aqua sun taurus moon *~

I'm sorry. He's in a better place now, free of the world's sufferings.
Posted by LadyNeptune
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Whats the end game for you? Like is he a fling or do you want a relationship??


hi, yes i would like a relationship as end goal!


Here's the thing, you don't know enough about this dude to want a relationship from him specifically. You want a relationship tho, so stick to that. If you see red flags don't compromise that end game.

So far he's already given you some red flags. Him hitting you up late at night/early am screams smash and dash. So I'd suggest taking things slow. Don't give up the kitty until you get a promise of exclusivity from him.

But for now, hit him up and start a conversation. See if there is anything there.
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i love this advice! so you think it's okay to initiate first with him?
Posted by Moonbutter
Being charming is their specialty to get what they want, don't give them what they want... be a challenge. They will either be into you or move on.


I will do that!!
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Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..


i'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.


Soo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you do


lmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basis


Yes... I've been surrounded by Gems my whole life and LTR 3 of them. U gotta captivate them mentally be witty


my only serious ex was a scorpio. i'm an aqua girl! what happened w ur gems?


They weren't right for me...different life goals/interests, etc. what is your mars and moon and Venus?
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Taurus moon n evertin else is in capricorn FML
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Posted by blackphase
Got your email and your number without you having any knowledge of how he got it?
Run fast!!



yeah. someone else that goes to these events probably gave it to him but i'm still not sure how he got it....


So is it impossible to tell him you feeling funny about him having your personal info? Why not to just open your mouth and ask?
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I didn't really care about how he got my number before until one of my friends asked me how he got it. I supposed I'll ask him next time I see himn
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Posted by Moonbutter
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..


i'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.


Soo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you do


lmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basis


Yes... I've been surrounded by Gems my whole life and LTR 3 of them. U gotta captivate them mentally be witty
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my only serious ex was a scorpio. i'm an aqua girl! what happened w ur gems?
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by 4ever_confused
Posted by Moonbutter
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..


i'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.


Soo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you do
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lmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basis
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I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?


yes that's me!!

a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.


He asked for your address too? :/

I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.


yeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.

my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...


Ahh geez! Yeah due to the fact that your exes sister works for that label, i'd avoid getting too close to anyone that works there.. lord knows what people say. Just be cautious, that can be a tricky industry. But I am on the same page as you, I am not one to let random people I barely know come over. Just trust your gut on this one. Gemini guys can be super smooth and flirty, don't fall for it if you don't think he is being genuine.


yeah that's what i was going to do, but they throw some of the best events. i've also introduced myself to my exes sister so there's no bad blood because i dont want to hold myself back because of my ex... my gut didn't see any red flag, but i am wary of my exes sister and knowing vindictive my ex is.



Oh, so you didn't know her previously..
I honestly would be more concerned with his forwardness and access to your email / phone number. He is also trying to dive in very quickly, asking for your address and you mentioned that he was very forward in what he was texting you. Has he taken much interest in you personally? Your hobbies, interests? If the answer is no, then he is definitely just looking for a hook up.


Yeah he was asking me about some articles I write and where I'm from... He asked me before if I wanted to grab coffee but I was out of town. The sunday thing was very abrupt, I guess I will just let this one guy. it's a shame he's acting in this way.

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*let this guy go.

You're right the diving in and trying to rush things is a major red flag.
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Posted by blackphase
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?


yes that's me!!

a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.


He asked for your address too? :/

I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.


yeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.

my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...


Ahh geez! Yeah due to the fact that your exes sister works for that label, i'd avoid getting too close to anyone that works there.. lord knows what people say. Just be cautious, that can be a tricky industry. But I am on the same page as you, I am not one to let random people I barely know come over. Just trust your gut on this one. Gemini guys can be super smooth and flirty, don't fall for it if you don't think he is being genuine.


yeah that's what i was going to do, but they throw some of the best events. i've also introduced myself to my exes sister so there's no bad blood because i dont want to hold myself back because of my ex... my gut didn't see any red flag, but i am wary of my exes sister and knowing vindictive my ex is.



Oh, so you didn't know her previously..
I honestly would be more concerned with his forwardness and access to your email / phone number. He is also trying to dive in very quickly, asking for your address and you mentioned that he was very forward in what he was texting you. Has he taken much interest in you personally? Your hobbies, interests? If the answer is no, then he is definitely just looking for a hook up.
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Yeah he was asking me about some articles I write and where I'm from... He asked me before if I wanted to grab coffee but I was out of town. The sunday thing was very abrupt, I guess I will just let this one guy. it's a shame he's acting in this way.

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Posted by blackphase
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?


yes that's me!!

a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.


He asked for your address too? :/

I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.


yeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.

my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...


Ahh geez! Yeah due to the fact that your exes sister works for that label, i'd avoid getting too close to anyone that works there.. lord knows what people say. Just be cautious, that can be a tricky industry. But I am on the same page as you, I am not one to let random people I barely know come over. Just trust your gut on this one. Gemini guys can be super smooth and flirty, don't fall for it if you don't think he is being genuine.
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yeah that's what i was going to do, but they throw some of the best events. i've also introduced myself to my exes sister so there's no bad blood because i dont want to hold myself back because of my ex... my gut didn't see any red flag, but i am wary of my exes sister and knowing vindictive my ex is.

Posted by Moonbutter
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..


i'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Whats the end game for you? Like is he a fling or do you want a relationship??


hi, yes i would like a relationship as end goal!
Posted by blackphase
Posted by 4ever_confused
Posted by blackphase
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?


yes that's me!!

a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.


He asked for your address too? :/

I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.
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yeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.

my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...
Posted by blackphase
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?


yes that's me!!

a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.
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Posted by 4ever_confused
Posted by blackphase
Got your email and your number without you having any knowledge of how he got it?
Run fast!!



yeah. someone else that goes to these events probably gave it to him but i'm still not sure how he got it....


That would not sit well with me at all personally. :/
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yeah it's strange. should i text him and ask him?

Posted by blackphase
Got your email and your number without you having any knowledge of how he got it?
Run fast!!



yeah. someone else that goes to these events probably gave it to him but i'm still not sure how he got it....
he also started texting me randomly but i swear i NEVER gave him my number haha
i met this gemini guy that works for my favorite record label. we met at a networking event that he invited me to. idk how he got my email in the first place. i met him in person for 5 mins. a few weeks later he started texting me, asking about my hobbies and complimenting me. he asked to me grab coffee then one day randomly asked to go very last minute, but i was out of town. he invited me to another event and i went on sunday. when i saw him he was so nice to me and gave me a wristband thing but didn't say much because he was working. i stayed until after the event and also had a little too much to drink. i went home and he had texted me a LOT asking me if he could come over and all this forward stuff. i fell asleep and didn't reply.
he is really cute to me! just my type. but he seems to be playing around. i'm an aqua girl, how can i tame him?
Posted by bkbella86
Whose us?



Seems like the Cap men I know in real life and topics on the capricorn forum are that girls don't really understand capricorn guys and find their behavior confusing.
Posted by Blue_Froggie
Posted by 4ever_confused
And dealing with them. They're a mystery to the rest of us.


Lol
Is this shade?
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No. I have noticed gemini girls are the only ones that understand Capricorn guys.