Posted by Antiochus
Just do your own thing for a while while she does for hersel whatever she has to do.
Aqua women during their younger years have a tendeny to act plain crazy at times.

she is 22. Im 28

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Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.

She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.

what do you think I should do here? 

Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.

Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache

Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.

I should give her space?

Not really... just act like it never happened. Send a gift you can afford if it makes you feel better.
But, she the type to maybe have others. So watch her. Don't say nothing but, see how she gets money. Prepare your heart.

You'll get there one day.

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I feel she has another. Because sometimes, if she asks for a little cash, and I delay in giving her, she will say I shouldn't be bothered much that she got it somehow.

Posted by pisceswoman123
Do you think that it could be a possibility that it’s not about the money and that the real issue is that she feels that she is not important to you?

It feels to me that she is just throwing a tantrum because she doesn’t feel like you care enough for her.

yes I feel this way too, because she said maybe I don't think she is important enough for my airtime to finish on her. Maybe I said the wrong thing at that time.

I don't know how to resolve it. I really want to

Posted by VenusAquarius
Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.

I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)

Everybody ain't the same.

He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.

@Praisee,

You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?

yes I wish I could pay. I told her when I'm paid my wages, I'll send her cash. Then I wanted us to continue the discussion on WhatsApp chatting, that was when she got annoyed that she won't ever call me again.

So I don't know if I should keep calling her to apologize, or just leave her to her decision. I love her very much

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Posted by VenusAquarius
Y'all sit right there. Some men love to pay.

I've been with men that be boiling cause you refuse to ask. (I saw it as control.)

Everybody ain't the same.

He wants to pay, wishes he could. If this don't work out. You better believe, when gets hisself right. He's gonna be one of those men I mentioned above.

@Praisee,

You wish you could pay? You wish you had it like that?

It's not about him paying. If he wants to, and can, more power to him.

But to throw a tantrum about not getting money for a new phone, and then ignoring him for it, is ridiculously childish.

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sorry for asking, you think the tantrum for her saying she won't ever call me again is my inability to pay up for her phone?

Or just because I felt we should chat rather than talk on phone at that moment?

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Posted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.

She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.

what do you think I should do here? 

Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.

Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache

Act like it didn't happen? And, see how it goes.

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I should give her space?

Posted by VenusAquarius
Goldiggers go for bigger prizes. They are good at counting pockets. She's not a goldigger, imo, cause you clearly don't have it like that.

She's trying to pimp you... trying to train you. If it works, she keeps going. If it don't, she's gone.

she actually does encourage me a lot to get better.

what do you think I should do here? 

Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.

Her saying she won't call me ever again is giving me heartache

Posted by Gemitati
How stupid are you? It’s a serious question.

pardon a man in love please... what do you think I should do here?

Give her space? Which is already giving me heartache. Or keep calling to apologize.

Posted by Mariposa_
Golddigger.

Why is it your obligation to pay for her things? That would make me suspicious.

she's a student, so I thought maybe since I'm her boyfriend, I may be inclined to help if I have.

I don't know how to manage her decision of saying she won't call me anymore.

I'm in a long distance relationship with my Aquarian girlfriend for one year now. We last saw each other 2weeks ago.

Yesterday at night, she called me and I didn't pick up the phone. I later called back, we talked normally, then she raised the issue of her needing a new phone, I should add up some money for her. I told her I Will, let me get paid by the end of the month, she later asked why is it that every time she asks for significant money, I won't give it to her, like the last she asked me to pay up for part of her school fees, I already told her I didn't have at that point.

So for her to ask me again last night, I didn't have answers for her again, I told her let's chat on WhatsApp. That Was when the problem started.

She said she won't ever call me again, that we should be chatting only. She dropped the call. I called back, she kept dropping the calls till I sent her a text if she could come online.

She came online, I told her I didn't have enough airtime to call, that I didn't want the little I had to finish on her. She got angrier, saying it's because she is not important to me, that is why I didn't want my airtime to finish on her. She stopped chatting again.

Today, I've tried apologizing a lot, she hardly chats again with me, she only picks up my calls after it rings for a the fifth time again, and still insists she won't ever call me again.

How do I manage this situation. I'm afraid of losing her. I really love her.

I'm an Aquarian too.

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I started dating my Libra gf the last 2months.
[...] I then asked her what I was doing with her, she said "she guess we're dating".

You just recently started dating, and she can only guess you're dating?

It doesn't sound like exclusivity has been established if you need to ask her what you're doing with her.

Its because she had the boldness to tell me the reason she ignored my calls that night was that she went for a BLIND DATE. You can imagine the pain I felt Even with my gift in her hand. She told me she went on a blind date. I only wanted to know my position in her life, so I asked her what then I was doing with her, to which she replied "I guess we're dating". It so stung me like bee, but I didn't show it up.

Okay...but did you both agree on being in an exclusive (i.e., monogamous) relationship?

yes, we did, even agreed to get married, she even was telling me she shouldn't ever catch me cheating, but she had the nerve to go on a blind date, while I was busy looking for ways to keep her happy. I felt broken.

What you say is quite sceptical considering her actions and your explanations.

How is it skeptical, please relate it

Any individual with strong conviction towards marrying someone wouldn't treat the one they decide (and desire) to marry with such disrespect and lack of intimacy. Also, they wouldn't undermine the relationship through questionable acts; you would know where the other stands within the relationship, if you both truly want to marry or if she is truly your girlfriend.

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Its true tho. I was hoping she would change, that its just a phase, but its obviously not to be. I've now moved on

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I started dating my Libra gf the last 2months.
[...] I then asked her what I was doing with her, she said "she guess we're dating".

You just recently started dating, and she can only guess you're dating?

It doesn't sound like exclusivity has been established if you need to ask her what you're doing with her.

Its because she had the boldness to tell me the reason she ignored my calls that night was that she went for a BLIND DATE. You can imagine the pain I felt Even with my gift in her hand. She told me she went on a blind date. I only wanted to know my position in her life, so I asked her what then I was doing with her, to which she replied "I guess we're dating". It so stung me like bee, but I didn't show it up.

Okay...but did you both agree on being in an exclusive (i.e., monogamous) relationship?

yes, we did, even agreed to get married, she even was telling me she shouldn't ever catch me cheating, but she had the nerve to go on a blind date, while I was busy looking for ways to keep her happy. I felt broken.

What you say is quite sceptical considering her actions and your explanations.

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How is it skeptical, please relate it

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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Yea it's fake AF. Gon listen to my Spidey senses lol

Then let's report this thread!

Nah nah nah. It ain't fake, its real, am the victim here, I can't make stories up!

So you knew you are a victim and yet you wanted to do some validation on the internet. You knew you have a chance to leave her if she treated you shit (especially your age!), but no you just wanted some sympathy from others. Especially that you have created an account just a few days ago.

Cased closed, OP is just bullshitting.

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Have you loved before with noticeable shortcomings from your date and you still seek for a way to make them realize it and reciprocate the love, and seemed advice before? Have u ever still wanted to cling onto someone hoping they might ever change if given the right advice? That is my case here. Am not looking for sympathy, I was looking for a possible advice on how I might move forward with this, and I've seen how people think about my situation with loving this girl, so I'm being decisive about it. I've gotten the advice I needed.

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I started dating my Libra gf the last 2months.
[...] I then asked her what I was doing with her, she said "she guess we're dating".

You just recently started dating, and she can only guess you're dating?

It doesn't sound like exclusivity has been established if you need to ask her what you're doing with her.

Its because she had the boldness to tell me the reason she ignored my calls that night was that she went for a BLIND DATE. You can imagine the pain I felt Even with my gift in her hand. She told me she went on a blind date. I only wanted to know my position in her life, so I asked her what then I was doing with her, to which she replied "I guess we're dating". It so stung me like bee, but I didn't show it up.

Okay...but did you both agree on being in an exclusive (i.e., monogamous) relationship?

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yes, we did, even agreed to get married, she even was telling me she shouldn't ever catch me cheating, but she had the nerve to go on a blind date, while I was busy looking for ways to keep her happy. I felt broken.

She sent me a text that she was calling it quits after I texted her that "she doesn't just care".
Minutes later, she then texted that I should learn how to treat my lady with soft gloves. For a girl that hasn't ever professed Love for me, or showed any caring character.

I haven't replied her, or called her again, I hope to find the strength to not talk to her again.

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Posted by Praisee
I started dating my Libra gf the last 2months.
[...] I then asked her what I was doing with her, she said "she guess we're dating".

You just recently started dating, and she can only guess you're dating?

It doesn't sound like exclusivity has been established if you need to ask her what you're doing with her.

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Its because she had the boldness to tell me the reason she ignored my calls that night was that she went for a BLIND DATE. You can imagine the pain I felt Even with my gift in her hand. She told me she went on a blind date. I only wanted to know my position in her life, so I asked her what then I was doing with her, to which she replied "I guess we're dating". It so stung me like bee, but I didn't show it up.

I even tried to smoothen things out, I called her, asking her to make me lunch as I want to eat up with her in her place, she bluntly refused, saying she's on menstrual cramps. I called her 3hours back, she even became angry at me that I should not call her line again, that I should have called her earlier to find out if she's eaten, not minding my request for her before. I really loved her, thought I had found my ideal girl after she introduced me to her siblings, but am beginning to agree that she's using me for her selfish gain.

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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Yea it's fake AF. Gon listen to my Spidey senses lol

Then let's report this thread!

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Nah nah nah. It ain't fake, its real, am the victim here, I can't make stories up!

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Posted by stopbeingdelusional
"She hasn't hugged me, nor allowed me to hug her, no touching, she never allows it."

Are you indian or muslim???????

No, none of that

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We're Christians