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Thank you for that site @Capri-sun.... Not so sure we're a match now.. SO DIFFERENT LOL! Our Saturn is opposites .. Mine Cap, his Scorp.. Our neptune is Cap.. our pluto is Scorp... Hmmm.. Everything else is total opposite.. How do I know if we're a good fit?


ME
Rising Sign- Cap
Sun- Scorpio
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Sag
Mars- Libra
Jupiter- Cancer
Saturn- Cap
Uranus- Cap
Neptune- Cap
Pluto- Scorpio
NODE- Aquarius

HIM
Rising Sign- Aires
Sun- Cap
Moon- Taurus
Mercury- Sag
Venus- Aqua
Mars- Pisces
Jupiter- Cap
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus-Sag
Neptune- Cap
Pluto-Scorpio
NODE- Taurus


Something is off. You're sun should be scorp instead of libra right?


YESS! Sorry typed what I wrote too fast.. My Rising Sign is CAP, My Sun is Scorpio and My Moon is Libra


Yeah good luck with that aqua venus lol. It gets so much flack from females here on the cap board.

His taurus moon should make him steady, serious, and committed so personally if he asked to be exclusive I wouldn't worry too much about it. The pisces mars could be issues with his follow through as well, idk lol.

For the most part you both have enough of compatible energies to make it work & get along. I'm not that great at the synergy/compatibility readings so maybe someone else will chime in to help.


OOPP! Venus Aqua.. Sigh... He seems bipolar as hell from what you explain.. lol comminted but issues following through... That worries me. LOL!

I think i balance out what he lacks and vice versa... Good for relationships IMO!
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The duality of pisces is the bipolar part imo lol
Give it time. If he wants anything to do with you, he'll let you know. No you shouldn't reach out. Both of you were at fault & had a break down of communication. Cap & Taurus fighting is a stubborn death till the end. Give it time to pass.
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Thank you for that site @Capri-sun.... Not so sure we're a match now.. SO DIFFERENT LOL! Our Saturn is opposites .. Mine Cap, his Scorp.. Our neptune is Cap.. our pluto is Scorp... Hmmm.. Everything else is total opposite.. How do I know if we're a good fit?


ME
Rising Sign- Cap
Sun- Scorpio
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Sag
Mars- Libra
Jupiter- Cancer
Saturn- Cap
Uranus- Cap
Neptune- Cap
Pluto- Scorpio
NODE- Aquarius

HIM
Rising Sign- Aires
Sun- Cap
Moon- Taurus
Mercury- Sag
Venus- Aqua
Mars- Pisces
Jupiter- Cap
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus-Sag
Neptune- Cap
Pluto-Scorpio
NODE- Taurus


Something is off. You're sun should be scorp instead of libra right?


YESS! Sorry typed what I wrote too fast.. My Rising Sign is CAP, My Sun is Scorpio and My Moon is Libra
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Yeah good luck with that aqua venus lol. It gets so much flack from females here on the cap board.

His taurus moon should make him steady, serious, and committed so personally if he asked to be exclusive I wouldn't worry too much about it. The pisces mars could be issues with his follow through as well, idk lol.

For the most part you both have enough of compatible energies to make it work & get along. I'm not that great at the synergy/compatibility readings so maybe someone else will chime in to help.
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I wonder if it's an ego thing?


Sometimes. Pride
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@Capri-sun

SCORPIO WOMEN ARE THE BIZ-Nass!!! :*

Indeed!
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Safe to say Scorpios are more on actions and caps are more on time even if it means they don't really express anything with the time given lol


We think our actions speak. The other party just doesn't seem to believe the same lol.

If I'm working 72-89 hours a week, and I take a weekend off of work to drive 5 hours to you. Get a hotel room and wait patiently for you to show up, only for you to tell me that you never said you had time, even though just the day before when I asked if I could come see you and you said yes. Only for me to have to drive 5 hours back home after not seeing you.

Factor in gas, travel time without sleep, wear and tear on my car, time away from my children, missed money that I could've made by working.

That's why I say the communication thing is bs. Nothing personal towards you, just in my particular situation it didn't make a difference.

He did that to me not only once but twice. Shame on me for letting it happen a second time.


@Capri-sun Yea, that Scorpio is nothing like me... He may have not felt the same or he could have been dealing with a situation with another woman. I'm not giving him a pass, cause I would be LIVID in that situation, but with me, I've dated (Talking, not in a relationship) and they wanted to go out or meet up etc and if I just wasn't that into you, I was pretty flaky. Especially if I had a "main thing" with someone else.. I don't really know you and his situation so I'm not sure... But you only get that side of me when I'm not that interested in you and you're pushing too hard... I'm not speaking for him tho.. we're pretty blunt on how we feel.. Just like Capricorns..

My thing is if that's the case just say so.
Or if I give you an out take it. I can't tell you how many times I asked/ told him that he wasn't interested. Rather than end it he wanted to argue that he was & that he never said that.

Again goes back to why we stay closed. Because people fake interest knowing in reality they could give a treetr*nk less.

So sometimes it seems slow, when I could be keeping my cards close to my chest a) to figure out my own feelings and what I want & b) to determine if the other person is serious or not.

If I'm not interested, I won't keep that person around until I meet someone that I really like. If I'm not interested, I'm just not interested and I let you go.

Just saying, what if the cap is treating you how you did others. Having a main or keeping you until something else comes along.

Not saying that is the case. I'm just saying I've been hurt & hurt others enough to be straightforward in my dealings.


Girl we sound so much alike with dealing with issues. HAHA! I give you ample opportunity to be real.. say what you mean and mean what you say.. Actions help but in a LDR you can only go by so much and in that case, WORDS.. SO i get you completely.

Your (a) & (b) reasons make alot of sense to me.. But I think because Scorps and Caps are alike when we date, it comes off as disinterest on both sides cause we're both trying to "feel out" the other.. & see if feelings are mutual... SO as stated before.. Communication has to be on point.. I open up more than my Cappy guy.. & it scares the butter out of me cause I really wanna know that it's real.. He always says his feelings are mutual so I usually believe him.. Until he betrays my trust..

Would you say that you will "keep someone around" and tell them you feel the same.. UNTIL you find someone else.. Or are you standoffish to the person that's just "around"..?

You're right.. and i oftentimes think the same... I've been on both ends of the spectrum.. But if he says he wants me... I have nothing to go off but his word.. I love honesty and I told him that from jump.. "I don't ask fir much but just be real with me, honesty, loyalty and don't waste my time."

Would you introduce a "fling" (someone you're not really interested in) to your closest friends?

Introducing a fling to my friends, depends on the situation. If we're all going out together as a group to an event or something it's possible. Intentionally, no. I wouldn't typically do that.

There was 2 occasions where the guys had good qualities and I was unsure so they met my mom, and I took it from there on makimg my decision.

I will NOT keep someone around and tell them I feel the same until I find someone else. I'm a loner & enjoy my own company so I don't need the unnecessary conversation, attention, company. It stresses me out more than anything.

I do know some caps who are okay with just using people for company/conversation even though they aren't interested in committing to the person


Got you.. My Cap introduced me to his close friend ...

Yea not too many ppl meet my mom.. & if you do... YOU KNOW it's real! LOL

Well being that my cap initiated a "commintment" & we agreed on exclusiveness... it's safe to say he really wants to be with me??
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Ideally, yes. Sounds legit. I will say that I experienced something similar and eventually walked away because it felt more like sex than a relationship that I was looking for.

Trust your gut. Anything here is just speculation on our part.
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"Coldness" I've noticed is a common complaint about Earth signs. I think the perceived Coldness is misconstrued. Earth signs are reserved and cautious by nature, at least from what I've noticed. There is a difference between keeping things to yourself and shutting someone out. Though it may feel like it, there is no mistaking it when it truly does happen.


I totally agree. I have come through a tough life by myself and raising a child and I am quiet and will listen first and observe and people think I'm sort of cold because I'm not the typically smiley huggy type - and I don't cater to whiners and lazys and other people find this cold but it is more realistic to me than just being cold. But my best friends find me bubbly and smiley and all up in the good stuff so IDGAF what people think cause they are just going to think whatever when they don't "know" what the deal is.


My mom is a Taurus.. She acts this way... Growing up she wasn't the "huggy, huggy, kissy" type... but we knew she loved us.. She is a STRONG women in my eyes... but loyal to a fault and I've seen her deal with bullbutter. Most of the time she played a single mother even with our step dad around, he wasn't involved. In her past relationships she was the same.. not very mushy..My dad (a Capricorn) hated that about her... I grew up around her so in my dating experience (early age) I wasn't really the mushy type, so my dad often says, "you're just like your mom" WHATEVER! lol... People that get to know my mom LOVE HER!!! They love her laid back cool persona and value her realness... People that rub her the wrong way from the jump don't really gain her attention and they say she's cold... Not in my eyes. We've become great friends and I often go to her for advice cause she's never bias and she keeps butter real..


wow, sounds so very familiar - I think if I had raised a girl she would be strong like me too - my son is strong ... not sure why your Dad hated that about her with him being a Capricorn - sometimes I am not sure where the behavior comes from - the Taurus Sun/Rising and/or the Capricorn Moon ...


@tcta She's raised 3 kids.. I'm the oldest and I have 2 brothers... We all are very strong individuals making something of ourselves... I think my dad was tired of being rejected.. as we know the "insecure" needs reassurance... hard to trust came out of my dad (Capricorn) with that part of their relationship and they were young when they got married also.. My dad would go in for affection and if my mom wasn't in that mood she'd push him away... He NEEDED that affection and he wasn't getting it.

I actually need help with charts.. I have no idea what I am or my significant other.. Maybe this will help me?

I'm 10/27 he's 1/1 ??? HELP!


If you go to astro.com they do free natal charts you just put in the information. Without the year of birth, not much we can give you here.


Thank you for that site @Capri-sun.... Not so sure we're a match now.. SO DIFFERENT LOL! Our Saturn is opposites .. Mine Cap, his Scorp.. Our neptune is Cap.. our pluto is Scorp... Hmmm.. Everything else is total opposite.. How do I know if we're a good fit?


ME
Rising Sign- Scorpio
Sun- Libra
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Sag
Mars- Libra
Jupiter- Cancer
Saturn- Cap
Uranus- Cap
Neptune- Cap
Pluto- Scorpio
NODE- Aquarius

HIM
Rising Sign- Aires
Sun- Cap
Moon- Taurus
Mercury- Sag
Venus- Aqua
Mars- Pisces
Jupiter- Cap
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus-Sag
Neptune- Cap
Pluto-Scorpio
NODE- Taurus
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Something is off. You're sun should be scorp instead of libra right?
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@Capri-Sun



That is all, now back to lurking.


This is better lol

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I like this one 2

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Safe to say Scorpios are more on actions and caps are more on time even if it means they don't really express anything with the time given lol


We think our actions speak. The other party just doesn't seem to believe the same lol.

If I'm working 72-89 hours a week, and I take a weekend off of work to drive 5 hours to you. Get a hotel room and wait patiently for you to show up, only for you to tell me that you never said you had time, even though just the day before when I asked if I could come see you and you said yes. Only for me to have to drive 5 hours back home after not seeing you.

Factor in gas, travel time without sleep, wear and tear on my car, time away from my children, missed money that I could've made by working.

That's why I say the communication thing is bs. Nothing personal towards you, just in my particular situationn it didn't make a difference.

He did that to me not only once but twice. Shame on me for letting it happen a second time.


If someone did that to me I'll be upset for a day and move on the next day


@Evoxxxscorpio

you're good... cause if I REALLY like someone... I can't move on the very next day.. I want an explanation.. WHY TF DID YOU WASTE MY TIME & ESPECIALLY MY MONEY!? Then if they have a valid excuse.. they'll get another chance.. but it'll be hard for me to trust them again until they make up for the said situation.. I've been stood up twice and that butter hurts..but they had valid excuses...


No matter how much I like that person it sends the wrong signal for me and I tend to lose interest fast.


What if you've fallen in love with that person..? STILL? Done.. just like that?


Lol if that person loves me she wouldn't do that in the first place right? lol I can hold my ground I'll bet my balls on that yes I will move fast 💨 a day is too extreme I'll give it a few weeks.
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That is all, now back to lurking.


If only the men were as sweet as the women 😍

Thank you
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Safe to say Scorpios are more on actions and caps are more on time even if it means they don't really express anything with the time given lol


We think our actions speak. The other party just doesn't seem to believe the same lol.

If I'm working 72-89 hours a week, and I take a weekend off of work to drive 5 hours to you. Get a hotel room and wait patiently for you to show up, only for you to tell me that you never said you had time, even though just the day before when I asked if I could come see you and you said yes. Only for me to have to drive 5 hours back home after not seeing you.

Factor in gas, travel time without sleep, wear and tear on my car, time away from my children, missed money that I could've made by working.

That's why I say the communication thing is bs. Nothing personal towards you, just in my particular situationn it didn't make a difference.

He did that to me not only once but twice. Shame on me for letting it happen a second time.


If someone did that to me I'll be upset for a day and move on the next day


@Evoxxxscorpio

you're good... cause if I REALLY like someone... I can't move on the very next day.. I want an explanation.. WHY TF DID YOU WASTE MY TIME & ESPECIALLY MY MONEY!? Then if they have a valid excuse.. they'll get another chance.. but it'll be hard for me to trust them again until they make up for the said situation.. I've been stood up twice and that butter hurts..but they had valid excuses...

And no excuse? Just shutting down completely & moving on with silence. How do you deal with that?



That's what I'm saying @Capri-sun... I can't like someone so much one day and the VERY next day be like whatever... because of a mistake.. Now.. if it happens twice.. that's 2 times too many and they have to do ALOT to get back in my good graces..
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No I'm saying if I did that and gave you no explanation, no excuse, hell just stopped talking to you and taking your calls altogether. How to do you move on with than, and no explanation, no closure.
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Safe to say Scorpios are more on actions and caps are more on time even if it means they don't really express anything with the time given lol


We think our actions speak. The other party just doesn't seem to believe the same lol.

If I'm working 72-89 hours a week, and I take a weekend off of work to drive 5 hours to you. Get a hotel room and wait patiently for you to show up, only for you to tell me that you never said you had time, even though just the day before when I asked if I could come see you and you said yes. Only for me to have to drive 5 hours back home after not seeing you.

Factor in gas, travel time without sleep, wear and tear on my car, time away from my children, missed money that I could've made by working.

That's why I say the communication thing is bs. Nothing personal towards you, just in my particular situation it didn't make a difference.

He did that to me not only once but twice. Shame on me for letting it happen a second time.


@Capri-sun Yea, that Scorpio is nothing like me... He may have not felt the same or he could have been dealing with a situation with another woman. I'm not giving him a pass, cause I would be LIVID in that situation, but with me, I've dated (Talking, not in a relationship) and they wanted to go out or meet up etc and if I just wasn't that into you, I was pretty flaky. Especially if I had a "main thing" with someone else.. I don't really know you and his situation so I'm not sure... But you only get that side of me when I'm not that interested in you and you're pushing too hard... I'm not speaking for him tho.. we're pretty blunt on how we feel.. Just like Capricorns..

My thing is if that's the case just say so.
Or if I give you an out take it. I can't tell you how many times I asked/ told him that he wasn't interested. Rather than end it he wanted to argue that he was & that he never said that.

Again goes back to why we stay closed. Because people fake interest knowing in reality they could give a treetr*nk less.

So sometimes it seems slow, when I could be keeping my cards close to my chest a) to figure out my own feelings and what I want & b) to determine if the other person is serious or not.

If I'm not interested, I won't keep that person around until I meet someone that I really like. If I'm not interested, I'm just not interested and I let you go.

Just saying, what if the cap is treating you how you did others. Having a main or keeping you until something else comes along.

Not saying that is the case. I'm just saying I've been hurt & hurt others enough to be straightforward in my dealings.


Girl we sound so much alike with dealing with issues. HAHA! I give you ample opportunity to be real.. say what you mean and mean what you say.. Actions help but in a LDR you can only go by so much and in that case, WORDS.. SO i get you completely.

Your (a) & (b) reasons make alot of sense to me.. But I think because Scorps and Caps are alike when we date, it comes off as disinterest on both sides cause we're both trying to "feel out" the other.. & see if feelings are mutual... SO as stated before.. Communication has to be on point.. I open up more than my Cappy guy.. & it scares the butter out of me cause I really wanna know that it's real.. He always says his feelings are mutual so I usually believe him.. Until he betrays my trust..

Would you say that you will "keep someone around" and tell them you feel the same.. UNTIL you find someone else.. Or are you standoffish to the person that's just "around"..?

You're right.. and i oftentimes think the same... I've been on both ends of the spectrum.. But if he says he wants me... I have nothing to go off but his word.. I love honesty and I told him that from jump.. "I don't ask fir much but just be real with me, honesty, loyalty and don't waste my time."

Would you introduce a "fling" (someone you're not really interested in) to your closest friends?
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Introducing a fling to my friends, depends on the situation. If we're all going out together as a group to an event or something it's possible. Intentionally, no. I wouldn't typically do that.

There was 2 occasions where the guys had good qualities and I was unsure so they met my mom, and I took it from there on makimg my decision.

I will NOT keep someone around and tell them I feel the same until I find someone else. I'm a loner & enjoy my own company so I don't need the unnecessary conversation, attention, company. It stresses me out more than anything.

I do know some caps who are okay with just using people for company/conversation even though they aren't interested in committing to the person
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"Coldness" I've noticed is a common complaint about Earth signs. I think the perceived Coldness is misconstrued. Earth signs are reserved and cautious by nature, at least from what I've noticed. There is a difference between keeping things to yourself and shutting someone out. Though it may feel like it, there is no mistaking it when it truly does happen.


I totally agree. I have come through a tough life by myself and raising a child and I am quiet and will listen first and observe and people think I'm sort of cold because I'm not the typically smiley huggy type - and I don't cater to whiners and lazys and other people find this cold but it is more realistic to me than just being cold. But my best friends find me bubbly and smiley and all up in the good stuff so IDGAF what people think cause they are just going to think whatever when they don't "know" what the deal is.


My mom is a Taurus.. She acts this way... Growing up she wasn't the "huggy, huggy, kissy" type... but we knew she loved us.. She is a STRONG women in my eyes... but loyal to a fault and I've seen her deal with bullbutter. Most of the time she played a single mother even with our step dad around, he wasn't involved. In her past relationships she was the same.. not very mushy..My dad (a Capricorn) hated that about her... I grew up around her so in my dating experience (early age) I wasn't really the mushy type, so my dad often says, "you're just like your mom" WHATEVER! lol... People that get to know my mom LOVE HER!!! They love her laid back cool persona and value her realness... People that rub her the wrong way from the jump don't really gain her attention and they say she's cold... Not in my eyes. We've become great friends and I often go to her for advice cause she's never bias and she keeps butter real..


wow, sounds so very familiar - I think if I had raised a girl she would be strong like me too - my son is strong ... not sure why your Dad hated that about her with him being a Capricorn - sometimes I am not sure where the behavior comes from - the Taurus Sun/Rising and/or the Capricorn Moon ...


@tcta She's raised 3 kids.. I'm the oldest and I have 2 brothers... We all are very strong individuals making something of ourselves... I think my dad was tired of being rejected.. as we know the "insecure" needs reassurance... hard to trust came out of my dad (Capricorn) with that part of their relationship and they were young when they got married also.. My dad would go in for affection and if my mom wasn't in that mood she'd push him away... He NEEDED that affection and he wasn't getting it.

I actually need help with charts.. I have no idea what I am or my significant other.. Maybe this will help me?

I'm 10/27 he's 1/1 ??? HELP!
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If you go to astro.com they do free natal charts you just put in the information. Without the year of birth, not much we can give you here.
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I'll say this tho the big difference between the two I'd say is if I'm interested on someone there's no stopping me you will feel it mentally and physically but with caps atleast the ones I've dated will hide their feelings and put you through hoops for months or even years before you even get anywhere even if they like you.


This is so me! I'm "hands on" and in touch with my emotions. SO... if I really like you, you will know... I've dated 2 Caps (that I know of) and you go through so much to know how they feel.. One I'm dating currently likes me but is so unemotional I have to drag it out of him or he'll be mushy at the weirdest times.. The one from my past wanted to marry me. We're still cool to this day but we met in college and it took him years to tell me how he felt. & had the nerve to say, "You couldn't tell that I loved you?" NO!?!! LOL! I like the challenge. But does it hurt to be emotional and expressive?


Why would it hurt?


That's exactly what I want to know @Evoxxxscorpio... "Why would it hurt?" To be emotional with a person you like..

Do caps like to give off the wrong impression of their feelings? Not wanting to be vulnerable.. being nonchalant.. You are being questioned about your feelings obviously because nobody knows wtf you want.. Passive aggressive butter.. TOO MANY GAMES. Cause if you act nonchalant about me, I'm gonna think you don't feel the same way I do.. I'll try to get you to open up and eventually I'll move on if it's not happening... Then they come back like "Why haven't you been talking to me lately" or randomly text "I miss you"... when you gonna be mine again.... That's not "having it all together" like Caps try to put off... it's not direct... It's confusing and speaking on myself as a Scorpio, it doesn't take me too many times to deal with the BS before I move on completely.. The Cap that "loved me" & wanted to marry me learned that real fast....


Lol I don't know if all caps do this but the ones I've dated has done it lol



LOL! Yea, I don't know if it's all caps either... But the one I'm dealing with now and the one before are so confusing.. Then when we back off completely they lose their minds... You know what you want but are SLOW to move towards it...

I be like "OH NOW YOU WANNA SHOW ME?" little too late...

What time frame do you consider slow?


Maybe I didn't word it right but slow to express feelings.. My guy now, asked me to be his girlfriend on our first date.. It shocked me honestly... But now that we're together, it's like this " I have her, I told her how I felt already & I don't have to do more" attitute (Stubborn) ..I want him to express his feelings.. & he doesn't all the way.. Or he answers questions with questions when I ask him specific things.. All my other relationships moved fast so as far as slow to getting to know each is cool.. however long it takes is fine because I wanna do things different... but i just want more emotion, i guess.. SO he's slow with his emotions..
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I understand better after you explain it. I was speaking more from my experience than yours. If I commit to someone I'm openly expressive. I'm not really sure at it relates to him not being expressive, what the reason might be. Have you 2 discussed closing the distance between you or are you both just ok with it.
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Safe to say Scorpios are more on actions and caps are more on time even if it means they don't really express anything with the time given lol


We think our actions speak. The other party just doesn't seem to believe the same lol.

If I'm working 72-89 hours a week, and I take a weekend off of work to drive 5 hours to you. Get a hotel room and wait patiently for you to show up, only for you to tell me that you never said you had time, even though just the day before when I asked if I could come see you and you said yes. Only for me to have to drive 5 hours back home after not seeing you.

Factor in gas, travel time without sleep, wear and tear on my car, time away from my children, missed money that I could've made by working.

That's why I say the communication thing is bs. Nothing personal towards you, just in my particular situationn it didn't make a difference.

He did that to me not only once but twice. Shame on me for letting it happen a second time.


If someone did that to me I'll be upset for a day and move on the next day


@Evoxxxscorpio

you're good... cause if I REALLY like someone... I can't move on the very next day.. I want an explanation.. WHY TF DID YOU WASTE MY TIME & ESPECIALLY MY MONEY!? Then if they have a valid excuse.. they'll get another chance.. but it'll be hard for me to trust them again until they make up for the said situation.. I've been stood up twice and that butter hurts..but they had valid excuses...
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And no excuse? Just shutting down completely & moving on with silence. How do you deal with that?
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Safe to say Scorpios are more on actions and caps are more on time even if it means they don't really express anything with the time given lol


We think our actions speak. The other party just doesn't seem to believe the same lol.

If I'm working 72-89 hours a week, and I take a weekend off of work to drive 5 hours to you. Get a hotel room and wait patiently for you to show up, only for you to tell me that you never said you had time, even though just the day before when I asked if I could come see you and you said yes. Only for me to have to drive 5 hours back home after not seeing you.

Factor in gas, travel time without sleep, wear and tear on my car, time away from my children, missed money that I could've made by working.

That's why I say the communication thing is bs. Nothing personal towards you, just in my particular situation it didn't make a difference.

He did that to me not only once but twice. Shame on me for letting it happen a second time.


@Capri-sun Yea, that Scorpio is nothing like me... He may have not felt the same or he could have been dealing with a situation with another woman. I'm not giving him a pass, cause I would be LIVID in that situation, but with me, I've dated (Talking, not in a relationship) and they wanted to go out or meet up etc and if I just wasn't that into you, I was pretty flaky. Especially if I had a "main thing" with someone else.. I don't really know you and his situation so I'm not sure... But you only get that side of me when I'm not that interested in you and you're pushing too hard... I'm not speaking for him tho.. we're pretty blunt on how we feel.. Just like Capricorns..
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My thing is if that's the case just say so.
Or if I give you an out take it. I can't tell you how many times I asked/ told him that he wasn't interested. Rather than end it he wanted to argue that he was & that he never said that.

Again goes back to why we stay closed. Because people fake interest knowing in reality they could give a treetr*nk less.

So sometimes it seems slow, when I could be keeping my cards close to my chest a) to figure out my own feelings and what I want & b) to determine if the other person is serious or not.

If I'm not interested, I won't keep that person around until I meet someone that I really like. If I'm not interested, I'm just not interested and I let you go.

Just saying, what if the cap is treating you how you did others. Having a main or keeping you until something else comes along.

Not saying that is the case. I'm just saying I've been hurt & hurt others enough to be straightforward in my dealings.
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I'll say this tho the big difference between the two I'd say is if I'm interested on someone there's no stopping me you will feel it mentally and physically but with caps atleast the ones I've dated will hide their feelings and put you through hoops for months or even years before you even get anywhere even if they like you.


This is so me! I'm "hands on" and in touch with my emotions. SO... if I really like you, you will know... I've dated 2 Caps (that I know of) and you go through so much to know how they feel.. One I'm dating currently likes me but is so unemotional I have to drag it out of him or he'll be mushy at the weirdest times.. The one from my past wanted to marry me. We're still cool to this day but we met in college and it took him years to tell me how he felt. & had the nerve to say, "You couldn't tell that I loved you?" NO!?!! LOL! I like the challenge. But does it hurt to be emotional and expressive?


Why would it hurt?


That's exactly what I want to know @Evoxxxscorpio... "Why would it hurt?" To be emotional with a person you like..

Do caps like to give off the wrong impression of their feelings? Not wanting to be vulnerable.. being nonchalant.. You are being questioned about your feelings obviously because nobody knows wtf you want.. Passive aggressive butter.. TOO MANY GAMES. Cause if you act nonchalant about me, I'm gonna think you don't feel the same way I do.. I'll try to get you to open up and eventually I'll move on if it's not happening... Then they come back like "Why haven't you been talking to me lately" or randomly text "I miss you"... when you gonna be mine again.... That's not "having it all together" like Caps try to put off... it's not direct... It's confusing and speaking on myself as a Scorpio, it doesn't take me too many times to deal with the BS before I move on completely.. The Cap that "loved me" & wanted to marry me learned that real fast....


Lol I don't know if all caps do this but the ones I've dated has done it lol



LOL! Yea, I don't know if it's all caps either... But the one I'm dealing with now and the one before are so confusing.. Then when we back off completely they lose their minds... You know what you want but are SLOW to move towards it...

I be like "OH NOW YOU WANNA SHOW ME?" little too late...
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What time frame do you consider slow?
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It can be any variation of a lie
-inconsistency in stories
-being fake
-being deceitful
-false excuses
-not being a person of your word /lacking follow through


Odd, you described my ex-mother in low perfectly. She was a Capricorn and she was inconsistent with ehr stories, fake, deceitful, false, and nor legitimate at all. My best friend, on the other hand, is quite the opposite. Nearly all his placements are in Capricorn.
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Yes I know a couple caps like your ex mother in law too
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Safe to say Scorpios are more on actions and caps are more on time even if it means they don't really express anything with the time given lol


We think our actions speak. The other party just doesn't seem to believe the same lol.

If I'm working 72-89 hours a week, and I take a weekend off of work to drive 5 hours to you. Get a hotel room and wait patiently for you to show up, only for you to tell me that you never said you had time, even though just the day before when I asked if I could come see you and you said yes. Only for me to have to drive 5 hours back home after not seeing you.

Factor in gas, travel time without sleep, wear and tear on my car, time away from my children, missed money that I could've made by working.

That's why I say the communication thing is bs. Nothing personal towards you, just in my particular situationn it didn't make a difference.

He did that to me not only once but twice. Shame on me for letting it happen a second time.


If someone did that to me I'll be upset for a day and move on the next day
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Right. When I fall it's unconditional. Unfortunately. High tolerance for dumb butter. Something I'm working on lol. That's why I cut before I have feelings if signs of situations like this present themselves.

Like the pisces I was suppose to see Saturday or sunday and is still reaching out to me this morning like we're suppose to be cool.

The scorpio did that after we had already been talking for 7-8 months