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beebeeN
joined July 07, 2016
  • Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by beebeeN
    So..... how is dating supposed to work? Is asking to date exclusively too much to ask? Does a man not wanting to be exclusive indicate his feelings for you? No exclusivity= he's just not that into you?


    Dating is not about what the man wants. It’s about what YOU want.

    Once you change your mentality you’ll notice a difference in the caliber of men you attract. click to expand
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    Girrrrrl yesssssssssss get me together!!!! Lol this is SO true.
  • Posted by AerialView
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by AerialView
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by AerialView
    So many women out there. Think about that as a man.


    I understand that, but there's soooo many men out here as well.

    My question to you is where does that leave women?? And are we supposed to get in line with this??? click to expand


    Personally I don't believe in monogamy. It's an old product.

    Yeah you should get in line and play the game 😜 deal with it. click to expand


    Lmao OFCOURSE you believe this lol why don't you believe in monogamy??? click to expand


    It's almost impossible to do it correctly. click to expand
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    Why?
  • Posted by Sagittaire_
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by Sagittaire_
    It is not too much actually.. depending who you date lol

    But I usually mirror.. if i sense or know you date others or still exploring your options then i will do the same too..

    if i sense or know you're serious with me, then I will focus on you.


    Hmmm how has this worked for you? Especially if you really like the person click to expand


    Does the person you really like also date others?

    Then it is alright for you to do the same. To me, it works like some sort of protection.. so that I dont get my hopes up.. and I dont focus only on him.. so if everything burns then.. on to the next

    But if things suddenly change in the future and he wants exclusivity... then focus on him.

    plus I dont make someone a priority when all I am to him, is an option 😘 click to expand
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    This definitely is true!
  • Posted by AerialView
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by AerialView
    So many women out there. Think about that as a man.


    I understand that, but there's soooo many men out here as well.

    My question to you is where does that leave women?? And are we supposed to get in line with this??? click to expand


    Personally I don't believe in monogamy. It's an old product.

    Yeah you should get in line and play the game 😜 deal with it. click to expand
    click to expand


    Lmao OFCOURSE you believe this lol why don't you believe in monogamy???
  • Posted by Sagittaire_
    It is not too much actually.. depending who you date lol

    But I usually mirror.. if i sense or know you date others or still exploring your options then i will do the same too..

    if i sense or know you're serious with me, then I will focus on you.


    Hmmm how has this worked for you? Especially if you really like the person
  • Posted by AerialView
    So many women out there. Think about that as a man.


    I understand that, but there's soooo many men out here as well.

    My question to you is where does that leave women?? And are we supposed to get in line with this???
  • Posted by pisceanloves
    Yeah I don't get that either. I never date multiple people at once and it also stings me that someone I like might be seeing others as well and might be even sleeping with them???? 0_0
    If he wants to date others he can do so, but without me. I'm gonna back off and watch. This isn't a competition, but again asking for exclusivity sounds too much for most of guys.


    This is exaclty how I feel! I never date multiple people and once I like someone I can't handle them dating someone else. I told my friend and she told me that I need to get a grip, that's why I'm like damn, are my expectations too high? I definitely feel like it's a competition and it's not something I'm willing to be a part of
  • Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
    Posted by beebeeN
    Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
    If a man doesn’t want to be exclusive he probably thinks he has other options.

    I’m monogamous for life. I don’t share.


    That's what I think too smh. What I don't understand is where does this leave women? Are we to hold out for exclusivity? Deal with the guy that's honest ("I'm dating other people")? Assume that if the guy says he's not dating other people, he still is becasue that's how dating works now?!
    I am super monogamous too, I can't share so I am having a really hard time click to expand


    Yeah, just have to discuss it and say what your expectations are upfront. Don’t get too down about it though, not all men keep their opinions open. Also don’t get physical until you get the commitment you want. click to expand
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    It's hard to not get down about it Sad But I have to learn from my mistakes, be upfront about what I want and don't get physical.
  • Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
    If a man doesn’t want to be exclusive he probably thinks he has other options.

    I’m monogamous for life. I don’t share.


    That's what I think too smh. What I don't understand is where does this leave women? Are we to hold out for exclusivity? Deal with the guy that's honest ("I'm dating other people")? Assume that if the guy says he's not dating other people, he still is becasue that's how dating works now?!
    I am super monogamous too, I can't share so I am having a really hard time Sad
  • So..... how is dating supposed to work? Is asking to date exclusively too much to ask? Does a man not wanting to be exclusive indicate his feelings for you? No exclusivity= he's just not that into you?
  • What is this combo like? Romantically and friendship wise?
  • What is your experience with this combo? Mentally spiritually and sexually?
  • Posted by halalbae
    Posted by beebeeN
    I rather take myself out of the situation if I can’t get what I want.


    Thats smart, I have such a hard time giving up on people who really touch my heart 😭 even when it seems as if they want me to

    But once Im done trying, theres no getting back in my good graces
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    I’ve had a hard time letting go as well, I don’t like giving up on people but people don’t give you a choice
  • Posted by halalbae
    Love is my achilles heel. Once I care about someone, Im unable to pretend not to care. Ill never be afraid to show it as long as the other person makes me feel important and valuable to them. The whole world could be against them and Id still be right there with them.

    If the guve and take is mutual, Ill have the patience of a saint. I would stay faithful even when our relationship isnt good.


    Ignoring me, not communicating and not putting their ego aside tho, that will make me go cold and abandon them. Irreversibly.


    I’m the exact same way, once I care, I can’t hide it 😩 if you ignore me, that’s the best way to puss me off and push me away. If I like someone, I want all of their attention and I rather take myself out of the situation if I can’t get what I want.
  • Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
    I can relate to this. You spent too much time with Aries dude? Lol


    Lmao!!! Ehhhh I would say I had time to reflect and realized it isn’t that deep with him 🤷🏾‍♀️
  • Posted by nano
    Hmm I can't connect with this much. I'm a may 24 gem, and I take things pretty slow and am always the first one to end things or back off, which I find any reason to do. I make excuses in my head to NOT be with someone. I guess you could say that I am overly cautious and emotionally unavailable to most men lol.

    I have found that I either have very strong feelings about a guy initially and things go very quickly from there (very rare), or well...not at all.

    If I fall in love, I know I'm in love so I never realize that I wasn't in love with someone after the fact lol.

    I am actually very jealous and insecure in relationships.

    Basically, I am the total opposite of you 😆😆

    I have a nasty temper too though. Nothing, and I mean nothing, is off limits when I reach a point of pure unadulterated rage. Mars cancer opposite Capricorn moon. Luckily that doesn't happen too often though.


    Hmmmmm 🤔 I’ve read and heard that May and June Gemini’s are very different. And I envy your emotional unavailability I’m too available lol
  • Heeey ladies!

    I’m a June 15th Gemini and was wondering if anyone has the same habits/characteristics as me...
    If I connect with someone, I often get ahead of myself and the situation. I often “think my way into” a relationship with a person. After things don’t work out, I realize that I wasn’t really in love or even really liked the person in the first place lol.
    In my relationships, I’m pretty chill not jealous or insecure unless given a reason to be. I have a BAD temper. When mad, I’m liable to say anything
  • Posted by Senorita_LL
    Women: YES I love them all
    Men: NO (Except for my son)

    I'd rather choke on a cactus than to date another Aquarius ever again. Especially the double Aqua. JS. Big Grin


    I love Aqua’s 😂😭 they are soooo full of butter though
  • Posted by vixen14
    What is a relationship (both platonic and romantically speaking) between a Gemini and Aquarius relationship? Specifically between a Gemini male with Aquarius female and Aquarius male with Gemini female? The good and the bad. Where do you feel it goes great and where it goes wrong?


    Awww man where do I start lol I had a great bond with a Aquarius male. Intellectually, we could talk about anything. Even though we weren’t together, I felt connected to him on another level. I always could tell when something was wrong with him almost immediately. Our sex was amazing as well lol. It’s great that we were great friends and we connected so well mentally.

    Now for the bad...Aquarius male can be restless, and he can be a bit of a manipulator (found books in my Aqua guys room on how to “get people to do wha you want them to do”). I think he was genuine however, he was a flake and was inconsiderate. Granted, while he displayed some typical Aqua behavior, everyone is different. My Aqua made the choice to not be committed so everyone is different.

  • Posted by LadyNeptune
    Have you told him no sex before and then treetrunked him anyways? If you’ve set a precedent the damage is already done.


    I have done that before so i don’t blame him for trying again....this time my actions will speak for me