Posted by TyDyed
S Love,
I am a Virgo Man married to a Scorpio Woman. I am also Father to a Scorpio Daughter who dated a Virgo Man.
Here's the deal:
1. A Scorpio Woman is a Woman, first - and Scorpio, second. Her sex drive steers her towards the Bad Boy / Baby Maker, while her brain wants a Nice Guy / Good Provider. The Scorpio spin on this is the desire for Power. If she doesn't want it for herself, she wants a man who has power, or the potential to have power. Power can be physical, mental, and/or financial - depending on the Scorpio.
2. Because of her secret insecurities, a Scorpio Woman wants & needs a man who thinks she is the sexiest thing on two legs. She must be the seductress. (Not a bad thing, believe me!)
If this Scorpio Woman is leading you on, I think it's because: She's insecure, and you're the ego boost; or, she's thinking about ditching her current guy, and you appear to be a good alternative.
Posted by woundedbird
SCORPS DONT REQUIRE IT. IF THEY WANT SOMETHING, THEY WILL GET IT. NO NEED FOR ALL THAT!
Posted by capricornish
Hi S Love,
In my experience if a Scorpio woman tells you anything remotely secretive then this is a good sign because she is beginning to trust you and Scorpios don't confide in many people. They tend to guard their privacy with fervour so if she's told you anything secretive about her life then you're in. Try testing the waters and ask something about her private life - don't be obnoxiously invasive rather be more inquisitive. If she responds in kind then it's a good sign if not then don't give up the ghost just yet - perhaps maybe it needs more time.
A caveat, and this is in my experience, being that you're a Virgo man don't expect to be wearing the pants in the relationship if you make it to the sunset with your Scorpio woman
Posted by P-Angel
Have no idea what Cajun and you are even talking about .. I wasn't trying to piss you off.
I was trying to tell you that this is how the Scorpio woman plays for attention. And if you play along with that, then you're a player too.
Why would a truth of a situation insult a Virgo? I thought they were all about wanting to get to the truth?
Posted by CajunspiritPosted by S Love
I'VE DEALT WITH IT BECAUSE I DIG HER AND AT THE TIME MAYBE SHE WAS WORTH THE CHASE GAME, I'M NOT HERE TO MAKE YOU AND YOUR FUCK ASS EGO FEEL GOOD I'D TAKE IT TO THE LIMIT IF SHE WAS MY WOMAN. I CAN'T GO ALL OUT JUST TO STROKE AN EGO, I'M ALL ABOUT LOVE..I'D DO IT FOR LOVE ONLY!!
You will learn to ignore certain people on this board, my friend.
People get their daily fix pissin' you off from time to time, don't let it get to you.
Only you and the people in your circle, know what's up.
Don't have to justify nothing to nobody holmes.click to expand
Posted by P-Angel
To all of Virgo bredren that has dealt with
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... to deal with it, is a choice.
So obviously, you are a player
Posted by P-AngelPosted by S Love
she claims to be with someone, but if that's the case quit trying to lure me in, leave me alone then if you have a man ,quit fucking with me and trying to get me to bite.
That's most Scorpio womens game, though .... it's not you she wants, she wants the attention, she wants you to make her feel like she is desirable.
And there are probably many men she's doing this to.
Sounds like you are aware of and rather enjoying the game play ... for here you are mentioning it in here, so you obviously are having fun with it.click to expand
Posted by 25thDecan
In my experience...she'll make you out to be a buggaboo. I hate to use the zodiac on this but....dude....pursue for a hot sec and see if she bites. It'll ALWAYS be a little bite...like she'll agree to go out. Then...be calm, cool, collective and aloof. Open your shirt lapels and be crass but don't talk much. Or...act as if you have power.
If this isn't you...run......
Posted by Let*It*Be
How would that make you a "bug a boo"?
Posted by QuietSt0rm
There's a thin line between being persistent and annoying. Pay attention to her feedback. If the feedback is positive, if she seems to dig you, persist further. But if she's telling you she's not interested or coming up with other excuses of why she can't see you, BELIEVE HER. lol
Posted by DazedScorp
I ask how old because something seems very childish about this situation, with the whole pinching the arm and walking away bit.
That, or you really don't understand scorp women at all. If there's one thing I have learned, it's that you can't fully understand/"read" a scorp until you have made it into their inner circle.
Let me use me as an example. Most of my friends, always thought I was this outgoing, charismatic guy. A lot have asked me if I'm a leo, before they really knew me. Then they discovered the deep, emotional, brain churning power that I possess. Now, it's completely obvious to them. They can read me like a childrens book containing nothing but pictures.
My point is, you're not reading her like a book, just like ruby said. She will have a front up until you've made it into that circle.
Posted by Ruby01
@ OP: I think he may be right about the ancient chinese scripts bit. If you could read her like a book, you wouldn't be here asking about how to chase her, or wondering what her intentions are when she shows interest in you. You would know already. Everything.
Unless you haven't finished reading the book perhaps? Anyway, the women gave you good advice, if you are thinking of going that way.
Posted by DazedScorp
First off, how old are you? Second, you can't read a scorp woman like a book. Maybe, if you can read ancient chinese scripts.
Posted by missscorp
About the boyfriend thing?? Most scorpios I know are very loyal when in a relationship, maybe its in turmoil? Maybe she wants you to want her more? You always want what you can't have, o maybe she's an attention craving scorpio girl...which is not cool if she has a BF..would you want to be him knowing she has single guys after her due to the way she carries herself with them?...I would ignore her advances,gestures etc. It may anger her so in the event she does not have a BF she just may come clean with you out of shear frustration! Hehehe...Trix are for kids! Let her know it!
Posted by DazedScorp
She could very well have a boyfriend, but loves the attention you give her. Scorpio women flirt to gain the upper hand on you. Control. I've had scorp women flirt with me, not because they were interested, but because they wanted me to be interested in them. Even as a scorp man, I do the same thing. Even if I have a g/f, I want women to want me, so I flirt to see if they'll show that interest I'm looking for. I never have the desire to take it further, but I love feeling WANTED.