So we talked again today & I told him our friendship is where it's at & I love that! I also told him I do want more & I'm going to see other guys. His response was what about when I fall for u..? I didn't respond but I do feel like that's his personally problem. Not gonna lie tho I didn't say cancel the trip cuz the intimacy is amazing!! & he's still one of my best friends!! Thanks for y'all's advice. It was a wonderful welcome to the site.
U guys are right. I should just start dating. But I swear every time I go out he throws what can only be described as a mini tantrum. It's like he says one thing but then expects another. & I really do not like the games. I am very blunt. But I do LOVE the Aries passion. Maybe I'll just be on the lookout for another more mature Aries.
Feby16aqua He definitely did say those things... Then he called & we talked for 4 hours. During the convo he admitted to having feelings but didn't want to end up like his last relationship. Not to mention the day he left (left for his job) he said, he really didn't want to leave me cuz he knows if he'd stayed he'd end up falling for me.... He's always the one that brings these things up. Not me. For example he said he's not seeing anyone else cuz when he has he only thought about me & missed me more. Then he'll say something like but if u want to see other ppl that's up to u. It's confusing as hell cuz then when I say seething similar he's unresponsive. I guess he is telling me but he's told me things along both lines & I'm struggling with which to take serious. It seems like Aries are game players. Capricorns are not.
Run262.. In the beginning I was the one who said hey ur a great FWB cuz I was Linda fresh from a 6 year relationship that although I ended, I was still dealing with. NOW, however, I do want more. I'm just confused as to whether he does too cuz he keeps saying conflicting things. I don't know if I'm going crazy or he is.
As for the two years without asking me out...... When we met I was in a very serious relationship, which I told him the first time he invited me out for lunch. He was all do u love him? I did & I kept it strictly friendly between us. I am single now & have been for like the last 9 months, most of which I've spent with him. He has said he wants a girlfriend but is scared to do the relationship thing, as he only has been in one & that ended in heartbreak for him & the girl. So I'm trying to figure out if I should be patient, cuz that I understand, or if he's just stringing me along? Is he interested & scared? Or just not interested? What do u guys think?