The Drowning Gemini - Welcome to the Dark Side


Life Path - 38/11

Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Asc - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House


Posted by imbatgirl14
You can never be friends with an ex when there are feelings involved. I learned that the hard way. Cut ties before it's too late.


I agree with this.. You can't be friends with him if it hurts your feelings that he is with someone else. I am friends with my Leo ex, but there are no feelings involved. I wouldn't be put off if he asked me to not msg him when he had company.. that is just a respectful thing to do.
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Posted by blackphase
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Posted by blackphase
Dang... I smoke that butter like it's gonna stop growing! Where's all my ass and kitty?


Sowie I only got dick to give you no ass or kitty


Yeah but dicks are stressful.. and kitties are cute


This dick is divine intervention lol and you're right kitties r cute not all tho only some
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Hahahaha.
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My parents gave me a house and let me live rent free. Its totally my own place. 2 bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom, and living area. Perfect for a single mother with a kid. Come live a care free life, just don't mind the noise upstairs.

So you think that will work?


oh my god!!!! lots of single women would love you!!!

can you offer free plane flights and immigration over to Australia or the United States if your online girlfriend is in Asia or Middle east or something?


Sure. I can offer anything lol. As long as they don't think it's weird. Most women dream of a man doing it all on his own, but times are hard and my life is pretty comfortable the way it is. Sure I could move out and live on my own with practically nothing, but why?





if she's bringing her babies with her to you, you better set up some health insurance for both mommy and baby too!!

lots of responsibilities!!!

also, make sure there's plenty of food in the kitchen for her and the baby!

help her a lot!! she will be lost there in a new country.


The only issue is how do you find these type of people without looking like a desperate lonely freeloader?



How to find them.... DXP


Sometimes I don't know if people are being serious or joking here lol. I was expecting to get bombarded with "Omg you live in the same house as your parents? You pos."

I guess that's just my moon assuming everyone is out to get me and put me down. I'm being 100% serious though, it would be great to have a female friend/ lover to live with. It's all I lack at this point in life.

I obviously have a job laying tile too. So it's not like the person living with me wouldn't get a break. I also make full wage from the jobs I do. My parents don't make me pay anything.

But that's why my parents will get to live in their own house as they grow old. I will take care of them till the end since they do the same for me.



Yeah.. I don't know either.. Lol
I knew you lived with them, but I thought you were only saying it in this thread to be funny. And yeah, it is sort of expected to be butter on here for that. I think it's really respectable that you are there for your parents in turn.

I hope you do find someone great cause you don't deserve anything less than that!


Tyvm, and I hope so. I've been dreaming about women for weeks now, which means someone is coming my way or my mind is reminding me I should be searching. Really I want to get really fit and muscular first. I want to take all the exercise I started doing last year and double it. No triple! I want to be the older me. Full of confidence and ego, but a balanced amount. I feel I'll find the right one when I first change myself to be better.



I can understand why you want to work on your image as that does help to give confidence when scouting for a mate, I get that for sure. And if that is what will make you happy then that is all that matters. Will note that I think you are perfectly fine the way you are and the right woman will simply appreciate you for you.. maybe the right one will also be someone who wants to get fit and work on her self image And yes, the right one should help change you for the better, I think that's how you know when you have found "that one"


That would be amazing lol. I always see couples riding bikes or simply walking the nature trail together and I always think of how much I'd love to experience it with someone special. My friends are too lazy to do any nature walking/ hiking and it sounds cliche on a dating profile. I would love someone who likes nature and outdoors as much as I do, but now I'm doing that thing I always do which is being picky lol.


I can relate, being someone who also likes spending time in the woods or at the beach. You'd be surprised how many people you meet even just going for a walk alone. I'll give you a tip.. get a good looking dog!!! You'll be a total chick magnet I can't take 5 steps without some cookiemonster gasping over my dog and they always wanna pet him and stick around to chat. Lol


My Sag friend does that, and admits the same thing. He is a chick magnet and it's totally amplified with his dog. I watch him get numbers from super attractive women all the time at the bar. He just walks up, tells them they are attractive, and just chats away. I wish I was that skilled lol. I'm trying to hang out with him more in hopes my cancer rising picks up and replicates what he does, though he's just trying to get laid nothing more. I want an actual relationship. I never felt the bar was a good place to pick up women anyway.
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Hahahaha. If I was a lesbian, I'd have all the ladies thanks to my dog!
Some people have more confidence approaching others, I am more like you, I can't just go chat someone up, but also I feel that there is more pressure on guys to initiate that sort of thing, so it may be more difficult for you. And I agree, the bar is a terrible place to meet and build anything solid with anyone.
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Posted by blackphase
The only thing I found that was not already mentioned about dreaming of a preacher..

To dream of a preacher represents an aspect of your personality that is lecturing, advocating, or teaching others. You or someone else may be trying to convince or direct others to think or act in a certain way.

Negatively, a preacher may be a sign that you are forcing ideas and beliefs on others, or that someone is forcing them on you.


I love teaching and influencing.

But. I am capable of manipulating.

I guess it's a matter of figuring out where I stand on the matter.
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Both of those could tie into this.. maybe it's trying to make you aware of something..
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Posted by lisabethur8
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Posted by Soul
My parents gave me a house and let me live rent free. Its totally my own place. 2 bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom, and living area. Perfect for a single mother with a kid. Come live a care free life, just don't mind the noise upstairs.

So you think that will work?


oh my god!!!! lots of single women would love you!!!

can you offer free plane flights and immigration over to Australia or the United States if your online girlfriend is in Asia or Middle east or something?


Sure. I can offer anything lol. As long as they don't think it's weird. Most women dream of a man doing it all on his own, but times are hard and my life is pretty comfortable the way it is. Sure I could move out and live on my own with practically nothing, but why?





if she's bringing her babies with her to you, you better set up some health insurance for both mommy and baby too!!

lots of responsibilities!!!

also, make sure there's plenty of food in the kitchen for her and the baby!

help her a lot!! she will be lost there in a new country.


The only issue is how do you find these type of people without looking like a desperate lonely freeloader?



How to find them.... DXP


Sometimes I don't know if people are being serious or joking here lol. I was expecting to get bombarded with "Omg you live in the same house as your parents? You pos."

I guess that's just my moon assuming everyone is out to get me and put me down. I'm being 100% serious though, it would be great to have a female friend/ lover to live with. It's all I lack at this point in life.

I obviously have a job laying tile too. So it's not like the person living with me wouldn't get a break. I also make full wage from the jobs I do. My parents don't make me pay anything.

But that's why my parents will get to live in their own house as they grow old. I will take care of them till the end since they do the same for me.



Yeah.. I don't know either.. Lol
I knew you lived with them, but I thought you were only saying it in this thread to be funny. And yeah, it is sort of expected to be butter on here for that. I think it's really respectable that you are there for your parents in turn.

I hope you do find someone great cause you don't deserve anything less than that!


Tyvm, and I hope so. I've been dreaming about women for weeks now, which means someone is coming my way or my mind is reminding me I should be searching. Really I want to get really fit and muscular first. I want to take all the exercise I started doing last year and double it. No triple! I want to be the older me. Full of confidence and ego, but a balanced amount. I feel I'll find the right one when I first change myself to be better.



I can understand why you want to work on your image as that does help to give confidence when scouting for a mate, I get that for sure. And if that is what will make you happy then that is all that matters. Will note that I think you are perfectly fine the way you are and the right woman will simply appreciate you for you.. maybe the right one will also be someone who wants to get fit and work on her self image And yes, the right one should help change you for the better, I think that's how you know when you have found "that one"


That would be amazing lol. I always see couples riding bikes or simply walking the nature trail together and I always think of how much I'd love to experience it with someone special. My friends are too lazy to do any nature walking/ hiking and it sounds cliche on a dating profile. I would love someone who likes nature and outdoors as much as I do, but now I'm doing that thing I always do which is being picky lol.
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I can relate, being someone who also likes spending time in the woods or at the beach. You'd be surprised how many people you meet even just going for a walk alone. I'll give you a tip.. get a good looking dog!!! You'll be a total chick magnet I can't take 5 steps without some cookiemonster gasping over my dog and they always wanna pet him and stick around to chat. Lol
The only thing I found that was not already mentioned about dreaming of a preacher..

To dream of a preacher represents an aspect of your personality that is lecturing, advocating, or teaching others. You or someone else may be trying to convince or direct others to think or act in a certain way.

Negatively, a preacher may be a sign that you are forcing ideas and beliefs on others, or that someone is forcing them on you.
I don't know.. how would one determine that? :/
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Posted by lisabethur8
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Posted by Soul
My parents gave me a house and let me live rent free. Its totally my own place. 2 bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom, and living area. Perfect for a single mother with a kid. Come live a care free life, just don't mind the noise upstairs.

So you think that will work?


oh my god!!!! lots of single women would love you!!!

can you offer free plane flights and immigration over to Australia or the United States if your online girlfriend is in Asia or Middle east or something?


Sure. I can offer anything lol. As long as they don't think it's weird. Most women dream of a man doing it all on his own, but times are hard and my life is pretty comfortable the way it is. Sure I could move out and live on my own with practically nothing, but why?





if she's bringing her babies with her to you, you better set up some health insurance for both mommy and baby too!!

lots of responsibilities!!!

also, make sure there's plenty of food in the kitchen for her and the baby!

help her a lot!! she will be lost there in a new country.


The only issue is how do you find these type of people without looking like a desperate lonely freeloader?



How to find them.... DXP


Sometimes I don't know if people are being serious or joking here lol. I was expecting to get bombarded with "Omg you live in the same house as your parents? You pos."

I guess that's just my moon assuming everyone is out to get me and put me down. I'm being 100% serious though, it would be great to have a female friend/ lover to live with. It's all I lack at this point in life.

I obviously have a job laying tile too. So it's not like the person living with me wouldn't get a break. I also make full wage from the jobs I do. My parents don't make me pay anything.

But that's why my parents will get to live in their own house as they grow old. I will take care of them till the end since they do the same for me.



Yeah.. I don't know either.. Lol
I knew you lived with them, but I thought you were only saying it in this thread to be funny. And yeah, it is sort of expected to be butter on here for that. I think it's really respectable that you are there for your parents in turn.

I hope you do find someone great cause you don't deserve anything less than that!


Tyvm, and I hope so. I've been dreaming about women for weeks now, which means someone is coming my way or my mind is reminding me I should be searching. Really I want to get really fit and muscular first. I want to take all the exercise I started doing last year and double it. No triple! I want to be the older me. Full of confidence and ego, but a balanced amount. I feel I'll find the right one when I first change myself to be better.

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I can understand why you want to work on your image as that does help to give confidence when scouting for a mate, I get that for sure. And if that is what will make you happy then that is all that matters. Will note that I think you are perfectly fine the way you are and the right woman will simply appreciate you for you.. maybe the right one will also be someone who wants to get fit and work on her self image And yes, the right one should help change you for the better, I think that's how you know when you have found "that one"
Posted by Vageenka
Me giggling at the people who've probably been in a relationship with a bisexual person before and didn't even know it:

It's more common than most people think


My Leo ex ended up being bisexual.. I mean I guess he was the whole time but he didn't discover that until we separated.
Posted by NemDeux
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i have to laugh a bit ...because when i met my husband i had no clue he was in a ten year relationship with another woman. he confessed after two months of dating and i blew him off right then and there. he broke up with his then gf and pursued me further. well; need i say hell was on its feet. his ex went treetrunking nuts and i got the brunt of it.


butter son! It didn't make you nervous to be with someone who has wandering eyes when in a relationship? Someone who could just walk away from a 10 year relationship like that :/


not really; cause we had a very unique bond and i knew he was hooked on me. still is. but thats another story. but he got lenience; and i got all the crazy threats.


It always seems to go that way. I never understood it. The man wronged his lady worse than the woman he was sleeping with (unless she was a friend) yet the other woman always takes the brunt of it.


with a bit of life experience of my own i can see why some women act out like that. i can sympathize to a certain degree. i mean these women had dreams and goals and then another woman enters the picture ...maybe it feels like you have to reevaluate your whole life ...the rug under your feet thing? this is why it's important to not depend on others for your happiness in life. it gets complicated. i cant see myself losing that much dignity though. #aquavenus thank heavens!
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I totally understand that, and I guess it's hard for me to know how I would feel as I haven't been in this situation before. But it doesn't sound like fun for anyone involved
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Posted by AirMan
maybe it would help some if i know how to upload pictures on these boards. i always stumble upon funny pictures all over the nets. instead of having sasquash on my avatar, he could be right here on this thread.

Use tinypic


this has been going for at least two years, and could somebody finally take 5 minutes to explain cuteboy how to post his pic?
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I did once before.. very detailed instructions...
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i have to laugh a bit ...because when i met my husband i had no clue he was in a ten year relationship with another woman. he confessed after two months of dating and i blew him off right then and there. he broke up with his then gf and pursued me further. well; need i say hell was on its feet. his ex went treetrunking nuts and i got the brunt of it.


butter son! It didn't make you nervous to be with someone who has wandering eyes when in a relationship? Someone who could just walk away from a 10 year relationship like that :/


not really; cause we had a very unique bond and i knew he was hooked on me. still is. but thats another story. but he got lenience; and i got all the crazy threats.
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It always seems to go that way. I never understood it. The man wronged his lady worse than the woman he was sleeping with (unless she was a friend) yet the other woman always takes the brunt of it.
It's clear from your post that you care about her and her well being. Just tell her how you feel and that you are concerned for her. Let her know that you are always there to talk to if she needs someone.. She may not want to talk about it right away when you approach her, but if you allow her to know that you are there with open arms and ears, she may feel more comfortable opening up in her own time.. Hard to say, we all react to such things differently but you know her best
Posted by NemDeux
i have to laugh a bit ...because when i met my husband i had no clue he was in a ten year relationship with another woman. he confessed after two months of dating and i blew him off right then and there. he broke up with his then gf and pursued me further. well; need i say hell was on its feet. his ex went treetrunking nuts and i got the brunt of it.


butter son! It didn't make you nervous to be with someone who has wandering eyes when in a relationship? Someone who could just walk away from a 10 year relationship like that :/
I don't know why this Bethany lady invited these women who were cheated on to her show.. she seemed to only want to gang up on them and tell them they are wrong and make them feel even worse.

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Posted by lisabethur8
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Posted by Soul
My parents gave me a house and let me live rent free. Its totally my own place. 2 bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom, and living area. Perfect for a single mother with a kid. Come live a care free life, just don't mind the noise upstairs.

So you think that will work?


oh my god!!!! lots of single women would love you!!!

can you offer free plane flights and immigration over to Australia or the United States if your online girlfriend is in Asia or Middle east or something?


Sure. I can offer anything lol. As long as they don't think it's weird. Most women dream of a man doing it all on his own, but times are hard and my life is pretty comfortable the way it is. Sure I could move out and live on my own with practically nothing, but why?





if she's bringing her babies with her to you, you better set up some health insurance for both mommy and baby too!!

lots of responsibilities!!!

also, make sure there's plenty of food in the kitchen for her and the baby!

help her a lot!! she will be lost there in a new country.


The only issue is how do you find these type of people without looking like a desperate lonely freeloader?



How to find them.... DXP


Sometimes I don't know if people are being serious or joking here lol. I was expecting to get bombarded with "Omg you live in the same house as your parents? You pos."

I guess that's just my moon assuming everyone is out to get me and put me down. I'm being 100% serious though, it would be great to have a female friend/ lover to live with. It's all I lack at this point in life.

I obviously have a job laying tile too. So it's not like the person living with me wouldn't get a break. I also make full wage from the jobs I do. My parents don't make me pay anything.

But that's why my parents will get to live in their own house as they grow old. I will take care of them till the end since they do the same for me.

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Yeah.. I don't know either.. Lol
I knew you lived with them, but I thought you were only saying it in this thread to be funny. And yeah, it is sort of expected to be butter on here for that. I think it's really respectable that you are there for your parents in turn.

I hope you do find someone great cause you don't deserve anything less than that!
Posted by Soul
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Soul
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Soul
My parents gave me a house and let me live rent free. Its totally my own place. 2 bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom, and living area. Perfect for a single mother with a kid. Come live a care free life, just don't mind the noise upstairs.

So you think that will work?


oh my god!!!! lots of single women would love you!!!

can you offer free plane flights and immigration over to Australia or the United States if your online girlfriend is in Asia or Middle east or something?


Sure. I can offer anything lol. As long as they don't think it's weird. Most women dream of a man doing it all on his own, but times are hard and my life is pretty comfortable the way it is. Sure I could move out and live on my own with practically nothing, but why?





if she's bringing her babies with her to you, you better set up some health insurance for both mommy and baby too!!

lots of responsibilities!!!

also, make sure there's plenty of food in the kitchen for her and the baby!

help her a lot!! she will be lost there in a new country.


The only issue is how do you find these type of people without looking like a desperate lonely freeloader?

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How to find them.... DXP
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Posted by blackphase
That's awesome that she reminds you of me


she does!!

I don't know her placements but she says she's a Gemini!

and she's really bad ass. lol.
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We'll have to find out her placements

She is super bad ass!! #aspirations
That's awesome that she reminds you of me
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Posted by Soul
My parents gave me a house and let me live rent free. Its totally my own place. 2 bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom, and living area. Perfect for a single mother with a kid. Come live a care free life, just don't mind the noise upstairs.

So you think that will work?


Dang.. Is this offer only for single mothers?


Na anyone lol. Come live rent free with me! I've got cable and internet, and free meals each day. My parents love that I stick around too, so it's not awkward at all with them.



I hope they like me... Hahaha
Will they smoke doobs with us?


Hell yes. Tbh they party harder than I do lmao! It's a mad house sometimes, but I've got my own space to retreat to. They also respect my privacy. I technically live with them, but don't at the same time. It's like how the treetrunk am I gonna move out when life is amazing here?

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Hahahaa! I remember talking about that with you before.. how our parents party harder than we do
I didn't know they smoked up though, that's cool!

And I get it, I'm at my parents since the Libra and I split, and I fkn love it out there. Going from renting and dealing with noisy neighbours to being out in the wilderness where it's calm and quiet, nothing compares.