Posted by hollyhock
If a cap doesn't have control, they go off the deep end. Agree or disagree?
Posted by elllle
She lost me at "I’m dating a Scorpio friend of mine".
Dude doesn't stand a chance.
Posted by arcana92Posted by Capri__unicorn
Moon in Leo, Venus in Sag, Mars in Libra...checking others
*rubs hands together* aaaalrighty, so what we have here is someone whose essential personality bears all the hallmarks of Scorpio (depth, intuition, intensity etc) tempered by an emotional nature that is really quite vibrant, open, exceptionally warm and giving in the Leo moon. It'll lighten the normally heavy/dark feeling of Scorpio and imbue it with a feeling of happy-go-lucky charm - a trait that is only emphasised by his Venus in Sagittarius. These placements make him much, much lighter than what you'd expect from a traditional Scorpio. The Leo moon is caring and focused on the one he loves, but also gregarious and wanting to spread that natural warmth around to everyone he cares about. Everyone. This may be what you're picking up on, especially if you're expecting more of the broody moodiness of a differently aspected Scorp. It's no bad thing. It just means he cares about lots of people in his life. That broad warmth doesn't necessarily mean he's any less faithful to you, or any less devoted to you. It just means he cares about a lot of people in his life and wants everyone to feel loved. How can you win your Leo moon? Make sure you're making him feel emotionally loved and appreciated. I'll say it again, appreciated . Leo moons need to feel admired and special, even if they might not admit it, to you or themselves. The more you can make him feel special and adored, the more and more he'll want to take care of you and be desperate to provide that same for you. They absolutely cherish and adore the ones they devote themselves to.
What I will say is that the Sag Venus (I have this placement) can sometimes make someone a little flighty, or hard to pin down. This shouldn't be a problem if he has outlets in his home/personal life that can give him the feeling of exploration or escape. If he has that, the sometimes flighty nature of Sagittarius can be calmed and grounded. How this expresses in me is that I go for long walks by myself every night to process and de-stress. Even better if I also take myself off for a hike or an adventure on the weekend. If I can do things like that for myself, life is sweet. Without it, I feel trapped and things start to go sour. In a relationship, this placement in me makes me feel jumpy and avoidant unless the other person can show me that they're calm and stable and not going anywhere, but also not going to put any pressure on me. Then I'm happy to roll with it and let things develop, and the Sag sweetness comes out.
Mars in Libra is not an ideal placement for Mars (Mars the warrior isn't happy in the sign of the peacemaker), so the traits of Libra can be overshadowed by the house placement, for which you'll need his birth time. But overall, I'd say that this makes him more of a lover than a fighter, with a strong focus on conflict resolution and wanting things to be nice and balanced between the two of you all the time. He's less interested than your average Scorp in big displays of emotion or playing games to get his way. He wants things to be even, and he'll do his level best to work things out with you if anything's off in the relationship. This will also give his personality a smooth flavour. He might be a bit of an unintentional smooth talker. I'd say odds are that conflict makes him quite uncomfortable. Talk things out with him calmly and with an open mind and he'll respond well.
Hope this helps!click to expand
Posted by ErenSwoleager
At first I thought the title meant you were saying you had previously loved everyone on DXP, and forgot how to/lost that love... and I was gonna be like "Wait, how did you even START loving us pieces of butter?"
Posted by Havoc077
You don't have the slightest iota of what it feels like to really forget love. You've just been hurt a little, and now that you question people a bit more you think you have a 'wall' up? You 'begged' someone to be affectionate and that 'scarred' you? Holy treetrunk, what a little princess you are.
The guy sounds like he's just really looking his forever person, so take your time, enjoy things - don't rush and see where it goes. The treetrunk did you even post this for?
Posted by AneemA04
He wouldn't have said he would want to have babies with you if he didn't care deeply. If he just in for sex, there wont be any use to say such things.
You may be just scared.
Take a look, "I feel like my relationship with a Taurus left me emotionally scarred."
This is the factor.
And the 5 of cups talks about that. You're still mourning over the spilled water (or wine?) you missed realizing that you still have 2 standing cups behind you - at least from Raider Waite depiction.
You're still grieving.
I think you should share this condition of you to the scorp so he would understand.
Posted by arcana92
What are his other placements? Moon, mercury, venus, mars? Ascendant, if you know his birth time too?
Being a scorpio and knowing what we're like when we like someone, we're all or nothing. We love hard. We don't tend to screw you around if we're not deeply interested in a future with you. I think he sounds legitimate, but I'd never want to assert that as a generalisation over a whole zodiac sign without knowing the other placements.
I think you should always pay attention to your gut feeling, but do take the time to sit back and really think about where your doubts are coming from within yourself. Are they based on his behaviours, or are they based on your history? Does something genuinely not feel right with him, or is the underlying feeling within you terror at being hurt or led on again?
I've had people doubt that my affections were genuine because I was almost over-genuine with them. I like you, and I want to make the most of you and me, so I'm going to go all out and show that I like you. It does seem a super harsh contradiction, though, because other times I've pined silently from afar for YEARS and never let on that I liked the guy. There is no hard and fast rule with us. Knowing the rest of his chart will provide much more clarity on where he's really coming from.
Posted by Ellygant
Every person I’ve dated just about has ‘accused’ me of being in love with them. But it’s just me. My baseline for affection and attention is other people’s deeply committed. I once was dating three people at the same time, all casual. Told one of the guys how much I liked him. He breaks it off. Ok. Whatever. A year later finds out I was dating two others and throws a cookiemonster fit that how special I made him feel wasn’t just for him and says I was a liar for loving him. Lol. I politely reminded him I never said that and let him know I’m just nice to people I like lol.
That aside. You sound like you’re not over your ex. And you don’t sound like you’re ready for a relationship where you don’t have to work for it. Honestly that type of relationship might not ever be your speed. Or the Scorp is just not your brand of romance.
As for the card, five of cups is about guilt and sorrow that causes stagnation. Without knowing other cards, and based on what you’ve said, sounds like this doesn’t work out either because you’re not over the ex of you feel guilty and not good enough, or guilty because you don’t feel enough and you leave.
Posted by DonnaLibra
What sign is your ex?
Posted by HankJWimbleton
I'm more curious about what Taurus forum has to do with this.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
He is either your soulmate or twin flame.
Posted by Gemitati
And no! You don’t hump Scorpio!
He must be treetrunking grey lizard! Whew! Stay away...you don’t cum if I don’t cum? Disquisting pos!
And it comes from me! Scorpio worshiper...take it seriously girl!
Posted by Impulsv
Succumb to ur urges
Wait u told him about your new stance
If you don’t follow your an official tease
Posted by LadyNeptune
Step 1: never refer to sex as humping.
treetrunk, screw, bang, bump uglies, all of these are acceptable.
Posted by Luny7
Don't over think, just move on,