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Posted by CreativeCap
When I was younger (late teens), I confessed love for a guy first if he already demonstrated that he loved me. Now, I hold back, mostly to avoid getting hurt.


This.
Posted by lnana04
I don't even understand when someone asks the question "how do you feel about me?" or "tell me how you feel?"

I don't know. It's not something I'd think to ask someone.
I guess in my mind feelings are felt, and I'll feel how you feel.
Plus If you say it, and I don't believe it, then there's nothing you can do about that.

so in saying that, speaking feelings is just...weird.

I've never told someone how I felt. I don't even know where the words would come from...definitely not my heart. I just imagine speaking feelings from lala land. idk
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I'm rambling, but good you got it out. If it helped, then that's a plus. Do you think you will really stick to being more expressive?


I’m not sure yet. We agreed to but at this point it’s hard not to fall back into my comfort zone. It not like I want to be like this, but I’ve already started this internal battle of “now he will think I’m weak and will try to take advantage. Stop caring” . It’s annoying because I don’t even want to be so damn stubborn, but I genuinely fear I’ve opened a can of worms

I always loved this guy, but I actually made a conscious decision to say it....to him. Well I didn’t say I love you. That would’ve been too much in one day, but I told him all the sweet things that go on in my head that my pride wouldn’t let me say out loud. I feel better. It really felt weird. I’m still cringing but he opened up in the process. We made a collective decision to be more expressive and I’m interested to see how it goes. Y’all be tellin ppl how you feel about them? Cuz...no
They are cute. I dated cap a while back and he was so sweet and considerate. Very affectionate and fun
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I've been reading all these posts about Taurus guys and there have been some complaints that I have seen that were pretty common and I can admit I was guilty of myself. Maybe it'll give a little insight, maybe, not everyone is the same. I always broke relationships down into categories 1) FWB
2) Wife material

Where we fell depended on their responses to how I am (as a fixed sign we really don't change much) I've seen it called a "test" but it wasn't really a test. I would do the same things over and over and look for consistency in their response, that's it. I look at it as 2 gears coming together: does it appear they will mesh and roll along smoothly? Sometimes I'd do stupid stuff to see if they were just doing what they thought I wanted, not interested in fake. If I thought it was fake it fell to FWB.

I too ran off for long periods of time and wasn't heard from. Honestly, that was for me to get my head right. It's kinda weird, but it was a sorta blow to my stability even considering a relationship - that's a serious change in routine. I wanted to consider every angle before I committed. I don't consider myself a prize or anything, but I didn't want to be wasting time with someone I knew wasn't going to last.

My best advice is for you to do you. Don't stray from your principles, just be real with him and not what you think he wants, build a friendship. Invite him to do things you like to do and you think he'd enjoy. If you guys gel, apply pressure but be patient at the same time, a relationship is big deal.

Like I said I know everyone is different. I had just seen the same themes over and over that I was also guilty of, and try to give some insight into my reasoning behind it, maybe it will translate into your Taurus as well.





I appreciate this explanation. Thank you. You seem like to be one of the few direct honest ones.


I do try. We really are simple people. We just don't explain alot. We try to handle it in our heads and sometimes that works against us. Meanwhile everyone around us are jumping to conclusions and changing the dynamics.


Maybe the problem is that you (I don’t mean YOU) don’t explain, all we see is only your actions/behavior and that can come off confusing or even cold. Like the ghosting or not texting back is a clear red flag and once you give a few red flags we start doubting everything you do say cause your actions and words don’t match. Women are extremely intuitive and very sensitive to these small changes.
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Yessssss. This

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Omg.

*grabs popcorn*


Taurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.


Oh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.


i love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly haha


You can do it! You’ve it in you to go slow. I wish I had any advice other than don’t let him string you along, I’ve noticed these guys will see you for 5 years then still say “we are friends!”.


I've been through his disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing so after 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. He texted me after a few days and asked me out. He stood me up then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and i have low tolerance for BS so explained to him what he did to me in a nice but logical way, told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. I told him i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I am looking for something real. Then he texted me that he understands and he said that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.

I am confused coz i feel like he is playing games with me and i hate that, left me guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him.

Right now, i am taking it slower than he wants lol i call the shots and i dont make myself available all the time. Before i used to prioritize him then i realized that i shouldn't commit myself to him yet. I just let our feelings grow naturally.


Ugh I really feel for you! They all do this! They’re really not all that emotionally stable for an earth sign and some of the men are insecure and a big mess! I’m glad you stepped up for yourself and showed him you’ll take no butter from him.

Tell him you want a serious relationship and you don’t want to waste more time or invest in something with no future. Tell him that you only have sex in COMMITTED relationships.

Do you think he could be talking to or seeing any other girls? These guys LOVE feminine attention and usually have a harem around them. The ex bull would tell me he felt random connections with ANY woman around him. They’re just so insecure and want to be adored so badly.


Exactly! I would only have sex in a COMMITED relationship! I already told him that i am looking for serious relationship and i don't play games. I've always been honest with him. Too honest actually and i'm straightforward. That's another reason i don't wanna sex with him yet bec i feel like he is talking to other girls. He always diappears and only gonna text me once in a blue moon. I'm not stupid and our instincts are telling that something is fishy. There are times i feel that he is being true to me but there are also times that i feel that he is hiding something. And he knows i hate people who lies.


You’re doing exactly what you should be doing. They want to have their cake and eat it too, they want it ALL. Make him choose, if he can’t choose you now then that means you’ll end up heartbroken in the end. You’ve said your peace and now he needs to man up and make a decision. Life will go on with or without him.

Keep your options open too, don’t cut out all other men for him, don’t tell him that though since they’re so possessive (it’s okay if they behave like treetrunkbags but not their women.)


I agree, if he really wants me to be with me. He will choose me now. No BS. If he still can't decide, then that's it. I don't want to waste my time and invest in something that don't go anywhere.


Exactly. You’re doing the best decision FOR YOU. Keep your own interest first cause that’s what everyone does. You come first before him, when he’s ready to commit to you then you can compromise later.

I made a post on the Taurus forum about that, Tauruses will comply when you give them boundaries/incentives. They begin to let you get you want. The Taurus I dated tested me and pushed me to no end until I couldn’t anymore.
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This is the best advice I’ve seen so far. Every Taurus man I’ve ever dated was a dickhead at some point. Hot and cold, testing, harems, but I swear when you put yourself first and are sure of your interests and can’t be swayed, he will value you more. Anytime I’ve ever been overly accommodating or passive they would act like whole asses. Then I’d blow up or say that’s it and they’d finally get their butter together. The connection is so amazing, but don’t you dare compromise that strong Capricorn spirit and intuition. Caps naturally have a problem solving mentality so we adjust to accommodate and press forward. Be kind but be sure about what you want and make it known in a logical way
My Taurus is going through a really rough time right now. I’ve always tried to be supportive but recently he’s been extremely snappy and cookiemonstery. I told him that even though I understand his frustration I don’t deal with rude or condescending behavior from anybody. I told him to go about his business and come back when he can deal with his emotions in a way that doesn’t project onto me. He simply responded with “ok”. Not sure if that was ok as in “whatever” or “you’re right”. I feel like he’s going through something serious but he won’t share all the details with me. I honestly don’t need to know specifics, but I’m not sure if there’s some other way I can support him from a distance while he gets his butter together. I don’t regret what I said because he’s been a real dickhead, but I also don’t want to leave him fully hanging if he really needs help. How do u like to be supported?
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I've been lusting after this fine Taurus man for over 6 months.

We recently started to exchange hugs every time we see each other. I'm lost for words every time because I have these lusty thoughts and all I could do is gaze into his eyes. I feel he feels the same but just doesn't speak on it

He invited me out a couple of times and I flaked every time. But he never got upset or anything..

So the last hug, he's like do you still live in the neighborhood (we're like 2stops away on the train).. I'm like yea, smiled and walked away..

Next week, we're gonna hang out and do the deed.. lol

I can't take it anymore.. lol


Lol this is exciting. Are u guys going on a date or just chillin. Tell me more I’m invested in this sexcapade. You’re making me think of my Taurus. He’s so damn fine. Tall, dark, sensual eyes. The first time I went to hang with him the tension was so strong. We sat in absolute silence then texted each other the next day talking about how we both were having the nastiest thoughts while sitting right next to each other. Im no virgo but I imagine the earthy connection is the same.

My Taurus was fiery with the chase in the beginning. Flirting often, texting or constantly inviting me out to hang with him and his friends. It was obvious, but it still seemed like he was a little cautious. As time passed the chase turned into fierce loyalty. We could have huge disagreements, but no matter what he would be around. After cool down time, he always checked in on some way.


I will agree that at times I felt like he tested me or tried to manipulate a situation to see if I felt the same. Now that he knows I’m here to stay, he’s super consistent.
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You're a Taurus. You're not ready for a relationship because you're not over your ex. But you like this person who you've gotten to know a bit as a friend. The person admitted feelings to you. You backed off, not wanting to lead them on. He/she said "Fine, no problem, we can be friends. I'm not ready either." Great, no pressure! But you start disappearing and stop answering all the texts. Until one day he/she needs your advice. And then again. You jump both times, though previously ignoring them. You love to give advice.

But then the Dear John letter comes. He/she finally admits the following words to you. Imagine you just opened this in your inbox:

"I am done hiding it. I know you're not ready and I told you I'll just be there for you as a friend, but I fell so hard for you. I wake up and think of you. I fall asleep and think of you. I need you, and that's the hardest part. You're everything. I've been so worried about pushing you away that I haven't even admitted my biggest flaws, so afraid to turn you off. I've even been jealous of others who you're around that are attractive. I've doubted you, thinking you weren't being upfront about this time and that time when you disappeared, and I'm not a jealous person. I want you. I want to be your best friend. Your confidant. The one you know won't do wrong by you. But I cannot go on thinking it may be possible, unless I know you feel the same. You never admitted to feelings and I know you felt it, and don't known why you won't admit it. I know you may never return the feelings I have for you, so I have to move on. I tried everything to hide this and I just can't anymore. Missing you as much as I do has even physically affected me. This is the power you have over me."


Taurus: What goes through your mind? You admitted to this person before you were somewhat attracted but not ready. Now you know they have feelings so strong for you that the only way for them to protect themselves is to walk away. But you're going through a breakup and just not ready. You've never even touched this person but they know a lot about you after you shared parts of your emotions, fears, etc.

Do you reach out? Let them go and never look back? Continue to think about them? What say you, complex Taurus?


This was so sweet. No other sign has been able to make me feel the way a Taurus man can. If nothing else, I think you guys have an earthy connection. I find that most of my Taurus friends or ex’s have had long term fulfilling relationships with Virgos. At this point you’ve spoken your truth and that’s all you can do. I did the same with a Taurus ex of mine and he didn’t say anything really until a few months later. When he did it came pouring out and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I can’t say it will end the same, but it’s apparent that you care for him deeply so he may be willing to make that step eventually. My ex had just gotten out of a relationship and it took a year before he asked me. I think that was still fairly short for a Taurus. He was also absolutely sure that he did not want a future with his ex. No bad blood, no crazy breakup, he was just over the relationship. I think his placements had a lot to do w/ it.

Do you know his placements? And how long has he been broken up from his ex?


That's an interesting story. Had you dated before, and then walked away? Or, had you only been friends and you fell for him and had to walk away? Care to share what ended your relationship?

Ah, the placements. I'm not very knowledgeable on the intricacies of "houses", etc. But I do know the following:

Me: Virgo sun, Libra moon, Scorpio rising.
Mars in Gemini, Venus in Leo.

Him: Taurus Sun, Virgo moon, Libra Rising.
Mars in Leo, Venus in Taurus.


Are you fairly familiar with the signs relating to one another? If so, care to make an assessment of our placements? That stuff is beyond my understanding, unless I read each one individually. Combining both leaves me stumped.

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We were friends...really like best friends. I told him how I felt, he wasn’t ready, but we remained friends. Eventually I said to him that I would pull back because I felt like I was being overly caring and I could be missing out on someone that might want something more. It wasn’t his fault or his problem, but I felt like he was making it seem like he was interested then pulling back.i stayed good friends with him, but was open to dating. He called me while he was out of the country and said he couldn’t imagine his life without me and he knew that I was someone special. We only broke up because he moved out of state. Neither of us could survive a LDR. I’d be depressed lol

I can’t speak to your placements in depth here because it would be long, but if you go to cafeastrology.com and do a free synastry report it can give you some insight into your compatibility.

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You're a Taurus. You're not ready for a relationship because you're not over your ex. But you like this person who you've gotten to know a bit as a friend. The person admitted feelings to you. You backed off, not wanting to lead them on. He/she said "Fine, no problem, we can be friends. I'm not ready either." Great, no pressure! But you start disappearing and stop answering all the texts. Until one day he/she needs your advice. And then again. You jump both times, though previously ignoring them. You love to give advice.

But then the Dear John letter comes. He/she finally admits the following words to you. Imagine you just opened this in your inbox:

"I am done hiding it. I know you're not ready and I told you I'll just be there for you as a friend, but I fell so hard for you. I wake up and think of you. I fall asleep and think of you. I need you, and that's the hardest part. You're everything. I've been so worried about pushing you away that I haven't even admitted my biggest flaws, so afraid to turn you off. I've even been jealous of others who you're around that are attractive. I've doubted you, thinking you weren't being upfront about this time and that time when you disappeared, and I'm not a jealous person. I want you. I want to be your best friend. Your confidant. The one you know won't do wrong by you. But I cannot go on thinking it may be possible, unless I know you feel the same. You never admitted to feelings and I know you felt it, and don't known why you won't admit it. I know you may never return the feelings I have for you, so I have to move on. I tried everything to hide this and I just can't anymore. Missing you as much as I do has even physically affected me. This is the power you have over me."


Taurus: What goes through your mind? You admitted to this person before you were somewhat attracted but not ready. Now you know they have feelings so strong for you that the only way for them to protect themselves is to walk away. But you're going through a breakup and just not ready. You've never even touched this person but they know a lot about you after you shared parts of your emotions, fears, etc.

Do you reach out? Let them go and never look back? Continue to think about them? What say you, complex Taurus?


This was so sweet. No other sign has been able to make me feel the way a Taurus man can. If nothing else, I think you guys have an earthy connection. I find that most of my Taurus friends or ex’s have had long term fulfilling relationships with Virgos. At this point you’ve spoken your truth and that’s all you can do. I did the same with a Taurus ex of mine and he didn’t say anything really until a few months later. When he did it came pouring out and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I can’t say it will end the same, but it’s apparent that you care for him deeply so he may be willing to make that step eventually. My ex had just gotten out of a relationship and it took a year before he asked me. I think that was still fairly short for a Taurus. He was also absolutely sure that he did not want a future with his ex. No bad blood, no crazy breakup, he was just over the relationship. I think his placements had a lot to do w/ it.

Do you know his placements? And how long has he been broken up from his ex?
Posted by lnana04
Wow, I couldn't imagine dating someone without joking with them about cheating lmao. ESPECIALLY not a Taurus with their sneaky behinds smh.

It's all fun until it's real...but some of the behavior makes it easy to say "hey, get from under your girlfriend and answer the phone!"

Like, that's nothing lol. If these jokes were made to me, who cares if it's not true?


Yo...the way I joke with my friends. Saaaaame.
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Idk how to feel about my Taurus literally laying into my ass this morning. I have a habit of making jokes about him and other women. It’s rarely ever serious and I make the same jokes with all of my male friends. He took it so personally and he cursed me the treetrunk out today saying he’s tired of me accusing him when he spends all his time with me and his family. I didn’t know he took it that way since I see it differently. He made it a point to keep saying not to accuse him because he’s not doing anything but I wasn’t actually accusing him. He’s been mad before but he’s never yelled the way he did this morning.

It could be either he’s feeling guilty and trying to create a huge problem so I don’t say it again or he genuinely doesn’t like to even joke especially if he’s been undoubtedly loyal. Which do you think?


How do you joke about these things? What do you say? Like, how is it funny if it wasn't after the first one or two times?

You sound like a insecure, passive aggressive bleep who makes "jokes" in place of a straight discussion in the hopes that something enlightning or revealing will come of it. Which it won't. This is what flaccid dicks are made of.



And you sound like a cookiemonster made dickhead with poor comprehension skills. You dimwits need to read my damn post. The only people leaving these butterty comments are the people who read to comment instead of reading to understand. HE ALWAYS LAUGHED until now. So ...what...thee...feck are u talking about?


He LAUGHED bc he didn't want to make a thing of it. Maybe it was even funny the first time. But after a dozen times it tends to become a drag.. especially when it seems to stem from some insecurities u have that you refuse to bring up like a functioning member of the society. I mean even the best of jokes has a treetrunkin expiration date, no?

So tell me again what i didn't take with me from your initial post?



No he laughed normally because It didnt bother him which is why he said that in his apology. He also said he didn’t know why he felt so upset that day. He throws shots at me all the time. It’s not like I kept making the same exact joke over and over again. Thats why I asked opinions. Two common thoughts are he was upset because it was true so he tried to make a huge deal about it or he was upset because he needs me to understand that there is absolutely no truth to it because he thinks I might Most people chose the latter.

You said it earlier in comment when asked about cheating part. So why dig more into it? You can take advice or not, it's up to you, it may only help you gain some more trust if you do. I'll tell you my story (which is less of a big deal but just to show an example). My Cap had this way of acting once when I was playing game with few other people, who he also knows, he was at work at a time. So he comes online and we talk and he tells me I shouldn't play cause of headache(and he's right). I said ok I'll just finish this one and I'm done. Then he says how I rather play game than talk to him and it hits me hard...I said how can you think that really? I exited game immediately and kept talking to him, told him I closed game but he repeats it again, how he realized that at some point. Now it got me even more annoyed. I tell him I'm always there for him, I always talk to him rather than do anything else and not once have I completely ignored game and people I was with at the moment just cause he showed up and I talked to him instead of paying attention to game. There was few more examples I reminded him of to prove that he matter much more than all this. He calms down and talks normally only to say it again how I was busy playing game and didn't take more photos for him...that really pissed me off and I just went to sleep. In the morning he apologized and said he was joking but I didn't take it as joke. Not because I feel guilty for playing game but because I know I'd do ANYTHING for him but he still kept bringing it up like I just ignored him and played game instead...So when someone tells you how they feel about you take it and don't question it too much in the way you tend to do. Chances are they don't only flatter you and if you keep questioning them sometimes you'll get reaction like that. I don't justify his cursing however but I can see why he got annoyed. I'm sure by now you encountered with people not understanding you well but there's no need for everyone to understand you anyway.


In your story I can see how that would be annoying, but just because that was your experience that doesn’t mean Its ours. I keep stressing that he has not expressed frustratioN. I’m not a mind reader. I will definitely be mindful moving forward because NOW I know.

But you were more annoying than he was actually...he just wanted attention (and he said so), you accused the guy about cheating in playful way testing him to get reaction from which you can determine if he maybe does something on side. I didn't express frustration at all, he picked up on his own I got mad. You don't have to be a mind reader but put some limits to when it's too much of pushing someone's buttons. As you see not everyone reacts the same. He had impulsive reaction to it eventually after ignoring first few times, I acted like nothing happened...depends on how each person reacts to stress. Some may be ticking bombs, some may explode right away and some may keep it inside forever and torture themselves instead...
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And again I say...he did not ignore them. He did not sit in silence when I made my jokes. He laughed, he responded with jokes of his own. There was nothing to pick up on as you said. How the hell am I going to actually get clarity about him actually cheating by making a joke. He could say “nah babe I’m not cheating” and still be. He could say “yes I am sleeeping with them” and not be. What you are failing to understand is the purpose behind the humor. You can’t fathom that it is just bustin balls...being shady...joking. butter like saying “there goes your girlfriend” or “now you know you like that girl”. He’s done exactly the same and it’s never been a problem. Maybe now he doesn’t like it
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Idk how to feel about my Taurus literally laying into my ass this morning. I have a habit of making jokes about him and other women. It’s rarely ever serious and I make the same jokes with all of my male friends. He took it so personally and he cursed me the treetrunk out today saying he’s tired of me accusing him when he spends all his time with me and his family. I didn’t know he took it that way since I see it differently. He made it a point to keep saying not to accuse him because he’s not doing anything but I wasn’t actually accusing him. He’s been mad before but he’s never yelled the way he did this morning.

It could be either he’s feeling guilty and trying to create a huge problem so I don’t say it again or he genuinely doesn’t like to even joke especially if he’s been undoubtedly loyal. Which do you think?


How do you joke about these things? What do you say? Like, how is it funny if it wasn't after the first one or two times?

You sound like a insecure, passive aggressive bleep who makes "jokes" in place of a straight discussion in the hopes that something enlightning or revealing will come of it. Which it won't. This is what flaccid dicks are made of.



And you sound like a cookiemonster made dickhead with poor comprehension skills. You dimwits need to read my damn post. The only people leaving these butterty comments are the people who read to comment instead of reading to understand. HE ALWAYS LAUGHED until now. So ...what...thee...feck are u talking about?


He LAUGHED bc he didn't want to make a thing of it. Maybe it was even funny the first time. But after a dozen times it tends to become a drag.. especially when it seems to stem from some insecurities u have that you refuse to bring up like a functioning member of the society. I mean even the best of jokes has a treetrunkin expiration date, no?

So tell me again what i didn't take with me from your initial post?



No he laughed normally because It didnt bother him which is why he said that in his apology. He also said he didn’t know why he felt so upset that day. He throws shots at me all the time. It’s not like I kept making the same exact joke over and over again. Thats why I asked opinions. Two common thoughts are he was upset because it was true so he tried to make a huge deal about it or he was upset because he needs me to understand that there is absolutely no truth to it because he thinks I might Most people chose the latter.

You said it earlier in comment when asked about cheating part. So why dig more into it? You can take advice or not, it's up to you, it may only help you gain some more trust if you do. I'll tell you my story (which is less of a big deal but just to show an example). My Cap had this way of acting once when I was playing game with few other people, who he also knows, he was at work at a time. So he comes online and we talk and he tells me I shouldn't play cause of headache(and he's right). I said ok I'll just finish this one and I'm done. Then he says how I rather play game than talk to him and it hits me hard...I said how can you think that really? I exited game immediately and kept talking to him, told him I closed game but he repeats it again, how he realized that at some point. Now it got me even more annoyed. I tell him I'm always there for him, I always talk to him rather than do anything else and not once have I completely ignored game and people I was with at the moment just cause he showed up and I talked to him instead of paying attention to game. There was few more examples I reminded him of to prove that he matter much more than all this. He calms down and talks normally only to say it again how I was busy playing game and didn't take more photos for him...that really pissed me off and I just went to sleep. In the morning he apologized and said he was joking but I didn't take it as joke. Not because I feel guilty for playing game but because I know I'd do ANYTHING for him but he still kept bringing it up like I just ignored him and played game instead...So when someone tells you how they feel about you take it and don't question it too much in the way you tend to do. Chances are they don't only flatter you and if you keep questioning them sometimes you'll get reaction like that. I don't justify his cursing however but I can see why he got annoyed. I'm sure by now you encountered with people not understanding you well but there's no need for everyone to understand you anyway.
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In your story I can see how that would be annoying, but just because that was your experience that doesn’t mean Its ours. I keep stressing that he has not expressed frustratioN. I’m not a mind reader. I will definitely be mindful moving forward because NOW I know.
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Idk how to feel about my Taurus literally laying into my ass this morning. I have a habit of making jokes about him and other women. It’s rarely ever serious and I make the same jokes with all of my male friends. He took it so personally and he cursed me the treetrunk out today saying he’s tired of me accusing him when he spends all his time with me and his family. I didn’t know he took it that way since I see it differently. He made it a point to keep saying not to accuse him because he’s not doing anything but I wasn’t actually accusing him. He’s been mad before but he’s never yelled the way he did this morning.

It could be either he’s feeling guilty and trying to create a huge problem so I don’t say it again or he genuinely doesn’t like to even joke especially if he’s been undoubtedly loyal. Which do you think?


How do you joke about these things? What do you say? Like, how is it funny if it wasn't after the first one or two times?

You sound like a insecure, passive aggressive bleep who makes "jokes" in place of a straight discussion in the hopes that something enlightning or revealing will come of it. Which it won't. This is what flaccid dicks are made of.



And you sound like a cookiemonster made dickhead with poor comprehension skills. You dimwits need to read my damn post. The only people leaving these butterty comments are the people who read to comment instead of reading to understand. HE ALWAYS LAUGHED until now. So ...what...thee...feck are u talking about?


He LAUGHED bc he didn't want to make a thing of it. Maybe it was even funny the first time. But after a dozen times it tends to become a drag.. especially when it seems to stem from some insecurities u have that you refuse to bring up like a functioning member of the society. I mean even the best of jokes has a treetrunkin expiration date, no?

So tell me again what i didn't take with me from your initial post?

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No he laughed normally because It didnt bother him which is why he said that in his apology. He also said he didn’t know why he felt so upset that day. He throws shots at me all the time. It’s not like I kept making the same exact joke over and over again. Thats why I asked opinions. Two common thoughts are he was upset because it was true so he tried to make a huge deal about it or he was upset because he needs me to understand that there is absolutely no truth to it because he thinks I might Most people chose the latter.
Posted by sagittariusxo
Posted by Capri__unicorn
Posted by sagittariusxo
maybe you should respect other people boundaries and respectful stop doing things that others don't appreciate when they tell you they don't appreciate you.


do you understand what kind of man a Taurus is?

also I think its pathetic that you even said "its either he Is feeling guilty" as if he is actually doing the thing that you say he is doing that you "rarely" ever mean.

you don't deserve him if you think that your actions are ok because you don't think they are a big deal.

2cents. boop.


Dear I don’t read the whole story before I comment bullbutter,

Maybe you should read my treetrunkin post where it says he normally does not mind and laughs about it and this is the FIRST time that it bothered him. It was never mentioned before that I should stop. No boundaries crossed. Secondly, just because he’s a Taurus it doesn’t mean he’s incapable of being flawed because several of my Taurus friends are unevolved pieces of butter and theyre just good at hiding it. Stop acting like just because a man is a Taurus he’s incapable of messing up. Thank God that is not the case as many other people have offered meaningful advice centered around the actual problem. You’re coming off as a Taurus groupie, maybe you’re some lucky Taurus man’s harem just like me? I love Tauruses but not to the point where I’m so much of a fan that they can never be wrong. It’s pathetic to assume that. Lastly, if you can’t offer some advice that is relevant and takes all of the story into account, without insults I will kindly block your ass. Carry on




tssss.
You will see where you end up with your choices, and remember what I told you.
carry on.

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God....Hopefully not where you are with your Taurus. Take that fake ass guilt trip elsewhere. My poor relationship will fail because my man didn’t like my joke once. What ever will I do ?

Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Capri__unicorn
Idk how to feel about my Taurus literally laying into my ass this morning. I have a habit of making jokes about him and other women. It’s rarely ever serious and I make the same jokes with all of my male friends. He took it so personally and he cursed me the treetrunk out today saying he’s tired of me accusing him when he spends all his time with me and his family. I didn’t know he took it that way since I see it differently. He made it a point to keep saying not to accuse him because he’s not doing anything but I wasn’t actually accusing him. He’s been mad before but he’s never yelled the way he did this morning.

It could be either he’s feeling guilty and trying to create a huge problem so I don’t say it again or he genuinely doesn’t like to even joke especially if he’s been undoubtedly loyal. Which do you think?


How do you joke about these things? What do you say? Like, how is it funny if it wasn't after the first one or two times?

You sound like a insecure, passive aggressive bleep who makes "jokes" in place of a straight discussion in the hopes that something enlightning or revealing will come of it. Which it won't. This is what flaccid dicks are made of.

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And you sound like a cookiemonster made dickhead with poor comprehension skills. You dimwits need to read my damn post. The only people leaving these butterty comments are the people who read to comment instead of reading to understand. HE ALWAYS LAUGHED until now. So ...what...thee...feck are u talking about?
Posted by DMV
Do you think he is being unfaithful?


Nope, not that I know of. I honestly try my best not to really think about that. I feel like what’s the point of worrying about what MIGHT be going on. If he happens to do something I’m sure it will come to light. I know women that press their men about every little thing like it guarantees he won’t cheat. It doesn’t work. If he wants to be “kept” he will be and no amount of me lurking, pressing, or questioning will prevent it.
Posted by sagittariusxo
Posted by Kaytlyn
Posted by sagittariusxo
maybe you should respect other people boundaries and respectful stop doing things that others don't appreciate when they tell you they don't appreciate you.


do you understand what kind of man a Taurus is?

also I think its pathetic that you even said "its either he Is feeling guilty" as if he is actually doing the thing that you say he is doing that you "rarely" ever mean.

you don't deserve him if you think that your actions are ok because you don't think they are a big deal.

2cents. boop.


did you see where she also wrote " oh he must be wounded if hes that sensitive over it " LOL!



oh my god - she is terrible.

Taurus are such good, loving and loyal people.
it is such a blessing to feel the love of a Taurus and she is sitting there and completely taking that for granted. taking him for granted. telling him b.s that he is being unfaithful.

its only a matter of time before he drops her so hard on the floor and takes off like a ghost that never existed.




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Wait I just read your post about your Taurus. Girl you better worry about why your Taurus keeps standing you up, going out without u when he told u he didn’t want to and left your ass dateless for your holiday party. Lmao you’re the one getting dropped.



Posted by 2Moon
Posted by Capri__unicorn
Posted by 2Moon
Hit thread 😂😂😂



It would be even better if busyeyes was still here. She knows how to throw a good insult



WHAT THE trtrk is your problem with me?!
I HATE THAT BTCH! I forgot about her.... But you just reminded me...

😂
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LMAO, sorry I will never forget her. She loved coming after me on here. We'd definitely be aguing right now.