Posted by GAGA
APOLOGY ... Goes to all the dxpnet users ,who have helped me understand something even tho sometimes as a human we just need to hear everyone s point of view .but that dont mean we will listen .alot of you guys helped me understand alot and even tho you guys told me alot i learned lot also .. but will always go with my final decision .yes i know i would make a new thread complaining about alot.. but since i did make him look bad... he really isn't he is a good guy my ways of doing things pushed him away and last night i thought about alot stuff... how he used to be so sweet and kind till i treetrunked him over... after that he don't believe anything i do or say ... so with all this being said i do appreciate all of your help on here you guys made me understand that some of my ways did push him away but also made me understand that you cant keep putting up with bullbutter ..anything after but is bullbutter and i heard alot of buts .... thank you for your help all of you
Posted by GAGA
Hahahaha omg .. my leo is the same say .. for example a guy would be like you are so funny.. he would mock his words in a immature way and i cant help to laugh ... and then he is like omgyou dong take me serious .. i was like oh goddddddddddd.... say if i put a funny status... up ok for example ...this was my status (treetr*nk you ??_??_' you ??? you ??? you ??? oh, and you??? ) lmfao ... yes it funny he says omg this is about me isnt it im like now wtf... we have alot of trust issues.... i dont know where to start
Posted by GAGA
I know i wrote allot of stuff on here about lot we have been through .... and yes TRUST ISSUES play a big role with us... we both know we don't trust each other like we used to but neither one wants to call it quits.... He does not open up to me .. like he used to ...he gets so jealous if any man pays more attention to me ..but i know that i am not the one to do anything to mess us up.. he asked me to go to my Facebook inbox... and i did... no problem but then he wanted to see my sent MSG and that's when i feel violated like you didn't believe me ...he asks me alot about every move i make.. if i post anything on my fb he will question it and think its about him if i change my pic he would ask why that pic (and its nothing wrong with it )etc stuff like that so i tell him i dont know what else to do to prove to him ... ill delete my fb if he wants me to .. he says no no i dont want you to do that... so i dont know what can i really do .. to make this just tad bit easier because i do know they have hard time trusting or letting someone have they heart
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Posted by KittyKnitter
Well I am Leo sun with Taurus moon and I have never been told I was cookiemonstery, lol. I have a hard time picturing that but I can say that the mix is an interesting one. I always thought that my traits were due to being a cancer leo cusp and that is bad enough but with a Taurus moon too? well let's say I have a tough time sometimes knowing what I really want but I am straightforward and honest as well as being reliable and dependable so once I figure it out, I work on a plan for ages till I get what I am after. I am big on planning but I have learned to roll with the punches too. Both leos and tauruses have tough hides.
I am loyal to friends and family, as you would expect someone with a Taurus moon to be. As well, U like my privacy and I make my own decisions. I think that no one should judge me based on what I do or how much money I make. I think friendship needs to be the basis of a solid relationship and sometimes people should be friends rather than lovers. I don't believe in friends with benefits and I know love with one person can last a lifetime if like is the basis of the relationship.
Sure I might act a little crazy now and then but that is just to throw people off. The guy I am dating is a Taurus sun with Cancer moon and he and I match well but he would say he knows me but doesn't understand me. Sometimes the differences are in how men and women think, not necessarily their sign. Also he is mars Taurus but venus Cancer so how he feels doesn't always come out in what he says or does. He is very careful and seldom lets down his guard. I am a bigger risk taker and put my feelings and thoughts out there for him to see and hear whether he wants to know them or not, lol. But I am not manipulative. If I cannot get something honestly I don't want it. Bad karma. Bites you every time.
Posted by KittyKnitter
Leos and Tauruses do go well together like hot and spicy. They have challenging aspects but there is a lot that goes into making us who we are and our sun sign is only part of it. Half seriously, the bull in my life once said that he would win a physical fight between us and sure he is bigger, stronger and possibly uglier, lol. Sure he might win. But I am a born hunter, I have strategies for not being anyone's meal, lol. My Leo cousin, who is female also, told me to tell him that Lions can eat bulls, I have no idea if that is true but he pulled in his horns, lol. If only because he was laughing too hard at my sense of humor, which matches his in its weirdness.
So we both have intense personalities. We want what we want when we want it but we know also that we are willing to work for it because we want to keep what we get. From life and from each other. We both tend to go on the offensive when feeling defensive but he tends to strike first and ask questions later whereas I try not to strike. Be honest yes but rememeber he has feelings. I tend to be more tactful and look for the cause of the attack before I decide what to do next and I also tend to work out a way to resolve things.That is a woman thing not a sign thing.
We both are good parents, loving children to our parents, and we are loyal to our friends. We believe in being there no matter what and we believe in taking care of our own business and trying to keep our nose out of other people's.We have learned more about ourselves than we thought possible and we share an amazing connection because we really are not all that different in our values and we like most of the differences we see. Friendship has to be the basis of a relationship for Leo and Taurus. Honesty and trust is something both signs value.
Both can learn to ask for what they want instead of pushing for it. Both need to communicate their wants and needs and it might take time and more talking for the other person to understand what we are trying to say. The better each knows themselves, the easier it is to do this. There are sparks in many ways and lots to learn still. It is extremely rewarding and I wouldn't change who he is or who I am. It makes life a very interesting journey.
Posted by Yonnabear
What the F?
This woman has NOT been around a Taurus long enought to compile GOOD information.
Some of it was accurate, majority needs to go into the File 13 (trashbin).
Silly woman, Taureans rawk!!
Posted by Jonleo
You really have to ask yourself why you need so much reassurance and why you went overboard. A solid relationship won't waiver just because someone doesn't text/call back right away.
When I'm in love, I feel it deep in my soul. The connection is so real & strong, I can taste it.
Don't make excuses for what is lacking. The greatest lesson in love is to learn how to see clearly through
the muddy waters of emotions. You have to learn how to discern on what level your relationship is on and act accordingly. If you're more in love than him, then you need to act cool. Let him come to you.
Also, I wouldn't be talking to his friend too much. Don't rely on what he says. It only matters how your guy treats
you directly. I'd resent a girl doing that and think she was desperate which is a big turn-off.
You've heard of Leo pride? It extends to those we know too so anyone who shows no pride is very unappealing to us.
That's what turned him off plus no man wants a woman suffering so clearly when you feel you've been upfront with her and treated her well. You're actually saying that all the nice things he's done for you now means nothing. A guy will get frustrated and throw up his hands and be done with it. We like to know we please you too but if you're always depressed, need reassurance, we feel like a failure. And at this point (from what you've said about his business, stress), there's only so much he has to give.
Idk, am I making any sense here? lol.
Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Yes loyalty is high on the list. A leo man wants to know that his woman is down for him to the millionth power, no matter what. In return his woman will get taken care of without a shadow of a doubt.
Posted by LeoGal4Real
Is this a character trait of IMMATURE Male Leos? Talking big but delivering small? For all the life in me I really don't want to believe that they are users? I've experienced this. My Mom & my ex's Mom. Their hearts seemed big & loving initially, but realized they have strong women & great providers something happens & they turn into these cold/heartless takers with daily attitude mixed with anger.
I hope that made sense...This story hits home for me minus me checking the phone bill. I was payimg his (ex Leo husband) phone bill for years thru-out the marriage & realized I was aiding him in his cheating. Didn't know he was cheating, but always knew gray areas were created, until I listened to messages on our home office phone. Politely called the several women & gave them his cell phone number. Our phone numbers/bills split & HIS bill was not paid...phone cut off.
We often times cripple ourselves & significant others with our passive ci-dependent behaviors.
Posted by TheOhSoStellarOne
This is my absolute favorite Venus sign. What I love about Venus in Leo folks is that they do not hide their affection. Heck, they don't even inhibit that affection just because someone is watching and I like that.
Posted by kristalaries
Based on my experience : Leo, Scorpio, Taurus