Posted by malloryorPosted by Sooner_or_LaterPosted by malloryor
Can we be honest about it too? I know Leos love to pretend like they never get bothered, but let’s be real...I know there’s at least that ONE time someone said something, or did something that really messed with your pride or bruised your ego. So what was it? What did they say?
My ex was a Leo - from what he told me, he hated being betrayed by his friends - people he thought he was close to, only to realize they were using him for certain things. Also not being taken seriously, repeated failures in work or when things didn't go his way. He was also used to having the spotlight all of the time in sports - but when he changed soccer leagues for example, he found that he wasn't accepted on the team as much as the first, and his teammates didn't treat him well. I often used to tell him that they didn't deserve him and that his talent should be put somewhere he was truly appreciated and respected. I knew he was upset about it though, more than he would show.
In all my past experience - Leo men are sensitive, and deep down they care a lot more than they sometimes show about many things. As a Scorp - I think that's why I'm so drawn to them.
Dealing with one, and any time I try to stand up for myself, they lash out and jump down my throat and flip it around and chastise me.
They are extremely manipulative and like to gaslight. Is this a front for those sensitivities? I’ll be honest, I think they’re a stone cold narcissists. If not, they just live up to the cliche stereotype of leos, they’re so arrogant, no one can ever be wrong. This guy has done some horrible things to me, I’ve watched him treat others in a less than considerate way. Today, he twisted it around and told me “he was the victim, and that I’m always trying to make him feel like a sh**y person.” I told him—you feel like a butterty person, because you are a butterty person. Your guilt has nothing to do with me.
If he’s not flying off in sheer rage and defense, he likes to play aloof. I had surgery a few weeks ago—hence why I was so active on DXP—when I returned to work, he literally asked me if I were on vacation.
Like he really expected me to buy, that he had no idea I was away on medical leave—even though his exact words “oh right, you had that uhhh tumor thing right? How’d that go!?”
I know I shouldn’t, I was doing so well paying him dirt. Not giving him any of my energy or time, focusing on myself and my work. But that sent me over, because it was like “wow, what butterty person pretends they don’t know someone—who they know had a tumor—had surgery!? Like who the hell does that!?”click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by MysteriousScorpioPosted by blackphvse
Did OP give up their sign yet? Should we start placing bets?
I got 100 $ on Libra
He said Virgo/Libra cusp I believe.
My Virgo ex was the opposite ... every woman he dated he made sure they knew our son always came first whether they liked it or not
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Posted by TenpxdPosted by geminiflyby
Yeah - it is. When crap starts showing up this early I'ma show myself out, 'cause there's probably a lot more to come.
I guess when he comes back we need to sit abs talk about what happened that wasn’t supposed to happen and see what we each want.click to expand
Posted by WizardzPosted by bmoon8Posted by WizardzPosted by bmoon8
Just be myself and if they don’t reciprocate, I keep it moving.
On unrequited love, I think I experienced it? Maybe, maybe not. I’m not even sure that I really loved the person or not. Maybe it was just their energy?
Yes! Their energy. That's interesting that you distinguish
Yes, I emotionally checked out on that a while ago. I thought about it and wondered if I actually felt anything for them or not. Made the assessment and figured it was more their energy than anything else. 🤷🏻♀️
That’s neither here or there though.
That's the main thing I like about a person so idk how I could seperate the person from their energyclick to expand
Posted by SassyKiwi
***Ok thank you no more posting charts pls.***
Lol I know I hate when people post threads like this and don’t get back ASAP but now I totally understand where they’re coming from 🤣 I only get small windows at a time to wreck havoc on dxp during week days. Dunno why I posted this during a Monday but I will get through you all eventually but it will be very sporadic (forgive me if it is weeks later). I will actually attempt to read your charts now cause I feel bad so it’ll take at least 30 mins per chart. Also I don't feel as angsty anymore so I guess whatever my mood is at the moment will reflect on the reading. Maybe I will just use this as a despository for when I am next angsty.
Posted by happygolucky12
thanks so much! yeah ive only known him for a week so i need to get to know him more so i hope that he will ask me out on another date again which im sure he will! since you guys feel it too. i’ll wait for him to ask so i wont pressure him so much. just that i miss seeing him thats all hehePosted by MareInfamePosted by happygolucky12
hey guys! i have a question and i’m hoping you guys can help me out here! so it’s been about 5 days since him and i met and we’ve still been talking and idk how to explain this but like even tho he can be a dry in text (meaning, doesn’t really use alot of emojis and sometimes isnt really as enthusiastic), i still know that he’s still present in a way does it make sense? like he’s still willing to continue the conversation by starting a new topic and these topics are super random LOL and he would update what he’s doing and who he’s with etc. i dont think there’s anything to worry because i know how to carry a conversation even through text 😅
so i think a few days after we had our first date, there was this one day where he told me that he was going to get supper near my place and mind you, he actually lives just 10-15 mins away from me so when he said that, im not too sure if it was a hint because he could’ve just said that he was going to get supper without telling me where. in the end he told me the next say that he didn’t end up going and that he ate supper at home lol and there was another day where he told me that he was going study at his friend’s store near my house and i asked him straight up if it was a hint but he completely ignored it and said “hahahaha u wanna meet?” i mean in the end we didn’t because he was out with the boys after studying and i think it was pretty last minute so yeah
so do you guys think that these were the hints and he actually wanted to meet me? haha gosh im bad at figuring out hints
I think he’s going with the flow, and I’m not sure what to think of the hints.
He didn’t seem shy around you before, so seems out of character to be shy now.
But Taurus can be very clear or very cryptic about what they want, depending on how vulnerable they feel.
If you can’t read him, don’t worry. Just follow your own desire. If you have wanted to go, you would have gone...no? So, keep it simple and go with the flow. Getting to know each other slowly is the best route anyway.click to expand
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by MareInfamePosted by SuperSize9
All I said was
Women don’t want feminine men
But men have to deal with masculine women
The response is
You want a man to be a man, but women shouldn’t have to be women.
I asked do you want a man to be strong and able to protect you?
The response was a Maybe” but I can protect myself and him.
3 normal women can not fight off 1 normal man. In fist to fist
. (I do not approve men hitting women)
But you think you can and that’s your problem you don’t want be women but you want men to be men.
Your ideas are very boxed and stifling... it sucks oxygen, I can’t breathe.
I’m just glad I don’t live in your world 😅👍🏼
And I’m glade I don’t bleed for 5 to 7 days every month.click to expand
Posted by Hamsthetics
I wish all the unsolved cases in this thread will be solved soon. Praying to all the victims and their families 💟🌹