Posted by bumboklattPosted by STILLPosted by bumboklatt
Womens emotions are worlds apart from Mens. and if you try to find the same thing youre feeling in them its gonna be a long ride.
We feel emotions. Its human nature but not with the same intention
I think what youre talking about is understanding. And hardly anyone understands aqua women becaude their emotions are not only tied to their gender but also to their idealis.
Ive never seen a sign (aqua women) be more idealistic yet play out their lives totally against those ideals. Its a masculine sign. Thats why men with fem signs have a totally different outlook on masculinity. Sorry ranting towards the end. I hope you understood some of that lol
Can you further elaborate on those last 2 paragraphs?
Mainly these sentences.
‘And hardly anyone understands aqua women becaude their emotions are not only tied to their gender but also to their idealis.‘
‘Ive never seen a sign (aqua women) be more idealistic yet play out their lives totally against those ideals.‘
When you get a female in a masculine sign she is already at odds with her femininity but she may not be aware of it. As opposed to a feminine sign woman who will go straight into her emotions as part of who she is.
A masculine sign woman (air in this case) will idealize, analyze and place emotions in context. She will directly ask the question rather than answer it. Example she uses the words "Unemotionally available" as opposed to "unemotional".
its kinda indirect. Same as how the feminine sign man who indirectly expresses his masculinity through accomplishments and objects rather than through identity and ideals.
As far as it playing out in real life. An aqua girl may show signs of emotional understanding but her actions will gravitate towards logic and independence.
This is purely based on the sign. The suns house can greatly influence and complicate matters especially if its in a feminine houseclick to expand
Posted by Aquarelle
Why is it so hard for some of you to give emotional support?
Posted by Klh1203
I always have failed relationships because I am too afraid to let people in, like I won’t ever contact them first they have to contact me first otherwise we won’t ever speak again, I refuse to show any interest because then that makes me look “desperate” and too “clingy” like I’m always afraid of coming across as desperate and clingy and it’s really annoying because so many failed relationships have happened because I am too reserved and they end up thinking I’m not interested. I’ve also been told that I ghost a lot also.
Is this deeper than star signs?
Or could it just be something to do with my Scorpio moon?
Posted by hydorah
what is it that you don't understand about the word "quarantine" ?
Posted by mooninluv
So about 10 months ago, I (31F/Scorp) told a Cancer guy 37m (after platonically hanging out with him for less than 6 months [*cringe]) I had feelings for him. He said 'we can be friends'. That's fair & understandable, so I started to move on. Started dating some people, not really feeling them - but helped ease my broken heart.
I realize my feelings for him have started to creep back into the picture again. But the last time I talked about feelings (10 months ago) to him, he said "we should be friends" He said I was amazing, but he also said F-R-I-E-N-D-S. I just feel some sort of way about him, a man nice enough to paint me a touching picture and send me a letter. But he can't even say "I had fun with you" he has to use "ya'll"
Is this part of a game? Is this really just a friendship - where a grown man befriends all my friends, including the 22yr old boys in my friend group, and paints me pictures? Is that really just a friendship. I am just so confused - is he testing me? waiting to see if I make the cut? Definitely not interested?
I seek any advice, please! I've never met anyone like him and I am climbing the walls with confusion at this point.
Posted by HearttofTopazzPosted by CancerGeminiPosted by HearttofTopazz
lol, for feeling awkward...or because of courage...cuz now I feel like I wished I would have kept it in.
Thank you though
In a weird way, I was hoping that being open about it would have somehow let it ease, or dissipate.
Both I guess. I think it’s normal to feel awkward after something like that tho.
Also think it’s awkward to hold something in like that forever. If it doesn’t work out in your favor, at least you won’t have to wonder.click to expand
Posted by HearttofTopazz
Posted by slowdive80
Random thought but why dont dating apps or websites have a feature where you can label your libido as low, normal, or high?
I know that's funny, and weird at the same time. But a conversation regarding that topic will ended up being the same thing.
Boinking is a important part of a relationship for most people. And they end up with people that have mismatched libidos.
At least this way, you know ahead of time for when you are looking for a relationship or hook up online.
Just a random thought and something to take the mind off of how hopeless things seem to be getting more and more.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by dillpickle
she has an aries moon, the ultimate train wreck placement
haha, just like my ex wife.
You will live and die by that Moon if you are a Cancer. I have a feeling you are a confused Gemini tho.
My ex wife had that Moon. If you're Cancer, that Moon will make you unguarded next to her. But the anger later on in life will be a force.click to expand
Posted by Undine
Caution...? I've dated an Aquarius Sun, Aries Moon, Pisces Venus - he was changing his mind about being in a romantic relationship every 6 months or so, but still wouldn't leave me. Surprisingly unemotional, but very charming. The kind of person one still finds adorable, even after they broke your heart. And he was married to a Cancer for a long time
Advice.....? Just do it.
Wisdom...? Know when to stop if it's going in circles.
Posted by Wild_Flo
Another thing, If she’s with a Pisces.. good luck. Im pretty sure she may complain a bit about him but, leaving the whole relationship is something else.
Pisces can handle the Aries energy a lot smoother than cancer can. The fuse to anger and intensity just washes off their shoulders, and they’re forgiving.
Cancer will pinch back and brood when hurt so it all comes down to how much can you handle. I know this because I’m married to a Pisces man.
Posted by Wild_FloPosted by CancerGeminiPosted by Wild_Flo
I’ll gave you advice from someone who actually has these placements.
I’m Aquarius sun Aries moon Pisces Venus. What do you want to know?
I feel like she gets overwhelmed by the wordy messages, which makes me curious why she isn't just over the whole emotionality in general.
With respect, I kind of expect the dismissive from Aquarians, so I am more surprised by not being dismissed.click to expand