Posted by clownloyal
as a virgo woman I liked being chased the scarier the better


Is that same for virgo guy?
Posted by Earthgoddess
Posted by miriyahhh
You're an Aries, you can do better than a Virgo sis


🙄

Umm no she can not.

Listen Aries
Back away now. When he sends a msg to u ( he will) respond, be friendly but not romantically interested. Don’t tell him wat ur feeling or not feeling and do not ask to meet again👈🏽

Personally I hate to be chased cuz I honestly won’t pull away that hard if I’m interested( unless I’m confused)

But here’s the rule with us Virgos. If we are consistent. Even if we’re not being direct....there’s still a shot. Otherwise I wouldn’t even be thinkin about talkin to u unless u called me than I’m just being nice.
But I am a girl so🤷‍♀️
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Thank you for the support
Posted by Earthgoddess
Posted by miriyahhh
You're an Aries, you can do better than a Virgo sis


🙄

Umm no she can not.

Listen Aries
Back away now. When he sends a msg to u ( he will) respond, be friendly but not romantically interested. Don’t tell him wat ur feeling or not feeling and do not ask to meet again👈🏽

Personally I hate to be chased cuz I honestly won’t pull away that hard if I’m interested( unless I’m confused)

But here’s the rule with us Virgos. If we are consistent. Even if we’re not being direct....there’s still a shot. Otherwise I wouldn’t even be thinkin about talkin to u unless u called me than I’m just being nice.
But I am a girl so🤷‍♀️
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I wish he will now it's been 3 weeks no contact


Posted by UnicornSag
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by UnicornSag
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by UnicornSag
idk what problem you have to resolve with him but seems like he doesn't share interest. Move on is all I can advise, can't push him to do what he doesn't want


He said when we met that he was going to text me and meet but he found that i am very pushy but if i was pushy means that i care for the relation ,or i am wrong?


Not in the Virgo's eyes. Or any other earth sing as well lol
I mean I get you really well since my Moon is Aries, so I see it pretty much the way you do.
I was pushy with my ex Virgo to be fair, we wouldn't even be together if I wasn't like that but I don't advise that. First cause I realized we're very different people and second it's just too much pain some times and it's just not worth it. Specially if he's back with ex it's just not worth it trust me. I went through hell with this guy and no matter how good it was later I still wouldn't recommend same thing to anyone else

Are you still together??
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We broke up recently. I realized my feelings are gone and also started liking someone else...I can't be with one and like another, not even to mention to have something to do with another...
Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by Weeds
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by Weeds
Chased? No.
If it's after a breakup you may have walls to climb or you may have to compete for my attention while I stalk the ex.

And how to compete your attention??


By showing interest in him subtly.
Be consistent with that interest subtly.
It may go over his head for awhile but he will start to notice.


What if he's ignoring messages and ignoring to meet
And when i forced to meet him he said he's back with his ex so i told him i am here just because to let u know when others respect you they expect the same so don't ignore msgs
So he said ahhh you are here closure of our relation not to find solution , how can i ask for solution or chance if he's saying he's back with his ex ??? Can't understand him



Why are you trying to chase someone that is blocking and ignoring you?

Then you forced to meet him??

That’s not good
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He didn't blocked me and tbh he just ignored some msgs but always reply the msgs that he ignore is when i ask to meet otherwise he always reply
Last msg i asked to meet for coffee and he didn't reply so i went to see him
Posted by UnicornSag
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by UnicornSag
idk what problem you have to resolve with him but seems like he doesn't share interest. Move on is all I can advise, can't push him to do what he doesn't want


He said when we met that he was going to text me and meet but he found that i am very pushy but if i was pushy means that i care for the relation ,or i am wrong?


Not in the Virgo's eyes. Or any other earth sing as well lol
I mean I get you really well since my Moon is Aries, so I see it pretty much the way you do.
I was pushy with my ex Virgo to be fair, we wouldn't even be together if I wasn't like that but I don't advise that. First cause I realized we're very different people and second it's just too much pain some times and it's just not worth it. Specially if he's back with ex it's just not worth it trust me. I went through hell with this guy and no matter how good it was later I still wouldn't recommend same thing to anyone else
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Are you still together??
Posted by UnicornSag
idk what problem you have to resolve with him but seems like he doesn't share interest. Move on is all I can advise, can't push him to do what he doesn't want


He said when we met that he was going to text me and meet but he found that i am very pushy but if i was pushy means that i care for the relation ,or i am wrong?
Posted by Weeds
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by Weeds
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by Weeds
Chased? No.
If it's after a breakup you may have walls to climb or you may have to compete for my attention while I stalk the ex.

And how to compete your attention??


By showing interest in him subtly.
Be consistent with that interest subtly.
It may go over his head for awhile but he will start to notice.


What if he's ignoring messages and ignoring to meet
And when i forced to meet him he said he's back with his ex so i told him i am here just because to let u know when others respect you they expect the same so don't ignore msgs
So he said ahhh you are here closure of our relation not to find solution , how can i ask for solution or chance if he's saying he's back with his ex ??? Can't understand him



then there is no reason to waste time on him.
Fact is that ex will be an ex again at a later time.
If you feel he is worth trying for wait to pick his pathetic corpse back up when he fails to patch things up with his ex.
But at this point there is nothing you can do.

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But i think he was lying cz if he's back with ex , so why he said ahh u are here not to fix the problem u are just here to teach me a lesson
That means he was looking to solve the problem or i am wrong??
In any way i don't know how to reach him we are not connected on social media just whatsApp and no common freinds 😥😥😥
Posted by Weeds
Posted by Aries_89
Posted by Weeds
Chased? No.
If it's after a breakup you may have walls to climb or you may have to compete for my attention while I stalk the ex.

And how to compete your attention??


By showing interest in him subtly.
Be consistent with that interest subtly.
It may go over his head for awhile but he will start to notice.
click to expand


What if he's ignoring messages and ignoring to meet
And when i forced to meet him he said he's back with his ex so i told him i am here just because to let u know when others respect you they expect the same so don't ignore msgs
So he said ahhh you are here closure of our relation not to find solution , how can i ask for solution or chance if he's saying he's back with his ex ??? Can't understand him

Posted by Weeds
Chased? No.
If it's after a breakup you may have walls to climb or you may have to compete for my attention while I stalk the ex.

And how to compete your attention??
Do Virgo guy like to be chased after breakup or he will find it as it is pushy way