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maleSun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    He's an embarrassment to our species.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Don't bring it up, he’ll do that each time your phone rings in next few years lol.

    But for real, let it be. He’ll chill, he knows he overreacted.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Yea I always click with Aries girls too. But it's always with sexual chemistry. They are soooo hot. They stimulate my bottom head like crazy and bring out the cave man in me. I just love their energy, beauty, the way they move, sexual confidence, flirting style and none complicated, natural approach to sex. Great sex that is. They know how to enjoy it in full and they also possess the ability not to mix it with emotions.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Posted by hydorah
    Posted by Gemitati
    Posted by hydorah
    you are 17 years older than him, I doubt that he's "stalking you"


    What would you call it? In your world?


    he wants to meet your daughter probably
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    +1
    Scorp already had his eye on the daughter. Pisces will finish the deal lol.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Gemitati seasonal migration...

    Well, that's a good thing I guess. At least she is off buttering on our forum.
    Pisces can deal with her now.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    It's called transference. You are unconsciously assigning the role of the significant person (father) to him. That's where your feeling of ”love at first sight” is coming from.

    Could be, that he can't help himself not to play that role (trying to protect you, make you solve your problems as he said, etc.), and that frustrates him, cause he feels that dynamic is off and he does not like it.

    When 15 yrs younger girls are romanticly interested in me, it's almost always that kind of game. They see and seek in me the qualities their father had or they wish he would have.

    For me, that is a no-go zone. Usually, a role playing relationships don't work out, cause you can't be yourself in them.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    In my whole life, I haven't stumbled upon 10 people that wouldn't know what their sun sign is. Being all of them crabs and also in my friend circle is like 1:1000000 chance.

    Either you live in some country where tropical zodiac isn't implemented in your culture and therefore you need to take into account your cultural specifics and how they influence the behavior of people around you, or you are just plain simple exaggerating as us crabs are known to, and your statistics are a fault.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Posted by oxSunQueenxo
    What.


    Yea... What? I lmao totally.

    First he anal inspected her, then he ate and in the end he kissed her on forehead.

    He went from back to front. Lol
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
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    resistance is futile


    That's not you. Cause If it is

    I need full picture in my inbox pronto
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    Not me. The color and the shape (when not after a night shift lol) are like mine. My eyebrows are not that well-groomed though.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    I think we're being trolled. HARD


    Yup
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    We don't ghost on people we feel are right for us. We desire their closeness.

    Either he is confused and unsure about his feelings about you, or he's joust immature douche bag with a flashy car.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    resistance is futile
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Posted by aquaglass
    UPDATE

    Cancer bestie just told me that her husband hasn't come home for 3 days in a row now.
    And she's ready to file a divorce. She said that after the filing gets done she'll stay at mine then.

    I told her let's see a therapist / mental health professional when she gets here later, with me.
    I have anxiety and i have seen a professional before, mental health awareness helps me much to cope.

    But she declined. She insists that she doesn't need it. Oh my why. I'm tired. Though i'm ready for her and kids to come here. Let's see


    You can help her, but sooner or later its gonna drain you if she doesn't start getting her butter together.
    With the next man, it'll be the same story. It's a pattern.
    I would set her clear boundaries. I'll help you, but you start helping yourself.
    She clearly has no insight, so therapy could be too much for her at the moment.
    Book arielle83 suggested could be ok for a start, so she realizes that she has problems and that with professional help they can be solved.
    If she doesn't put in some effort, I would let it go.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Posted by 2Moon
    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    Posted by aquaglass
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    Posted by aquaglass
    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    What sign was her first husband



    Anyways it seems she's got self esteem issues.


    I personally can't deal with anybody coming home after a night out with another woman

    If i tolerate that. I don't love you. I'm with you for practical reasons.

    But if i love you

    I'm a very violent person

    I mean not in the day to day

    But if you hit a nerve nothing you say will make me feel better unless i physically hurt you

    I might even stab you

    Im serious.
    So i can't be with anyone who wants to test my ptsd

    I need a calm environment and loyalty


    Her first husband was a Sagittarius.
    She's not violent, she's that crying it out and blame herself kind of cancer.

    But she told me earlier (and she probably telling me that in a very emotional way) that now she feels like she doesn't really love him the way she used to.

    She is possesive.

    But now, it feels like she's getting numb. But she still wants him for sex.

    As strange as it may sounds, she told me that when she figured out that her husband is cheating and having sex with other woman, her sex drive seems increasing significantly that he would have sex with her husband every single night and not in a submissive way.

    She wants to have sex with him as much as possible.


    Lol what's her moon and rest of her placements

    She's got to have fire somewhere but then fire is too jealous for that hot mess butter



    I don't remember her complete chart, but she is a pisces moon aries mars. I might have to check it again though, but no not a leo moon.

    CC, her husband is a Leo. And those girls that he is cheating with are Cancers too. My bestie even said that he is a cancer magnet. Speaking about Leo man that you probably want too 😋


    Leo men are hoors and i was with a hoor too

    But he wasn't my partner like that and we never had children


    That type of Leo is disgusting

    But yes crab women can be fascinated by Leo men

    They're very masculine


    Those type of cancers are disgusting*

    Fixed for ya. Sht like this happens pretty often to Cancer women...

    This guy might be a jerk, but this woman is worse imo. She is supporting his behavior, washing his feet, not respecting herself...

    She deserves this. That's what she wants secretly I guess
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    2moon did ever crossed your mind, that some people never in their entire life got care or love and the role she plays now in rs is not something she wants, but the only thing she knows and therefore this is mistaken for love.

    As someone already said, all of this has nothing to do with her being a Cancer, but everything with her psyche.

    So stop butterting on Crab women, you are only making a fool of yourself with your horse view.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Posted by aquaglass
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by aquaglass
    She got divorced, her parents raising their daughter then she met someone else.

    Few months after, she got married again with this man.


    I feel sorry most for her daughter who didn't choose this situation. Mother is more concerned about her own happiness than her childs. Thats sad.


    She got pregnant when she's in highschool.
    We're at the same class back then.
    She dropped out of hs and gave birth, etc.
    The guy who got her pregnant was at the same class too. When she was taking care of their lil daughter, he cheated on her with another girl in our class.
    It was messed up indeed.
    And i didn't know about the whole real situation (she got pregnant, etc) until few years after.

    So when her guy cheating on her in our class, i didn't know that actually my cancer bestfriend is staying at his house with their child.

    The thing that still treetrunked up my mind and so sad to think about is, her daughter doesn't know that she's her biological mother.
    Instad, the little girl knows her as her older sister.
    It's my bestfriend's parents name on her birth certificate.
    I don't know about her, but if i was her it would hurt me so much knowing my own daughter would just see me as a sister.
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    That's really messed up situation. She definitely needs some sort of therapy to gain insight into her primary family and her own dynamics.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Damn girl, you gonna get so used with this kind of attitude.
    Well, at least enjoy the sex.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Posted by Mhmmm
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    I want to say that I agree mostly with Dreamyboy here.

    OP I genuinely do understand the frustration this must cause you but in a way I can also understand why your Pisces hasn’t opened up to you yet.

    He is clearly VERY hurt over something you did or said, hurt to the core. So hurt that he needs to stay away from you. The way you’re approaching this to me as a Piscean comes across as wanting to end the silence for the sake of it.

    As an outsider reading this I don’t sense real concern from your end for the hurt he’s experiencing. Like you don’t really care that you hurt him. Maybe this is why he hasn’t opened up to you.


    This is such a victimizing bs.

    Maybe she hurt him, but those are his feelings and he should deal with them.
    You don't torture your partner and the mother of your children with silence treatment for two months. WTF?

    What are his booo hooo hooo and get away from me reactions gonna solve? Hurt to the core or not, he's gotta move in some direction.
    Mature, responsible people act on their feelings, not shut down with them and repress them.

    I would understand a few days, all of us sometimes need the time to cool down and refocus. But two months?



    1) You’re a cancer, one that has previously stated to dislike pisceans so why are you even here?

    2) I’m focusing on how OP can get the Pisces to open up and resolve the issue at hand, not who is right or wrong. Her frustrations are 100% valid and I’m definitely not saying she’s unjustified in her frustrations, but a Pisces wouldn’t shut down like that unless there was serious hurt behind it. This needs to be addressed honestly and ego’s should be put away right now.
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    1) I do not dislike Pisceans, but I do get irritated by some of their traits. This is a public forum, I don't need to like anybody to post here and I don't need a boarding pass because I'm a Cancer.

    2) I missed your point helping her, I agree with you on this.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Posted by Mhmmm
    I want to say that I agree mostly with Dreamyboy here.

    OP I genuinely do understand the frustration this must cause you but in a way I can also understand why your Pisces hasn’t opened up to you yet.

    He is clearly VERY hurt over something you did or said, hurt to the core. So hurt that he needs to stay away from you. The way you’re approaching this to me as a Piscean comes across as wanting to end the silence for the sake of it.

    As an outsider reading this I don’t sense real concern from your end for the hurt he’s experiencing. Like you don’t really care that you hurt him. Maybe this is why he hasn’t opened up to you.


    This is such a victimizing bs.

    Maybe she hurt him, but those are his feelings and he should deal with them.
    You don't torture your partner and the mother of your children with silence treatment for two months. WTF?

    What are his booo hooo hooo and get away from me reactions gonna solve? Hurt to the core or not, he's gotta move in some direction.
    Mature, responsible people act on their feelings, not shut down with them and repress them.

    I would understand a few days, all of us sometimes need the time to cool down and refocus. But two months?

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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
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    Posted by Librascorp80
    Guys!!!!!
    He JUST replied to my text I sent .

    He texted : Don't ever think that I've stopped loving you ... SO how should I respond to this ??? This is HUGE progress


    As you feel.
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    Sun-Cancer 2. Decan, Moon-Virgo, Asc-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars+Mercury-Gemini
    male
    Posted by Librascorp80
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    There is more here than just hurt (pain).
    Something else is going on.
    With pain, anger always come and you don't repress that kind of emotions for two months and avoid talking about it.

    Not talking means he doesn't even want to try to save anything.

    I would of stop pleading and confront him with the fact, that if he doesn't speak up, he'll lose his family.



    At this point I am feeling the same . There HAS to be more to this something else is def going on but unsure what ..this all just doesnt make sense to me. I have thought is he cheating ? Is he trying to break up and tell me so by his actions or make me do it so he don't have to ?? I need answers and can't get any . Not knowing is worse than anything
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    Yup, not knowing is the worst feeling. You can guess left, right, up and down, but only he knows and obviously, you cant get to him. Him avoiding for so long means he broke the bond with you and from his point of view, he doesn't want to reestablish it back again.
    But in the end, it doesn't even matter why at this moment. What matters are the facts:

    You two have problems in the relationship. Both.
    It's not only about you two, you have children.

    Indifference, avoiding and escapism won't solve your family. He must be confronted with this.
    Get counseling.