Posted by JustALeo
The thing is, she's not fully ready for me to be around her daughter that much. This Aqua lady is super careful about who she lets into her and her daughter's life. I've tried, I've been with them twice and whenever I catch her at the gym I make conversation with the daughter. She's super smart and i always ask her how school is going for her and be dorky with her. Her daughter thinks im funny and nice; she's just very cautious because with her last relationships, the daughter started getting attached to the guy and then when he's gone, she doesn't want her daughter to go through that pain. Which is very understandable, but the thing is I wasn't planning on screwing up or hurting her like her ex's did so I have to prove that to her.
I've been backing off for the past few weeks, i've been busy with school and she knows that. She'll text me either encouraging messages or just messages to encourage me in a way. Then usually I don't hear from her again until the end of the day where she tells me about her workout or anything. Like i said, the only times I really reach out now are just good morning messages or just messages encouraging her.
Isn't her sun and moon the same as yours? I have mars in aries like her but i have a gemini venus.
She always has a lot going on, I just saw her today and yesterday after not seeing her for weeks, although she's very beautiful I can tell by her face that she hasn't had much time to sleep. But i never tell her that, i just tell her she looks gorgeous. She knows how busy I am with school, my weeks are loaded with labs (I'm a biology major planning on going to med school) and also getting workouts in still...also im in the Army Reserves too with people under me, in fact she asked me yesterday when i had Army time again.
She really liked the attention the first 2 months we were talking, she couldn't get enough of me. She would message me all the time or always wanting to see me or hear my voice...I know her best friend would always be there for her to help her talk out her feelings, but she hasn't even had a chance to hang or catch up with that best friend for almost a month now. So without someone there to help her balance out and let out her emotions, I feel like she's just overloaded in her head. I feel for her and have offered her help all the time, she's doing a personal trainer course right now and she told me it's a lot for her on top of everything, I've done that course before and she knows I used to be a personal trainer so I offered my help.
I will continue to be sweet, affectionate, loving and also give her her space...I felt like she was somewhat coming back around this weekend but she didnt and thats ok, baby steps. Just keeping faith, thank you!