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Cg2016
joined April 02, 2016
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  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by Ariqua
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    Posted by ChuggingA
    Who likes to be smothered and is also looking to change their last name to mine tomorrow?


    I'm waiting for mine to ask me this smh


    Ooh glad to see another libra moon with a cancer moon


    Oh so this is a good thing? Lol... I mean it isn't bad to me lol


    I mean our moons are square and weโ€™ve hurt each otherโ€™s feelings a lot but we somehow get through it. Weโ€™re both brats though so Iโ€™m sure more mature peopl could deal better
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    Yeah I used to be mean to him but he told me he doesn't like it when I'm mean to him so I've changed my ways lmao.

    It's definitely a mature relationship. We do our best to communicate our feelings or whatever.

    Scorp/virgo libra/cancer... it has its way of working I guess lol
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by Ariqua
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by ChuggingA
    Who likes to be smothered and is also looking to change their last name to mine tomorrow?


    I'm waiting for mine to ask me this smh


    Ooh glad to see another libra moon with a cancer moon
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    Oh so this is a good thing? Lol... I mean it isn't bad to me lol
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by ChuggingA
    Who likes to be smothered and is also looking to change their last name to mine tomorrow?


    I'm waiting for mine to ask me this smh
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by nikkistar
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    22 and ready to have kids and married already. No wonder homie is "indecisive".



    Trust me he doesn't want it. I put that on my life. He flip flops between this stable grass he's on and then he also probably has thoughts of allllll of the greener grass that may be out there lmao.

    I mean that's how I think as a scorp/leeb


    LOL, I know, I have the same placements. I grew up saying "I want kids as long as I can give them back"

    Love my son too, but I have never had a want for a football team of kids. One, or two, max. Nothing more then what I can provide for securely.


    I am almost 26 and still scared of the thought of having kids without being financially stable. And lmaoo I said the same thing about as long as I can give them back.

    I could imagine he also wouldn't feel so secure with having her support him for years because who's to say what kind of job he'll get after college. He probably would rather his mom do the supporting.

    I feel like making up his mind now at 22 is a bit unreasonable. But young people think they're grown until they're grown and then they look back like wow I was so little wth was I thinking?! Lmao.


    So true. I remember thinking I knew everything from 18 to 21. Then I got to my age now, and I am like JFC I STILL GOTTA GROW UP. lol


    Omg yesss lmaooo. I'm waiting for the day I become more adultier lmaooo.

    Maybe she should break up with him. He may regret having kids so young and giving up his freedom so soon.

    I love your point about instant gratification.

    I love my freedom so much lmaooo.


    I just don't understand the rush to have children at 22, with everything that is at play. It comes off as not really thinking ahead in terms of all the ramifications of having children would have on all aspects of life.

    Yes, she could have her Master's in Nursing by 24, but that doesn't automatically mean that a lucrative position that would be needed to financially take care of a child, or a partner that is still in school, would be secured. Experience is usually valued more then a degree at this point. She will be vying for positions against other individuals with the same degrees and experience as she has. Which would likely be an entry level position. Now even with that, she would be wanting to get pregnant rather quickly after securing employment. But within a year or so of that, she would be trying to actively get pregnant. If that were the case, she would likely take at least 6 weeks maternity time off, if not 12 weeks. Then the added expense of everything that a newborn baby entails, all this would be occurring while he was still finishing school, and likely if at all, working a part time position. Not to mention, at that point, it is well past 6 months, so any student loans obtained would have begun to need to be paid back.

    The first year, would be a huge financial struggle. Nope, no way. I wouldn't want that. lol


    OMG I ALMOST CRIED READING THIS YES! YES! THIS IS REALITY!

    Now take all that and imagine the boy amd his journey with the same details.... and our placements and her seemingly bossiness... he'd be in like utter sorrow...


    It's it funny how neurotic we can be about the BIG stuff in life? lol We will sit there and think of every detail to make the appropriate answer for ourselves.
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    Hell yes lol. So surely this is something he's thought about.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by nikkistar
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    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by nikkistar
    22 and ready to have kids and married already. No wonder homie is "indecisive".



    Trust me he doesn't want it. I put that on my life. He flip flops between this stable grass he's on and then he also probably has thoughts of allllll of the greener grass that may be out there lmao.

    I mean that's how I think as a scorp/leeb


    LOL, I know, I have the same placements. I grew up saying "I want kids as long as I can give them back"

    Love my son too, but I have never had a want for a football team of kids. One, or two, max. Nothing more then what I can provide for securely.


    I am almost 26 and still scared of the thought of having kids without being financially stable. And lmaoo I said the same thing about as long as I can give them back.

    I could imagine he also wouldn't feel so secure with having her support him for years because who's to say what kind of job he'll get after college. He probably would rather his mom do the supporting.

    I feel like making up his mind now at 22 is a bit unreasonable. But young people think they're grown until they're grown and then they look back like wow I was so little wth was I thinking?! Lmao.


    So true. I remember thinking I knew everything from 18 to 21. Then I got to my age now, and I am like JFC I STILL GOTTA GROW UP. lol


    Omg yesss lmaooo. I'm waiting for the day I become more adultier lmaooo.

    Maybe she should break up with him. He may regret having kids so young and giving up his freedom so soon.

    I love your point about instant gratification.

    I love my freedom so much lmaooo.


    I just don't understand the rush to have children at 22, with everything that is at play. It comes off as not really thinking ahead in terms of all the ramifications of having children would have on all aspects of life.

    Yes, she could have her Master's in Nursing by 24, but that doesn't automatically mean that a lucrative position that would be needed to financially take care of a child, or a partner that is still in school, would be secured. Experience is usually valued more then a degree at this point. She will be vying for positions against other individuals with the same degrees and experience as she has. Which would likely be an entry level position. Now even with that, she would be wanting to get pregnant rather quickly after securing employment. But within a year or so of that, she would be trying to actively get pregnant. If that were the case, she would likely take at least 6 weeks maternity time off, if not 12 weeks. Then the added expense of everything that a newborn baby entails, all this would be occurring while he was still finishing school, and likely if at all, working a part time position. Not to mention, at that point, it is well past 6 months, so any student loans obtained would have begun to need to be paid back.

    The first year, would be a huge financial struggle. Nope, no way. I wouldn't want that. lol
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    OMG I ALMOST CRIED READING THIS YES! YES! THIS IS REALITY!

    Now take all that and imagine the boy amd his journey with the same details.... and our placements and her seemingly bossiness... he'd be in like utter sorrow...
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by Vigirl21
    Posted by Cg2016
    I don't believe it's indecisiveness. I believe he's probably scared. Having kids is no small thing. He's also young af. He probably wants to make you happy but deep down knows he won't be ready any time soon.

    I say leave him so he won't live his life in regret. Same for you I suppose.

    Surely, he loves his freedom so when he grows up and realizes he gave it away he may resent that. Idk just my two cents.


    Thank you! I appreciate it ๐Ÿ’›
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    Also, when I say freedom I don't mean cheating. I mean literally not having to find a babysitter to go to a party or like always having to plan your life around a family. Stuff like that.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by pisceswoman123
    He will be indecisive all his life. You either accepted or move on. Libra mooners are like that.


    Iโ€™ve found leeb mooners indecisive about the little things. Where to eat? Table or booth? What to order?

    But when it comes to the big questions, they know what they want.
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    CORRECT AF!!!

    Finally someone who gets it.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by Vigirl21
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by nikkistar
    22 and ready to have kids and married already. No wonder homie is "indecisive".



    Trust me he doesn't want it. I put that on my life. He flip flops between this stable grass he's on and then he also probably has thoughts of allllll of the greener grass that may be out there lmao.

    I mean that's how I think as a scorp/leeb


    Hahahhaha! Thank goodness his moon and venus placements are in his 8th house! He's the most loyal man I've ever met and he's told me how I'm the one he's going to marry and he never wants to break up with me. Those were his words not mine. Your placements must be in your 5th house
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    I have no 5th house placements. My moon and Venus are in the 8th house.

    I'm not saying he doesn't love you or wants to break up with you... I'm telling you the boy is young and probably scared deep inside of all that adulty stuff. He probably thinks he's gonna fail you.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    I don't believe it's indecisiveness. I believe he's probably scared. Having kids is no small thing. He's also young af. He probably wants to make you happy but deep down knows he won't be ready any time soon.

    I say leave him so he won't live his life in regret. Same for you I suppose.

    Surely, he loves his freedom so when he grows up and realizes he gave it away he may resent that. Idk just my two cents.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by nikkistar
    22 and ready to have kids and married already. No wonder homie is "indecisive".



    Trust me he doesn't want it. I put that on my life. He flip flops between this stable grass he's on and then he also probably has thoughts of allllll of the greener grass that may be out there lmao.

    I mean that's how I think as a scorp/leeb


    LOL, I know, I have the same placements. I grew up saying "I want kids as long as I can give them back"

    Love my son too, but I have never had a want for a football team of kids. One, or two, max. Nothing more then what I can provide for securely.


    I am almost 26 and still scared of the thought of having kids without being financially stable. And lmaoo I said the same thing about as long as I can give them back.

    I could imagine he also wouldn't feel so secure with having her support him for years because who's to say what kind of job he'll get after college. He probably would rather his mom do the supporting.

    I feel like making up his mind now at 22 is a bit unreasonable. But young people think they're grown until they're grown and then they look back like wow I was so little wth was I thinking?! Lmao.


    So true. I remember thinking I knew everything from 18 to 21. Then I got to my age now, and I am like JFC I STILL GOTTA GROW UP. lol
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    Omg yesss lmaooo. I'm waiting for the day I become more adultier lmaooo.

    Maybe she should break up with him. He may regret having kids so young and giving up his freedom so soon.

    I love your point about instant gratification.

    I love my freedom so much lmaooo.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by nikkistar
    22 and ready to have kids and married already. No wonder homie is "indecisive".



    Trust me he doesn't want it. I put that on my life. He flip flops between this stable grass he's on and then he also probably has thoughts of allllll of the greener grass that may be out there lmao.

    I mean that's how I think as a scorp/leeb


    LOL, I know, I have the same placements. I grew up saying "I want kids as long as I can give them back"

    Love my son too, but I have never had a want for a football team of kids. One, or two, max. Nothing more then what I can provide for securely.
    click to expand


    I am almost 26 and still scared of the thought of having kids without being financially stable. And lmaoo I said the same thing about as long as I can give them back.

    I could imagine he also wouldn't feel so secure with having her support him for years because who's to say what kind of job he'll get after college. He probably would rather his mom do the supporting.

    I feel like making up his mind now at 22 is a bit unreasonable. But young people think they're grown until they're grown and then they look back like wow I was so little wth was I thinking?! Lmao.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Vigirl21
    Posted by nikkistar
    Posted by Vigirl21
    Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Libra mooners donโ€™t give a butter unless you do. He proli senses your self orientation and checks out in his mind. I checked out just reading your post.


    Okay! Then what do I do? I need advice. Should I be more understanding and give up everything I want in my life because he can't make up his mind or should I just break up with him and move on? Why is that fair to me? I've been the most patient and kind person to him from day one but his lack of "not knowing what he wants" is making me wait on him. So, do I just give up everything for him?


    "Analytical" moon ain't being so analytical. lol


    Not everyone has the same way they want to live their lives. I value simplicity and family. Those are the things I want. I don't blame him for being indecisive... but we will not workout then. And that's fine. If your family life, morals, values, wants in life do not align, it's better to move on! Doesn't mean I don't love him from the bottom of my heart! And no... I don't want kids until I'm 24! I'll have my masters in nursing by then and I'll be ready! He's just starting college.. so yes, one of us will have to have income coming in. However, I'm not so sure why you're judging my life decisions. I would rather you just give me advice. Thank you


    I am judging you because you are completely illogical right now.

    Guess what? I have your boyfriend's placements. And all I see from you is an illogical rushing of life. It's this neurotic instant gratification, that is obnoxious. You want a man, who hasn't even finish college, to commit to raising children, when he isn't even in a place now, or even in two years time to be fiscally and emotionally responsible for another innocent human being. And you are the "analytical" mooner?

    GTFO. You're 24, and pressuring someone who doesn't even know what he wants for himself, let alone what he wants for his future because of your time line. Not his.
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    Yessssssss omg at 22 I had no idea wtf I wanted but it def wasn't no damn commitment to marriage and kids. That's sooo much pressure...
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by nikkistar
    22 and ready to have kids and married already. No wonder homie is "indecisive".



    Trust me he doesn't want it. I put that on my life. He flip flops between this stable grass he's on and then he also probably has thoughts of allllll of the greener grass that may be out there lmao.

    I mean that's how I think as a scorp/leeb
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by ValleysofNeptune
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by ValleysofNeptune
    Do people actually turn on the profanity filter lol. Why

    What words are filtered btw? And how does it work in general


    Wait I can switch it off? How? Help lmao click to expand


    I still don't really understand how it all works and what gets filtered and whatnot. But go to the account tab and scroll down to settings, then click on account again lol, then somewhere near the top it should say "use profanity filter" or something like that, then click on no click to expand
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    I don't see the option on mobile
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by ValleysofNeptune
    Do people actually turn on the profanity filter lol. Why

    What words are filtered btw? And how does it work in general


    Wait I can switch it off? How? Help lmao
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    and I hate the reverse order thing. Please and thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    We get broken up with? Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    You should make an intentions list and write down everything you want. The kind of relationship you want and the guy you want. The new moon is tomorrow, this is the perfect time to manifest your wants.

    It's all about what you think and how you feel. It's the law of attraction. Know that it exists. It's about faith.

    Also put some sexy s hit on and go learn salsa or something lol. Do what makes you feel the most happy and confident. Don't tell yourself you're average looking tell yourself you're hot and you can have any man you want. Everyday.
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by Emhendo
    Posted by Cg2016
    Posted by Emhendo
    When I was 19

    This deep ass guy kept it real with me,

    He straight up told me I had a grey aura.. Said it was cloudy.

    And he wasn't nice about it.

    I still don't know till this day if he was just being a try-hard or what..


    Oh damn. Maybe it's changed. If you're not gloomy n s hit click to expand


    Dude tried to attack my spirit that night.

    The first thing he said to me "you got secrets."
    .... Mothatreetrunka don't we all?

    I'm like okay, you on some ol bullbutter... click to expand
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    LMAOOOOOOOOO I'M DONE
  • Cg2016
    Sun: Scorpio Moon: Libra Asc: Cap Mars: Scorp. Venus: Virgo
    Posted by Emhendo
    When I was 19

    This deep ass guy kept it real with me,

    He straight up told me I had a grey aura.. Said it was cloudy.

    And he wasn't nice about it.

    I still don't know till this day if he was just being a try-hard or what..


    Oh damn. Maybe it's changed. If you're not gloomy n s hit