I created an account here five years ago when dealing with a nasty heartbreak with a Pisces- back again to understand an aries in my life who for whatever reason, has captured my attention. (I’ve been dating and happy to say I’ve put the Pisces behind me.)
I’m a Taurus, 9 May. She’s 24 March, and unfortunately I don’t know much else regarding her sign (nor mine).
We work together in the same organization, different offices. We’ve circled each other for close to a year, strictly in work capacities. I had actually met her in another work organization prior to this, and her impression on me was that she was attractive and nice. I also remember that as I was leaving her office that day, we locked eyes.
Last year, she was hired into my organization and we’ve worked together on some projects. She’s very task focused and doesn’t really joke around while working (I certainly do, it’s stressful when I don’t!). I’d catch her in the hallway or across from me in meetings staring- and when I looked back at her, she wouldn’t break her gaze nor smile. I would be the shy one and look away, feeling like my face was on fire!
Several months ago, there was this moment when she rounded a corner and we saw each other right at the same time. The word that comes to mind when I think about her body language after she saw me was... strut... super sexy, and even now makes me laugh. She completely played it cool, strutted right by me and gave me a casual hello while she connected with another coworker down the hall, and I literally sprinted down to the other end. Way to play it cool, Killjoy.
I will constantly see her across the room in meetings from the corner of my eye, staring at me. My eyes give a lot away, so I don’t usually look back. This woman strikes some serious curiosity/fear in me, haha.
The last two weeks- don’t know if something is in the air or what- it’s like someone cranked up the heat on us. She laughs around me a lot. A few days ago, we were walking to another meeting together and it was like she lost all her words- it was the first time I’d seen her act shy around me, as normally she is bold and assertive. And the staring- always the staring. It doesn’t bother me at all- it makes me feel curious. And certainly interested.
Yesterday, we were in another meeting and I didn’t know that she saw me there. Afterwards, she playfully asked me, “why didn’t you look at me? I know you weren’t looking at me on purpose!” And I had no idea what to say because in typical Taurus fashion, I am feeling this crush with every fiber however I’m afraid that I’m looking at this through a hopeful lens and not a realistic one.
There’s just something about her eyes. She stares, and sometimes she smiles a little when she does but her eyes are very intense. I’m normally fairly assured, but when she looks at me, I dissolve internally. I feel like a teenager all over again, clumsy and inarticulate.
After a meeting yesterday, she came to my office and I could see her studying everything I had on the walls, on the shelves. I was watching her studying me. I do not see her interact with anyone else this way, but again not sure what this means, if anything.
So to sum up, lots of meetings and lots of staring, haha. Or rather- I sit in a lot of meeting with her where she stares. And the last few days, she has sat right next to me even when the other side of the table is unoccupied. Anytime I see her (outside of meetings, too), she normally just talks to me and no one else around us. And her eyes, I feel like they’re aware of everything I’m thinking.
You Aries women... wow. I would not say I’m the typical Taurus with the jealousy and possessiveness, but certainly with the cluelessness at times. Can anyone give this 40-year old teenager some wisdom in what to do, say or how to perceive this?
why do i feel this surge of lust for this guy? the sex never gets boring. grade a. classic. timeless. never gets old. no matter how many times we do it in a day. sometimes i feel like it's a drug and i don't even wanna tell you how many times coz it's kinda disgusting when you think about it. i'm always in a hurry when i leave coz butter if i stay a bit more then i'd just get greedy. and it's not just me coz this dude is like a machine, don't know how to quit it. it's gross like my hormones 24/7 in adolescent mode. my hands literally shake from the lust. i'm trying to get rid of the obsession by attempting to hookup with other guys but i can't go through with it. not when i know exactly where there's grade a sex to be had. i've never had this problem with a guy before except with this one.
him: Cancer sun Virgo moon Gemini mercury Gemini venus Gemini mars
me: Virgo sun Taurus moon Virgo mercury Leo venus Libra mars
you're just saying that because of what you read online about signs. The description online don't really match real life. Taurus are on some insecure super possessiveness butter. From I have seen most Cancer girls were more interest to Cancer guys than Taurus.
I’ve dated a cancer and don’t wish to ever again. This is from first hand experience.
I don’t know what most cancer “girls” do as I’m not one.
I personally prefer Taurus to Cancer men. I like possessiveness too.
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what sign are you. I was talking about Cancers girls in particular not other signs. Of course some signs will prefer Taurus over Cancer. Possessiveness, that not even possessiveness that like rape. It like you are inconsiderate of other people feelings which Taurus are.
sure go ahead date them if you like someone to treat you like their object trophy, ignore your feelings and opinions. Sure Cancers may be clingy, but at least they won't ignore your feelings and opinions. Plus Cancers are strong like Pisces.
I started my diploma class in September 2018 and there i saw him sitting decently in the class i instatly got a crush on him he seems nice and decent person.I didnt try anything at first but then in November 2018 I Started following him on Instagram and a