Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by AquaNextDoor
Every guy wants his fwb to be „his“. A man saying he doesn‘t want to share you or dislikes other guys hittin on you simply doesn‘t want to share his free kitty. I mean why would he, you could catch stds from someone else, you could drop his sorry ass because some other dude does it better then him etc. no man wants to share a woman he is having sex with but that doesn‘t mean he actually wants you as a gf.
You deserve better girl
Why do you think that he doesn’t want her as a girlfriend if he is telling her that he loves her and that he wants her just for him.
I think he is behaving like that because she is not reciprocating and he is scared of his feelings.click to expand
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by AquaNextDoorPosted by NemDeuxPosted by AquaNextDoor
The emotional w.hore from bethlehem
meaning, you don´t take money for services rendered?
I was throwing around with my love and emotions like a wh.ore would with her body and „services“. But yes I also slept with a few guys to gain their love. I was a just like me but more on the emotional side, drowning guys with my desperate need for love. Yeh.... ugly
i hope you´re in a better place now. but you know, don´t be too hard on yourself, who ever is without fault, may throw the first stone!
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Posted by NemDeuxPosted by AquaNextDoor
The emotional w.hore from bethlehem
meaning, you don´t take money for services rendered?click to expand
Posted by RamOfPeace
Is emotionally stunted.
I’d say that it’s another barrel roll towards millenials, but not really. Being raised in a different culure, I grew accustomed to making and building emotional connections, placing value on interpersonal relationships, and maintaining friendships.
Most of my late 20s early 30s peers here in USA however can’t even maintain one-two good connections, nevermind the buttershow their romantic love is. “Friends” are really acquaintances, there’s zero ability lin fostering emotional warmth and bonding, and the sheer fear in their eyes at “having to work to build connections” is so pathetic, I hardly give new interests the time of day anymore, once I see it.
So what gives? Bad parenting? butterty education/economic/health systems? Mass consumprion of psych medications at a developmental age? Sense of entitlement and the first world/nation factor of abundance of literally everything?
Many people from EU and third world countries will tell you that this is not a “millenial problem”, it really is a USA problem. I don’t see this butter elsewhere as much at all.
Posted by HearttofTopazz
Every time that you see them say that they look sick or tired, and then ask if they’re feeling well 🤣
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by AquaNextDoorPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by AquaNextDoor
Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
This is probably the best suggestion on here...
I‘m all over ancient aliens 😂
I think having someone to share your quirks is what relationships are all about.
Sex is important but its these little moments.... thats where you add value.click to expand
Posted by nikkistarPosted by libralionfish
For example, I get frustrated with my partner if I think someone is taking advantage of him and he does nothing to address the person or fight back. We have a shared driveway with the neighbor next door, and she is always parking her car in the driveway like she owns it. My fiance owns his house, and the neighbor is a renter. I think it's ridiculous that he's a property owner and this woman is using the driveway 99% of the time. Again, an issue with reciprocity.
I asked him why he doesn't address this issue with her and he says he doesn't want to cause any waves or ill will. Parking is very hard to find on his street and this woman is too lazy to give up the driveway. It pisses me off that he won't speak to her and I start questioning his ability to run a household. I'll say this to his face and then he feels offended and undermined.
In this situation, I understand your frustration. It's the "unfairness" of it that bothers you. But here is the thing you have to try and also understand, is that if he isn't bothered by it, and he found his own solution for himself, then you really shouldn't be so confrontational about it. After all, it is only a parking spot. Correlating how he runs a household, cannot be compared with that. Focus on how he makes you feel as a partner, not how he handles his renter. Some things are worth fighting for, and other things are trivial in the grand scheme of life.click to expand
Posted by TxOgal
@AquaNextDoor Thanks for your words.. I believe I feel this way cause of other external influences as my father already likes him alot, so it's kind of making me worried he'd point at me if this didn't work out, when it cannot be anybody's fault if we just don't feel it. His words were not at all easy for me to take.
Anyway, I shouldn't care and you got a point although I cannot get myself to see anyone for now until I make up my mind about him, blame me or my Taurus placements, I feel bad if I do so, like cheating lol I will definitely just focus on myself for now and my work. I suppose at least this will pay off when I put some more effort into it.
Thanks again, I won't get paranoid