this is perfectly normal... Do not take it to heart.
I do this ALL the time with people. My girl friend just let me have it yesterday because i called her for a favor after not talking to her for about a month and then before we hung up the phone she said "ok now you can go back into hidding again" i laughed and hung up the phone.
Then all my family says the same thing. I'll call out of the blue and then I wont call for weeks at a time.
In relationships it's the same thing, although the lack of calling is usually due to me being too busy to call. Time flies and then once you finally stop to rest you fall asleep. I've done this many times. When life catches us and sweeps us away we focus on the joy ride and then once it's over we play catch up with everything that we passed up along the way. It's ok. Just hang in there.
wow... this post is so real. I swear I have done the same thing numerous times. I've walked away from people because I've felt like I wasn't important to them or not important enough then come to find out that they really really loved me deeply. I have always been a runner... I am so trying to change that. I thought it was just me I never thought it had to do with me being a Capi until now. Thanks for sharing.
I have never really been to into virgo men but there is this one Virgo guy that I've known for about 11 years who comes in and out of my life. Everytime we start communicating we get really close to each other and call each other all the time and talk for hours (it's long distance also). My question is do Virgo guys lead women on? How do you know if they are really interested? Like I said things will be going good and then all of a sudden dispite all the sweet talk and long nights on the phone he'll do something to screw it up. Just wondering if there is a way to know his heart is really into this?
Also how do you feel about long distance relationships?
Ok so we kissed a couple of times today in the office..... he was nervous... but i like seducing him. I can't keep my hands off of him. I think I'm worse then he is as far as sex is conserned. this could get crazy.
"You let it go in through one ear and out through the other...cuz hon, if he's interested in you, he's not gonna ask you to call him...he's gonna call YOU. Period."
well he wanted me tocall him because i didn't give him my phone number yet.
We all went out this weekend for his birthday and he and I talked all night... He didn't talk to anyone else but me and we had a great time laughting and joking around. We danced and after it was over everyone went back to his place. We played cards and I gave him my number. I was so drunk and he offered for me to stay over so I did (no sex though) we slept in the same bed but i jokingly placed pillows between us, I was going to remove them but once I finally laid down I was out immediatly and completely forgot. The next morning we talked in bed and then I went back to sleep and he watched tv in the den. After that i got up and i left. We exchanged texts all day long and really all weekend long. i was terribly busy this weekend so convo was limited... but we work together so...
This morning he came into my office all smiles with a sexy "good morning Ms. Jo" I was like "Good morning MR. X" .....oooooohhhhhh I don't know how i am keeping my hands off of him. I imagine him taking me into a quiet spot here at work and taking my clothes off....man.... I have to hold myself together.
To bump into at the club this weekend.... it was my X-cancer. He was at the club like 40 min. from his house...near my house... and I'm with my girls cause were partying for her birthday and BAM i bump into him while trying to walk by. We look at each other...clearly both surprised. and he is lost for words and immediatly gives me a hug. I hesitate a little and then he begins to explain how much he misses me and how he loves me. I don't say a word. I mean what else is there to say? So the whole night my girl says that he is watching me like a hawlk. I'm not paying him any attention because this Scorpio guy from my job is there and I'm really interested in him right now. So he and I are close at the bar talking and laughing together. I glance up and there's MR. cancer all in my face. Pointing at me showing his boys who I am. I guess he finally got enough after about 2 hours and jetted out.
Isn't it sad when you realize what you had after the fact? It reminds me of that new Beyonce song "Single Ladies"
Up in the club (club) We just broke up (Up) I'm doing my own lil' thing
You decided to dip (dip) Now you wanna trip (trip) Cause another brother noticed me
I'm up on him (him) He up on me (me) Don't pay him any attention
'Cause I've cried my tears (tears) After three good years (years) You can't be mad at me
Cause if you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Cause you had your turn (turn) And now you're ganna learn (learn) What's it really feels like to miss me
---- and everyone who has been following my ordeal with this man knows that it has been 3 years of this same butter.... this is the perfect song.
I'm interested in thie Scorpio guy I work with and I've been wondering if he is interested because most scorps including him are good at hiding their expressions and feelings... well i found out today that he is interested. He told me that he would like for me to call him sometime if I didn't think it would be a problem. He said that he would like to take me out sometime. Well that sounds great but i know that he has been seeing differnt people...no one serious.... but I want to be totally seperated from the rest.... (SPECIAL).... So the question is how do you properly court a Scorpio man? What do Scorpio men like in a woman? I know that sex is important but that will HAVE TO WAIT.... but what else is there to know about the mysterious Scorpio? I'm a Capi woman just FYI....
i've never been the type who has to have someone in their life. I am perfectly fine alone as most Caps are.... I was just wondering if Leo's and Caps always have good conversation? I don't have good conversation with everyone that I meet.
i'm comfortable... i'm not searching anymore for someone. I just enjoy his conversation. I'm not pushing relationship. We are becoming really good friends. He was laid off from his job a couple weeks ago so he is struggling a little now. So when it seems fesible for him to wine and dine me i'll accept but right now he has to focus on getting his self together. but we are becoming good friends.
tiki.... this guy and i have been talking like this on the phone for months now. and it's not about him or me we talk about the bible, about politics, about tv shows, the news, whatever.... when people talk for long periods of time they don't have to be only talking about their life...we talk about everything..things that aren't even importatnt
Do Leo men and Capi women always have great conversations?? This Leo guy I know and I can talk for hours and hours on the phone and it's always like that when we call each other. We talk for at least 3 hours every time. He tells me everything. He says he tells me things he has never told anyone else before, things that his mom doesn't even know about.