Posted by AgentP911Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by AgentP911
Errrr... I hate to ruin your party but one and a half months in and no date because... You're both just so very busy?
That approximately 45 days. Not one single day spare between you?
That's 1080 hours. You're saying that out of a potential 1080 hours neither of you could spare just three hours to meet?
I'm sorry but how busy are you both? What's he doing? Running a small country? Out saving the world as Superman? He's just so very super busy that he... makes time to do everything he wants and to see who he wants... Except you're not in his top ten list. butter, you're not even ON the list!
If he's not nailing down a date with you, after chewing the fat for 45 sparkle motion days, then he's not that keen or ready to date. It's likely the latter.
Even if you both did manage to work a miracle and actually met. What then? Another 45 days before you could possibly schedule date two? How is that going to help build a solid foundation for a relationship?
You may think things will suddenly change after you meet and that he"ll suddenly find or make all this time for you. He won't. Not unless he is prepared to compromise and make the changes necessary. He may not even be able to.
If he's not dating you then all you have is a bunch of nothing.
Date others. Have options. Otherwise you could sit there waiting forever for Mr Busy to pull his thumb out of his arsehole. Meanwhile, while you invest your time into nothing, several Mr I'm available to date will just walk on by and you won't even notice. That would be a shame.
Like I said, he's running 2 jobs and has his kids. We both on different time schedules and I have kids too. On top of that, we dont live in the same city. Appearantly for Taurus signs, 45 days is like a second passed. Plus, when we started out, it was on friendly basis...
I dont think things will suddenly change after meeting, we're both in mindset atm that we will take it as it goes. I'm in no rush, I merely posted to get insight from Taurusmen.
Like I read, him with two jobs, his kids, different cities, different time schedules, your job, your kids plus life in general... Its a lot going against this potential union.
45 days is not the equivalent to a second for all Taurus men (or men in general). Venus placements can have a huge effect here. Sure, they may choose to take their time but there will be a reason they are choosing to take their time or in adopting the approach they are taking.
My Taurus man has a Venus Aries. Aries is more known to be forward. When he was dating he had no hesitations in communicating what he was looking for. He knew what he wanted and knew he was ready to date.
My very good Gemini Sun friend has Taurus Venus and Mercury. Taurus Venus is known to be slower. Yet he feels ready to date again to find someone to have a relationship with. He's actively finding the time to date despite his personal and family situation. He often travels 60 miles plus or so in order to meet a potential date.
Sorry, you had not specified replies from Taurus men only so I commented. However, I asked my Taurus to read the posts. He said 'if he's ready, he'll make the time. If he's not ready, he won't move from his sofa. She's wasting her time unless she just wants to type to him every night rather than having him next to her.'
What's his astro chart?click to expand