About a year ago I met this taurus girl online on a local fitness forum. Somehow we started talking about our gym routines and energy supplements and soon shifted to more personal topics. We messaged back and forth everyday for hours.
After about a month I asked her out for a drink. She declined my offer saying that she hasn't sorted out fellings for her ex yet. In short, they were together for 4 years and the last 2 lived together. His stuff is in still in her apartment and they broke up approximately 3 months before we started talking. But a week passed and she tells me that she can't get me out of her head and that we should definitely have that drink.
Oh, and then the long-awaited "date". I wanted to impress her so much and acted out of the ordinary. I teased her a lot, and it's easy I came across as arrogant. One very very awkward date. At the end we hugged and wished each other luck in the future. I assumed it was the end. I didnt want to text after because I was affraid of rejection.
Fast forward two weeks of no talking, she messaged me out of the blue saying "when are you taking me for second coffee." Of course we met again. On the second "date" she looked amazing. I was overwhelmed and she sensed that. It went surprisingly well until the very end when topics of exes came aboard and she started showing me pics of him on her phone. And the way she looked at the pics-it felt like she still loves him. I was shocked and completely caught off guard. I tried to remain non reactive but I was mad. Has she friend zoned me and just wasted my time, was I post break up shoulder to cry on.... I don't know. And just to add that her ex comes from a wealthy family and I think that she's used to more luxurious life style which I ,at this point of life, can't offer. She used to work at his family restaurant during summer holidays and they travelled half of the world together. She's back at college now. And to add he's good looking.
Again after this second meeting, no contact and period of radio silence. She shortly afterwards deleted her account. Mind you, we haven't exchanged numbers or facebooks, which is a bit strange. After 5 months, in September, she came back online and I messaged her. She replied immediately, but something was off, I could sense that she was very pissed at me. She told me that she never contacts someone after months of silence and when she does, she usually asks them for money so she spared me. I think she wanted to provoke me with that money comment because she knows I don't like people who use their partner as money machine. The convo stopped. As it usually goes, shortly after I went clubbing and saw her. We both smiled and nodded at each other. No talking. Day after, I messaged her again and we started talking but flow of the convo was very passive aggressive and she said that I need to go back at thesilent mode again. Week after she deleted her acc.
Now shes online once more and I think of contacting her. I feel there is unfinished business between us. Any thoughts? I don't know what to do?