Posted by halalbae
Posted by beebeeN
I rather take myself out of the situation if I can’t get what I want.


Thats smart, I have such a hard time giving up on people who really touch my heart 😭 even when it seems as if they want me to

But once Im done trying, theres no getting back in my good graces
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I’ve had a hard time letting go as well, I don’t like giving up on people but people don’t give you a choice
Posted by halalbae
Love is my achilles heel. Once I care about someone, Im unable to pretend not to care. Ill never be afraid to show it as long as the other person makes me feel important and valuable to them. The whole world could be against them and Id still be right there with them.

If the guve and take is mutual, Ill have the patience of a saint. I would stay faithful even when our relationship isnt good.


Ignoring me, not communicating and not putting their ego aside tho, that will make me go cold and abandon them. Irreversibly.


I’m the exact same way, once I care, I can’t hide it 😩 if you ignore me, that’s the best way to puss me off and push me away. If I like someone, I want all of their attention and I rather take myself out of the situation if I can’t get what I want.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
I can relate to this. You spent too much time with Aries dude? Lol


Lmao!!! Ehhhh I would say I had time to reflect and realized it isn’t that deep with him 🤷🏾‍♀️
Posted by nano
Hmm I can't connect with this much. I'm a may 24 gem, and I take things pretty slow and am always the first one to end things or back off, which I find any reason to do. I make excuses in my head to NOT be with someone. I guess you could say that I am overly cautious and emotionally unavailable to most men lol.

I have found that I either have very strong feelings about a guy initially and things go very quickly from there (very rare), or well...not at all.

If I fall in love, I know I'm in love so I never realize that I wasn't in love with someone after the fact lol.

I am actually very jealous and insecure in relationships.

Basically, I am the total opposite of you 😆😆

I have a nasty temper too though. Nothing, and I mean nothing, is off limits when I reach a point of pure unadulterated rage. Mars cancer opposite Capricorn moon. Luckily that doesn't happen too often though.


Hmmmmm 🤔 I’ve read and heard that May and June Gemini’s are very different. And I envy your emotional unavailability I’m too available lol
Heeey ladies!

I’m a June 15th Gemini and was wondering if anyone has the same habits/characteristics as me...
If I connect with someone, I often get ahead of myself and the situation. I often “think my way into” a relationship with a person. After things don’t work out, I realize that I wasn’t really in love or even really liked the person in the first place lol.
In my relationships, I’m pretty chill not jealous or insecure unless given a reason to be. I have a BAD temper. When mad, I’m liable to say anything
Posted by Senorita_LL
Women: YES I love them all
Men: NO (Except for my son)

I'd rather choke on a cactus than to date another Aquarius ever again. Especially the double Aqua. JS.


I love Aqua’s 😂😭 they are soooo full of butter though
Posted by vixen14
What is a relationship (both platonic and romantically speaking) between a Gemini and Aquarius relationship? Specifically between a Gemini male with Aquarius female and Aquarius male with Gemini female? The good and the bad. Where do you feel it goes great and where it goes wrong?


Awww man where do I start lol I had a great bond with a Aquarius male. Intellectually, we could talk about anything. Even though we weren’t together, I felt connected to him on another level. I always could tell when something was wrong with him almost immediately. Our sex was amazing as well lol. It’s great that we were great friends and we connected so well mentally.

Now for the bad...Aquarius male can be restless, and he can be a bit of a manipulator (found books in my Aqua guys room on how to “get people to do wha you want them to do”). I think he was genuine however, he was a flake and was inconsiderate. Granted, while he displayed some typical Aqua behavior, everyone is different. My Aqua made the choice to not be committed so everyone is different.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you told him no sex before and then treetrunked him anyways? If you’ve set a precedent the damage is already done.


I have done that before so i don’t blame him for trying again....this time my actions will speak for me
Posted by Rametta
Posted by beebeeN
Posted by Rametta
I dunno girl, if MY fwb said no more sex and just “chill out” or hang out or whatever anything along the lines I’d
1. Think they might be catching feelings and then cut ties so there is nothing I do to give them the wrong idea

2. Probably be too uninterested in them otherwise to have much of a relationship as just friends with them unless we were really close before, and therefore just cut ties with them

3. Hold off for a bit to see if they would want to try again.

A friend with benefits if for benefits without the romantic title, take the benefits away it becomes basic and a bit boring. Loses the pazzaz, but if you guys are close I don’t see the issue.


He definitely was trying to have sex lol I called him on it.,,, I had to reiterate what I told him I wouldn’t mind just hanging with him but if he feels he can change my mind then I won’t..... who knows wtf is going on with him...I’m pretty sure he just wants to treetrunk.


Why are you saying you’re “pretty sure” I think it’s obviously that sex is what he cares about. You are friends with benefits, what exactly is the problem?
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Cause you said that maybe he might be catching feelings while anythingbis possible I’m pretty sure that sex is all he wants
Posted by Rametta
I dunno girl, if MY fwb said no more sex and just “chill out” or hang out or whatever anything along the lines I’d
1. Think they might be catching feelings and then cut ties so there is nothing I do to give them the wrong idea

2. Probably be too uninterested in them otherwise to have much of a relationship as just friends with them unless we were really close before, and therefore just cut ties with them

3. Hold off for a bit to see if they would want to try again.

A friend with benefits if for benefits without the romantic title, take the benefits away it becomes basic and a bit boring. Loses the pazzaz, but if you guys are close I don’t see the issue.


He definitely was trying to have sex lol I called him on it.,,, I had to reiterate what I told him I wouldn’t mind just hanging with him but if he feels he can change my mind then I won’t..... who knows wtf is going on with him...I’m pretty sure he just wants to treetrunk.
In my experience, Aries Man sec is bomb! Not much foreplay and if you like it rough, then he’s your cup of tea
Posted by Senorita_LL
Posted by beebeeN
Posted by Senorita_LL
Posted by beebeeN
Posted by Senorita_LL
Told ya NO, told ya SO.

Aries aren't made for us the Gems. Lol


I guess not lmao again, gotta learn the hard way. I respect that he has been honest though so I’m not mad


Yeah, but I understand.

We Gems always need to learn through the hard way. It's all good. At least we try! I'm with you baby!


Haha we try, it turns into a butter show, then we keep it moving lol


Exactly! Haha...

I don't dwell for long if the person can't be on the same page. I will just sulk for a bit and push my move forward button.

The only one that gave me a hard time was my ex Sag. Geez...lol

Eh, find an earth man. Lmaooooo
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I am the exact same way...I’ll give myself a few days then i don’t care anymore lol

And giiiiirl my Sag “ex” stayed in my system for awhile....... no more fire signs 🤦🏾‍♀️

I thought Gemini’s don’t mesh well with Earth signs?
Posted by Senorita_LL
Posted by beebeeN
Posted by Senorita_LL
Told ya NO, told ya SO.

Aries aren't made for us the Gems. Lol


I guess not lmao again, gotta learn the hard way. I respect that he has been honest though so I’m not mad


Yeah, but I understand.

We Gems always need to learn through the hard way. It's all good. At least we try! I'm with you baby!
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Haha we try, it turns into a butter show, then we keep it moving lol
Posted by Senorita_LL
Told ya NO, told ya SO.

Aries aren't made for us the Gems. Lol


I guess not lmao again, gotta learn the hard way. I respect that he has been honest though so I’m not mad
Posted by SpaceBird
Posted by beebeeN

I told him we can just be cool and we can hang out in the future but no sex...



he's not going to like that
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He doesn’t lol oh well 🤷🏾‍♀️ He has other options and in life we don’t always get what we want, but we survive lol
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
What are you again, Gemini?


surprise

beebeeN, please stay away from this Aries, he will eat you for breakfast with your everchanging bluff..

I can understand that you are interested in him, you thought you two are dating exclusively or it may lead to it, you were exited, and then the not nice reality kicked in with this "dating multiple people" jerk of yours...

then out of pride you told him you will be okey with fwb.... and what more, believing in it yourself, and telling us here, that "you will date and have sex whenever you want, so things will be uncomplicated"

I am really happy you backtracked from this insane fwb idea...

are you dating anybody else? you seem still too much interested in him.... so just be completely honest with yourself and with us (but not with him, or at least not for now, until you finally get clean with yourself first)


Lol you're quoting me. I'm not messing around with Aries dudes, they are my little brothers .
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They’re a handful, never have I seen anything like it. I do love how honest they are
Posted by Pandora101
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
What are you again, Gemini?


surprise

beebeeN, please stay away from this Aries, he will eat you for breakfast with your everchanging bluff..

I can understand that you are interested in him, you thought you two are dating exclusively or it may lead to it, you were exited, and then the not nice reality kicked in with this "dating multiple people" jerk of yours...

then out of pride you told him you will be okey with fwb.... and what more, believing in it yourself, and telling us here, that "you will date and have sex whenever you want, so things will be uncomplicated"

I am really happy you backtracked from this insane fwb idea...

are you dating anybody else? you seem still too much interested in him.... so just be completely honest with yourself and with us (but not with him, or at least not for now, until you finally get clean with yourself first)
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Hey! I’m not dating anyone else at the moment, not really looking to. I thought about it and back tracked because I know myself.

So like I thought, he was going to try and have sex lol I had to remind him of what I said and that I meant it. He seems salty but I don’t care, it’s not like we are really friends anyway so he doesn’t have to deal with me and i don’t have to deal with him.

Honestly, I think I just got ahead of myself, like I️ usually do. He’s cool and while I do like him, it’s not going anywhere so why waste my time and energy?
Posted by RooSagicorn
Haha he’s not taking no for an answer!


He’s not! And I’ve gone back on the no sex thing in the past so he is definitely calling my bluff
Posted by miriyahhh
Aries men are sex crazed. The ones I've known anyway. That's what puts me off of them.

But I'm Aries and the same way sometimes not gonna lie so IDK.


He’s very sex crazed! 🙄 I can be as well but I’m not right now lol not having pointless sex anymore so Aries Man might have to kick me to the curb