Posted by HoneyXxPosted by Awakenawarness
I'm curious
i predict...
1. Gemini
2. Leo
3. Capricorn or Taurusclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by miriyahhhPosted by Awakenawarness
Capricorns and mind games...my recent Cappy Bae. Would give me his time, great conversation, say he likes me but he doesnt want a relationship to get in the way(and he pressed this hard on me) he flat out said "wtf, um we're not together. Dont act like we are. I dont got time for that shit"
I said ohk and backed off(went with the flow) and now we're officially together.
I see it as what they do, don't take it personal. In their mind there's a reason for it.
Backed off how. My cap said the same thing so I had no choice but to believe it so I feel all the way back.
lol wtf is up with them and that sentence lol
well I didn't get "we're not together" but I did get "I don't have time for dating any men or women" when I asked did he maybe start seeing someone since we started talking (considering it's been 6 months and I didn't consider us in a relationship if we never even met so was kinda reasonable thing to ask lol)click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Awakenawarness
Capricorns and mind games...my recent Cappy Bae. Would give me his time, great conversation, say he likes me but he doesnt want a relationship to get in the way(and he pressed this hard on me) he flat out said "wtf, um we're not together. Dont act like we are. I dont got time for that shit"
I said ohk and backed off(went with the flow) and now we're officially together.
I see it as what they do, don't take it personal. In their mind there's a reason for it.
Lol. They don’t like pressure at all. Better to back off & let them figure their shit out!click to expand
Posted by lnana04Posted by Awakenawarness
Why are they though? I've never had a problem with a Cap lmao
I'd like to think we mind our business and don't cause many problems, but idkclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by Awakenawarness
Is she emotionally secure or not...?
Unevolved Scorpio who seeks revenge and never trust a word you say, etc.. will tear apart something that could be good because of her own doubts and or fears. Its self sabotage when it comes to love and relationships. Although it's not on purpose.
...That's something I know a Capricorn doesn't want or need in their life. Haha.
I'm seeing a Cap currently and honestly, if I wasn't secure with myself there's no way in hell I'd think about dating a Capricorn man.
This is very true. A lot of Svorp women are like that and that's a big downside to be with a Cap. Takes a really stable womdn to control those sides of Scorpio. And they are really powerful sides I must say lolclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by AwakenawarnessPosted by UnicornSagPosted by AwakenawarnessPosted by UnicornSag
Something specific happen to him? Or you said it in a way he just changed for no obvious reason?
I think best you can do s let him be the way he is. Don't ask him about it, don't try to make him do things...be around only. Like occasional checking up on him, say something cheerful or share with him some interesting story, completely irrelevant to any life problem, issues or anything like that, that might get him thinking and worrying more...
Yeah he told me he got into something bad with the wrong people, called me that night because he wanted to clear his mind. I never ask because I know I didn't like when people would ask me to talk about things when I didn't want to. I'm here for him and I give him reminders. Haha. It's just that doing those things he doesn't seem to care but does care and won't admit it. I actually do feel annoying when I try. Lol..Like does he want it or not. He doesn't say so.
does he go silent instead of saying anything when you do something nice for him? That's what mine would do lol
my guess is-they love it, but they feel guilty cause they don't do same in return and are feeling so down lol
At times he's quiet and at other times he does say thanks but then says things like "why do you do that for me are you trying to make me fall in love with you". Lmao.
.. do caps like someone who is giving without expectations of always receiving? But it also makes them feel guilty about that?
Awwe..Do they ever win?
Well basically he's being blunt then. He just says what many think but don't say. They actually think they're not worth it! Crazy I know! Lol but that's how they can be...they like affection ofc but just be careful to not cross the line where it becomes too much for him. I read few times some would literally say to stop doing something you do but would actually want you to continue doing it! Weird af! But with that I'd rather be careful since we don't have the option to read minds yet lolclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by AwakenawarnessPosted by UnicornSag
Something specific happen to him? Or you said it in a way he just changed for no obvious reason?
I think best you can do s let him be the way he is. Don't ask him about it, don't try to make him do things...be around only. Like occasional checking up on him, say something cheerful or share with him some interesting story, completely irrelevant to any life problem, issues or anything like that, that might get him thinking and worrying more...
Yeah he told me he got into something bad with the wrong people, called me that night because he wanted to clear his mind. I never ask because I know I didn't like when people would ask me to talk about things when I didn't want to. I'm here for him and I give him reminders. Haha. It's just that doing those things he doesn't seem to care but does care and won't admit it. I actually do feel annoying when I try. Lol..Like does he want it or not. He doesn't say so.
does he go silent instead of saying anything when you do something nice for him? That's what mine would do lol
my guess is-they love it, but they feel guilty cause they don't do same in return and are feeling so down lolclick to expand
Posted by UnicornSag
Something specific happen to him? Or you said it in a way he just changed for no obvious reason?
I think best you can do s let him be the way he is. Don't ask him about it, don't try to make him do things...be around only. Like occasional checking up on him, say something cheerful or share with him some interesting story, completely irrelevant to any life problem, issues or anything like that, that might get him thinking and worrying more...
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Awakenawarness
What work to help get you out of this mood? Or should the person your with let it be because it's just you.
For a month my Cappy is in a depressive/isolate mood. He started smoking again. And all he wants to do it be alone. He will call or make plans but then says he's just not in the mood later on.
I give him what he wants(space) but he reaches out to me after asking for the time away, in the same day.
Im starting to like him a lot but his mood is worrying me. Only because I care.
I was in a very very dark place over the holidays
And of course not only do we feel detached but we isolate
My sister reaching save me from that dark space I had believe I was even disconnected from my family. And if that is gone then what else is there.
Her reaching out snapped me out of it kinda prove I’m not disconnected from them even though I don’t see them n I isolate
Just letting you know
Reach out alwaysclick to expand