Posted by turnthisshitoff

Posted by Antiphates

Who's the girl in the first pic?

Daenerys seems esfj to me lol

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Zero Two.

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Antiphates
1) Indifferent with leaning towards probably never happening.
2) No.
3) This should be two seperate questions. Part one: yes. Part two: no.

Not really an answer to your question, but I didn't have a single sexual encounter I enjoyed.

You answered it.

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I guess you could say so since I stopped having sex after those experiences.

1) Indifferent with leaning towards probably never happening.
2) No.
3) This should be two seperate questions. Part one: yes. Part two: no.

Not really an answer to your question, but I didn't have a single sexual encounter I enjoyed.

My impression is that most of modern dating problems are caused by pre-emptive internal framings like this.
The whole topic is so convoluted by ego protecting terms and concepts that we are increasingly losing our ability to speak about such issues.

I might start doing video essays at some point.

1) No data due to never have been in a relationship.
2) Probably. Not due to sex being necessary but because I don't like this kind of game or being treated this way.
3) Again, not in a relationship, but I was interested in the woman and ignored or even counteracted the pushes for it because it felt as a means to regain control over the situation, take power back or to escape some inner turmoil. In a relationship I would probably would refuse to have sex for the same and potentially other reasons.

I wouldn't say so, but Leo (energy) seems to be heavily invested in reputation and their social standing, which can come off as needing attention since attention can lead or equal said status.
Whenever it is my Leo grandmothers birthday she pretty much rules over the whole thing. Even with the city officials who come to make their attendance. The only ones who get away with not fully adhering to it are my mother and by extension me.
The Leo-Aqua axis is weird.

There were a couple of other contributing factors but I had women express the feeling that to them it always seemed like I'm sort of a ghost, non-commited and always on my way out or something similiar.
Astrologically speaking I'd say it might be the Sag Mars/moon and the moon conjunct Uranus. Maybe the Venus Saturn conjunction too.

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https://econweb.ucsd.edu/~jandreon/Econ264/papers/Thaler% 20Sunstein% 20AER% 202003.pdf
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https://monoskop.org/images/2/27/Horkheimer_Max_Adorno_Theodor_W_Dialectic_of_Enlightenment_Philosophical_Fragments.pdf

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Potential explanations:

"Concept creep is the process by which harm-related topics experience semantic expansion to include topics which would not have originally been envisaged to be included under that label. It was first identified by Nick Haslam in 2016, who identified its effects on the concepts of abuse, bullying, trauma, mental disorder, addiction, and prejudice. Others have identified its effects on terms like gaslight and emotional labour. The phenomenon can be related to the concept of hyperbole."

Haslams paper:
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fsoc.2021.806147/full

Another factor to it might be the rising notion that being seen as a victim of something can benefit your social status and can be used to leverage social power. In that sense the point would be less about identifying someone as a narcissist and more about being the victim of a narcissist.

"Abstract
Campus activists and others might refer to slights of one’s ethnicity or other cultural characteristics as “microaggressions,” and they might use various forums to publicize them. Here we examine this phenomenon by drawing from Black’s theories of conflict and from cross-cultural studies of conflict and morality. We argue that this behavior resembles other conflict tactics in which the aggrieved actively seek the support of third parties as well as those that focus on oppression. We identify the social conditions associated with each feature, and we discuss how the rise of these conditions has led to large-scale moral change such as the emergence of a victimhood culture that is distinct from the honor cultures and dignity cultures of the past."
Paper:
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/272408166_Microaggression_and_Moral_Cultures

Another factor could simply be that the knowledge is more accessible than it used to be and now people are just using a term that seems to vaguely fit what they experienced because it is easier than trying correctly articulate what and how they experienced. It is used as a shortcut so to speak.