Pisces Male ~ March 2nd

INFP * * *








Do you get nervous when trying to figure out if a male is gay

or do you just feel it out/ know?
lol this is beautiful though. happy Friday
Posted by NotInterested
Posted by Aju
Posted by NotInterested
Im hanging onto life with a string. I dont know what to do about life and people. I feel like Im an outkast in this world where people think quite differently from me. I think gosh what is this world coming to. What are people coming to. Inside I wanna cry but on the outside I try to continue on with life cause I know I have to. I dont think most people can understand me. I dont know being on the internet can be a bit depressing. Seeing different things. It doesnt help Ive been on zoloft for 2 years now to help me cope. I sometimes want to cry but am prevented because zolot numbs me a bit which is even more frustrating. I dont know. I cant deal with reality. I have to daydream my life away because I know my dreams don't truly exist. In my dreams Im everything I want to be. Life and the world is how I want it to be but its not real. It's sad. I have hopes and dreams but sometimes feel unmotivated. Life isnt cut out for me and I dont like myself too much as a person lately. Sorry Im feeling sad and frustrated right now. Just wanted to vent. Feeling low and scared. Don't know what to do.


There is no reason to apologize for how you feel.

Knowing how you feel and being honest with it is always best.


You should get the best healing and treatment though for this.

Those that you feel you can trust and not judge you for feeling this way
is who you could benefit from being close to right now. So many days I
feel different and see myself as an outcast, I know I need these people close.

They are your guides and angels on earth that can help. I would also say that
getting in water and cleansing yourself either through a nice bath or shower.

So what if your dreams feel false. Dreams can be like a past that is now not here.

OR* They can also be a future that isn't here yet. Maybe this can be good.

Maybe you can use this to your advantage. Maybe write down or sketch what you
dream to experience 'now'. For example, maybe have a dream journal and write down
or draw what you'd like to experience now in this moment. Or draw or sketch something
that calms you. I know that drawing the ocean and feeling as though I'm there 'now' calms
me and helps me. I cannot draw me with my mother 'right now' as it is too painful because
her physical essence is gone but the next best thing is the ocean, the beach, the sand.

Drawing the beach as if I'm there now, seeing it as such really really helps me a lot.

Eat and drink clean things. Stay as naturally close to nature as you can to cleanse too.
Fruit/Vegetables/ water. These things can help you raise how you feel. Things with
a lot of ingrediants and take the body forever to break down can keep you down.

I also feel white candles can help cleanse my surrounding and cleaning too.



Spend time, spend more time with your inner child. She needs healing now.

What would you do if a child came to you and was feeling as you do?
You would help them rise right? See in your mind that your adult
self is stepping aside, letting them out this locked room of
society, and the responsibility of the world and helping
them heal. listen to her and picture yourself hugging
her and not leaving her side in this moment.









Thank you so much (: this was beautiful ans calming even just to read
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You are very welcome, Yasmine. I know it takes time but you will rise
Posted by NotInterested
Im hanging onto life with a string. I dont know what to do about life and people. I feel like Im an outkast in this world where people think quite differently from me. I think gosh what is this world coming to. What are people coming to. Inside I wanna cry but on the outside I try to continue on with life cause I know I have to. I dont think most people can understand me. I dont know being on the internet can be a bit depressing. Seeing different things. It doesnt help Ive been on zoloft for 2 years now to help me cope. I sometimes want to cry but am prevented because zolot numbs me a bit which is even more frustrating. I dont know. I cant deal with reality. I have to daydream my life away because I know my dreams don't truly exist. In my dreams Im everything I want to be. Life and the world is how I want it to be but its not real. It's sad. I have hopes and dreams but sometimes feel unmotivated. Life isnt cut out for me and I dont like myself too much as a person lately. Sorry Im feeling sad and frustrated right now. Just wanted to vent. Feeling low and scared. Don't know what to do.


There is no reason to apologize for how you feel.

Knowing how you feel and being honest with it is always best.


You should get the best healing and treatment though for this.

Those that you feel you can trust and not judge you for feeling this way
is who you could benefit from being close to right now. So many days I
feel different and see myself as an outcast, I know I need these people close.

They are your guides and angels on earth that can help. I would also say that
getting in water and cleansing yourself either through a nice bath or shower.

So what if your dreams feel false. Dreams can be like a past that is now not here.

OR* They can also be a future that isn't here yet. Maybe this can be good.

Maybe you can use this to your advantage. Maybe write down or sketch what you
dream to experience 'now'. For example, maybe have a dream journal and write down
or draw what you'd like to experience now in this moment. Or draw or sketch something
that calms you. I know that drawing the ocean and feeling as though I'm there 'now' calms
me and helps me. I cannot draw me with my mother 'right now' as it is too painful because
her physical essence is gone but the next best thing is the ocean, the beach, the sand.

Drawing the beach as if I'm there now, seeing it as such really really helps me a lot.

Eat and drink clean things. Stay as naturally close to nature as you can to cleanse too.
Fruit/Vegetables/ water. These things can help you raise how you feel. Things with
a lot of ingrediants and take the body forever to break down can keep you down.

I also feel white candles can help cleanse my surrounding and cleaning too.



Spend time, spend more time with your inner child. She needs healing now.

What would you do if a child came to you and was feeling as you do?
You would help them rise right? See in your mind that your adult
self is stepping aside, letting them out this locked room of
society, and the responsibility of the world and helping
them heal. listen to her and picture yourself hugging
her and not leaving her side in this moment.







Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Posted by Aju
Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Posted by Aju
Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Posted by Aju
I was born with this aspect.

welcome to hell











jk... it's.... no it's not that bad though I was really born with it.
I feel used to the energy or pressure that this aspect gives off.

I do feel though that the transit(pretty much linked to my Saturn return)
makes it feel as if my vitality is at odds or that I'm not allowed to do what I want.

Saturn is the boss and is having a bit of trouble with how I have done things.

Almost as if you are not paying attention in class and the teacher notices and she
calls your name to answer. She ask if you know the answer and of course you don't
and she yells ''wrong'' repeatedly until you get it right in front of the class. That is what it
feels like to me, this double aspect linked to my Saturn return. I do feel as though I finally
found the right answer though but it wasn't easy. People that love me and are close to me
(some of which are people I found here on this site) have helped me in miraculous ways.

How has it affected you? Do you feel as though you are learning and reaping the rewards
from this transit?


I wasn't born with this aspect, but this transit has been a little hard to deal with. My energy levels have been awfully low, it's been a little hard to focus on work, but also I have been having arguments with people I care about, and had a falling out just yesterday with a Virgo I was "talking/dating." But I am realizing now that I have to have more patience with myself, and to take things slow. That way I can take advantage of the benefits that comes with this transit.

What I am afraid of is while this transit is occurring, Saturn is going to be in opposition to my moon and ascendent. So I need to prepare for the worst to come and the energies that I will be feeling.

So with your scenario, do you find taking things slow with yourself and having patience with yourself to be beneficial?



Do I find taking things slow with myself and having patience to be beneficial?

I think that is part of it with this transit. Saturn has it's way of getting you to
focus on what is important "now" and working within the rules of routine
and realism or the earth contracts. It can make it seem like no other
door will open. There are so many challenging aspects to my
chart with Saturn not to mention Saturn as my ruling planet.
So depression is nothing foreign to me at all.

Where is your sun located in your chart? One of the things
that helped me with this (as far as my sun is concerned)
is looking at my talents and figuring out a way that abides
by Saturn with these talents. Being realistic (earthly) with these talents.

I wouldn't be too afraid of it (even if it is about to aspect your moon) because
there are beneficial gifts that will come of it too. Every aspect and transit has a
gift to offer. It's just that bumping our heads 50 times is what it may take.


But yes. Taking your time and not trying to rush with this energy. It won't move.
It will move only an inch each day and teaches patience some what similar to
how kids in Japan have to learn Kanji growing up. There are over 2000 kanji
characters they must learn but they steadily learn and steadily memorize a day at a time.

That is also the energy of Saturn.







Hmm that interesting. So as a Pisces, because we live in these "dreamy" world, etc. It kinda helps you bring yourself back to reality in a way?
What are your other ruling planets?


My sun is located on 29°57' and is in the 10th House.
That's true. I think having these things happen, has been helping me realize what matters and what doesn't matter. Things that I need to let go and move on from. So I think it's benefitting me in a way. There are also things that I am realizing about myself that I need to fix. I'm curious to see how it's going to affect my Moon and Ascendent.


Well aside from Saturn being my ruling planet, because Capricorn is my rising sign,
Venus is my dominant planet. I have a lot of interesting aspects and influences with it.
Jupiter is in the same house as Pisces which is Pisces original ruler and my Neptune is
in the 12th house(it's original house). My Moon is in Scorpio. There is just a lot of water
other worldly influences that can get me into trouble if I don't learn how to abide by earth.


I feel as though Saturn is okay with our dreaminess...our spiritual other
world side but it wants to know...what can we do with these abilities using
Saturn and Earth that can help us survive and reach our goals..

Like you say though which I do agree, it's a process of elimination.

That is interesting though about your sun in the 10th.

My moon is in the 10th.






Hmm that is so interesting. Mine is the similar. My chart is very much water influenced, besides my Venus. Otherwise, it's mostly water except my Uranus and Neptune is in Capricorn. My ruling planets are my Sun sign in 10th, Moon in 1st, and Pluto in Scorpio R.

That's very true what you say. As I've gotten older, I have been more in tune with my spirituality, and I use that to go about my everyday relationships and conflicts. But yeah, it definitely is a process of elimination, which to me I don't like to let go of people especially those that I have care(ed) for because I tend to dwell on the past sometimes, which is something I have been learning to not do lately.

When I read my Sun on the X, it was interesting because a lot of it involves my drive for working towards a career. Very career-oriented placement, but I do have lots of other aspects that are interesting, some challenging, but also they provide very valuable lessons.

How does your Moon in 10th affect it?
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ah Yeah. I also think a lot about the past.

I feel a lot of heavy influenced Pisces think outside
of 'now'. Sometimes I get so down and want to go
anywhere but 'now'...



My moon also has that flavor too being in the 10th house.

Though it's not necessarily an on going drive like if my sun was there.
I just feel like I need to be noticed in some way with my moon being up
in the highest part of the sky but maybe not by everyone and maybe not
all the time because the moon changes as you know like from waxing to
waning to full moon to new moon.

Also..my career and focus of my career has often changed too multiple times.

My sun is in the 2nd house though. Venus,Mercury, Sun are all here.

So there is a great emphases on self worth and what I can gain.

Learning to love the beauty of things physical and material.

not judging money as evil but a tool to help me in this life.










I'm sorry @Gemitati

There is no English.

You might like this though.

why do you think this?

I've been meaning to show you this Oak

Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Posted by Aju
Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Posted by Aju
I was born with this aspect.

welcome to hell











jk... it's.... no it's not that bad though I was really born with it.
I feel used to the energy or pressure that this aspect gives off.

I do feel though that the transit(pretty much linked to my Saturn return)
makes it feel as if my vitality is at odds or that I'm not allowed to do what I want.

Saturn is the boss and is having a bit of trouble with how I have done things.

Almost as if you are not paying attention in class and the teacher notices and she
calls your name to answer. She ask if you know the answer and of course you don't
and she yells ''wrong'' repeatedly until you get it right in front of the class. That is what it
feels like to me, this double aspect linked to my Saturn return. I do feel as though I finally
found the right answer though but it wasn't easy. People that love me and are close to me
(some of which are people I found here on this site) have helped me in miraculous ways.

How has it affected you? Do you feel as though you are learning and reaping the rewards
from this transit?


I wasn't born with this aspect, but this transit has been a little hard to deal with. My energy levels have been awfully low, it's been a little hard to focus on work, but also I have been having arguments with people I care about, and had a falling out just yesterday with a Virgo I was "talking/dating." But I am realizing now that I have to have more patience with myself, and to take things slow. That way I can take advantage of the benefits that comes with this transit.

What I am afraid of is while this transit is occurring, Saturn is going to be in opposition to my moon and ascendent. So I need to prepare for the worst to come and the energies that I will be feeling.

So with your scenario, do you find taking things slow with yourself and having patience with yourself to be beneficial?



Do I find taking things slow with myself and having patience to be beneficial?

I think that is part of it with this transit. Saturn has it's way of getting you to
focus on what is important "now" and working within the rules of routine
and realism or the earth contracts. It can make it seem like no other
door will open. There are so many challenging aspects to my
chart with Saturn not to mention Saturn as my ruling planet.
So depression is nothing foreign to me at all.

Where is your sun located in your chart? One of the things
that helped me with this (as far as my sun is concerned)
is looking at my talents and figuring out a way that abides
by Saturn with these talents. Being realistic (earthly) with these talents.

I wouldn't be too afraid of it (even if it is about to aspect your moon) because
there are beneficial gifts that will come of it too. Every aspect and transit has a
gift to offer. It's just that bumping our heads 50 times is what it may take.


But yes. Taking your time and not trying to rush with this energy. It won't move.
It will move only an inch each day and teaches patience some what similar to
how kids in Japan have to learn Kanji growing up. There are over 2000 kanji
characters they must learn but they steadily learn and steadily memorize a day at a time.

That is also the energy of Saturn.







Hmm that interesting. So as a Pisces, because we live in these "dreamy" world, etc. It kinda helps you bring yourself back to reality in a way?
What are your other ruling planets?


My sun is located on 29°57' and is in the 10th House.
That's true. I think having these things happen, has been helping me realize what matters and what doesn't matter. Things that I need to let go and move on from. So I think it's benefitting me in a way. There are also things that I am realizing about myself that I need to fix. I'm curious to see how it's going to affect my Moon and Ascendent.
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Well aside from Saturn being my ruling planet, because Capricorn is my rising sign,
Venus is my dominant planet. I have a lot of interesting aspects and influences with it.
Jupiter is in the same house as Pisces which is Pisces original ruler and my Neptune is
in the 12th house(it's original house). My Moon is in Scorpio. There is just a lot of water
other worldly influences that can get me into trouble if I don't learn how to abide by earth.


I feel as though Saturn is okay with our dreaminess...our spiritual other
world side but it wants to know...what can we do with these abilities using
Saturn and Earth that can help us survive and reach our goals..

Like you say though which I do agree, it's a process of elimination.

That is interesting though about your sun in the 10th.

My moon is in the 10th.




I always almost choke on my food

laughing when Winslow (the cop) just yells over the walky pulling out haha
Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
Posted by Aju
I was born with this aspect.

welcome to hell











jk... it's.... no it's not that bad though I was really born with it.
I feel used to the energy or pressure that this aspect gives off.

I do feel though that the transit(pretty much linked to my Saturn return)
makes it feel as if my vitality is at odds or that I'm not allowed to do what I want.

Saturn is the boss and is having a bit of trouble with how I have done things.

Almost as if you are not paying attention in class and the teacher notices and she
calls your name to answer. She ask if you know the answer and of course you don't
and she yells ''wrong'' repeatedly until you get it right in front of the class. That is what it
feels like to me, this double aspect linked to my Saturn return. I do feel as though I finally
found the right answer though but it wasn't easy. People that love me and are close to me
(some of which are people I found here on this site) have helped me in miraculous ways.

How has it affected you? Do you feel as though you are learning and reaping the rewards
from this transit?


I wasn't born with this aspect, but this transit has been a little hard to deal with. My energy levels have been awfully low, it's been a little hard to focus on work, but also I have been having arguments with people I care about, and had a falling out just yesterday with a Virgo I was "talking/dating." But I am realizing now that I have to have more patience with myself, and to take things slow. That way I can take advantage of the benefits that comes with this transit.

What I am afraid of is while this transit is occurring, Saturn is going to be in opposition to my moon and ascendent. So I need to prepare for the worst to come and the energies that I will be feeling.

So with your scenario, do you find taking things slow with yourself and having patience with yourself to be beneficial?
click to expand



Do I find taking things slow with myself and having patience to be beneficial?

I think that is part of it with this transit. Saturn has it's way of getting you to
focus on what is important "now" and working within the rules of routine
and realism or the earth contracts. It can make it seem like no other
door will open. There are so many challenging aspects to my
chart with Saturn not to mention Saturn as my ruling planet.
So depression is nothing foreign to me at all.

Where is your sun located in your chart? One of the things
that helped me with this (as far as my sun is concerned)
is looking at my talents and figuring out a way that abides
by Saturn with these talents. Being realistic (earthly) with these talents.

I wouldn't be too afraid of it (even if it is about to aspect your moon) because
there are beneficial gifts that will come of it too. Every aspect and transit has a
gift to offer. It's just that bumping our heads 50 times is what it may take.


But yes. Taking your time and not trying to rush with this energy. It won't move.
It will move only an inch each day and teaches patience some what similar to
how kids in Japan have to learn Kanji growing up. There are over 2000 kanji
characters they must learn but they steadily learn and steadily memorize a day at a time.

That is also the energy of Saturn.





I believe this came out around the same time too:

my favorite from them *looped*
I was born with this aspect.

welcome to hell











jk... it's.... no it's not that bad though I was really born with it.
I feel used to the energy or pressure that this aspect gives off.

I do feel though that the transit(pretty much linked to my Saturn return)
makes it feel as if my vitality is at odds or that I'm not allowed to do what I want.

Saturn is the boss and is having a bit of trouble with how I have done things.

Almost as if you are not paying attention in class and the teacher notices and she
calls your name to answer. She ask if you know the answer and of course you don't
and she yells ''wrong'' repeatedly until you get it right in front of the class. That is what it
feels like to me, this double aspect linked to my Saturn return. I do feel as though I finally
found the right answer though but it wasn't easy. People that love me and are close to me
(some of which are people I found here on this site) have helped me in miraculous ways.

How has it affected you? Do you feel as though you are learning and reaping the rewards
from this transit?
I would just take a step back from her by the way.

this is the image I got from the situation:

It's quite alright to vent.

It's just that those that hurt you with a particular sign...

not everyone else with that same sign/energy will hurt you
too and treat everyone else the same way..

Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by Aju
Posted by PhoenixRising

A is only Scorpio if he plans to bring up 25 years from now, at the right time to win an argument highlighting how you "did something like this before".



I'd like to think that though I have
Scorpio influences that I don't use

such things for ammunition later
especially against someone I love.

I know I'm not perfect though...


Then why store the information away at all? Your words:

Posted by Aju


A.) A man that, when you say something that is
kind of offensive to him, he stays silent about it,
stores it away in his mind as detailed files to have
a better picture about who you are to never bring up...

If you're using it, even to "have a better picture of who you are", it will be used in some way in the future. Perhaps not verbally, but it will be used. Otherwise you would simply let it go, no?

If you're not saying something to the person to address it (at some point) to help that person shift/grow, then why store it away? What would your intentions be? Just curious.
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storing it away is secondery as I would love to bring
up the misalignment or offense so as to maybe help

them grow yeah but...

When I don't speak up,which often times is because I may
want to avoid conflict or I may not see it as necessary to bring up

because the relationship may seem a bit fragile in the beginning..

My intentions are just to see what type of person they are and
what I can expect if I am willing to keep the connection with him/her..







Posted by MiZLeo
B I've had A.....let's just say we ended in couples therapy because he was "afraid" to tell me and I was more pissed off at that point then I would have been if he had just told me. Plus, if you tell me in a certain way it won't turn into an argument in the first place.


that's true. that is one of the main reasons too why I wait to say anything..

I need to say it in a way that isn't hurtful or will embarrass the other
Posted by Teena
My respect lies with A. I'd like it if he doesn't bottle things up n if it's not hurting him.
But I'd totally understand B... at least I know he's not struggling inside. The best part is "kindly" speaking.








That's good you are open to both
as long as they both retain their healthy aspects