Posted by Neno2Posted by AquaNextDoor
Marriage itself isn‘t bad or the problem, it‘s more the reason why people get married. My guess is that a lot of people love the idea of being married. Same as people love the idea of being in love more than they love the other person.
Women like their wedding day,dressing nice,being the star that day,unfortunately thats only one day,other marriage days mostly suck and are boring,especially if u live togetherclick to expand
Posted by nevesPosted by peaceandtranquility_96
I guess I just don't understand men sometimes. Men crave and want variety; however, they choose to just settle down with one woman. I guess I don't understand why men would want to make that choice when they can stay single and free. What's the point of that when there is all the fun you can have right outside your door step? Is it the conveniency of a long term relationship? Is it due to the companionship? Does your need for companionship outweigh your need for variety?
You sound like a teenager - venting about teenagers (or some males of adult age - who still act like teenagers - if they have such shallow expectations). That's same as asking... "why would you want a best friend or a small group of friends - when you can have 5000 friends on Facebook?" 😐click to expand
Posted by Rainbow87
Hi. I just want an opinion because I don't know if my boyfriend is being a jerk. We live together and I cook breakfast and dinner everyday (except for the weekends). I also work full time.
When my boyfriend and I fight I'm not in the mood to cook. I can't pretend that I'm not mad at him.
Today my boyfriend started a fight when we got home from work over something insignificant so instead of going straight to the kitchen I went to my room to do something else. I was going to cook but I wanted to calm my anger a bit. Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to cook as soon as we get home from work because he's hungry as hell.
So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to feed him.
I mean, if he's hungry he can also get something to eat or cook himself but he doesn't think that way.
I just want to know if it's normal for me not to be in the mood for cooking after we fight? And most of the time he starts the fights so I don't think it's fair to pretend there's nothing going on. I have emotions.
Posted by CancerAquaSagg
Yeah it means you are waiting for someone better to come along eh.
Posted by brianafay
Ask yourself why you’re so mad before you even know the scenario? Isn’t it possible she just saw him and thought he was cute and didn’t know anything about him - like if he was single or not?