cap sun. cap moon

Omg no lol. I haven't seen any red flags yet. Aside from him jokingly telling me that once we become official he'll expect me to stay locked away in the house. Perhaps he's serious. Nope not here for it
So I'm dabbling in the other earth sign for the first time. Dated Taurus men and they've been a headache. Are y'all the same? Cuz I ain't got time to be depressed. Best advice you can give a cap woman about dating a Virgo man. Go...
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Capri-Unicorn....

It's a mixture of laziness, complacency, and doing things on his 'terms' only.

I'm a Bull, I should know.

My advice,

Don't provide him with a pillow to lean on.
He's not going to give you an answer, because there are no penalties involved with 'non responses.'
Either way, you will continue to text.

The worst thing you could do with a Bull?
Is allowing us to get comfortable with a routine.
A volcano will erupt before he comes out of this pattern.

If he sends a text,
Don't respond.
You're not obligated to.
Your response is a courtesy.
Not an obligation.
The both of you are no longer committed.

Be sure to tell him this.


This is exactly what I need to do and for some odd reason it feels like the most difficult thing to do. I value my old relationships because they have always started off as deep friendships first. It's always easy to say "just forget them". I wouldn't just forget my best female friend. I tried to communicate how he does things on his terms and he went on a tangent about something totally unrelated. I'm not sure if I should care enough to correct him or just accept that this is who he will always be. Almost every Taurus I've ever dated has been like this. I could tell them something that they're doing that I don't like and they will not change. It took my other ex years to understand what I was saying. I just left the other Taurus over 7 years ago and now he realizes what he did back then 🙄 I'm so drained and I feel like I'm going to have to cut him off cold turkey. His stubborn ass won't even care

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Posted by nikkistar
@norelationshipgoals can help you


ands is dating a double capricorn, his girl must be an arrogant queen
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We're not arrogant 😒
Posted by lnana04
Taurus males are weird lol. You never know with them. It could be something crazy like thinking phone calls are for girlfriends.

If yall are already texting a lot, talking on the phone a lot too may seem like yall are still together. Maybe it's him drawing the line somewhere. Who knows.


Yo I just called him that the other day. I specifically said "you're weird" because he does some of the craziest nonsense I've ever seen.

My ex and I have been broken up for awhile now and we have maintained a pretty good friendship. We talk often, but it's usually over text. I recently noticed a pattern. Whenever I tell him to call me he won't. It's like he avoids it like I'm not even saying it at all. Most times I would brush it off. Figure maybe he's dating someone and doesn't want it to be an issue or he's busy but he won't even say what it is. He knows I'm a very easy person to explain almost anything to. Tonight I asked why does he avoid calling and he just stopped texting. I'd understand if the conversation would be about the relationship or I nagged him about something, but most times it's because we're having a good convo or text and my circumstances are about to change so it would be more feasible for me to speak. Idk what else to do about it at this point. Maybe he doesn't like talking to me or hates my voice lol. But he will text all day so I'm butter out of luck. What do you guys think
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Posted by Sheever
I am afraid you will find out just later. Can be any reason


Could be, but I've already blocked his number.
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Girl stop being dramatic by blocking him and at least wait til you know the reason. You're not even giving him the opportunity to explain.
Posted by Aznnation
Chanced upon this while browsing youtube, this lady is real and funny asf.



As crazy as it sounds...I've experienced men like this. As soon as I was over them completely, they want to do everything in their power to get back in my good graces. Especially a Taurus guy that I dated in the past. He was half assing it...I moved on. It's been over 7 years since we've dated. He's been pursuing me for a date for that entire time. He leaves for awhile then comes back with even more determination than the last time. I wanted him so badly back then. Now I'm just cordial.
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Posted by Capri__unicorn
No shade but you sound like an immature brat in that text. Lol, im so for leaving...I genuinely support you in quitting and getting the respect you deserve by leaving her ass in the dust, but come on. Your tone and profanity laced messages screams unprofessionalism. I get that it's just Starbucks, but it's still a job. Practice your classy clapback and respond in a way that communicates your power without losing your credibility. It might not seem important now but you never know...later in life when you're going for the job you really want...she could be the person standing between you and the opportunity.

“No shade”
*throws butter load of shade*

Contradicting yourself much?
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Nope take it as constructive criticism. I want you to be better than me...I'm old. You're young with a lot of time ahead of you

No shade but you sound like an immature brat in that text. Lol, im so for leaving...I genuinely support you in quitting and getting the respect you deserve by leaving her ass in the dust, but come on. Your tone and profanity laced messages screams unprofessionalism. I get that it's just Starbucks, but it's still a job. Practice your classy clapback and respond in a way that communicates your power without losing your credibility. It might not seem important now but you never know...later in life when you're going for the job you really want...she could be the person standing between you and the opportunity.
Sounds like my ex before we became official. He was always blocking me randomly on social media. But I think he used and still uses WhatsApp as a way to check up
Posted by SugarandSpunk
I'm sorry to hear about you & Mr. Bull not working out. His loss, not yours. Hopefully if another bull comes your way, may he not be the same as that douche b/c not all bulls are bad, just like I would say not all cap men are bad, just some lol.

Sending positive vibes your way


Thanks love. I'm currently being scoped out by two other bulls but I don't want parts ?. I'll just enjoy the sexual tension from a distance ?

Posted by TaurusBull1977
I am sorry things didn't workout with you and your Bull.

I was rooting for the both of you.

His loss. He will realize it. This will be his regret fro him to ponder on, not yours.

The snailing moves he is doing has no room in your casa.

Not everyone moves on that grandafther time clock.....LMAO!


Thank you. Your advice carried me through and I really admire how you're able to provide some context behind bull thinking. Im sure his slow ass will realize it over time. I refused to look at him but my brother saw him looking at us across the room. Especially when his other bull coworker came over to hug me. It's unfortunate that it's based entirely on immaturity. I'd expect it to be cheating but he just would not follow through with anything he said! And I got tired of being let down ?

Posted by lnana04
Girl!!!

Talk about timing. I'm really crushing on a guy at work, which is the first time I've liked someone like this since the Taurus. Mind you, I haven't seen or spoken to the Taurus in over a year. He disappeared, and blocked me from his social media.

I decide to check the Taurus facebook tonight, which I periodically do for reasons, and for the first time in over a year, he accepted my sisters friend request. I KNEW this would happen...meaning the feelings I'm developing for this new guy would be blocked somehow. I just checked the Taurus facebook a few days ago, and nothing, and now since I've told my mother and friend about this new guy the friend request is accepted smh.

The Taurus pettiness. I scroll through pictures, which he's only uploaded about 5 in over a year, and see a picture of him and I'll assume his new girlfriend posted on my birthday...of ALL days. Ugh..btw, I can't believe it's been a year since I've seen his face. Anyway..

Sad thing is, they may have let the guy I'm crushing on at work go today. I really hope not. If he's at work tomorrow, which I hope that he is, I gotta see how/what I feel.
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I think the connection is overrated. You most likely still love him, but it CAN be a huge stress reliever when you break away, even if it hurts a bit at first. Whatever you do, make sure your feelings are gone before you attempt to move on.



Omg seriously whyyyy are we living the same life. I'm kind of crushing on a coworker too but he's a Taurus ?. I'm just posting but I've been feeling this way for awhile and we haven't been able to "get right" for a few months now. My coworker has a situationship with a Virgo at work so I don't even try plus I'm just trying to focus on me but whenever I walk by and he's swarmed by women he makes it a point to touch me and talk about the most random thing I've said to him in passing.
My now ex Taurus and I blocked each other over a year or two ago. We went back and forth but it was childish. I saw him at his job with one of his many harem heffas and I didn't feel any jealousy whatsoever. He just stared from a distance with a dumb sad puppy face. I'm not worried. If he wanted it to be more he'd focus more on the relationship. He can block me, date other women, have a baby for all I care. I'm really over it and looking for something a little more mutual
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Posted by Cancan26
What!!! That's sucks.... I actually really thought you guys a would have made. It? Do you think you could get back together?


I thought so too. He has commitment issues. Not a fear of committing to a woman, but a refusal to commit to tasks. It's annoying


Can you guys work past. It? Is he very young and has no follow thru?


Nope he's 30. By now he should have his life together I think. I think what makes its worse is that he genuinely believes his excuses make sense. I almost feel like he thinks I'm stupid and he's just being avoidant of responsibility.


That's suck so bad... But real adult love requires sacrifice, work and freakin follow thru... In order to do adult things like have kids, shelter, food.. I'm sorry
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Exactly! Leads me to believe he wouldn't be a very good husband...father...provider or whatever. Potential just isn't enough these days. Don't be sorry I still learned a great deal
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Posted by Cancan26
What!!! That's sucks.... I actually really thought you guys a would have made. It? Do you think you could get back together?


I thought so too. He has commitment issues. Not a fear of committing to a woman, but a refusal to commit to tasks. It's annoying


Can you guys work past. It? Is he very young and has no follow thru?
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Nope he's 30. By now he should have his life together I think. I think what makes its worse is that he genuinely believes his excuses make sense. I almost feel like he thinks I'm stupid and he's just being avoidant of responsibility.

Posted by Cancan26
What!!! That's sucks.... I actually really thought you guys a would have made. It? Do you think you could get back together?


I thought so too. He has commitment issues. Not a fear of committing to a woman, but a refusal to commit to tasks. It's annoying
I mean we are still friends and I love him as a person, but his inability to follow through with what he says made me stop loving him. We saw each other and we didn't even speak. And for the first time I didn't care. I feel relieved so much for that cap Taurus connection
Posted by Kityyyyyyy
Do Taurus men indulge in FWB's relationships often?.


A few I know do
If you mean a person...I maintain a tough exterior and do a great job at pretending I really dgaf. Internally I'm dying...questioning if I'm the cause of the loss...what could be wrong with me...why didn't it work...doesn't matter the circumstances. I acknowledge my contribution to it...but that person will never know how much it hurts