Hello everyone, You are all aware that things have been going well with my aqua, well it’s still going great. I just like to document a little so I hope you don’t mind.

A few days ago he officially asked me to be his girlfriend and of course I said yes, I really like this guy. But a little before that I had a strange moment that I always put down to me being a Gemini. I went really cold, but I kept reminding myself of how much he made me laugh and how I’d felt previously you know? I put in the conscious effort to get past it because I NEW I liked this guy, but I’d gone completely numb and I was so scared that it would never come back. Well it did come back, I now smile again every time he messages me (which is a lot) and I’m super nervous and excited for when we next meet up which when I was numb I kept trying to avoid. I’m not sure why I’m like this, is it because I’m a Gemini? Does that make me crazy to believe that? Or is it because of past trauma? Either way it’s super annoying, and I’ll keep working on it. If it is because I’m a Gemini then just remember, if a Gemini really likes you we’ll not flake or go silent on you. We will try. I’m gonna put my all into this relationship because he’s super sweet and funny, I adore almost everything. He thinks my little mood swings are cute and my constant want of attention (again he’s the exact same). I think we share the same love language and that feels epic.


A little confession though? I sometimes crave when I could just watch a movie without it being interrupted, not because I feel like he’s interrupting but because I know the minute he messages me I’ll drop everything to respond. I exhaust myself lol. Worth it though? I hope one day I look back on these and I can maybe show him and we laugh.

Hello everyone, You are all aware that things have been going well with my aqua, well it’s still going great. I just like to document a little so I hope you don’t mind.

A few days ago he officially asked me to be his girlfriend and of course I said yes, I really like this guy. But a little before that I had a strange moment that I always put down to me being a Gemini. I went really cold, but I kept reminding myself of how much he made me laugh and how I’d felt previously you know? I put in the conscious effort to get past it because I NEW I liked this guy, but I’d gone completely numb and I was so scared that it would never come back. Well it did come back, I now smile again every time he messages me (which is a lot) and I’m super nervous and excited for when we next meet up which when I was numb I kept trying to avoid. I’m not sure why I’m like this, is it because I’m a Gemini? Does that make me crazy to believe that? Or is it because of past trauma? Either way it’s super annoying, and I’ll keep working on it. If it is because I’m a Gemini then just remember, if a Gemini really likes you we’ll not flake or go silent on you. We will try. I’m gonna put my all into this relationship because he’s super sweet and funny, I adore almost everything. He thinks my little mood swings are cute and my constant want of attention (again he’s the exact same). I think we share the same love language and that feels epic.


A little confession though? I sometimes crave when I could just watch a movie without it being interrupted, not because I feel like he’s interrupting but because I know the minute he messages me I’ll drop everything to respond. I exhaust myself lol. Worth it though? I hope one day I look back on these and I can maybe show him and we laugh.

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Your so lucky. I wish you all the best. My aqua started like this, weeks and weeks of it but friend zoned me this morning. Please be careful

i think we're going okay? he asked me to be his girlfriend not long ago and is still texting me every day and every chance he gets. Hes making plans to to make way for our future so I'm hopeful.

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Yes I see this paring being often very successful

Every time I’ve met an Aqua it’s not been like this so I thought maybe my other placements made me an exception but apparently not. He’s a little cutie

Hello everyone, yall may remember me mentioning about the Aqua I was talking to. About whether or not I was reading the signals right.


Well update? Turns out its very much mutual, he likes me back and honestly I’ve never been like this before in my life. I’ve never met a guy like this before. I’m a little dumbstruck. He’s so honest about what he’s feeling and he’s not turned off by my constant want of attention because he’s the exact same and the best part? We’re both honest about it, no mind games whatsoever just straight up about what we’re thinking and feeling which is so …nice? So refreshing.
Is this typical for a Gemini and aqua? The communication is amazing between us.

so cute but aquas seem to be the cute type when they like someone

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It’s all about the mental connection to

You mean like fucking once brains out? 🙄

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Honestly I get the same amount of satisfaction from a good mental connection that I do from sex

It’s all about the mental connection to

Honestly it’s not that important to me? But I’ll usually jump straight into it, I’m not sure why. I go years without it, meet someone that I find attractive but I’ve also formed a friendship with and then bam we have sex. I’m usually drunk when it happens to, otherwise I really don’t care.

If the guy got me into his bedroom however we’d probs have sex and more sex lol but I 100% know that sex isn’t important to me. The last time I did it was before covid started soooo

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Honestly I’d not care to much? The size of the penis isn’t the be all end all yknow? However not all woman share that sentiment but I feel like for your sake you should tell her before. I know some woman who are really mean and I’d hate for you to go through that. Best to tell her whilst you’re not naked and so vulnerable yknow.

Yes they’re the ones with the big flapping vaginas🥴. Maybe if men shamed them more, they’d think twice before being so cruel

Might wanna reign that in. It’s not a good look.

Sorry but was just sick of men being judged and slagged off for the size of their penises....was just turning the tables which doesn’t seem to happen often?

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It happens to woman a lot actually, It’s just shitty people that do it yknow. Don’t be like them and rise to it, be better.

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Honestly I’d not care to much? The size of the penis isn’t the be all end all yknow? However not all woman share that sentiment but I feel like for your sake you should tell her before. I know some woman who are really mean and I’d hate for you to go through that. Best to tell her whilst you’re not naked and so vulnerable yknow.

Yes they’re the ones with the big flapping vaginas🥴. Maybe if men shamed them more, they’d think twice before being so cruel

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Might wanna reign that in. It’s not a good look.

Honestly I’d not care to much? The size of the penis isn’t the be all end all yknow? However not all woman share that sentiment but I feel like for your sake you should tell her before. I know some woman who are really mean and I’d hate for you to go through that. Best to tell her whilst you’re not naked and so vulnerable yknow.

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Just ask him out. I once asked a Gem girl out (cap moon) and she was so weird. She left halfway through the date although it wasn't a date more like a friendly date. Then she kept in touch when all I wanted was to meet. Then one day out of nowhere she asked me out but I had a gf by that time. So idk. I'd say best is to be direct to avoid confusion, even if he isn't direct, you can be.

I don’t want to ruin the friendship, I’m blunt with my actions somewhat, I point out the things I like about him, I flirt with him and I half jokingly mention meeting up (which he responds in a similar manner).
I’m just worried that for him it is just friendship, you Aqua are a lil….hard to read. He seems to enjoy my company somewhat so I know that’s a good sign.


Also she didn’t deserve you that’s so mean

I don't hold grudges. Idk if it's an Aqua thing but being friendly is good for us in many ways. I don't think you'll ruin the friendship, but I know Geminis and air signs like to keep friends and people close cause we are communicative. But what if some other girl comes along, how will that affect your friendship?

funny you should say that, there lies my issue with aquas, I always seem to think theres more then bam outa no where you start dating someone but still try to talk to me and out of respect for the girl friend i take myself out of the equation.

There is another girl tbh, he spends alot of time with me and her. She talks to me but i know she sizes me up alot which makes me suspect she likes him. Hes actually told me clearly though hes not interested in her which makes me feel like he may like me because why else tell me? i never asked.
I think for now I'm going to try and arrange a meetup, see if the vibes are still there and go from there?

Yeah it's the only way of knowing with us. Air signs need motivation sometimes.

I honestly don’t get him, I get mixed signals 😩

Could be he's playing with you. He probably wants control. Depends if you're up for those type of games tho.

Or he isn't interested. Either way he knows what he's doing.

I don’t think he’s playing with me, he seems sweet but I’m starting to lean more towards he’s interested just not alot yknow? Like a curious thing, I practically begged to know him more only to get nothing in return so I’m gonna just give him the same energy from now on. He’s just a guy on the internet at the end of the day, he seemed cool. I liked but I’m not a fool lol.

Are you asking specific questions or more general like tell me about yourself?

I say be patient and let it evolve naturally.

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I guess they weren’t direct direct. I’m to shy? Maybe

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Just ask him out. I once asked a Gem girl out (cap moon) and she was so weird. She left halfway through the date although it wasn't a date more like a friendly date. Then she kept in touch when all I wanted was to meet. Then one day out of nowhere she asked me out but I had a gf by that time. So idk. I'd say best is to be direct to avoid confusion, even if he isn't direct, you can be.

I don’t want to ruin the friendship, I’m blunt with my actions somewhat, I point out the things I like about him, I flirt with him and I half jokingly mention meeting up (which he responds in a similar manner).
I’m just worried that for him it is just friendship, you Aqua are a lil….hard to read. He seems to enjoy my company somewhat so I know that’s a good sign.


Also she didn’t deserve you that’s so mean

I don't hold grudges. Idk if it's an Aqua thing but being friendly is good for us in many ways. I don't think you'll ruin the friendship, but I know Geminis and air signs like to keep friends and people close cause we are communicative. But what if some other girl comes along, how will that affect your friendship?

funny you should say that, there lies my issue with aquas, I always seem to think theres more then bam outa no where you start dating someone but still try to talk to me and out of respect for the girl friend i take myself out of the equation.

There is another girl tbh, he spends alot of time with me and her. She talks to me but i know she sizes me up alot which makes me suspect she likes him. Hes actually told me clearly though hes not interested in her which makes me feel like he may like me because why else tell me? i never asked.
I think for now I'm going to try and arrange a meetup, see if the vibes are still there and go from there?

Yeah it's the only way of knowing with us. Air signs need motivation sometimes.

I honestly don’t get him, I get mixed signals 😩

Could be he's playing with you. He probably wants control. Depends if you're up for those type of games tho.

Or he isn't interested. Either way he knows what he's doing.

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I don’t think he’s playing with me, he seems sweet but I’m starting to lean more towards he’s interested just not alot yknow? Like a curious thing, I practically begged to know him more only to get nothing in return so I’m gonna just give him the same energy from now on. He’s just a guy on the internet at the end of the day, he seemed cool. I liked but I’m not a fool lol.

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Just ask him out. I once asked a Gem girl out (cap moon) and she was so weird. She left halfway through the date although it wasn't a date more like a friendly date. Then she kept in touch when all I wanted was to meet. Then one day out of nowhere she asked me out but I had a gf by that time. So idk. I'd say best is to be direct to avoid confusion, even if he isn't direct, you can be.

I don’t want to ruin the friendship, I’m blunt with my actions somewhat, I point out the things I like about him, I flirt with him and I half jokingly mention meeting up (which he responds in a similar manner).
I’m just worried that for him it is just friendship, you Aqua are a lil….hard to read. He seems to enjoy my company somewhat so I know that’s a good sign.


Also she didn’t deserve you that’s so mean

I don't hold grudges. Idk if it's an Aqua thing but being friendly is good for us in many ways. I don't think you'll ruin the friendship, but I know Geminis and air signs like to keep friends and people close cause we are communicative. But what if some other girl comes along, how will that affect your friendship?

funny you should say that, there lies my issue with aquas, I always seem to think theres more then bam outa no where you start dating someone but still try to talk to me and out of respect for the girl friend i take myself out of the equation.

There is another girl tbh, he spends alot of time with me and her. She talks to me but i know she sizes me up alot which makes me suspect she likes him. Hes actually told me clearly though hes not interested in her which makes me feel like he may like me because why else tell me? i never asked.
I think for now I'm going to try and arrange a meetup, see if the vibes are still there and go from there?

Yeah it's the only way of knowing with us. Air signs need motivation sometimes.

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I honestly don’t get him, I get mixed signals 😩

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I think it’s pretty common for aqua men to prefer friendship first before getting serious. I’m dating one and he’s pretty much like that when we are just texting. In the beginning he wasn’t really open about his thoughts/feelings which made things confusing right? Sounds familiar I bet lol. However if I asked a relationship question he would answer honestly. It’s now been 4 months and I see progress with him opening up and communicating in a way that makes me feel a little more secure. So I think it just takes time with some aquas.

Although I gotta say… in person he’s a different guy. He’s overly affectionate and clingy. Thinking that’s because he’s a Scorpio moon tho… like me

It sounds very similar lol, although he is kind of open, he talks about when he’s having a tough day and stuff but nothing that reveals anything about him if that makes sense? I think I’ll try the relationship questions, that’s not to obvious right? 😂
What gave HIM away? What showed you he as interested?

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If he’s not willing to meet up in person with you ‘as a friend’ he most certainly isn’t trying to get romantically involved.
Don’t be aggressive and cringe with pick up lines.
Invite him to meet up with you in person for a coffee or activity during the day, aka friend vibes. See how that goes first.

I’m betting once you meet in person that crush you’ve been building up in your head will peter out. Reality has that effect.

That’s true, I’m super awkward in person and he’s also anti social so that should be interesting? Either we’ll chat for days or we’ll never speak again lol. I guess with us always talking to each other it feels more because I don’t do this with just friends.

Well therein lies the dangerous fantasy of only having an online relationship. You can portray yourself as somewhat other than who you are. For you that means outgoing and social when in real life you tend to be a bit awkward. Who knows what version of himself he is showing you.

You see what he shows you and your brain fills in the rest. Thats why I call it a fantasy until you meet irl.

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Im outgoing once i get past that but yeah you're right, I'm trying to drop strong hints lol. wish me luck

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Just ask him out. I once asked a Gem girl out (cap moon) and she was so weird. She left halfway through the date although it wasn't a date more like a friendly date. Then she kept in touch when all I wanted was to meet. Then one day out of nowhere she asked me out but I had a gf by that time. So idk. I'd say best is to be direct to avoid confusion, even if he isn't direct, you can be.

I don’t want to ruin the friendship, I’m blunt with my actions somewhat, I point out the things I like about him, I flirt with him and I half jokingly mention meeting up (which he responds in a similar manner).
I’m just worried that for him it is just friendship, you Aqua are a lil….hard to read. He seems to enjoy my company somewhat so I know that’s a good sign.


Also she didn’t deserve you that’s so mean

I don't hold grudges. Idk if it's an Aqua thing but being friendly is good for us in many ways. I don't think you'll ruin the friendship, but I know Geminis and air signs like to keep friends and people close cause we are communicative. But what if some other girl comes along, how will that affect your friendship?

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funny you should say that, there lies my issue with aquas, I always seem to think theres more then bam outa no where you start dating someone but still try to talk to me and out of respect for the girl friend i take myself out of the equation.

There is another girl tbh, he spends alot of time with me and her. She talks to me but i know she sizes me up alot which makes me suspect she likes him. Hes actually told me clearly though hes not interested in her which makes me feel like he may like me because why else tell me? i never asked.
I think for now I'm going to try and arrange a meetup, see if the vibes are still there and go from there?

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Just ask him out. I once asked a Gem girl out (cap moon) and she was so weird. She left halfway through the date although it wasn't a date more like a friendly date. Then she kept in touch when all I wanted was to meet. Then one day out of nowhere she asked me out but I had a gf by that time. So idk. I'd say best is to be direct to avoid confusion, even if he isn't direct, you can be.

I don’t want to ruin the friendship, I’m blunt with my actions somewhat, I point out the things I like about him, I flirt with him and I half jokingly mention meeting up (which he responds in a similar manner).
I’m just worried that for him it is just friendship, you Aqua are a lil….hard to read. He seems to enjoy my company somewhat so I know that’s a good sign.


Also she didn’t deserve you that’s so mean