sagittarius. Sometimes even Capricorn too. I guess my quiet demeanor gives in to most women. Idk I can't figure it out.
Well enough talk about me. This thread isn't about me. I'd really like to see what someone else has to offer.click to expand
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Cg2016Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I'm not too familiar with Leo sun's at all but I would only assume being a Pisces moon there has to be some humor in him somewhere. Everybody keep saying Pisces moons are delusional but honestly I disagree. I only wish that was my natal moon instead of progressed moon. And yeah that libra rising sound like it would be very accurate. All libra risings are attractive no if, ands, or buts about that.
I'm looking at someone who's possibly an introvert or maybe even ambivert.
When I tell you he is funny af! Lmao. And someone did tell me they’re are delusional but idk what to make of it in regards to him. I feel like it’s possible he’s put me on a pedestal however if his rising is libra as I suspect, our suns are in the 1 & 7th houses in the synastry so our obvious attraction to each other would make sense lol. Idk.
I'll tell you one thing. He uses his cancer Venus much better than me. I act shy with mines. And really prefer the lady say sweet sexual things to me. I don't know, maybe I'm just slow or weird like that.
I'm surprise nobody else come forward. Maybe someone else that's more experienced with this than me can give you better and more indebt to this.click to expand
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I'm not too familiar with Leo sun's at all but I would only assume being a Pisces moon there has to be some humor in him somewhere. Everybody keep saying Pisces moons are delusional but honestly I disagree. I only wish that was my natal moon instead of progressed moon. And yeah that libra rising sound like it would be very accurate. All libra risings are attractive no if, ands, or buts about that.
I'm looking at someone who's possibly an introvert or maybe even ambivert.
Posted by poeticseraphimPosted by Cg2016
My love’s mom has stage 3 cancer. We’re far away from each other now. I have to work in nyc and he and his family lives in miami. A similar situation happened to me when I was 18 with another cancer moon guy. His mom ended up passing away. He shut me out and I was sad and upset but I obviously wouldn’t get upset this time around (10 years later). I mean I’ll keep the faith for her recovery of course, I wish nothing more. But my question to you all is how can I be a support to him at this time? What would you guys want?
I would want someone to listen to me. To listen to my fears. To listen to my sadness. To love me.click to expand
Posted by Basorexia
As a cancer moon, I'm 100% devoted to my family especially if they're not well......and that can be difficult for a partner because my relationship will take the backseat. I just can't focus and be as present if I know and feel someone I've loved my entire life is suffering.
What you can do for him is be present ( text, phone calls... Facetime) ask him how he's doing, remind him you're available if he needs you and be patient.
That's really all you can do. Not adding more stress during his difficult time.
Sorry for your bf's mom and...don't worry you're doing just fine. 🌻
Posted by akituPosted by Cg2016Posted by akitu
Oh god that’s awful. I’m really sorry. How long have you guys been together? Is she in the hospital now or with him? Honestly when things are that bad there’s not much you can do, like he probably won’t have that much energy to spare for your needs which will suck for you a bit. I don’t know anything about your dynamic but what comes to mind is that the thing that would mean the most to him I imagine is not to focus on him but to care about the mum. Or help him help the mum. That’s all he’s going to want tbh. If someone was there with the same goals rather than another person to worry about taking care of. Really sorry that happened that’s really rubbish, wishing you luck.
She’s still home and she just got her results back this past week. I understand him not having time for my needs and that’s okay. I also was wondering like if everyone is talking about his mom if I should be the one he can come to who doesn’t bring it up? Idk. I’ve been asking about her and giving him advice but I don’t want to force him to talk about it if he doesn’t want to as in like keep bringing it up on my own. He’s one of those cancer moons who withdraws a lot but he told me “I can’t run from you” yesterday and I asked him when this all came out to please not shut me out. That’s what the guy did when I was 18 he completely ghosted and that was hurtful because all I wanted to do was to be there. He said it was because I was new. But this time it’s been about 3 years so hopefully I get to be a help idk. Sigh.
Yeah I see what you mean. You wouldn’t want him to feel hassled by it if a lot of people are on his case about it. I was thinking less about talking to him about it and more like if you have a relationship with the mum maybe but I’m not sure how close you guys are... Yeah if stuff hurts we tend to cocoon, I actually have not yet figured out how to stop doing this. Like words are just completely useless when you’re flooded and just feel too much. But i don’t think it’s a bad thing to keep making sure he knows you’re there for him without demanding anything. That kind of steadfast tenacity is honestly one of the most beautiful things and I’m sure he will really appreciate it even if words fail him. It’s tough that it’s long distance at the moment that’s quite difficult. Ultimately I think he will know and understand your intentions and feel your support. 3 years is enough time and water moon connection is easy to feel. I think you will do fine you seem like you genuinely care and that’s the most important thing.
Just gonna tag @saggurl88 in here because she’s usually amazing at putting cancer moon feelings into wordsclick to expand
Posted by TheApparitionPosted by Cg2016
My love’s mom has stage 3 cancer. We’re far away from each other now. I have to work in nyc and he and his family lives in miami. A similar situation happened to me when I was 18 with another cancer moon guy. His mom ended up passing away. He shut me out and I was sad and upset but I obviously wouldn’t get upset this time around (10 years later). I mean I’ll keep the faith for her recovery of course, I wish nothing more. But my question to you all is how can I be a support to him at this time? What would you guys want?
"... How can I be a support to him at this time?"
• Make yourself available.
• Reinforce and understanding that your offer to be available is genuine and not simply an offer of obligation.
• Be diligent on checking in with them if an appropriate amount of time has passed and they have not checked in with you.
• Each time you speak with them ask at the beginning of the conversation if your role is to listen, to support, to advise, or to motivate.
• Validate their feelings with your own.
• Acknowledge their views, thoughts, or beliefs as they were conveyed to you before you add your own views thoughts, or beliefs.
• Know your limits and be realistic about them
• Support their hopes, and help them to understand their own limit. Do not set them for them.
In short... Just be yourself, lol. being there for somebody shouldn't be any different than any other day really. Reason you're both friends is because of who you are not who you try to be in a situation just because it's in that situation. You know what that looks like I'm sure."What would you guys want?"
Kind of sort of all of the things I said above, BUT I, myself, tend to be hyper self-reliant and typically don't like too much involvement from others. I don't like to inconvenience people with my own crap and a lot of times, if I'm pushed to include them in my crap, people tend to respond by trying to do too much. When that happens then I'm placed in an awkward position of trying not to upset them or be rude while I'm trying to get all this other stuff done so then it's an unnecessary additional pressure. I prefer to fly solo, but a large part of that has to do with the fact that I had to be self-reliant growing up out of necessity. It's just who I am now. Most people like the whole squishy help me smother me 'stuff', lol. 🤮click to expand
Posted by 7thHousePosted by Cg2016Posted by 7thHousePosted by Cg2016Posted by 7thHousePosted by Cg2016Posted by 7thHousePosted by bad_at_usernames
Nov 22 sagittarius girl who stood with me through everything for 12 yrs since we were kids gave up on our friendship unexpectedly. The fights we were having towards the end of it all definitely were not resolvable because neither one of us wanted to accept our fault. She wanted me to make a choice between my boyfriend and her, I told her I wanted both and that she doesn't have a right to ask me to chose. She took it for me choosing my boyfriend even when I clearly said I want both. We didn't speak for 1.5 months after that after which I called her up. Started talking again but she'd just changed. She just wasn't the same person anymore. Had a fight on idr what again and then never spoke to each other ever again.
I really started noticing a change in her behavior after she got into a relationship with her first boyfriend ever who BTW asked her to not care about me that much.
This was all two years ago around this time in 2018. I still dream about more frequently than I'd like to and really a lot lately and in those dreams we're always best friends living life like we used to with each other, as if nothing ever happened. I don't even think about her when I'm awake ofcourse except when I've just had a dream about her and it really bothers me. I wonder what in her chart made her do this
Here's all I know about her chart -
Sun - Sagittarius
Moon - Taurus
Venus - Libra
Mars - Capricorn
Mercury - Scorpio
I can't blame her though. You've actually been pretty stubborn about your relationship which clearly, isn't working out. (just being honest here) if I have a friend like you (which frankly, I do have at the moment), it just gets tiring at some point. At some point, I don't want to associate with that friend anymore because as much as I care, it is also annoying to listen to that person ask, worry and complain without putting any solid action to make a change. This is just based on the threads you've created about the guy you're with.
Agreed and a Sagg ain’t gonna keep doing this shit with you after awhile lol
Exactly. There's more to life than just listening to someone whine all the time.
I told my friends and my mom that I don’t want to hear about their ain’t shit men anymore if they’re gonna just stay and keep doing the same thing. So no one talks to me about that shit and we’re all happily coexisting lol. Sometimes you have to set boundaries. Your friends are supposed to respect that. I’ve almost cuz my bff off cuz I was tired of hearing abusive stories. Like if you’re not going to leave then leave me out of it.
Exactly. And it's not about not being a good friend. It's about not being around someone who is toxic. In all honesty, other people's negativity is contagious. If all they do is talk about their problems then it also drains the life out of the friend who listens to them. I cut off people like that, myself. Maybe listening once or twice is OK. Maybe three times is still fine. But not every single time.
We are on the same exact page! I agree 100% . Are you a sag?
Sag rising, moon in 9th house ❤️ but I'm an aqua sun, virgo moon.click to expand
Posted by 7thHousePosted by Cg2016Posted by 7thHousePosted by Cg2016Posted by 7thHousePosted by bad_at_usernames
Nov 22 sagittarius girl who stood with me through everything for 12 yrs since we were kids gave up on our friendship unexpectedly. The fights we were having towards the end of it all definitely were not resolvable because neither one of us wanted to accept our fault. She wanted me to make a choice between my boyfriend and her, I told her I wanted both and that she doesn't have a right to ask me to chose. She took it for me choosing my boyfriend even when I clearly said I want both. We didn't speak for 1.5 months after that after which I called her up. Started talking again but she'd just changed. She just wasn't the same person anymore. Had a fight on idr what again and then never spoke to each other ever again.
I really started noticing a change in her behavior after she got into a relationship with her first boyfriend ever who BTW asked her to not care about me that much.
This was all two years ago around this time in 2018. I still dream about more frequently than I'd like to and really a lot lately and in those dreams we're always best friends living life like we used to with each other, as if nothing ever happened. I don't even think about her when I'm awake ofcourse except when I've just had a dream about her and it really bothers me. I wonder what in her chart made her do this
Here's all I know about her chart -
Sun - Sagittarius
Moon - Taurus
Venus - Libra
Mars - Capricorn
Mercury - Scorpio
I can't blame her though. You've actually been pretty stubborn about your relationship which clearly, isn't working out. (just being honest here) if I have a friend like you (which frankly, I do have at the moment), it just gets tiring at some point. At some point, I don't want to associate with that friend anymore because as much as I care, it is also annoying to listen to that person ask, worry and complain without putting any solid action to make a change. This is just based on the threads you've created about the guy you're with.
Agreed and a Sagg ain’t gonna keep doing this shit with you after awhile lol
Exactly. There's more to life than just listening to someone whine all the time.
I told my friends and my mom that I don’t want to hear about their ain’t shit men anymore if they’re gonna just stay and keep doing the same thing. So no one talks to me about that shit and we’re all happily coexisting lol. Sometimes you have to set boundaries. Your friends are supposed to respect that. I’ve almost cuz my bff off cuz I was tired of hearing abusive stories. Like if you’re not going to leave then leave me out of it.
Exactly. And it's not about not being a good friend. It's about not being around someone who is toxic. In all honesty, other people's negativity is contagious. If all they do is talk about their problems then it also drains the life out of the friend who listens to them. I cut off people like that, myself. Maybe listening once or twice is OK. Maybe three times is still fine. But not every single time.click to expand