Posted by guccigemini55Posted by aniviel
Just to ask, what are the options I have to go back to how things were.. I know I can't just ignore his msgs, I can't abandon him. But the current interactions with him just make me miss how it was before.. A part of me would still like to hope he loves me, since he does still keep contacting me almost daily.
I'm a Leo bytheway if it matters.
Ithink in this situation knowing he suffers with a mental health illness are you going to be able to love him and be beside his side unconditionally knowing you are going to suffer with the highs and lows, often when you are with someone in this situation you will be faced with cruel projections onto yourself and you will, have to learn not to take it personally but at times that will be hard because the things that are most personal to you will be attacked, you wont feel that same love as what you would hope for in a healthy relationship, there will be times where his emotions are completely detached from you or you will be the target of whatever mood he is feeling at that time.. Im not saying this makes him unloveable, neither am i saying he doesnt deserve to be loved, everyone deserves love, what im saying is do you know what you are getting yourself into and if so why do you not feel you deserve a healthy loving relationship?.. Im not disrespecting you or being mean im just putting it to you because i have been in the situation and its really tough, it will strip away at you, maybe he knows this and knows it is better that you are his friend, but maybe his emotions are detached.click to expand