Posted by alexscaries
This isn't about me. Here's the questions:
1) What are your preferences and why?
2) With regards an emotional or perhaps spiritual connection - does one date or five really make the difference?
3) Most controversial question: have you withheld sex because you had body issues or thought you weren't good at sex, but really wanted to fuck him\her on a first date?
Bonus Question: have you ever courted and found out the man\woman was bad at sex, did you end it?
1) I usually put out the first date; I’ve told myself (and my dates) that I won’t, and usually end up doing it 🤦♀️ Only time I haven’t was with an effeminate man (met him online, kind of noticed he was metrosexual in his pics but didn’t know just how effeminate he was until it was too late 😬 Never made that mistake again 😂😂).
2) Emotionally, I’m more connected to someone when I first start seeing them. But due to my limited attention span and my propensity to get bored, that emotional connection will fizzle unless there’s money feeding it. Spiritually I feel tinges forever, but I think that’s just muscle memory.
3) I broke my wrist a few years ago and had to wear a cast up to my shoulder. That was the only time I was insecure and withheld sex. It didn’t help that my bff jokingly told me to use the cast for stability in doggy style 😂😂🤦♀️ Just super embarrassing for me; I didn’t want to be someone’s bucket list disabled hook-up.
4) I get off more on how hot I am and how my body is making the other person feel, so I wouldn’t really say I care if someone is bad at sex or not because I’m turned on by myself and do my own thing. But I have ended things with men who had/have pencil dicks; my coochie tight but I still like some girth to give it a stretch (not too much girth though either), it’s like a deep tissue massage: to much pressure is painful, but the right amount of pressure is pure ecstasy 🤤