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Posted by GC01
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Posted by PootyButt
Posted by GC01
My aqua n node tells me why is this person whining over some silly drama or whatever when their is starving childeren in Africa!? It almost upsets me.


Depression is not someone whining over silly drama. That's pretty insensitive to say, and I doubt you'd say it if you are someone close to you ever had it.


Their is medication for that.
I just can't take people seriously these days.

Some people just don't apriciate anything.
I was raised partially by my grandma she is one of the strongest woman I know she lost her son and her husband to cancer all within two years and she is still living her life and got through the sadness and still eats sleeps works and laughs and appreciates life and does not take pity on herself.


Thankfully I am surrounded by strong people. I don't associate myself with weak minded people.
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Your grandmother having gone through those
tragic events and still thrive is very inspirational.

If she didn't thrive it would still be inspirational
because really it's about living and learning yes?

It's inspirational to me to see others in their
struggles AND NOT SUCCEEDING TOO
because all of us are doing our best to survive

by what we know in our current awareness


Posted by pooface222
Posted by LiveAndLove
Posted by Ajna
Women: Do you feel men should keep low vibes or Depression hidden to attract and to stay in a relationship with you?

Men: Have you been with a woman that looked pass your low vibes or depression and is still there for you to this day?







No absolutely not. When you're in love, you love a person through good times and bad. Hiding feelings will only hurt the relationship.


Thank you Liveandlove! 😆
TRUE!
Couldn't have put it better myself.
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What about the beginning though of the

relationship? Friendship or Romantic?

Should depression or low vibes be hidden?

@LiveAndLove

@pooface222
Posted by Impulsv
Do you think the low energy people fare best with one of those happy peppy signs like a sag or gem.


I feel like gem and sag influenced can help

raise their mood and emotions.

The challenge though is maybe for
them to go deep and accept where that
low energy person may be swimming if


they cannot come up with them at any
given time and hold no judgement
Posted by AneemA
Posted by Ajna
Women: Do you feel men should keep low vibes or Depression hidden to attract and to stay in a relationship with you?

Men: Have you been with a woman that looked pass your low vibes or depression and is still there for you to this day?



I would sense or feel it, I will grasp his mood so it will be detected. Now whether or not I would do anything about it, I shall remain acting as if I didn't see it but I would like check him by asking him abruptly about anything we watch, songs we listen to, food we have, and gauge him and plan the next step. Next step will be the help i can do based on my assessment. But at the end of the day, if the prev attempts failed, I will ask him and directly inquisitive and be like a shoulder to cry on.

*this is if i can keep my emotions at bay coz if i don't I would end up being more severly depressed than him.

Funny story, been there, and he ended up had to take care of me out of depression instead

Just LMAO
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so men who are in a depressed state are not

at a disadvantage when it comes to a relationship with you? I feel you are

highly sensitive too? Picking up their
emotions and being depressed also etc.

A shoulder to cry on
Posted by Damnata
Just don't lead with that at the beginning.

Also make sure you are not one dimensional. If the only word someone can associate with you is "Depressed" then that doesn't bond well with everyone.


Do you feel as though the stronger ones depression is, the less likely they are to

hold any relationship?
Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Ajna
Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Ajna
Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Impulsv
Do you think the low energy people fare best with one of those happy peppy signs like a sag or gem.


Perhaps not for a woman. But maybe for a man?

As you can see here, the men that go through these depressions want to go at it alone and don't like it when the female empathizes... at least, that is the impression I am getting.

I had a Taurus friend that also went through deep depressions and he didn't like when I got worried for him. It was best if I was not affected and just cheered him up.


I don't EVER want to go at it alone.

Women like YOU who do empathize
who UNDERSTAND are those I look for.
I think it's BEAUTIFUL you and others
here in this thread all are this way.

I just feel like I have to go at it alone
though because maybe
low tides...Low vibes...Depression isn't...

It will ruin things in the end maybe


Depression isn't what, Ajna?

That was so kind of you to say, btw. It really warmed my heart ✨💖✨



Did you feel I was this way?

A guy that doesn't want women to emphasize?

I just felt struggles with depression isn't *something that is an advantage when one

starting a relationship

a relationship with another would be challenged?


Well... yes, actually - I did get that impression from you, too.

When you fear your partner knowing too much, feeling too much for you... you retreat. That is simply the behavior in action, correct?

You might do it out of fear for losing that person, but the person might feel that the rejection (or retreat) from you is a sign that you didn't like her catching on some of your feelings.

So in a way, it sounds like you would like someone who sympathizes with a bit of a distance and isn't as affected by you, rather than someone that can understand you so well, to the point of them sometimes becoming you, because they literally ARE feeling your feelings. It sounds like you want to avoid that from happening.


As far as starting off a relationship by you telling them you have depressions at the beginning... I agree, not a good idea. I think it's best you tell them once you have established that you both care about each other.
If it's at the beginning, you can't really expect them to care about you on a deep level, can you? So, their reaction might be to close the door immediately. But if you tell them once you are aware that the person is caring and worth telling... I think the reaction would be much different.

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No not distance. Acceptance***

I feel my scorpio moon represents my
need to be closer and closer. For some
one to understand me and not throw me

away*** because what they feel is nothing
less of Heaven to me. For A woman to be
able to merge and understand me completely

Is good in my eyes.

This is what I desire.

This is what is sacred to me.



I may retreat in the begining of fear of not
being the status quo of a man and to see

if she goes beyond what society's teachings
and connects to her heart instead.



Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Ajna
Posted by PootyButt
It's a catch-22 because it's hard to attract any people (not just love interests) when you're depressed. But attracting attention from people is one of the things that can help us feel better. :/

In all honesty, I _prefer_ people who have suffered from depression at some point in their lives for my close friends. They're the only ones who really understand me.


Yes.

It's ..

Women who have experienced emotional
Struggles (deep wounds/dramatic event)

is refreshing to me too. It is understood that
life isn't (or doesn't have to just be) sunshine

and smiling faces to them. I can fall or slip
emotiinally in their eyes and not be seen

as a failure or an annoyance.

When I don't know them too well
though I still get nervous to show

my struggles in fear of losing them.



If you get nervous to show... maybe you should wait longer to tell them, until you get the right vibes from them?

Our instincts are sometimes our strongest ally.... and when it is, you should listen to it.

There are people out there that are not equipped to handle things when too dark or heavy. If you can test them before you open up to them, it might help?

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I agree .


Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Ajna
Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Impulsv
Do you think the low energy people fare best with one of those happy peppy signs like a sag or gem.


Perhaps not for a woman. But maybe for a man?

As you can see here, the men that go through these depressions want to go at it alone and don't like it when the female empathizes... at least, that is the impression I am getting.

I had a Taurus friend that also went through deep depressions and he didn't like when I got worried for him. It was best if I was not affected and just cheered him up.


I don't EVER want to go at it alone.

Women like YOU who do empathize
who UNDERSTAND are those I look for.
I think it's BEAUTIFUL you and others
here in this thread all are this way.

I just feel like I have to go at it alone
though because maybe
low tides...Low vibes...Depression isn't...

It will ruin things in the end maybe


Depression isn't what, Ajna?

That was so kind of you to say, btw. It really warmed my heart ✨💖✨

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Did you feel I was this way?

A guy that doesn't want women to emphasize?

I just felt struggles with depression isn't *something that is an advantage when one

starting a relationship

a relationship with another would be challenged?
Posted by Infinite8
Posted by Impulsv
Do you think the low energy people fare best with one of those happy peppy signs like a sag or gem.


Perhaps not for a woman. But maybe for a man?

As you can see here, the men that go through these depressions want to go at it alone and don't like it when the female empathizes... at least, that is the impression I am getting.

I had a Taurus friend that also went through deep depressions and he didn't like when I got worried for him. It was best if I was not affected and just cheered him up.
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I don't EVER want to go at it alone.

Women like YOU who do empathize
who UNDERSTAND are those I look for.
I think it's BEAUTIFUL you and others
here in this thread all are this way.

I just feel like I have to go at it alone
though because maybe
low tides...Low vibes...Depression isn't...

It will ruin things in the end maybe
Posted by Happy_Aqua
Posted by Ajna
Posted by Happy_Aqua
Posted by Ajna
Posted by AneemA
What prevents you to proceed to getting the daydreaming into a reality? Is she not available for you?



fear prevents now.




The daydream is my daydream.

Doesn't mean they want the same dream.




So would you rather daydream than opening up and finding out wheter the other wants the same dream?


I would rather dream at this current time yes.

those I've dreamed about have never..




I've just decided to open up after they do now.

Opening first has never been wise for me.


I understand why not opening up first feels less frightening. Especially if it hasn't been wise for you to do so and you probably learned it the hard way...

Nothing wrong with daydreaming though. However, in the meantime the other one has to try and find the courage to open up to you first.... and they could be just as fearful, but also thinking you are totally worth it!

So it probably takes a very patient. determined and understanding person to make your daydreams reality....

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And to get real personal...

I've given up as far as searching or trying ~

Some say when we don't look for love that
is when love comes knocking. Well...

I haven't looked my entire life...

Still nothing..

I was walking yesterday and thought maybe
the reason for my interest in drawing and painting has been because that would be

my survival mechanism of coping because
the forming of relationships would be dire

or not possible (difficult to manifest?) For me
here.

I feel in spirit or higher planes love is understood and all of us know this. We experience it.

But down here... this plane...

There's all these test and trials and...

Disconnection....

All these rules and things to do (( before ))
experiencing another or having that love.

I see through these things these rules
and it's just bull to me and

its too confusing and I'm not
good at it.

It reminds me of my early
years in grade school. I didn't understand
how things worked and was even held back
from everyone in 3rd grade. Experiemce
of Love from another just like my understanding
of school and Knowledge back then

as a child just

seem foreign to me.

Maybe this is my karma?

To To be behind ?





Posted by -Flo-
Posted by Impulsv
Do you think the low energy people fare best with one of those happy peppy signs like a sag or gem.


For a while maybe, but long term? No.

I did best with a water sign because my moods would change a lot and peppy signs couldn't handle it. No guidance, depth, or true empathy on their part. It was exhausting trying to always pretend I was happy for their sake.

😒
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Yeah

It's like truly feeling isn't desired by those

who are more air and fire influenced. I can't
Live life this way. Everything has a deeper
meaning to me, everything affects me in
some way.. high or low vibes
Posted by Happy_Aqua
Posted by Ajna
Posted by AneemA
What prevents you to proceed to getting the daydreaming into a reality? Is she not available for you?



fear prevents now.




The daydream is my daydream.

Doesn't mean they want the same dream.




So would you rather daydream than opening up and finding out wheter the other wants the same dream?
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I would rather dream at this current time yes.

those I've dreamed about have never..




I've just decided to open up after they do now.

Opening first has never been wise for me.
Posted by PootyButt
It's a catch-22 because it's hard to attract any people (not just love interests) when you're depressed. But attracting attention from people is one of the things that can help us feel better. :/

In all honesty, I _prefer_ people who have suffered from depression at some point in their lives for my close friends. They're the only ones who really understand me.


Yes.

It's ..

Women who have experienced emotional
Struggles (deep wounds/dramatic event)

is refreshing to me too. It is understood that
life isn't (or doesn't have to just be) sunshine

and smiling faces to them. I can fall or slip
emotiinally in their eyes and not be seen

as a failure or an annoyance.

When I don't know them too well
though I still get nervous to show

my struggles in fear of losing them.

@Soul

I understand why it would be hard to

go beyond that (won't say since you hid).

I do feel though that there are women that
don't mind internal struggles in us and maybe the older they are the more patience and understanding they have. It's sooooo refreshing to befriend those that are this way. I can breathe.

Posted by littlesnow
that's so cute 😆
well yeah sometimes, I imagine what it would be like dating this person. etc

Its fun to imagine but sometimes its better to go ahead and make it real


If what you wanted really never materialized

in your past as far as relationships go, would

You stop dreaming about your love interest
though? Would you be more prone to just

stay in this reality knowing what you see in
your third eye \ minds eye hurts ?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Oh also another tip .....

once you start daydreaming about spending time with them you should also try to shift your thoughts to yourself and all of the good qualities you have that you think make you an ideal partner........

In short, fall in love with yourself first. Try to be a blessing to anyone that comes across your path including the object of your affection and detach yourself to any outcome.Just be happy.

She's out there. I promise you.



Thank you @Adreamuponwaking

Healing to read what you say

I've never thought about seeing myself
as or... I mean looking at the good qualities.

So kind of seeing myself in third person in a way..
Posted by Soul
I feel men should totally hide it. Fake it till you make it. No women will ever go for a man who has issues or problems. Women expect men to be 100% perfect and magical in any way. Above and beyond being human. Created from the fabric of angels, and sewn together by threads of the universe itself. Basically they want something that will never exist in any man or woman.


Do you feel all women are this way or

More so in their teens and twenties?

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Posted by Gob_buttere
Posted by blackphase
What? No, Never. I like to see it all, even the darkest parts. I am more attracted to someone that can share how they feel inside with me than someone who hides it.. and I'll know if they are hiding it

Signed Scorpio moon...



Haha, so true. I am actually more attracted to a depressed guy :/ Smart move Gemini. Lol
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Really?


Maybe to aid or influence healing in them?

How come?