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meh.

😁😁 I would like to but I ain't a quitter. 😂😂

I am trapped.
I'm this close to quitting👌 😁😁
I haaaaaatttteeeeee mmmmyyyyyyyy jjjjjoooooobbbbbbbb.... wooooooohooooooo!
Lol that's a fully loaded comment right there. 😁😁
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Look it's obvious he likes you, what you want ? a pat on the back, have you ever seen a crab act like they gave a treetruk when they really didn't?




Do you ever do something just cause you feel sympathetic.. or as they say.. pity?

I don't know if he is doing things out of pity.. or because he's bored of his (could be) wife.. or because he likes me. I'm not sure.


If he has a wife you need to stay away from him

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I know trying to figure it out.
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How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.


Wtf.


I didn't say it to be a dick. I'd think you'd know me a bit better than that by now.


What I said is true. I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow.


" I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow."

I understood that; however I still don't believe...

"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

.. and here's why. You stated

"If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking."

So... if you simply wanted to know purely for the sake of knowledge then there would be no harm if he were to wonder why you asked, because you could simply, and honestly, reply 'I was just curious because I wanted to understand who you are as a person in a more complete way'. It quite simply wouldn't be a big deal.

This is apparently not the case though, and the fact that you want to know without him knowing... to the extent of making a forum post trying to figure out how, only proves that you do want to 'get into' the discussion about his romantic situation, but you don't know how to approach it. You're looking for ways to reduce your fear of the unknown... which is fine. I'm not judging you in any way.


Well thank you captain obvious.

He's already showing signs that he might be into me. If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs. We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married. Cos it would be weird to face him everyday.


If we removed the entire concept of him being or not being in a relationship from the equation... Then would you be, or are you, interested in this man? Simple yes or no.


If me thinking about him and me doing inappropriate things together equal to me being interested.. then yes.


Then your worry over

"If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs"

Is irrational because he is correct no matter if he were to say yes or he were to say no. Also...

"We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married."

being direct would give you the answer you're looking for, and if he says 'no' great, but if he says 'yes' (even if he asks why) you could simply say 'I thought 'you were showing signs that you may be into me' and wanted to know if that were true or if I may have been misreading your intent in some way'.

There's already a created awkwardness present. At least this way you can take control of the situation, on your terms, and nip it in the butt.


No we are still at unspoken ambiguity. Which is mighty fine. He talks when needed... albeit being a bit weird. But I don't need things escalating. What if he is just interested in sex and we do have sex and then he stops talking and then there would be awkwardness. Or i reject him cos I don't do casual. Then there is another awkwardness.

I don't even wanna think about that.


I have a better question...

What if all of your questions don't matter because you never find the courage within yourself to address the situation in the first place before the window of opportunity closes?


Don't fix something that's not broken.

There are things I prioritise over a nice guy. And those are relevant to me. If he likes me he can grow a pair and let me know.


I told you from the beginning that I wasn't judging you for, or for how you're approaching the situation, lol. Everything between that and now was simply to get you to think about the situation in a different way to help you with your own self discovery. Seems it worked


You're just being an ass.. go away.


"You're just being an ass.."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true.lol

Regardless... I'll just leave it at that, will go away as to respect your request, and offer you a parting wish of good luck with finding resolvement to your situation.
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How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.


Wtf.


I didn't say it to be a dick. I'd think you'd know me a bit better than that by now.


What I said is true. I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow.


" I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow."

I understood that; however I still don't believe...

"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

.. and here's why. You stated

"If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking."

So... if you simply wanted to know purely for the sake of knowledge then there would be no harm if he were to wonder why you asked, because you could simply, and honestly, reply 'I was just curious because I wanted to understand who you are as a person in a more complete way'. It quite simply wouldn't be a big deal.

This is apparently not the case though, and the fact that you want to know without him knowing... to the extent of making a forum post trying to figure out how, only proves that you do want to 'get into' the discussion about his romantic situation, but you don't know how to approach it. You're looking for ways to reduce your fear of the unknown... which is fine. I'm not judging you in any way.


Well thank you captain obvious.

He's already showing signs that he might be into me. If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs. We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married. Cos it would be weird to face him everyday.


If we removed the entire concept of him being or not being in a relationship from the equation... Then would you be, or are you, interested in this man? Simple yes or no.


If me thinking about him and me doing inappropriate things together equal to me being interested.. then yes.


Then your worry over

"If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs"

Is irrational because he is correct no matter if he were to say yes or he were to say no. Also...

"We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married."

being direct would give you the answer you're looking for, and if he says 'no' great, but if he says 'yes' (even if he asks why) you could simply say 'I thought 'you were showing signs that you may be into me' and wanted to know if that were true or if I may have been misreading your intent in some way'.

There's already a created awkwardness present. At least this way you can take control of the situation, on your terms, and nip it in the butt.


No we are still at unspoken ambiguity. Which is mighty fine. He talks when needed... albeit being a bit weird. But I don't need things escalating. What if he is just interested in sex and we do have sex and then he stops talking and then there would be awkwardness. Or i reject him cos I don't do casual. Then there is another awkwardness.

I don't even wanna think about that.


I have a better question...

What if all of your questions don't matter because you never find the courage within yourself to address the situation in the first place before the window of opportunity closes?


Don't fix something that's not broken.

There are things I prioritise over a nice guy. And those are relevant to me. If he likes me he can grow a pair and let me know.


I told you from the beginning that I wasn't judging you for, or for how you're approaching the situation, lol. Everything between that and now was simply to get you to think about the situation in a different way to help you with your own self discovery. Seems it worked
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You're just being an ass.. go away.
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Posted by m200991
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Posted by m200991
Posted by Astrology101
How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.


Wtf.


I didn't say it to be a dick. I'd think you'd know me a bit better than that by now.


What I said is true. I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow.


" I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow."

I understood that; however I still don't believe...

"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

.. and here's why. You stated

"If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking."

So... if you simply wanted to know purely for the sake of knowledge then there would be no harm if he were to wonder why you asked, because you could simply, and honestly, reply 'I was just curious because I wanted to understand who you are as a person in a more complete way'. It quite simply wouldn't be a big deal.

This is apparently not the case though, and the fact that you want to know without him knowing... to the extent of making a forum post trying to figure out how, only proves that you do want to 'get into' the discussion about his romantic situation, but you don't know how to approach it. You're looking for ways to reduce your fear of the unknown... which is fine. I'm not judging you in any way.


Well thank you captain obvious.

He's already showing signs that he might be into me. If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs. We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married. Cos it would be weird to face him everyday.


If we removed the entire concept of him being or not being in a relationship from the equation... Then would you be, or are you, interested in this man? Simple yes or no.


If me thinking about him and me doing inappropriate things together equal to me being interested.. then yes.


Then your worry over

"If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs"

Is irrational because he is correct no matter if he were to say yes or he were to say no. Also...

"We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married."

being direct would give you the answer you're looking for, and if he says 'no' great, but if he says 'yes' (even if he asks why) you could simply say 'I thought 'you were showing signs that you may be into me' and wanted to know if that were true or if I may have been misreading your intent in some way'.

There's already a created awkwardness present. At least this way you can take control of the situation, on your terms, and nip it in the butt.


No we are still at unspoken ambiguity. Which is mighty fine. He talks when needed... albeit being a bit weird. But I don't need things escalating. What if he is just interested in sex and we do have sex and then he stops talking and then there would be awkwardness. Or i reject him cos I don't do casual. Then there is another awkwardness.

I don't even wanna think about that.


I have a better question...

What if all of your questions don't matter because you never find the courage within yourself to address the situation in the first place before the window of opportunity closes?
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Don't fix something that's not broken.

There are things I prioritise over a nice guy. And those are relevant to me. If he likes me he can grow a pair and let me know.
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Posted by Astrology101
How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.


Wtf.


I didn't say it to be a dick. I'd think you'd know me a bit better than that by now.


What I said is true. I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow.


" I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow."

I understood that; however I still don't believe...

"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

.. and here's why. You stated

"If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking."

So... if you simply wanted to know purely for the sake of knowledge then there would be no harm if he were to wonder why you asked, because you could simply, and honestly, reply 'I was just curious because I wanted to understand who you are as a person in a more complete way'. It quite simply wouldn't be a big deal.

This is apparently not the case though, and the fact that you want to know without him knowing... to the extent of making a forum post trying to figure out how, only proves that you do want to 'get into' the discussion about his romantic situation, but you don't know how to approach it. You're looking for ways to reduce your fear of the unknown... which is fine. I'm not judging you in any way.


Well thank you captain obvious.

He's already showing signs that he might be into me. If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs. We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married. Cos it would be weird to face him everyday.


If we removed the entire concept of him being or not being in a relationship from the equation... Then would you be, or are you, interested in this man? Simple yes or no.


If me thinking about him and me doing inappropriate things together equal to me being interested.. then yes.


Then your worry over

"If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs"

Is irrational because he is correct no matter if he were to say yes or he were to say no. Also...

"We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married."

being direct would give you the answer you're looking for, and if he says 'no' great, but if he says 'yes' (even if he asks why) you could simply say 'I thought 'you were showing signs that you may be into me' and wanted to know if that were true or if I may have been misreading your intent in some way'.

There's already a created awkwardness present. At least this way you can take control of the situation, on your terms, and nip it in the butt.
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No we are still at unspoken ambiguity. Which is mighty fine. He talks when needed... albeit being a bit weird. But I don't need things escalating. What if he is just interested in sex and we do have sex and then he stops talking and then there would be awkwardness. Or i reject him cos I don't do casual. Then there is another awkwardness.

I don't even wanna think about that.
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Posted by Astrology101
How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.


Wtf.


I didn't say it to be a dick. I'd think you'd know me a bit better than that by now.


What I said is true. I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow.


" I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow."

I understood that; however I still don't believe...

"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

.. and here's why. You stated

"If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking."

So... if you simply wanted to know purely for the sake of knowledge then there would be no harm if he were to wonder why you asked, because you could simply, and honestly, reply 'I was just curious because I wanted to understand who you are as a person in a more complete way'. It quite simply wouldn't be a big deal.

This is apparently not the case though, and the fact that you want to know without him knowing... to the extent of making a forum post trying to figure out how, only proves that you do want to 'get into' the discussion about his romantic situation, but you don't know how to approach it. You're looking for ways to reduce your fear of the unknown... which is fine. I'm not judging you in any way.


Well thank you captain obvious.

He's already showing signs that he might be into me. If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs. We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married. Cos it would be weird to face him everyday.


If we removed the entire concept of him being or not being in a relationship from the equation... Then would you be, or are you, interested in this man? Simple yes or no.
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If me thinking about him and me doing inappropriate things together equals to me being interested.. then yes.
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Posted by m200991
Posted by Astrology101
How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.


Wtf.


I didn't say it to be a dick. I'd think you'd know me a bit better than that by now.


What I said is true. I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow.


" I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow."

I understood that; however I still don't believe...

"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

.. and here's why. You stated

"If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking."

So... if you simply wanted to know purely for the sake of knowledge then there would be no harm if he were to wonder why you asked, because you could simply, and honestly, reply 'I was just curious because I wanted to understand who you are as a person in a more complete way'. It quite simply wouldn't be a big deal.

This is apparently not the case though, and the fact that you want to know without him knowing... to the extent of making a forum post trying to figure out how, only proves that you do want to 'get into' the discussion about his romantic situation, but you don't know how to approach it. You're looking for ways to reduce your fear of the unknown... which is fine. I'm not judging you in any way.
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Well thank you captain obvious.

He's already showing signs that he might be into me. If I ask he might think I'm reacting to some of his signs. We work together so I don't want him to think I'm into him if he is married. Cos it would be weird to face him everyday.

10 hours
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Posted by Astrology101
How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.


Wtf.


I didn't say it to be a dick. I'd think you'd know me a bit better than that by now.
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What I said is true. I don't want to ask him of his relationship status. But I'd like to know about it somehow.
Posted by m200991
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Posted by m200991
Posted by Astrology101
How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.


If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.


"and this is a personal query I don't want to get into."

I believe you and I both know this part of your statement isn't entirely true. I'll just leave it at that and wish you luck in finding the answers you seek.
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Wtf.
End Call.
Being a scorpio moon and having to deal with people everyday. 😥😥

Gawd haalp me.
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How to tell if a Cancer guy likes you?

Are there any special tells?. Also how do I find out if he's already in a relationship/married?


Go to a convenience store with them. I don't think there's a Cancer I know that doesn't also buy some random thing to bring home for their s/o. If he's getting 2 bags of chips, or 2 of the same candy bars, and they're not b1g1... odds are one of those is for someone else.

Sounds totally random, but if it works it works, lol.

Or.... you can just ask them.
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If I ask him.. he'll wonder why I'm asking.
I don't want him to know. Especially cause we work together and this is a personal query I don't want to get into.
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He will literally pounce on you and shove his tongue down your throat like he is in a marathon to save america until you shove him off and slap him across the face.
IME.


This he hasn't done.