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I am the four elements

Ive noticed alot of millennial teen agers correcting and even leading their parents not just into learning new things but helping them pay attention. I work around all sorts of age groups and the one thing I have noticed is that the youth are spacey, and do things slow but they seem to have out grown their parents mentally and often appear to be leading the way.
Kinda cool.
Its also the adults that complain and make negative messes while the youth are understanding and pay attention.
3 more weeks.
Dun, duh duh
I'm just gonna let you guys argue to yourselves cause its a waste of my time to respond. Goodluck y'all.
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Posted by Capmercury87
Its literally him just yelling at me and telling me I'm saying the wrong things. I was telling him about how I trust the app I use on my phone for mail. And he said see this is where we need to work on our communication. Which I didn't see anything wrong with what I said or how that even came of it. I asked him what he was talking about and instead of getting an answer he says "like this, you don't listen or care to hear anybody's side but your own"
I was seriously just talking about an app on my phone and all this started happening. I'm confused where any of that even came from and because he is yelling and throwing a fit like a child I need to get away and find peace I can't handle being screamed at over nothing while I'm pregnant.


Its seems like your partner is projecting his feelings and thoughts on you in a very unconstructive and emotional way, likely because he hasn't found another way to do so. Possibilities about what he is going through and what exactly is he projecting are infinite without further info, but this certainly isn't a fight born from your mail app. He most likely has been keeping a lot of stuff to himself, not sharing them with you, and now, with you being pregnant, he is probably wondering if he really wants to take such a serious step with you. Not knowing the answer makes him focus on all the butter he has probably been keeping. That seems like a plausible scenario for his behavior.

My advice, if you believe what i said might be true, is to remain extremely calm, detach yourself from the situation and try to find a way to make him share his insecurities and issues. Tell him you understand he is angry at you and you would want to know what are all the issues he is having with you, with himself or in other spheres of his life. I would really make an effort to create a good environment for both of you to share with each other what is making you anxious. Being a team is pertinent when raising a kid. Better raise it alone if in such an environment. If you don't succeed or don't have energy or desire to try, just keep him away from causing harm to you or your kid.

Good luck, hope he comes to his senses.
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I have tried all of this. It all leads to yelling at me telling me I'm this and I'm that.
I told him I'm going away, that I need peace, that I'm not going to stop him from seeing his sun and that I hope he finds peace in his heart.
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Posted by Capmercury87
Its been a long few days of him yelling at me.
He has put words in my mouth, twisted my words and yells at me, even when I don't respond. Infact he gets louder when I respond. After crying and crying I decided I deserve better. He says the way I talk pisses him off, that I don't know how to communicate. I tried to make him luagh with some light hearted humor and that made him more mad.
I told him to leave, to leave me alone. He says he will see me in court and have fun having custody of his kid.
Which is fine by me.
You scorpio venuses are something else.
Did you ever stop to think about how this hurts me when I say I feel hurt that your saying these things?
I can't even comprehend what on earth your thinking when your yelling at me and if I say anything in return I am "being rude and talking over you" ? So basically its just me making eye contact while you yell at me.
I'm out


The lack of sexual enthusiasm from him is clear as day now. He's wanted out of this for a while now.
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Your a dumb treetrunking bleep. Ill tell you why.
You obviously never read my post about why the lack of sex.
Two, you don't know us.
Three go treetrunk yourself
Its literally him just yelling at me and telling me I'm saying the wrong things. I was telling him about how I trust the app I use on my phone for mail. And he said see this is where we need to work on our communication. Which I didn't see anything wrong with what I said or how that even came of it. I asked him what he was talking about and instead of getting an answer he says "like this, you don't listen or care to hear anybody's side but your own"
I was seriously just talking about an app on my phone and all this started happening. I'm confused where any of that even came from and because he is yelling and throwing a fit like a child I need to get away and find peace I can't handle being screamed at over nothing while I'm pregnant.
Posted by saggurl88
He's doing this crap while you're pregnant? Are you guys arguing over something small? He's in it for the long run and he's not gonna leave his kid but you guys definitely need to work on your communication style .

If he's serious and you are joking, its a problem. You may be trying to lighten the situation but it doesn't come off that way, maybe. he wants to be understood and know you "get it" You would be hurt if he did the same thing, if you had something important to say.

All the stress isn't good for the baby though. You guys need to talk more calmly and communicate better. It's gonna be even more stressful once the baby comes, with very little sleep and all the crying at all times of night the little one will be doing.


I've asked him to calm down and be civil with me: that makes it worse.
Me asking him to do anything other than yell, pisses him off.
I can never find peace.
The light joke part only lasted 2 minutes I gave up because of his anger. I went to bed to cry and he followed me to yell at me and tell me how I feel and think.
My father was abusive like this, I know when enough is enough.
I'm trying not to have an anxiety attack because of my baby.
So I'm just trying to stay strong.
Its been a long few days of him yelling at me.
He has put words in my mouth, twisted my words and yells at me, even when I don't respond. Infact he gets louder when I respond. After crying and crying I decided I deserve better. He says the way I talk pisses him off, that I don't know how to communicate. I tried to make him luagh with some light hearted humor and that made him more mad.
I told him to leave, to leave me alone. He says he will see me in court and have fun having custody of his kid.
Which is fine by me.
You scorpio venuses are something else.
Did you ever stop to think about how this hurts me when I say I feel hurt that your saying these things?
I can't even comprehend what on earth your thinking when your yelling at me and if I say anything in return I am "being rude and talking over you" ? So basically its just me making eye contact while you yell at me.
I'm out
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Posted by Capmercury87
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Posted by Capmercury87
My bf has a virgo moon. He has a problem NOT raising his voice in unnecessary situations. I have a Pisces moon so I hide under the blankets and yell things like "your hurting my brain" or "I can't hear myself thinking"
Makes him mad, but I must express myself.
He's an emotional creature underneath.
He gets mad when you try to educate him or lightly tell him he is incorrect.
He isn't stuck up about it, he just hates following other peoples lead. Its usually me calling him out and then he gets shy when he knows he is wrong.


Interesting, what do you mean by "unnecessary situations"? As in an argument? As mentioned in previous post, a virgo moon male I've known had an eruptive temper, boy, did he yell...

"He's an emotional creature underneath." - yes, I find this also. To me they seem to be ashamed of their own sensitivity/emotions though.

Highly subjective of me to say this though, - thereof I'm trying to learn more about this placement.

I find a virgo moon is super happy when they can teach you something.


Yeah mine gets super happy when he teaches me things.
We could talk about our difference of opinions, I respect his and leave it at that, but he gets passionate and starts raising his voice. Then he gets mad. If you tell him to calm down he gets crazy.


Okay, raising voice attributed to the virgo moon.
Does he have difficulty controlling his temper? Is he expressive verbally about positive feelings / his emotions also?
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He has a very hard time controlling it.
He is like me (both have retrograde venus) we don't express our pleasure or happiness very well or even at all.
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Posted by Capmercury87
My bf has a virgo moon. He has a problem NOT raising his voice in unnecessary situations. I have a Pisces moon so I hide under the blankets and yell things like "your hurting my brain" or "I can't hear myself thinking"
Makes him mad, but I must express myself.
He's an emotional creature underneath.
He gets mad when you try to educate him or lightly tell him he is incorrect.
He isn't stuck up about it, he just hates following other peoples lead. Its usually me calling him out and then he gets shy when he knows he is wrong.


Interesting, what do you mean by "unnecessary situations"? As in an argument? As mentioned in previous post, a virgo moon male I've known had an eruptive temper, boy, did he yell...

"He's an emotional creature underneath." - yes, I find this also. To me they seem to be ashamed of their own sensitivity/emotions though.

Highly subjective of me to say this though, - thereof I'm trying to learn more about this placement.

I find a virgo moon is super happy when they can teach you something.

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Yeah mine gets super happy when he teaches me things.
We could talk about our difference of opinions, I respect his and leave it at that, but he gets passionate and starts raising his voice. Then he gets mad. If you tell him to calm down he gets crazy.
Depends on what its about. If your crying over something light I wouldn't think much of it.
If your crying over something deep ill ask questions maybe give you an awkward hug where I try to come off comforting.
I am not a fan of comforting people. Animals and children I do, but adults are on their own.
If your butthurt I would offer you tissues while laughing because your ridiculous.
My bf has a virgo moon. He has a problem NOT raising his voice in unnecessary situations. I have a Pisces moon so I hide under the blankets and yell things like "your hurting my brain" or "I can't hear myself thinking"
Makes him mad, but I must express myself.
He's an emotional creature underneath.
He gets mad when you try to educate him or lightly tell him he is incorrect.
He isn't stuck up about it, he just hates following other peoples lead. Its usually me calling him out and then he gets shy when he knows he is wrong.
I just kinda need to just vent about this because I'm having mixed feelings. My baby is due in a few weeks and I'm very concerned.
My boyfriend has an older dog who shows his teeth and growls at little kids, me and other dogs. He has attacked my dog twice, put a gash above his eye and constantly steals my dogs toys not even to chew on them he just gloats about it, stares at my dog until he is sad that his toy is taken. I literally am developing a hate for his dog. He's rude, anti social and even though my bf has punished him he explains how his dog is just jealous my dog gets more attention by me. (Of course, he's my dog) his dog is constantly showing his teeth to my dog and I feel petting and giving him attention makes him feel rewarded. (Trust me he does it so often any attention between would be a reward)
My dog jumped in my lap shaking after the last attack. My dog is pit, chiuahaha and lab and I taught him to have patience with other dogs, he is also very social and nurturing to the other dog here. I told my bf I would move downstairs after the baby is born to get away from his dog if I have to (he attacked my dog for being happy, so I asked, what happens when he attacks our child for being happy and getting our attention, what are you gonna say then? Pat his butt and tell everyone he is just jealous?) I have deep scars from being attacked by a dog and I'm scared something that bad may happen to my child or my dog.
He thinks I'm breaking us up and that our relationship is being pulled apart. I'm just thinking about the safety of everyone around me. The other day I tried to get a toy from him he showed his teeth and growled at me, looking at me like he was going to attack and memories flooded black. Im a mom now I can't take this light heartedly. What would you do?
I'm thinking....
My mister: I'm a narcissist because I'm always trying to look good and I'm selfish.
Me: narcissist tare others down because they feel like crap inside. Your not a narcissist.
My mister(Google's it)
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I don't do dates. I don't think I've ever been on a date lol its either hanging out with friends or I'm seducing you with my cooking skills.
Or its at the bars with tons of people so I don't have to invest too much or get too close.
Maybe if we like each other we will get drunk, go home cuddle, dry hump and prey we don't have sex. But then again that's how I ended up pregnant hahaha...
He likes my cooking too 😂😂
We had dinner with friends once when I was 16, he told me the way I sucked the crab meat into my mouth gave him a boner, it was touching so much I had to have him. We flipped a quarter over having sex while room mating, that's how we fell in love.
I'm not classy. I don't like spending money when we could be home doing fantastic things like making love or eating to tv.
I'm pretty reserved with a mouth full of humor and I enjoy not talking about emotions and where we plan on going.
Good thing I got a sag that knows "don't leave the room when you change" gets to my heart faster than "let me wine and dine you beautiful"
I usually let them talk to themselves. After five minutes of realizing I have been watching tv or distracted by a bird in the sky they move on, even if I lived with her.
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Posted by Toti
Strange that Scorpio Venus can say no to sex. Every man and woman go through such things when the baby is on the way. Also, when the baby comes is a completely different story. We all go through such adjustments. Enjoy your pregnancy and have fun! Try not to overthink it. Everything will be ok.


My sagg also has venus in scorp and he does find sex important but love more and respect for each other and he appreciates deep conversations and laughter together sex comes with love and ofcourse men can be frustrated but doesn;t mean she can;t give him head or do other things i mean be creative

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I suggested the same thing but he's not an oral kind of guy. During all the years that I've been with him even recently he has never shown interested and told me he doesn't like it after I offer. He says it doesn't do it for him even in past relationships. He is more traditional. He loves it when I'm on top looking him in his eyes and kissing him. He's very emotionally driven in bed and likes to watch me do me, look me in my eyes and kiss me. We have both talked about our fetishes his is food related and mine is on the bondage side, but every time we get in bed together he melts into this emotional and traditional man that just wants to hold me close and make love with me. I think I bring out his humble, lustless, romantic side.
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Posted by Capmercury87
Last Sunday was my bday and he let me know he was at the bars so when I got off work I surprised him and just showed up.
He was very drunk and happy to see me.
(I believe I made and post a while ago, wondering where the sex drive went etc) and so we started talking about the baby and mushroom stamps and he tells me that he is scared to have sex with me because he imagines baby bones and his face, he said he just can't do it. He hugged me and kissed me said "other wise we would be all over it"
I told him I already knew. And we joked about our kid coming out with a mushroom stamp lol
We then went to another bar and met up with my Aries best friend and his sag best friend who are seeing each other, it was fun and he got a few Irish trash cans and his very emotional side came out. He was telling me and the whole bar how nervous and scared he is about being a father. Anyways it was a good bday, he doesn't remember it but it was cute and fun.
Sounds silly but maybe alcohol makes the answers fall out



In what house is your sagg his sun venus and moon ? mine has his sun in the 8th house what gives him somewhat Scorpio character his venus in the 7th house and his moon in cancer in te 3th house
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I'm still waiting on his mom to find his birth certificate but she says she remembers having him around 1pm so according to that his sun is in house 9. Moon in 6th and venus in 8
Last Sunday was my bday and he let me know he was at the bars so when I got off work I surprised him and just showed up.
He was very drunk and happy to see me.
(I believe I made and post a while ago, wondering where the sex drive went etc) and so we started talking about the baby and mushroom stamps and he tells me that he is scared to have sex with me because he imagines baby bones and his face, he said he just can't do it. He hugged me and kissed me said "other wise we would be all over it"
I told him I already knew. And we joked about our kid coming out with a mushroom stamp lol
We then went to another bar and met up with my Aries best friend and his sag best friend who are seeing each other, it was fun and he got a few Irish trash cans and his very emotional side came out. He was telling me and the whole bar how nervous and scared he is about being a father. Anyways it was a good bday, he doesn't remember it but it was cute and fun.
Sounds silly but maybe alcohol makes the answers fall out