Posted by Arielle83
I’ve said this before.
It means thanks for the sex, but I’ve lost interest and we aren’t long term compatible.
Or you aren’t moving in the same direction I am.
Nice knowing you, maybe we can be mates in the future.
Don’t vilify me to the entire area code because it didn’t work out
Posted by euphony
The weird possessiveness I had with an ex who was a Taurus was so bad. The way he was with me got worse over time and the way I was with him got bad too. I never felt that way with anyone else either.
I LOVE Taurus people as friends though. I wish I could be friends with more, 😂 but they tend to like me a lot and want to take up all my time! 😂😂 The way I am though, I know it won’t work. So I never got serious with another one as soon as I recognized the same characteristics. As happy as I knew we *could* be or that I knew I could make him, I knew after a while I wouldn’t want to live that way. It was like, can we just be friends?
Taurus are amazing loyal friends. We can talk for hours. But for a partner, I wasn’t able to ever feel fulfilled.
What are his placements?
Posted by Moonbutter
I love you, but I want you to be be fucking some other dude 🤦🏻♀️ He’s into cuckholding🤷🏻♀️
Posted by AquaNextDoor
He wants to keep you on his backburner for casual hook ups. Smh... that‘s why he still charms the F out of you. Mindfucking you on a high level and he knows it! A real trickster. He is honest on one side by telling you he doesn‘t want a relationship but on the other side he charms your pants off mentally and keeps being touchy kissy?! Smart ass.. sorry for you girl 🌷 you‘ll find someone who wants to be with you, you sure deserve it!
Good luck
Posted by LaMadrina
he's softening the break up blow.
Posted by SolaPosted by TauRisserPosted by Sola
I just had this kinda chat with a Gem I broke up with. I told him we a great guy etc but that we should stop seeing other. Why? Everything I said was true and genuine, but we just didn't match. There were issues with lack of emotion, respect, and chemistry. Still, I was gutted and in my heart of hearts hope that we could maybe reconnect.
So I'm not for totally calling this guy a douche. It's issues on both sides that make a separation necessary sometimes.
I think what gets me is that he says that he cares about me and he really likes me and he thinks that we could be really happy together for many many years… He said happier than a lot of couples who have been together for 20 years. This is why it's all so confusing. He said I don't even know why I feel this way and I said because you're scared… And he said yeah yeah I guess I am scared
The hard part for you will be to continue in a way that doesn't leave you stuck as an option. I mean, you love the guy, but sometimes it takes tough love and heartache for things to change. Otherwise you'll be here in 10 years time with the same issues (like me)click to expand
Posted by Sola
I just had this kinda chat with a Gem I broke up with. I told him we a great guy etc but that we should stop seeing other. Why? Everything I said was true and genuine, but we just didn't match. There were issues with lack of emotion, respect, and chemistry. Still, I was gutted and in my heart of hearts hope that we could maybe reconnect.
So I'm not for totally calling this guy a douche. It's issues on both sides that make a separation necessary sometimes.
Posted by JanMayMarry
That's balancing.
I love you but I can't be with you....but hey at least I love you, so it's fair. Yaaaaa
Posted by 2MoonPosted by TauRisser
No seriously...what the actual fuck?
I got some personal issues like this too..
I can't go forward until my life / things are perfect...
Perfection issues and stuff..
It's like adhd or some other stuff.. (giggles)
It's all in his head..
We worry too much sometimes..
Ya should talk with him about thisclick to expand
Posted by Pandora101Posted by TauRisser
So my Libra just sat down with me tonight and we had yet another serious talk again...and when I say serious I mean the overall message. We still laughed together throughout and he kissed me several times during and after the conversation. Long conversation short: he cares about me, he respects me, he wants me to be happy, he's very attracted to me, he thinks that we could have a happier relationship than most people ever have for many, many years...but he doesn't want to be with me....seriously wtf?!?!
yet another serious talk again? who iniciates those talks?
why let yourself be engaged in those "serious talks"?click to expand
Posted by TauRisserPosted by Endless
does he have some venus issues? some Rx going on lmao
sounds like insecurities at 99% high
I called him out on being scared because of how he feels and he confirmed it. Said he has abandonment issues because of his past (not going to share details but I understand). He's definitely insecure. Also said he might just go make out with some random girl just to prove to himself he's over me (which hurt a lot tbh). I playfully threw my purse at him. Told him "you suck" but I can't be angry! He said "don't hate me" and I said "I hate that I can't hate you"click to expand
Posted by CaptainSpaceLadyPosted by TauRisserPosted by Endless
does he have some venus issues? some Rx going on lmao
sounds like insecurities at 99% high
I called him out on being scared because of how he feels and he confirmed it. Said he has abandonment issues because of his past (not going to share details but I understand). He's definitely insecure. Also said he might just go make out with some random girl just to prove to himself he's over me (which hurt a lot tbh). I playfully threw my purse at him. Told him "you suck" but I can't be angry! He said "don't hate me" and I said "I hate that I can't hate you"
You should ask him what you can do to make him feel better and more comfortable and tell him all the great qualities he has. Lift his spiritsclick to expand
Posted by Endless
does he have some venus issues? some Rx going on lmao
sounds like insecurities at 99% high