AquaNextDoor

AquaNextDoor
joined February 08, 2015
28 years old female♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
Aqua sun. Cap moon, venus, merc, neptune, saturn, uranus. Sag mars. Leo asc
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Posted by Impulsv
    What certain type of man might do this? Is it acceptable to you? n do you want this kind of man?
    This comes from a thread Taurus wanting back after hurting ex when ex addresses issues and hurt he wants to run.
    But bet if acted like nothing he’d be there n marry her. (Happily ever after)
    I suspect is type of man how does not want to look in the mirror and address (shame guilt whatever)?
    Well my grandmother was talking about grandpas relationship when he bailed for five years. She said she was given the advise before his return to bury it three feet under n never discuss n start from schratch. She did n he stayed over 30 years plus. I find grandpas coward. He abandoned family of four to almost starve n had an affair came back no apology never admitted said affair. Yet one may say lived happily ever after. It worked

    Can you accept that advise?
    Is it good advise?


    People fake happiness with their need for comfort. It‘s not real and the older the people get the more they are willing to settle. No self love there.

    It is true although that at some point you need to bury it and start all over again without bringing the past into the present. AFTER you discussed the mess intensely!
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Posted by Impulsv
    What certain type of man might do this? Is it acceptable to you? n do you want this kind of man?
    This comes from a thread Taurus wanting back after hurting ex when ex addresses issues and hurt he wants to run.
    But bet if acted like nothing he’d be there n marry her. (Happily ever after)
    I suspect is type of man how does not want to look in the mirror and address (shame guilt whatever)?
    Well my grandmother was talking about grandpas relationship when he bailed for five years. She said she was given the advise before his return to bury it three feet under n never discuss n start from schratch. She did n he stayed over 30 years plus. I find grandpas coward. He abandoned family of four to almost starve n had an affair came back no apology never admitted said affair. Yet one may say lived happily ever after. It worked

    Can you accept that advise?
    Is it good advise?


    People fake happiness with their need for comfort. It‘s not real and the older the people get the more they are willing to settle. No self love there.

    It is true although that at some point you need to bury it and start all over again without bringing the past into the present. AFTER you discussed the mess intensely!
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    I dated intense back then, I had my requirements and boundaries and if someone didn‘t live up to them I didn‘t go on a second date let alone keep texting. Explain, delete, next.

    It‘s very simple, you have to overcome your own desire for male attention. It‘s flattering yes. It‘s exciting yes. But you waste your time in the long run.

    Selective dating wasn‘t easy in the beginning but if you learn to love yourself then you learn to respect your own time and feelings. That way it becomes natural to you to cut people politely off and move on.
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    It‘s not uncommon. We all get approached by people who are not worthy of our time - it‘s only up to you to cut them off.

    You alone decide who gets your time and attention. Don‘t feed those people, walk away and set clear boundaries.
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Posted by Dianna
    Posted by AquaNextDoor
    That‘s our datenight once a month we hit several jackpots since we started 2015, with that money we paid our wedding, he bought me a small car for christmas and with that money we save for a house to buy.

    We love the casino and the casino loves us 😂 slot machines

    But yes, we always go in with a set amount of money, 200 CHF. You need to know when to stop.

    I think that's the trick. Knowing when to walk away. click to expand
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    My cap moon knows where to draw the line where else his libra moon wants to try again although we lost all the money. Is it easy for you to call it quits when things don‘t go well?

    It‘s not like I never think „oh just a little longer, just one more time“ I do sometimes, but my cap moon is strong enough 😂
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Depends on the level of position.

    Yes
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    I love to watch cooking videos
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    That‘s our datenight once a month smile we hit several jackpots since we started 2015, with that money we paid our wedding, he bought me a small car for christmas and with that money we save for a house to buy.

    We love the casino and the casino loves us 😂 slot machines

    But yes, we always go in with a set amount of money, 200 CHF. You need to know when to stop.
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Posted by Masterful
    Posted by AquaNextDoor
    Posted by Masterful
    it would cause me to join an online astrology forum from the deep seeded scars it would form


    Thats how I got here the first time in 2013 -.- stupid ex leo stellium click to expand


    stay away from lindaland

    all they want to do to you is exactly that click to expand
    click to expand


    😂😂😂 I simply love my daily dosis dxp
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Posted by Masterful
    it would cause me to join an online astrology forum from the deep seeded scars it would form


    Thats how I got here the first time in 2013 -.- stupid ex leo stellium
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Posted by DeleterNerd
    Have you tried saying this to her? Stop acting like a beta if you dont want a cap woman to treat you like one. Tell that cookiemonster to sit down stfu and listen for once haha. Then treetrunk her hard while youre telling her whats what.


    I‘m dying 😂😂😂😂😂

    Ok maybe without the „stfu!“ Because once you start cussing things might go even worse for you. But you should show her that you are a strong man who‘ll bring his woman to his cave and treetrunk the butter out of her 😂 plus tell her that you expect her to listen when you talk
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Oh so tiz is a libra merc?

    I knew a scorp sun, libra merc and maaaaan was he a smooth talker. A whole lot of bla bla that left you feel complimented and somehow talked out of your pants.
    Too damn obvious for me but he had a strong game, on each finger at least two girls. I talked to him often since I was writing that dating blog. He had no shame in admitting how he wouldn‘t save the girls numbers not by their names but by the club they met LOL palmas club blonde nr 1, palmas club brunette nr 1 etc haha hilarious to watch if you aren‘t interested in him.

    I can see a big smooth talking quality in tiz, nice
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Cap moon and my hubs is a cap sun.

    I‘m a leo asc, so is he and the ex affaire I had going for 3yrs back in 2012, also leo asc 😎
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Plateau high heels feel 10X better than regular high heels
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Imo cap placements keep you grounded and controlled when other placements go crazy. I notice this especially with my cap moon
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Moon/venus rx/merc/saturn/uranus/neptune in cap

    I‘m focussed, ambitious, always reaching for the best in private or at work, sure of my own abilities, comfortable in a leading position

    My sag mars and aqua sun jumps in from time to time and goes crazy 😂

    Two chaotic placements mixed with so many controlling ones 😂 i love it
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    Posted by Superman77
    Poor Tiz.

    Girl gives him interest and at the same time kicks him in the nutz


    I like to do the sandwich complimenting 😂 something nice - a little productive critic - something nice to finish.
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    I‘m dying
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    My mum is an aqua moon and she is a great mother, strict but very loving! She wasn‘t the best to discuss feelings with nor did she apologize very often even when she was wrong. But overall she always put us kids first and raised us with a strict but loving hand. I‘m very thankful for her. Before my father left we often clashed, but after that we grew into a strong mother/daugther union who tried their hardest to get through the butter my father put us through.

    Did I wish my mother was more compassionate and a little less strict? Yes. But now as an adult I understand why she said or did certain things and I‘m GLAD that she raised us to be good people with common sense.

    pisces sun
    Aqua moon/merc
    Cap venus
    Leo mars
  • AquaNextDoor
    ♒️ sun ♑️ moon, venus r, merc ♐️ mars ♌️ asc | Married to a Cap
    28 years old female
    My biological father has a cap moon + aqua venus - cold as ice when things don‘t go his way.

    Left my mum, my younger brothers and me when I was 13. my brothers were 4 and 5 when he left. He cheated on my mom multiple times, lied whenever he could and would do anything to not pay the child support he was supposed to pay. None of is have contact - it was our choice and we cut him off for good.

    Pisces sun
    Cap moon
    Aqua venus/merc
    Taurus sun

    When he decided to leave us his heart turned into stone. Cap moon + aqua venus?! Holy butter I can see where his recklessness comes from