The Drowning Gemini - Welcome to the Darkside
Sun - Gemini - 8th House
Moon - Scorpio - 12th House
Ascendant - Scorpio
Mercury - Gemini - 7th House
Venus - Cancer - 8th House
Mars - Cancer - 9th House
Jupiter - Gemini - 8th House
Saturn - Capricorn - 2nd House
Uranus - Capricorn - 2nd House
Neptune - Capricorn - 2nd House
Pluto - Scorpio - 1st House
North Node - Aquarius - 4th House
Chiron - Cancer - 8th House

Posted by Timon
Posted by blvckphase
Posted by Timon
Posted by blvckphase
I love Scorpio Mooners and get along great with them.. I am one too though. Haha
I also have a huge heart for animals and nature. They are of utmost importance to me.

I don't hang on to a lot of friends.. but what I appreciate most in a friendship are the ones who I could go awhile without seeing, but it's like nothing ever changed when we do see one another again. The few friends I do have are true to themselves. I have the most respect for people who are self aware. Those who know who they are and are not afraid of being different or going against the grain.. They don't try to fit in.


He has a lot of friends. Well I only know because I looked at his Facebook lol. That's how I found out his moon sign too.

Don't know how many of them he consider close though.




Yeah.. Facebook is different. Although I don't keep many friends on there either.. around 250. But I only talk to like 5 of them. Lmao

Also other placements in his chart could cause him to be more social than I am, or other Scorpio Moons. I'm a Gemini Sun.. so it would be assumed that I would be social and out going, but I am not.


He is aquarius sun so also air sign. When I first met him I thought he might be a Scorpio sun but he seemed too "airy" and I don't usually connect that well with Scorpio men. I just felt comfortable with me like we were on the same level. Don't know how to describe it. So I couldn't figure out if he was a water or air sign and I was curious so I checked his Facebook afterwards lol. Turned out I was right except he was Scorpio moon and aquarius. I'm a libra so maybe that's why I felt at ease with him. We are in the same element.


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Yes, that makes sense. My significant other is a Libra as well
I know it's in the 2nd.. But I am not exactly sure how it effects me :/
Posted by Timon
Posted by blvckphase
I love Scorpio Mooners and get along great with them.. I am one too though. Haha
I also have a huge heart for animals and nature. They are of utmost importance to me.

I don't hang on to a lot of friends.. but what I appreciate most in a friendship are the ones who I could go awhile without seeing, but it's like nothing ever changed when we do see one another again. The few friends I do have are true to themselves. I have the most respect for people who are self aware. Those who know who they are and are not afraid of being different or going against the grain.. They don't try to fit in.


He has a lot of friends. Well I only know because I looked at his Facebook lol. That's how I found out his moon sign too.

Don't know how many of them he consider close though.


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Yeah.. Facebook is different. Although I don't keep many friends on there either.. around 250. But I only talk to like 5 of them. Lmao

Also other placements in his chart could cause him to be more social than I am, or other Scorpio Moons. I'm a Gemini Sun.. so it would be assumed that I would be social and out going, but I am not.
I love Scorpio Mooners and get along great with them.. I am one too though. Haha
I also have a huge heart for animals and nature. They are of utmost importance to me.

I don't hang on to a lot of friends.. but what I appreciate most in a friendship are the ones who I could go awhile without seeing, but it's like nothing ever changed when we do see one another again. The few friends I do have are true to themselves. I have the most respect for people who are self aware. Those who know who they are and are not afraid of being different or going against the grain.. They don't try to fit in.
Moving on and letting go both equally for me.

Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Cancer Mars
Posted by queenaries_
Is he famous


You likely haven't heard of him.. His label was more popular than any of his projects.
Have you heard of Mac DeMarco? They are good buds and he toured with him last year..
Posted by Ram416
Damn my reading of aspects is so off today lol


You're still ahead of me girl! Appreciate all the insight
Posted by Capricorn91
Well he needs fresh air and a lot of focus on health. Make him join some gym and once he sets this habit the old habit will go away along with the depression. Moreover he needs love (family, friends anything). This is a very lonely phase. Plus Caps do isolate themselves so having good company will help him. Having a good laughter once in a while does wonders to Caps. I know it is difficult initially but that is what he needs to overcome his past and open the door to a bright and happy future.

Best of luck to your friend and thanks to you for sticking with him in this phase. Trust me it means a lot to a Cap :-).


Thank you for that! He is very health focused (and so is his family) and has gotten into the routine of running every day since he got home. He is a very smart guy.. he knows what he needs to do and he does it. I am very proud of him and his progress. I just want to help as much as I can to make it easier for him. And I can tell that it really does mean a lot to him that I stuck by this whole time, so I just want to do all that I can.
Posted by Ram416
Does he have a hard time expressing himself?


He never did with me.. That's one of the things I always admired about him, he is extremely articulate. He expresses himself better than most I always thought. He is a very self aware person. Admits to his faults and wrong doings with ease.
Posted by heliumfiasco
Posted by blvckphase
Posted by heliumfiasco
Libra.

1- One word responses to texts. Lots of "haha"
2- Not initiating after awhile. (I tend to be aggressive with scheduling plans when interested, etc)
3- Don't return calls or texts for hours. I constantly check my phone... it means it wasn't important.


I was going to say the same for both Libra & Gemini.
If a Libra or Gemini is not constantly in contact and rambling your ear off.. they are just not that into you! haha


That Gemini moon of mine intensifies it! haha
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Ouuuu! I can imagine!!
Posted by heliumfiasco
Libra.

1- One word responses to texts. Lots of "haha"
2- Not initiating after awhile. (I tend to be aggressive with scheduling plans when interested, etc)
3- Don't return calls or texts for hours. I constantly check my phone... it means it wasn't important.


I was going to say the same for both Libra & Gemini.
If a Libra or Gemini is not constantly in contact and rambling your ear off.. they are just not that into you! haha
Posted by nikkistar
Woman hater here.

I get really treetrunking annoyed at women that talk about "sexual harassment" or "sexual abuse" and they have never actually treetrunking experienced it. I find most of the women that actively talk about it all the sparkle motion time, and isn't an actual practicing advocate, doing it usually to garner sympathy and attention. And for those that actually experienced it, its a slap in the face. I am tired of the slew of women that use vernacular to garner sympathy.

Most women I think, that experience this butter, don't go around blabbing it to strangers in the world because they are embarrassed by the event and feel dirty. They want to hide it.


Amen!
@Scotteh007 - I believe you had also made a thread recently about confidence.. and I feel the same way reading what you just posted as I did reading that other thread. What you said about trying to act like your other guy friend to "fit in". I think that's where some of your problem is coming from.. trying to fit in. Don't worry about fitting in, just be yourself. It sounds to me like you may need some different friends.. I know it's hard to make friends when you are shy.. but due to how you say you don't feel like your friends know you.. makes me think you may need to make some new ones. Some people will get you in ways that others can't.. you just have to find those people. I have very few friends as well, but that doesn't bother me. Quality, not quantity!
I have a very close friend who has been going through a rough time for quite a few years now. I don't have many friends, but this has been a dear one for a decade now. I have watched him grow since he was 14 years old. Very intelligent, self aware guy, I have always admired many things about him. He became heavily involved in the music industry at a young age.. was in a few bands, had a few solo projects, then started his own record label. Due to the type of people and influences he was surrounded by in the music industry, he went down a bad path with drug abuse.. started off small but eventually spiralled out of control and became a junkie. He travels a lot and we don't keep in touch much while he is away, but when he comes home and works on recovery, I am always there for him. He has burned many bridges, as junkies often do and I am the only friend he has here now.

He went to an intense rehab program last May in BC and he was clean for awhile after that, doing really well.. but life threw him a curve ball and he relapsed. He came back home to try and get on the right path and he is doing really, really well. I am spending as much time with him as I can, as being isolated here is very difficult for him when trying to recover. He was in California before he came back this time, where he had a lot of friends and plenty to keep him occupied, so it's been difficult for him coming back to this small town with not much to do and no one to hang out with but me.. so I am trying my best to help keep him occupied and keep his spirits up.

He is a very smart fellow, attends a 12 step program daily and realizes that he will need to stay close to a program like this for the rest of his life, no matter where he goes. I am glad he has the willpower to keep attending and doing the right thing for himself (not many people are able to do that) Many people think they can just go to these programs, get better and never have to go again.. he is aware that this is something he has to work hard at every day for the rest of his life. He is intelligent and has a strong sense of self awareness which I love about him. More recently he has been saying that it is getting harder to be here, becoming more depressed and isolated feeling. I know there is only so much I can do or say.. we regularly have pep talks with each other.. although I feel like he helps me and gives me better advice than I give him.. and since he is so self aware, there isn't much I can tell him that he doesn't already know.

I thought there may be some things that jump out in his chart to you guys that could be helpful. Hard aspects that need focus or anything.. He is interested in self improvement, much like I am, so he is open to hearing things from an Astrology point of view. I just want to know, based off his chart, if there is anything else I can be doing to help or something that should be focused on..

I liked Darkfire too. haha
I understand what you are going though. It's never easy when everything feels like it's falling on you at once. Your Dad sounds a lot like mine, he sounds like your rock. In times like this, being near my Dad helps A LOT! He gives me strength and courage just being in his presence, due to the type of person he is. Works hard to look after us all and genuinely cares so deeply about his family.. would do anything for us. Not everyone is blessed to have a parent like that and I have learned to not take it for granted. He sets a beautiful example for me and that is what keeps me going through the hard times. I keep a picture of him and my dog on me always, it cheers me up and makes me feel thankful for the unconditional love I do have


Geez! A fractured leg doesn't sound good though
I do hope you recover quickly!
Haha.. Yes, pictures never have loaded in PM's to my recollection. But no spacing is a huge deal.. for me atleast. Lol. Paragraphs do not exist in PM's anymore
Please give us back proper formatting in PM's. No spaces between paragraphs.. Why are you doing this us!! :'(