Posted by Arielle83
Can’t plan his own trip?
Posted by lensdrangon
yeah seems to me he is not that into you, and wenn he talk to other people usally mean that he lost interest.
if he is serious you will know
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerrifiC
Been talking to a Taurus for almost a year at the end of December. We've text, video chat, he calls every night on his way to work, he requires that I text him when I make it home from work or after leaving wherever I am, to know that I'm safe. The problem is we've only met once and we only stay an hour away from each other. He hasn't tried to see me since then but continues to do the same with calls and text. He wants me to plan a trip for us, but I'm not understanding how he feels about me, considering he flirts with this girl on social media. He says it's nothing and he's just messing around. I don't understand him.
Wow massive red flags here!
An hour away isn't that far imo. 1 x over 12 months = he's not that into you.
Also calling you when he's driving to and from work makes me think that he can't call you at home cause his gf/wifee is around...
If he flirts with other women and calls it 'nothing' I would be thinking his flirtation with me is also 'nothing'.
What medium is he texting/video calling you from? His phone? Or another app that is more untraceable so he can hide his online flirtations from wifee.click to expand
Posted by Boots1313
You have been talking for a year.
Just ask him whats up. Define the relationship
Posted by Black-Mamba
JFC for an ARIES moon you're super patient
Posted by queencancer
Read up on the Spirit of Jezebel and how to deal with this. Don't let him abuse you or play head games with you.
I dealt with the same type of ish before and then one day it just hit me like a sack of potatoes: the guy thrived off of confusion and games. He plays with women like a boy would play with toys. He wanted to control many aspects of my life without really adding to it. Once I found out what he had been saying about me/us to others I realized that our bond was nothing short of a game to him and a delusion for me. Worst part is, he never found fault in himself, it was always my fault and shortcomings. Even when he was dead wrong he never apologized, he just pretended like nothing ever happened. I did cause trouble, I won't front, but nothing that was deserving of being treated lowly.
Break the cycle. No man that truly loves you would allow you to suffer like that.
Posted by ReincarnationPosted by CancerrifiC
Why is it ok for Scorpios to test you and push you to unimaginable limits for them to know you truly love them? He told me he could do anything he wanted to me and I would never leave him. I left, how can I stay with someone who feels like if he chose to not love me in the capacity of how I love him, I will stay? He said he called me a cookiemonster, weak, and told me if I fail at being obedient to him he will leave me and never talk to me again in addition to the above mentioned statement because he thought that would motivate me to do what it takes to keep him in my life. Smh WOW! He told me because I left means I dont love him and never loved him. Not only do I have to deal with the fact I had to let go of someone I love and in love with, but now I have to deal with they may never had loved or been in love with me. He only apologized for how what he said hurt me, but said he meant everything he said to me. He continues to put all the blame on me and takes no accountability for the demise of our relationship. He keeps speaking about his hurt but doesnt acknowledge my pain. I tried to put my pain to the side and comfort him, although he knows I just had a loss in my life of a father figure. Im trying to juggle all of this, but again its all about him and its all my fault. This pain I feel is indescribable. I mask it, and love my son harder until I find the strength to love myself and truly except that I made the right decision in leaving. 3 1/2 years riding the fastest, largest, thrilling roller coaster I have ever been on in my life. Now Im of, and my head is spinning and Im dizzy, vision is blurred and I dont know which direction Im headed.
I am not going to pass judgment on you or him - since I did not hear his side of the story.
I will say that the absolute worst thing you can do is walk away from a Scorp man in an argument, which is what you did.click to expand
Posted by tegony
I had read somewhere that when a scorpio man and a cancer woman fight, the cancer throws stones and the scorpio, trying to be harsh, and the scorpio gets out of his cave and throws back stones to the cancer's crystal house
Cancerians are bullies...
Posted by Arielle83Posted by GuardianAnuPosted by CancerrifiC
He needs time to be with his wife, wait your turn.
I am embarrassed that this even needed to be said.
That's cuz trashy people have no idea they're trashy.click to expand