Posted by aquarius_beauty
It's too soon to be emotionally heavy. If you've only been dating for 4 months (without prior knowledge of each other) then you need to lay off. We want you to come and vent to us but don't get all emotional and dark about it. Solve your own problems without expecting him to do it.

In the beginning we like to have fun and keep things light. If you start off with too much emotion or negative energy then we're going to assume that you are always this way and pull away. We understand people have issues but we don't like people dumping them on us. Even if you are just expressing yourself it's best to keep them to yourself. As we become more emotionally invested in you then you can open up about your troubles. Just make sure you resolve those issues or keep them to yourself if they haven't been fixed. An Aqua has zero patience with people who just nag and complain without finding a solution. If you don't then he will lose interest very quickly and move on.

Basically treat him as your friend and lover...not your therapist. If he wants you to open up, then he will do so by asking the necessary questions. Other than that don't open up like that again.

Hit the nail in the head.


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Posted by Capmercury87
Posted by BAV
Im Gem Venus (Taurus Sun) and my Aqua is Cap Venus. We had a very good mental and sexual connection. As for the emotional one... she used to say we do have one, hell, she used to say she loves me, but then something changed.. and we are now just colleagues (we work together). I was clingy probably. But she didnt want a relationship. What happened to you and the Gem Venus?

He is OCD and complained about everything. He makes me feel like poo. I'm an unorganized person but I like it, I know where everything is. He is always fixing things of mine with our asking which doesn't help my procrastination problem.
He always needs to be mentally stimulated when I just wanna have a comfortable silence. I get exhausted, after he makes me feel like crap he gets clingy out of guilt when really i need space and tons of it. Just doesn't help, I lost all my feelings for him. Poof.



What is his sun sign? I'm a gem venus talking to a guy who is cap venus....
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Cancer

Posted by BAV
Im Gem Venus (Taurus Sun) and my Aqua is Cap Venus. We had a very good mental and sexual connection. As for the emotional one... she used to say we do have one, hell, she used to say she loves me, but then something changed.. and we are now just colleagues (we work together). I was clingy probably. But she didnt want a relationship. What happened to you and the Gem Venus?

He is OCD and complained about everything. He makes me feel like poo. I'm an unorganized person but I like it, I know where everything is. He is always fixing things of mine with our asking which doesn't help my procrastination problem.
He always needs to be mentally stimulated when I just wanna have a comfortable silence. I get exhausted, after he makes me feel like crap he gets clingy out of guilt when really i need space and tons of it. Just doesn't help, I lost all my feelings for him. Poof.

Well ive learned alot these past few weeks. No mattet how much i compromise I understand why Gemini venues I'll never be good for my cap Venus despite moon and mars being compatible. I should stick to my own earth Venus and fire mars men. I'm starting to see why Pisces Venus folk are not good for me either. Seems like it's always a social competition and a lot of power trips which I'm tired of being around. I am depressed and keep dreaming about my family which is torturous. How ever I met a handsome Libra with an Aries mars and Virgo venus. He seems pretty earthy and honest. I guess it's better to dump your life and problems on a blog or webpage for thousands of people to see them it is to tell someone you love and they use it against you or make it about them, so many people around me yet I feel alone. Me myself and I are the only ones I trust.
I have never celebrated it. Dumped someone on it tho
I do believe jealousy is not the feeling you feel when your scared of losing the one you love to some one else. That's fear and you should never be with someone that makes you feel that way. When I was younger I dated a guy for three years he purposed to me. I said yes. Along the years of meeting his friends I met his close girl friend. Her birthday is a day after mine. Same year and everything. She would look at him like gold, like some one she was madly in love with it and I knew it. He knew it. She hated me when I left him and when I came back into his life and decided to go on a trip to another city she got him drunk and slept with him. Before all this I threatened to beat her ass, she was scared of me. I guess getting back at me while I wasn't around to stay safe. She had a cap mars. That's the only difference in our charts. He was a sag sun, Virgo moon, aqua mars and Scorpio venus. When I got back from my trip he told me it was my fault that they did it and back handed me. He hates her now and I don't speak to him anymore.
It hurt so bad I went into the bedroom alone by myself and put his 45 m gun in my mouth, unloaded. Had the bullets in my hand. That's when I quit smoking cigarettes and did great things for myself. Anyone else have stories?
Aqua here speaking for all aquas that plot to answer this,,,you are clingy as heck just reading this makes me feel like being alone where I can cleanse my chakras
Jesus Christ just accept it
Are you talking about how your relationship is with aqua and cancer?
Depends on the planet placements.
Find any aqua or cancer with a water moon and fire mars and you can have a pleasant hay day with em. Promise you.
Dont talk about it, let him come to you when he is ready. I never bring up feelings with my cancer and he talks to me about how he feels often. It's like reverse psychology except I don't like talking about feelings so I dont
All the cancer Venus guys I have tried to pursue ghost out after a while. I have a cap Venus like you too. It's a waste of time. Not all cancers are like this. Mine always contacts me etc. He has a water moon as well.
Mine has a Sagittarius asc and I have a Pisces asc. Hes very verbal about everything. My aqua sun thrives off this. His cancer sun must love my watery ness.
Im really happy with my cancer, there are things to be learned but best of all things to be felt.
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Posted by Capmercury87
When he is still asleep in the morning I always wake up cuddled with him, if he feels hard I reach down there and gently rub him til he starts moaning in his sleep and wakes up. I kiss him softly and grab his waistand move down his stomach where I go down on him. I get him hard and squirming til he acts tense. Then I take my cloths off and he watch's me. We keep kissing and I'll put myself over him and lean in close and kiss him while I insert him inside of me. He breaths really heavy and his mouth moves open and shut when he is close, all of this greatly turns me on and we usually finish together, leaving his huge load inside of me. I let him finger me once with his cum inside of me, he said he likes to watch it drip out of me. Mmmm man rocks my world.


Just curious - is it always the same? Day after day?
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When he is still asleep in the morning I always wake up cuddled with him, if he feels hard I reach down there and gently rub him til he starts moaning in his sleep and wakes up. I kiss him softly and grab his waistand move down his stomach where I go down on him. I get him hard and squirming til he acts tense. Then I take my cloths off and he watch's me. We keep kissing and I'll put myself over him and lean in close and kiss him while I insert him inside of me. He breaths really heavy and his mouth moves open and shut when he is close, all of this greatly turns me on and we usually finish together, leaving his huge load inside of me. I let him finger me once with his cum inside of me, he said he likes to watch it drip out of me. Mmmm man rocks my world.
If there is someone that tugs at your heart but doesn't nurture you would you compromise? What about the in that nurtures you that you can nurture back? Could you see you spending the rest of your life with the one that brings peace, comfort and beauty to your soul, or the one that keeps you on your toes, with a deep connection? How do you know your settling or following an addiction to pain and other things, such as being the chaser, the one getting excited, full of sexual thrills, the one way road where you like to work hard for your desires?
What's worth it to you on your death bed? The one that brought you to life and leads an adventurous life or the one that peacefully loves and cares for you in a traditional way?
Also what is your venus?
My Pisces moon wants to ask question a like a five year old....often.
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Posted by Capmercury87
I kinda have no expectations for my bday, a Taurus friend of mine keeps asking me what I am doing and i keep replying with working til midnight, and idk. he bought me a cake with out asking me, I dont have a set place or time for anything, honestly I would like to spend it alone with just the man in my life and my best friend, Im really just angry and want to be alone now. Id blow steam on my facebook but God forbid this hit the spot with any one, "I didn't mean to..." "I am sorry"
should have stopped on the seventh text message when i didn't reply doofus!!!!!
Pisces moon wants to be alone now.
hope the rest of you have a happy bday, spend it with the people that really support you in your absence!


Maybe they keep asking because you haven't come right out and said No. My pisces moon bestie is the biggest people pleasing, passive aggressive person ever. Just smile situations away or hide instead of coming to a conclusion.


I answered, der!



No you didn't you did the passive aggressive hope they get the point thing I mentioned earlier. "You responded with working until 12 and idk" That is not an answer. You answer them by saying spending it at home with my man.
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If you can't figure out that getting off work at 1am and celebrating a bday is a not a great idea, then aren't you just a special cookie

Posted by saweetz1988
It's funny how Aqua don't really care much about their birthdays... why is that?

Cause it draws attention