Structural Racism Perpetuates Colorism.

Posted by ScorpKitty21
For real. I don't get it. Everyone wants to blame their problems on it. lol


Bexcuse for some reason problems with rent payments. Mortgage payments. Banking. Technology. Happen then
Are you getting locked up?
Oh that's funny. Wow
@TheRabbit Rachel Dolezel has a calendar out. Want a signed 1 for xmas
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Posted by Ginger20
My car broke down this morning(30 degrees outside), so I call my boyfriend (Virgo) who is very knowledgeable about cars, and I tell him I’m stranded and I ask if he can come give me a jump so I can get to a mechanic (bf was 4 miles away). He tells me there is nothing he can do, and that I need to wave someone down. I said “okay well no one is around and I’m getting really cold. U really won’t help me?”

Long story short- he doesn’t help me, I call an Uber to get jumped, sit in car for an hour, boyfriend ignores all of my requests for help, he drives to work, and he acts put out that I even asked him for help in the first place.

I am convinced he doesn’t care about me and that he is the most selfish person in the entire world now.

I thought virgos liked to help, and be of service to people they care about. I feel like he disappears every time I legit need him. Isn’t one of the perks of being in a relationship to be able to help each other out in times of need??? I mean wtf.

Any insights from board members??

He's not that into you. My Virgo brother and his girlfriend came to visit. She wanted to go to the gym in my apartment so I pointed her in the right direction. My brother got up and started puttimg his shoes on. We both look at him and are like where are you going? He's like I'm not going to let her walk alone when she doesn't know the area. I just laugh because I live in a boring as suburb where nothing happens, but he is so overprotective of her it's cute. And he is that wsy about everything. There's no wsy in hell he would have made her call an uber, he would have just been late to work. Save yourself the headache, this man does not love you. And if a Virgo doesn't love you, they are not that altruistic.


*helps girlfriend with her car*
*girlfriend dumps him because he lost his job*

I'm sorry but that's just low expectation. Do better.


Your brother will learn the hard way. All virgos do.

No he's probably going to marry this girl. She's a scorpio and he'll have to move to another country if he wants to end things. Her family is already making wedding plans.


Wont last. He sounds like a chump. How old is he? He needs to start off butterty and get better with time. The moment he slips and isnt all over her because he had a hard day or whatever that's when the resentment starts and she starts cucking him.
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Nope. Not all ppl are unthinking zombie bleeps dude

You need to have more faith
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Exercising some patience here would be prudent.

They put a story out that is missing several important details that will outline the context that this interaction happened in. Until the OP provides those details (which we can only get from the OP at this early juncture) essentially Y'all are all speculating from A-Z.




What details are we missing?


Cause and Effect and while not everyone has an excuse everyone has a reason for why they do something.


No interaction happens in a vacuum and to make a call on an interaction between two or more people without knowing the basic history of the relationship and the circumstances framing the OP's ask for help (did he have work?, was he sick?, was he involved in something that may have been even more important than her momentary discomfort?, Is there relationship healthy? By whose standards? His or hers? The list can go on indefinitely...but it doesn't have to, but there are important salient questions that are missing answers here.

Its comforting to assume that he is the bad guy immediately (and he very well might be) it is also equally comforting for some to paint the OP as the bad woman or the aggrieved party (she very well might be either).

But without knowing the context that surrounds this interaction people are not really basing their opinion off of the merits of the relationship and the people involved in the interaction...but more so off of their own preconceived notions of right and wrong and patterns from their own experiences instead of judging the interaction primarily off of the story as presented plus the supporting information that will really give any potential judgment call here actual validity and weight.

What good would a conclusion on a situation be if it fails to take into account all of the likely major things that would filter into someone's decision making process?



Yeah sorry that doesn’t fly with me. Agree to disagree on this one.

I don’t see how any of those variables make a difference in what boils down to basic human decency.

Whether the relationship is sunshine and rainbows or rocky...

Whether he was sick or not...

Whether he had an important meeting or not...


None of that changes the fact that she was in potential danger and reached out to him for help. And yes I say danger not ‘momentary discomfort’.

It’s dangerous for a female to be vulnerable like that on the side of the road. You don’t know if the person who stops is going to help you or hurt you.

On top of that being exposed to cold weather for prolonged periods of time puts you at some serious health risks.




Serious health risks like what?

I walk in 40 degree weather to get comfortable with cold


Hypothermia which can lead to death.
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Don't you have to be in the cold for long times
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"I have to be at work in 20 minutes, so I'm not sure if I can help. Let me see what I can do, though."

It also doesn't take much to call work (if that was an issue) and see if he could come in a bit late.

JFC.



Seriously!!

But apparently if you call your bf when your car breaks down and your stranded in cold weather that’s ‘overreacting’ and ‘princess behavior’. When is the right time to expect support and help from an SO then?

I also don’t see the other arguement of ‘how long have they been dating’ mattering. If I get a call from a bf or friend needing help, I help. Irregardless of how long I’ve known them. It’s called being a decent human bean.


You can be my friend

Virgos can't. I mean I've seen this same defensive butter for being a butterty human throughout the years on virgo board


Its weird


Water signs should stop throwing themselves under the bus for a person theyre not even married to.
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Lesson learned dude. Lesson learned
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Posted by Ginger20
My car broke down this morning(30 degrees outside), so I call my boyfriend (Virgo) who is very knowledgeable about cars, and I tell him I’m stranded and I ask if he can come give me a jump so I can get to a mechanic (bf was 4 miles away). He tells me there is nothing he can do, and that I need to wave someone down. I said “okay well no one is around and I’m getting really cold. U really won’t help me?”

Long story short- he doesn’t help me, I call an Uber to get jumped, sit in car for an hour, boyfriend ignores all of my requests for help, he drives to work, and he acts put out that I even asked him for help in the first place.

I am convinced he doesn’t care about me and that he is the most selfish person in the entire world now.

I thought virgos liked to help, and be of service to people they care about. I feel like he disappears every time I legit need him. Isn’t one of the perks of being in a relationship to be able to help each other out in times of need??? I mean wtf.

Any insights from board members??

He's not that into you. My Virgo brother and his girlfriend came to visit. She wanted to go to the gym in my apartment so I pointed her in the right direction. My brother got up and started puttimg his shoes on. We both look at him and are like where are you going? He's like I'm not going to let her walk alone when she doesn't know the area. I just laugh because I live in a boring as suburb where nothing happens, but he is so overprotective of her it's cute. And he is that wsy about everything. There's no wsy in hell he would have made her call an uber, he would have just been late to work. Save yourself the headache, this man does not love you. And if a Virgo doesn't love you, they are not that altruistic.
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My points exactly yet virgos will never admit this weakness in character
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Posted by Ixion
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Ixion
Exercising some patience here would be prudent.

They put a story out that is missing several important details that will outline the context that this interaction happened in. Until the OP provides those details (which we can only get from the OP at this early juncture) essentially Y'all are all speculating from A-Z.




What details are we missing?


Cause and Effect and while not everyone has an excuse everyone has a reason for why they do something.


No interaction happens in a vacuum and to make a call on an interaction between two or more people without knowing the basic history of the relationship and the circumstances framing the OP's ask for help (did he have work?, was he sick?, was he involved in something that may have been even more important than her momentary discomfort?, Is there relationship healthy? By whose standards? His or hers? The list can go on indefinitely...but it doesn't have to, but there are important salient questions that are missing answers here.

Its comforting to assume that he is the bad guy immediately (and he very well might be) it is also equally comforting for some to paint the OP as the bad woman or the aggrieved party (she very well might be either).

But without knowing the context that surrounds this interaction people are not really basing their opinion off of the merits of the relationship and the people involved in the interaction...but more so off of their own preconceived notions of right and wrong and patterns from their own experiences instead of judging the interaction primarily off of the story as presented plus the supporting information that will really give any potential judgment call here actual validity and weight.

What good would a conclusion on a situation be if it fails to take into account all of the likely major things that would filter into someone's decision making process?



Yeah sorry that doesn’t fly with me. Agree to disagree on this one.

I don’t see how any of those variables make a difference in what boils down to basic human decency.

Whether the relationship is sunshine and rainbows or rocky...

Whether he was sick or not...

Whether he had an important meeting or not...


None of that changes the fact that she was in potential danger and reached out to him for help. And yes I say danger not ‘momentary discomfort’.

It’s dangerous for a female to be vulnerable like that on the side of the road. You don’t know if the person who stops is going to help you or hurt you.

On top of that being exposed to cold weather for prolonged periods of time puts you at some serious health risks.


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Serious health risks like what?

I walk in 40 degree weather to get comfortable with cold
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Posted by TheRabbit
"I have to be at work in 20 minutes, so I'm not sure if I can help. Let me see what I can do, though."

It also doesn't take much to call work (if that was an issue) and see if he could come in a bit late.

JFC.



Seriously!!

But apparently if you call your bf when your car breaks down and your stranded in cold weather that’s ‘overreacting’ and ‘princess behavior’. When is the right time to expect support and help from an SO then?

I also don’t see the other arguement of ‘how long have they been dating’ mattering. If I get a call from a bf or friend needing help, I help. Irregardless of how long I’ve known them. It’s called being a decent human bean.
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You can be my friend

Virgos can't. I mean I've seen this same defensive butter for being a butterty human throughout the years on virgo board


Its weird
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It doesn't actually sound like you needed help...
you sorted the whole situation out just fine. Nice work! 🙌🏼
If only ask Mr Virgo to help me with things I simply CANNOT do without him ie unscrew a jar lid or things out of reach (short lyfe)


Ridiculous comment. De treetruk


I don't understand what women do while they are single... is no one capable of handling car breakdowns as an adult - are we Doomed to await the arrival of Mr Right every time we have a flat tyre
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What? Point completely missed.

Also I don't know what kind of woman doesn't own a step stool to get items that are out of reach or get a proper can opener that can easily open a jar. You know there's tools for that.

I mean ridiculous and hypocritical.
I think the seahawks are tired from flying cause we should easily be beating the jaguars. Don't know if it's pressure but Wilson is playing horribly. This is very depressing
The seahawks are disgusting me right now
Let's go Hawk's and Eagles! We need to win this game and LA Rams need to lose!
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I don't know. We don't have enough details. Girls today title guys "boyfriend" after like a week of dating and having slept with him on the first date. Probably a one night stand that turned into a fatal attraction.


That moment when a Pisces considers other scenarios than the other 2 water signs and has no strong stance before other things are clarified.

ayyylmao.


LMAO. Now I feel bad for the Virgo. All he was trying to do was get some, but now, a brother can't even go to work. Yup, the plot is all in my head. I will reveal the climax momentarily.
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You feel sorry for the devil too?

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Posted by shakedown
I don't know. We don't have enough details. Girls today title guys "boyfriend" after like a week of dating and having slept with him on the first date. Probably a one night stand that turned into a fatal attraction.


That moment when a Pisces considers other scenarios than the other 2 water signs and has no strong stance before other things are clarified.

ayyylmao.
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Isn't claiming that its a one night stand turned fatal attraction a stance
Posted by TheRabbit
"I have to be at work in 20 minutes, so I'm not sure if I can help. Let me see what I can do, though."

It also doesn't take much to call work (if that was an issue) and see if he could come in a bit late.

JFC.



That's what I'm saying!

I don't think she'd be angry if him getting to work was a concern or had an important client meeting

I think he just shrugged it off from what I'm reading
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This guy is a treetrukboi not a man.

If you want a man OP I would run. Go date some other man

This man shows you who he is. This is the type of person you want to end up with? Continue to Deal with this bs.

If not

RUN

Lol

Swirl love


Idk. Men treat women like butter. What turns me off is how all the virgo women and one nut sag bytch is defending this shady behavior


1. I'm not narrow minded like you
2. I don't defend him, I'm being objective
3. You're incapable of being realistic and objective
4. You're so desperate and incredible hater who projects her own issues to everyone else
5. You know 0 facts at all!
6. Bf is not a road service!
7. How long have they been dating? Are they exclusive or just messing around? What is his reason for not helping? When you get the answers to these questions talk again. Until then shut your big lying mouth, no one is pleased reading your butter over and over, complaining on just about everyone!
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I don't give a treetruk

Stop talking to me

I don't want to ever converse with you

Bye