Posted by SeaLion
That's because Pisces men are trash.

Want to explain? I personally like pisces but due to the issue I stated above I’ve never gone past the first stages.

Posted by Aquarelle
Just because Pisces men approach you, doesn't mean you have to respond. Especially if something isn't clicking. Why change yourself to please them? If they don't meet your expectations, it's probably not a good match.

I had a huh moment, I’ll keep this in mind. Thank you

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Posted by Gemalit
Ngl these aren’t good signs.
Hate to admit it but when us geminis like LIKEEEE someone we’re psycho. If we think “yeah they’re funny, cute....” we may test the waters but it never ends well. If we’re not clingy on the get go....we ain’t for you. We feel emotions very intensely when we like someone, if it’s “meh” we won’t pursue it.

My ex “forced” me into a relationship I wasn’t ready for. I kissed him, heck I even slept with him but I didn’t like him yknow. I needed time to ...see. But he was having none of it. Within days of me saying “I need to think” we were in a relationship. Wanna know how it ended? Him, crying because he didn’t get why I was so cold to him. I’m not proud of it, but you do not wanna force a gem into anything. That’s when you get our bad side. Trust me, if we like someone we will chase them to the ends of the earth (and beyond). If a gem is running give up.

About that last line. You mean Gemini ladies, right?

This Gemini don't go around chasing after nobody so I can't for the love of God never understand why everybody keep saying that. When I flirt with Scorpios in my everyday real life I don't have no interest and desire to be their man whatsoever.

Ya just gotta speak for yourself when it comes to chasing or pursuing love interests.

I don't know how this post manage to get 2 likes when the two people who liked your post need to think hard what their liking.

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Ah yes, on a website where we put people into one category we must make it clear that we’re speaking for our selves.
She asked, I gave her my own personal experience as a Gemini, AND from other geminis I know. I’ve also watched a lot of astrology videos etc etc. I’m generalising people here, I know it, you know it and so does she, and so do the two people who liked my post.

Ngl these aren’t good signs.
Hate to admit it but when us geminis like LIKEEEE someone we’re psycho. If we think “yeah they’re funny, cute....” we may test the waters but it never ends well. If we’re not clingy on the get go....we ain’t for you. We feel emotions very intensely when we like someone, if it’s “meh” we won’t pursue it.

My ex “forced” me into a relationship I wasn’t ready for. I kissed him, heck I even slept with him but I didn’t like him yknow. I needed time to ...see. But he was having none of it. Within days of me saying “I need to think” we were in a relationship. Wanna know how it ended? Him, crying because he didn’t get why I was so cold to him. I’m not proud of it, but you do not wanna force a gem into anything. That’s when you get our bad side.

Trust me, if we like someone we will chase them to the ends of the earth (and beyond). If a gem is running give up.

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Posted by LittleStar_II
Sagittarius Moon is the best

I feel like this is a little hard. You are looking at Saturn and Sun in a relationship. Leo Moon may feel censored and Capricorn may be annoyed or overwhelmed by Leo Moon.

But I would never say one aspect is make or break. It’s all just things to look out for.

Like Capricorn Moon should learn that Leo Moon needs affection and Leo Moon should recognize that Capricorn Moon needs consistency.

I never realised how much attention I needed until now. I always thought I was sooo independent but I really wasn’t. If I didn’t get attention from one person I’d get it from someone else (my friend pointed this out to me).
This Capricorn moon hasn’t really seemed all that interested the last couple of days, and for the first few I was almost going insane as we’d clicked so well. But now I’m in the “hmph!” Phase. I may chase but not people who don’t want it so I’m backing off, begrudgingly.

Tell me more about Sagittarius moons?

It’s not a bad thing to want attention or affection. You should feel special to your partner.

Sagittarius Moon can be a little too blunt and teasing at times (not out of trying to hurt anyone, just don’t have a filter or think so much before they speak at times) but they are also very affectionate and playful and will be up for anything. They are less uptight than Aries Moon and more go with the flow and positive. Sagittarius can find Leo Moon entertaining and funny and can hold space for their ego but also won’t hold back on their opinions either so it can be constructive for both people. Leo Moon will be protective and be a place for Sag Moon to come back to when they need rest from all they have going on.

Once of my exes has Leo Moon and another dude I dated has it. Both were super great. I love their vibes and still have really good feelings toward both.

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The sag sun actually sounds perfect for me. All I want is a playmate, someone who doesn’t take the world to serious, but who can also be as sturdy as a rock. Every Sagittarius I’ve come across I’ve liked.

Posted by Metatron
moon in Leo here, girl has Cap Moon....works very well....She's cool as hell, not clingy or over-emotional, puts up with my butter...can't really ask for more than that...I think, bc of how generally content she is, and how little she needs in the way of emotional maintenance or attention, it can make you feel a little needy yourself, as you mention...and I had the same experience - that was entirely new for me. I like it though...

The cap moon sounds very similar, but yes it does make me feel needy and I don’t like it. I’ve backed off completely now so I guess that chapters ended. But I’m glad yours is going so well, it sounds super cute!
(Are you a Taurus? They’re a Taurus sun as well).

Posted by LittleStar_II
Sagittarius Moon is the best

I feel like this is a little hard. You are looking at Saturn and Sun in a relationship. Leo Moon may feel censored and Capricorn may be annoyed or overwhelmed by Leo Moon.

But I would never say one aspect is make or break. It’s all just things to look out for.

Like Capricorn Moon should learn that Leo Moon needs affection and Leo Moon should recognize that Capricorn Moon needs consistency.

I never realised how much attention I needed until now. I always thought I was sooo independent but I really wasn’t. If I didn’t get attention from one person I’d get it from someone else (my friend pointed this out to me).
This Capricorn moon hasn’t really seemed all that interested the last couple of days, and for the first few I was almost going insane as we’d clicked so well. But now I’m in the “hmph!” Phase. I may chase but not people who don’t want it so I’m backing off, begrudgingly.

Tell me more about Sagittarius moons?

I’m not good with my moon signs, so I was wondering if this is compatible? And if not, what’s the best “match” for a Leo moon?

I don’t know how to add images 😭 I got Danny though. I can relate, I always want to do good, but when things go bad, they go really bad.

Posted by bumboklatt
Intensely annoying

Hell yeah!

Posted by LadyNeptune

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Everyone is a bit clingy when its their first love.
Don't overthink this gem, its not a big deal or a horrible character flaw or anything like that.
Even the clingiest of the clingy aren't off putting if its the right person who wants to be koala bear-d

This isn’t my first love, I’m just noticing some similar traits I had when I first started to like my first “love” on my new crush, so I was getting a little worried. As four years later being called “clingy” and “intense” still haunts me. I want to learn from these mistakes and be better. But if I’m being honest I never understood it. I gave what I received, he was a Capricorn to be honest so I don’t know if that had anything to do with it.

But thank you

What’s your Venus/mars?

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Venus Taurus and Gemini Mars

Posted by LadyNeptune
Everyone is a bit clingy when its their first love.
Don't overthink this gem, its not a big deal or a horrible character flaw or anything like that.
Even the clingiest of the clingy aren't off putting if its the right person who wants to be koala bear-d

This isn’t my first love, I’m just noticing some similar traits I had when I first started to like my first “love” on my new crush, so I was getting a little worried. As four years later being called “clingy” and “intense” still haunts me. I want to learn from these mistakes and be better. But if I’m being honest I never understood it. I gave what I received, he was a Capricorn to be honest so I don’t know if that had anything to do with it.

But thank you

Posted by hydorah
geminis are intense chasers because they know they're so fickle they'll get distracted later so they give everything fast.
It's a bit the same with pisces sometimes, they get called clingy and they can become outrageous with emotions because pisces know emotions are in reality foreign to them and they can rationalize so coldly it scares themselves. So they're trying to prove sthg to themselves.

Geminis are literally the oppposite of intense, but opposites can rejoin at the extremes, gems canbe intense, but only in-between. Like "reading between the lines" intense, on the long term

You described me perfectly and that’s kind of scary, I chase because I don’t know if I’ll wake up tomorrow and not care. I want to take the leap while I do so that I can work around the tomorrow me...if that makes sense?

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Posted by Undine
That's not intensity.

No, Gems are not intense.

I love pisces 😭.I feel like you guys get us the most, it’s just sad that we’re not compatible 😫. I don’t think it’s intense either, but when people tell me to give it a week I have an inner melt down 🤭. And I talk about the person of my affections a lot. So I worry I’m going to get rejected again because I’m “clingy “

Pisces and Gemini are compatible. Really all mutable signs are compatible with each other.

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I tried with a pisces and he was super sweet but I felt like he made a lot of assumptions? I don’t know really. He went from Messaging all the time to no messages and then yeah...fizzled our.

Posted by LittleStar_II
I get pretty strong reactions out of people. That’s for sure.

Emotionally I feel things quite deeply and sharply but I don’t know how to understand them or what to do with them so I typically intellectualize them away for the sake of not torturing myself further.

This is me 😭.

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Posted by Marai
The Gems I dated/friends are quite clingy... They have a hard time giving me my space and are up my ass all the time if I don't talk to them for a few days.. it's talk talk talk aaaaaaaahhh 😬
Damn I love you guys, but can you pause and breath for a second haha

Can I ask what your sign is aha? And that’s very true, although I’m not clingy with friends, in fact I sometimes forget to message them. But I do talk to much, and not always with people...more at them.

Ah yes not with but at people. True, that part can be a bit intense for some people.

I'm a Cancer with Aqua Moon.

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I also trail of a lot. Something I need to learn to be better at. My one good quality is that I’m a good listener to, so I listen really well, but when it’s my turn to speak I can get to nervous and just ramble on, and on, and on.

Ah, happy birthday?

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Posted by Undine
That's not intensity.

No, Gems are not intense.

I love pisces 😭.I feel like you guys get us the most, it’s just sad that we’re not compatible 😫. I don’t think it’s intense either, but when people tell me to give it a week I have an inner melt down 🤭. And I talk about the person of my affections a lot. So I worry I’m going to get rejected again because I’m “clingy “

Being intense it's about being passionate, obsessed, intrusive, combative and defensive about a subject at a time. A Gem friend was all that to me, but only because I was arguing with him till the cows came home. The subject was religion. On the other hand, my Gem ex was well informed, about any subject one could think about, but never intense.

I think what you describe is an extrovert falling in love. The obsession of the early stages, when you are unsure about how things will develop. Combined with the need to talk incessantly. It will calm down once you get to know each other and feel more secure with each other.

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Ahhhh, okay yeah I understand now. So maybe it comes across as intense because I just verbalise it to everyone?
I do agree though with your last statement, I feel like that’s more me, I’m just insecure right now, I don’t know where I stand with things. I think I just need to calm down and treat it like normal rather than over thinking it. Maybe that’s where I went wrong with the first guy, I wasn’t good at holding back what I was feeling. So I’d tell him very honestly.

Posted by Marai
The Gems I dated/friends are quite clingy... They have a hard time giving me my space and are up my ass all the time if I don't talk to them for a few days.. it's talk talk talk aaaaaaaahhh 😬
Damn I love you guys, but can you pause and breath for a second haha

Can I ask what your sign is aha? And that’s very true, although I’m not clingy with friends, in fact I sometimes forget to message them. But I do talk to much, and not always with people...more at them.

Posted by Undine
That's not intensity.

No, Gems are not intense.

I love pisces 😭.I feel like you guys get us the most, it’s just sad that we’re not compatible 😫. I don’t think it’s intense either, but when people tell me to give it a week I have an inner melt down 🤭. And I talk about the person of my affections a lot. So I worry I’m going to get rejected again because I’m “clingy “