Ajna

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Aju

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Aju

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago

thanks aju for posting!

if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time

i'm averaging a little over 2 years


if it's a friend.....

a few months.

Thank You for Posting (:

Have you healed completely from either?

completely healed from the last friend i lost and

i just started the process of getting over my last love interest.

the one before was 2 years and the one before that was 2 years.

i'm hoping this one will be shorter

though the dreams were more frequent and intense in nature than with the last two women.

i actually rarely dreamed of my ex and the girl before that.

i didn't even really in hindsight want a sexual relationship with them.

with this girl...the girl i'm currently trying to get over ...everything was different
so we shall see

it's also funny that all three women were pisces.
pisces brunettes are my kryptonite.

You're saying that it took you two years to get over both?
Yeah it can take a great deal of time...even when you think you're better.

Do you feel that the severity of your broken heart aches in waves? kind of like...

one moment you're fine and then another you just really miss them?

two years each so four years total

aka most of my twenties.

i met pisces #3 at 28..

i'll probably be in my 30s when i get over her.

but like i said i'm hoping to get over her sooner.

and yes....one day i feel really happy that we met and that i at least had some time to spend with such a wonderful person

the next day i think to myself that she wasn't that great and i was actually selling my self-short
and had low standards

the day after that i miss her like crazy...

today was a moderate day in terms of missing her...i'm happy though as it seems i am finally having days in

which i miss her without the heartache....

i'm taking that as a sign that i'm starting to actually heal.

i'm also coming to terms that i very well may never hear or speak from her ever again.

for me that was the worst thing about things going south.....the possibility of no longer having her in my life at all...not even as friends.

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What drives you to keep going ? why start new relationships?

Have you ever felt like giving up at times? forming new relationships?

Have you ever felt so hurt and just jaded from all of it to just not do it again?

Posted by over_thinker
Yeah, like hiring from escort services.. Also known as hookers/call girls.
I am a single guy from past four years now by choice and I do hire professionals from time to time. It just feels so easy and safe if you have the right contacts and also money.
Many of my friends married/unmarried do the same.
The ladies here are way too professional... Everything can be discussed before hiring... You exactly get what you pay for. The next morning they don't even bother you. And I like it the way it is. Me and my friends are pretty old customers now. I have been with different women from different countries.
I started using these services after I ended my relationship with a girl and then I never looked back.
Just wondering if any of you uses such kind of services?

no

If you don't mind me asking though..

What lead you to start? Have you felt like deep connection

with women have often turned out to just go bad or too painful?

In general this may be the most challenging Earth combination with Pisces ...

Posted by startwars









the delusion is real

MJ has the best laugh lol

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Aju

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago

thanks aju for posting!

if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time

i'm averaging a little over 2 years


if it's a friend.....

a few months.

Thank You for Posting (:

Have you healed completely from either?

completely healed from the last friend i lost and

i just started the process of getting over my last love interest.

the one before was 2 years and the one before that was 2 years.

i'm hoping this one will be shorter

though the dreams were more frequent and intense in nature than with the last two women.

i actually rarely dreamed of my ex and the girl before that.

i didn't even really in hindsight want a sexual relationship with them.

with this girl...the girl i'm currently trying to get over ...everything was different
so we shall see

it's also funny that all three women were pisces.
pisces brunettes are my kryptonite.

click to expand

You're saying that it took you two years to get over both?
Yeah it can take a great deal of time...even when you think you're better.

Do you feel that the severity of your broken heart aches in waves? kind of like...

one moment you're fine and then another you just really miss them?

Posted by Distilled
If I cared about the situation or person-
family and friends here and there until I'm fully recharged... I can't really say how long. Every situation is different.

Then I become stronger and gain new experiences, perspective and people.

I never swim back to you if you hurt me on purpose or left a bad taste in my mouth.
If I care- I will try but if you don't put energy back... It's done. If time passes and you can show you want me in your life and I really loved you as a friend I will consider it.
Never for a person I was with romantically.

Did something in the pass happen when you gave that person (romantic)

a second chance? Is that why you do not return to that type of relationship?

Do you feel as though you may rely on others around you a lot more then before?

Posted by pisceanloves
I deal with break up right now. Honestly I need a company to forget everything, if I'm alone that's the worst, I might do something bad

Something bad as in harm yourself? Them?

I'm sorry that you are going through break up right now though...

I'm going through something similar...

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

so funny i was going to make a similar thread a couple of days ago

thanks aju for posting!

if it's a romantic interest...it takes me a long time

i'm averaging a little over 2 years


if it's a friend.....

a few months.

Thank You for Posting (:

Have you healed completely from either?

Posted by LadyNeptune
Swimming is the best 🏊

Do you feel that swimming helps you heal?

hugs*

one day im sure this pain/struggle will aid you.. help you

Posted by Endlessly-dreaming
I'm currently in this position at the moment.

I require lots of space, sometimes weeks. But I'll talk to my closest friends only but it would be for a short period of time.

thank you, endless

so your closest friends would help you? What if they were not available?

would it take you longer to come back with out their help?

If you are

dealing with
Depression...

Over Stimulation...

Or A breakup(friend/lover)...

When do you come back to everyone?

How much time do you typically need to heal?

LOL!

"Okay I'm reloadeed!"

XD

☽

Posted by Happy_Aqua
Can't decide between the '50's and the '80's......

Never lived through the '50's but here's just something about that era that seems...innocent, nostalgic, uplifting...post World War II, a time of optimism and growth. Black & white movies, life was simple but good, products were still hand made.....shops were simple, they contained only bare necessities...men knew how to be gentlemen....I just get that uplifting vibe from it and I love it.

The '80's is the time I grew up in. Summers were always sunny and never seemed to end....and I just adore the music from that era, even now.

Still can't decide which one I want to relive over and over again.

I will switch between both, '50's -'80's-'50's-'80's 'till the end of time..

@Aju what era would you like to relive?

The fashion in the 50s was nice


The 80s fashion was nice too.

A lot more chemicals and sprays
In the the 80s I feel like though.

I only remember back end of that decade.

Posted by Teena
Oh are we talking about just any decade n not the ones we actually lived in? Umm..meh! I don't have any favs.Idc about the decades I've not seen😝

Any Decade Teena

If you woke up and realized you slipped out of time...

away from everyone you know now...

But realized you were reliving
the decade you loved most...

over and over again...

What decade is it?