Formerly QuietStorm, ScorpioTruth, PhoenixStorm

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by ImperfectStorm
My Lilith is in libra, conjunct my Pluto 😈 double the trouble. Double the fun lol

I have libra stellium including my rising sign so yes I get along with libras but have never dated one

I can give you a crash course if you like lol 🤭

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👀👀👀 lol

I should also add that I wasn’t always this way.. I have natal Neptune square my 12th house Venus and I’ve been so desperate for “love” at some point that I could only see the good/potential in people and have had a habit of being way more patient with people than I should be. Typically at the cost of my own self respect and esteem.

I remember I used to pray for my ex even after he cheated on me.. that dumb, 12th house Venus sacrificial type of love 🥴😒 lol pluto has been trine my natal Venus for the last year which might be why my views about love are being transformed.

I do believe people can change but it’s one hell of a gamble to risk giving a second or third chance.

There will always be people who have the potential to betray you, and to give anyone a chance can be considered risky. But it’s a whole other ballgame when that person not only has the *potential*, but also the track record to show that they’re not only capable but also willing to betray you.

So no… I will never look at them the same.. the relationship is tarnished at that point. I’m willing to take risks in love but I have my limits.

Posted by Imyourbae

Posted by ImperfectStorm
If I burn my hand on the stove I’m never going to forget it... it would be silly to forget what happens when I put my hand on the stove. Lol that is the whole point of pain. To signal your brain to stop doing dumb shit that inflicts pain.

I forgive but I will never forget. Forgiveness does not mean you have to forget. But I do agree with the part about letting go and not harboring hatred. But just because someone hasn’t forgotten doesn’t mean that they harbor hatred. Some people can love and forgive from a distance.

You've made some good points but not forgetting what one did can always trigger you again if ever you met them outside. That itself means you are still keeping to something.

If I have forgive and let go of everything, I would see the person as a new human being if I bump into them. That make it easier for me to speak to them as how I would to someone else.

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My sons dad inflicted a lot of pain and I have no choice but to face him regularly as he is a permanent figure in my life and part of my family. For the most part, I speak highly of him as he is a good father, a good person and a good friend. But I can say all of that while still acknowledging our history. You can’t ignore or erase history and pretend things haven’t happened. I think that’s like toxic positivity and self deception. But that’s just my opinion. I don’t hold anything against him as I trust that everything happens as it should. To this day we are good friends and I love him unconditionally but I also love myself enough to acknowledge our history as to not repeat it.

If I burn my hand on the stove I’m never going to forget it... it would be silly to forget what happens when I put my hand on the stove. Lol that is the whole point of pain. To signal your brain to stop doing dumb shit that inflicts pain.

I forgive but I will never forget. Forgiveness does not mean you have to forget. But I do agree with the part about letting go and not harboring hatred. But just because someone hasn’t forgotten doesn’t mean that they harbor hatred. Some people can love and forgive from a distance.

Posted by ScorpioDreams

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Aquarius men are fun. Obviously I’m not a good match with them being as Scorpio as I am. They need their freedom and not an all consuming partner. Had a 2 year fwb with one back in my twenties. It was one hell of a ride that’s for sure! Enjoyed the sexual experimentation with him, movie nights, adventures and the late night paranormal talks. He was probably one of the most fun partners I’ve ever had….you just never knew what you were gonna get with him. He had a very sweet and tender side to him as well and the most piercing blue eyes! Ahh the memories. Right before we split he found his now wife and mother of his son….an Aries female and they seem to be the perfect couple! 🙂. Congrats to you and your Aqua! May you have many beautiful years together! 💜

I was hanging out with an Aqua tonight that I was friends with back in my 20s (we also had a short stint as FWB) and it’s funny that you mentioned paranormal talks because this Aqua is in the Air Force so I was picking his brain about it he believes that UFOs are real 🤣🤣🤣

Omg that’s hilarious! Yeah, this Aqua was big into the paranormal stuff. He told me he had this spirit/ghost that used to live in his closet as a kid. Said it followed him around to every place he moved to as an adult which included his current apartment he was living in at the time. One night when we were fucking at his place I asked him “so is your ghost here now?” He’s like “yup, over there in the closet.” That definitely made things interesting. 🤣

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Posted by ScorpioDreams
Aquarius men are fun. Obviously I’m not a good match with them being as Scorpio as I am. They need their freedom and not an all consuming partner. Had a 2 year fwb with one back in my twenties. It was one hell of a ride that’s for sure! Enjoyed the sexual experimentation with him, movie nights, adventures and the late night paranormal talks. He was probably one of the most fun partners I’ve ever had….you just never knew what you were gonna get with him. He had a very sweet and tender side to him as well and the most piercing blue eyes! Ahh the memories. Right before we split he found his now wife and mother of his son….an Aries female and they seem to be the perfect couple! 🙂. Congrats to you and your Aqua! May you have many beautiful years together! 💜

I was hanging out with an Aqua tonight that I was friends with back in my 20s (we also had a short stint as FWB) and it’s funny that you mentioned paranormal talks because this Aqua is in the Air Force so I was picking his brain about it he believes that UFOs are real 🤣🤣🤣

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@Teena is still my fave Scorpio but she’s been gone for years now
@Mareinfame
and @ImperfectStorm

You are one of my favs too Cersei ❤️ Always such a sweetheart and a gentle soul 🤗

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Posted by borednbeautiful

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Posted by ImperfectStorm
For me there is not a specific time limit… It’s quality of time over quantity of time. I usually know fairly early if the sexual tension is there. But even if the sexual tension is there, it’s not necessarily enough for me to proceed. There are too many variables…

For instance, I fucked the Pisces within hours of picking him up from the airport 😜🤣😆 but we had shared many conversations during the year before we actually met in person, so there was a healthy build up of time and tension before we actually met in person. But I instinctively felt the sexual tension and chemistry without even meeting him in person. By that point, I had fantasized about him for so long there was no way in hell I was about to wait another second 😂🤣😂 but there was also an emotional connection that had formed before we met. I think all of dxp had heard about it for the months prior to me meeting him.

In other cases, I might feel the sexual tension but not act on it if the emotional connection isn’t there for me. It’s never a matter of me withholding from a place of insecurity or doubt. It’s more about “do I really want to waste my time when I know a physical connection isn’t enough for me?”

Bonus Question: have you ever courted and found out the man\woman was bad at sex, did you end it?

It sounds terrible, but yes 🫢 i ended it. It’s not that the sex was terrible (he was another Scorpio) but it was lacking something.

How do you build emotional and sexual chemistry online only? I mean I know you eventually meet and confirm. But how do you know what’s real or not? Is it something you “feel” from chat #1?

Asking for a friend from dxp

It’s a water sign thing lol I don’t feel it from the first chat. Although I did feel it pretty early with the Pisces I felt this weird magnetic attraction to him. And he’s not even my typical type.. he is shorter than my usual type and he’s not muscular or fit like my usual type. But he’s still delicious AF 😋😂

Lol. I should try! Is it similar to long distance sex chat?

No we talked as friends for a few months before the flirtation started. He told me about how he had a heart attack and had to have surgery. He gained a lot of weight during Covid which put his health in jeopardy.. so we started talking about weird shit like his diet and life style changes.. just random things. There was ONE flirtatious comment he made that made my ears perk up. He said something about how he probably knows my body better than I do. I laughed it off like “that’s impossible” but then it also piqued my curiosity 🤔🫢 because a man that takes the time to learn a woman’s body is a dangerous man 😅😅😅 we were both very passive in the beginning (we both have libra rising poker face) so we talked strictly platonic for months until one morning he text me and said “I apologize for the dream that I had about you last night”. 😈😂 I asked him for details and he was VERY descriptive with his words. After that point, he had me hook line and sinker. 🤣🤣

I think indirectly you've tapped into something everyone should do; sadly it usually falls on the man to lead. What I've said is if someone reads the texts does it look like man-woman stuff or two friends or work colleagues? It shouldn't be dry, although it can be if it is simply organising a fuck. There should be banter and like this man did a bit of sexualisation without it being too obvious, otherwise friendzone.

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Yeah prior to that I was completely oblivious that he was even interested in me so I wouldn’t have said anything if he hadn’t. My sag mars can be assertive at times, sometimes a little too assertive especially when pushing my agenda (commitment/relationship) which works against me sometimes.

So I just have to find the balance between being an assertive woman without wearing the pants.. so to speak. Toward the end of the situation with the Pisces I took the more assertive role, he got lazy and became passive and I think that’s where I went wrong and the dynamic switched up. I have since withdrawn and we are still on good terms/friendly but I am no longer taking the assertive role. If he wants me, he can come get me. But yeah, I just have to learn to find the balance between my feminine/masculine energies and that’s not been easy for me. Lol